That year, the moment I handed in the college entrance examination papers by myself, it felt as if I couldn't go back to my senior year of the past year. There was a faint sense of relief. At the same time, I was at a loss for the next day waiting for the release of scores. At that time, I didn't care where I was going or where I could go, but that a threat I often heard from childhood was making trouble. That is "society is cruel, you will understand when you grow up". If you want to lose money to a beggar, you will hear that society is very cruel. If you don't study hard in the future, you will do the same; When I went to the toilet, I heard that society was cruel. You didn't do well in the college entrance examination, so you lived with the toilet cleaning aunt; If you really didn't do well in the exam, you heard that the society is very cruel. You should hurry up and test these certificates. Otherwise, I can't even find a job washing the toilet in the future; When you fall in love, you hear that society is cruel. If you don't work well and mix a house and car, where will a little girl marry you. Chinese children who grow up in the sound of intimidation will unconsciously add such adjectives to the society: "cruel society" and "cruel youth", which have been nurtured for a long time. I really believe that even if there is no concept now, it may be as adults say. You'll understand when you grow up. Ask a European child, "what kind of society do you think you want to enter when you grow up?" Often the answer is: "interesting, all kinds of, fun society". For cruelty. No concept at all. In the first year of studying in the Netherlands, I worked as nanny (nanny) for an English family. Most of them need me on weekends. The husband and wife of this family are very busy with their work. There are two children in the family. A five-year-old boy and a one-year-old female baby. They live in a warm cabin outside the city center. They have to change the tram twice each time, but that's the job I enjoy most. Baby, I just need to change my diapers. Put him to sleep and feed him canned baby food. And the little boy. He is a standard Star Wars movie fan. Every time he goes, he asks me to sit down with him and see the end from the beginning. Or he put on the cloak of star wars, picked up a lightsaber in his hand and played role-playing with me. He also likes playing video games with me. Of course, it's star wars. One day, I suddenly thought of it and asked him, "what are your dreams?" He seemed to have figured this out for a long time, and immediately said, "when I grow up, I want to be like you! Be a nanny. Watch Star Wars with children." When I heard it, I laughed. I can't take care of the little boy until I say it to others, "come on, I have to take care of him." I've never been a good friend. Or any European family you know. Have heard or witnessed any story similar to "intimidation". I've heard that in the Netherlands, there will be Sinterklaas (Dutch Santa Claus), a bad child who usually doesn't eat and sleep well. The threat he receives is to be put in a bag and sent to Spain (it always sounds like a good job for free travel). Or intimidate them on children's day in Spain. The three kings don't come home to drink milk and eat carrots, let alone leave gifts. Most Chinese children have evolved survival skills that go in one ear and out the other. Under the threat of teaching, the world we see casts a different shape: in this real society, reading well is what we need. A Chinese child wrote to me. Q: "since this society is so cruel, why should I grow up? Sister, I'm so pessimistic when I think of it. I don't want to enter the society, grow up or live in such a world." I wanted to write back to him and list_ The good people and good deeds in the series of social news, as well as the stories of ordinary people who warm people's hearts. But I just wrote. I was stunned. Why is it necessary to prove that this social disability is not cruel? I am society. He is society, and everyone is society. Even if it is not the present of society, it also determines its appearance in the future. When the college entrance examination is over, the first thing to do is to shout into the sky: long live freedom! After the test, the test will be finished. The score will be what it should be, and where to go may not be important. Having a good conversation may not have results, but the love that makes you grow up, backpacking with your friends in twos and threes, reading books and listening to music when you have a lot of time, participating in some interesting associations, not staying at home, caring about food issues and economic trends, reading social news, so as to achieve the impulse of filling in corruption with unjust anger, not numb and indifferent disregard, and be able to look at problems dialectically. When I grew up, I walked around and lived everywhere. Only then did I find that reading well may not be so useful. Know how to do things seriously, draw inferences from one instance, sincerely care about others, and be kind-hearted. No matter what you do, you can go to any corner of the world. Will be very good. This "good" refers not only to success, but to true happiness in life.

That year, the moment I handed in the college entrance examination papers by myself, it felt as if I couldn't go back to my senior year of the past year. There was a faint sense of relief. At the same time, I was at a loss for the next day waiting for the release of scores. At that time, I didn't care where I was going or where I could go, but that a threat I often heard from childhood was making trouble. That is "society is cruel, you will understand when you grow up". If you want to lose money to a beggar, you will hear that society is very cruel. If you don't study hard in the future, you will do the same; When I went to the toilet, I heard that society was cruel. You didn't do well in the college entrance examination, so you lived with the toilet cleaning aunt; If you really didn't do well in the exam, you heard that the society is very cruel. You should hurry up and test these certificates. Otherwise, I can't even find a job washing the toilet in the future; When you fall in love, you hear that society is cruel. If you don't work well and mix a house and car, where will a little girl marry you. Chinese children who grow up in the sound of intimidation will unconsciously add such adjectives to the society: "cruel society" and "cruel youth", which have been nurtured for a long time. I really believe that even if there is no concept now, it may be as adults say. You'll understand when you grow up. Ask a European child, "what kind of society do you think you want to enter when you grow up?" Often the answer is: "interesting, all kinds of, fun society". For cruelty. No concept at all. In the first year of studying in the Netherlands, I worked as nanny (nanny) for an English family. Most of them need me on weekends. The husband and wife of this family are very busy with their work. There are two children in the family. A five-year-old boy and a one-year-old female baby. They live in a warm cabin outside the city center. They have to change the tram twice each time, but that's the job I enjoy most. Baby, I just need to change my diapers. Put him to sleep and feed him canned baby food. And the little boy. He is a standard Star Wars movie fan. Every time he goes, he asks me to sit down with him and see the end from the beginning. Or he put on the cloak of star wars, picked up a lightsaber in his hand and played role-playing with me. He also likes playing video games with me. Of course, it's star wars. One day, I suddenly thought of it and asked him, "what are your dreams?" He seemed to have figured this out for a long time, and immediately said, "when I grow up, I want to be like you! Be a nanny. Watch Star Wars with children." When I heard it, I laughed. I can't take care of the little boy until I say it to others, "come on, I have to take care of him." I've never been a good friend. Or any European family you know. Have heard or witnessed any story similar to "intimidation". I've heard that in the Netherlands, there will be Sinterklaas (Dutch Santa Claus), a bad child who usually doesn't eat and sleep well. The threat he receives is to be put in a bag and sent to Spain (it always sounds like a good job for free travel). Or intimidate them on children's day in Spain. The three kings don't come home to drink milk and eat carrots, let alone leave gifts. Most Chinese children have evolved survival skills that go in one ear and out the other. Under the threat of teaching, the world we see casts a different shape: in this real society, reading well is what we need. A Chinese child wrote to me. Q: "since this society is so cruel, why should I grow up? Sister, I'm so pessimistic when I think of it. I don't want to enter the society, grow up or live in such a world." I wanted to write back to him and list_ The good people and good deeds in the series of social news, as well as the stories of ordinary people who warm people's hearts. But I just wrote. I was stunned. Why is it necessary to prove that this social disability is not cruel? I am society. He is society, and everyone is society. Even if it is not the present of society, it also determines its appearance in the future. When the college entrance examination is over, the first thing to do is to shout into the sky: long live freedom! After the test, the test will be finished. The score will be what it should be, and where to go may not be important. Having a good conversation may not have results, but the love that makes you grow up, backpacking with your friends in twos and threes, reading books and listening to music when you have a lot of time, participating in some interesting associations, not staying at home, caring about food issues and economic trends, reading social news, so as to achieve the impulse of filling in corruption with unjust anger, not numb and indifferent disregard, and be able to look at problems dialectically. When I grew up, I walked around and lived everywhere. Only then did I find that reading well may not be so useful. Know how to do things seriously, draw inferences from one instance, sincerely care about others, and be kind-hearted. No matter what you do, you can go to any corner of the world. Will be very good. This "good" refers not only to success, but to true happiness in life.