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There was a lovelorn girl crying in the park because she was unwilling. A philosopher said with a smile, "you just lost someone who doesn't love you, and he lost someone who loves him. His loss is greater than you. What do you hate him for? He should be the one who is unwilling." Let's play a simple game of turning to thinking -- turn around and think that the joys, sorrows and joys of life can also be different from different angles. Question one If there is a restaurant near your house, the food is expensive and unpleasant, and there are cockroaches crawling on the table, will you come again and again because it is very convenient? Answer: you must say, what's the rotten problem? Who is so stupid to spend money to buy guilt? But in the same situation, on another occasion, I may do similar stupid things. Many men and women have complained about their lover or other half's bad character, half hearted and irresponsible. Knowing that there is no good ending together, hate has been more than love, but "I don't know why" I still have to mix with him. To put it bluntly, just to be unwilling and get used to it, isn't it the same as visiting a bad restaurant? Question two If you accidentally lose 100 yuan, you only know that it seems to have been lost somewhere you passed by. Will you spend 200 yuan to get the 100 yuan back? Answer: This is another super stupid question. However, similar things continue to happen in life. When I did something wrong, I knew I had a problem, but I refused to admit it. Instead, I spent twice as much time looking for excuses to greatly reduce others' impression of myself. I was scolded for a word, but I spent countless time sad. The reason is the same. It's just as boring to get angry for one thing, not at the expense of others but not for yourself, not at the expense of money, not at the expense of time, just for revenge? Lose a person's feelings, knowing that everything is irreparable, but still so sad, and a sad is for several years, but also borrow wine to drown your worries and sell your money to the bone. In fact, it's no use at all, just lose more. Question three Do you dare not go out because you open the newspaper and find that there are car accidents every day? Answer: of course not. It's called giving up food for choking. However, many people have said: look at the current divorce rate, I dare not fall in love. It's quite natural. There are also many women who are worried about their partner when they see many reports about an affair. Isn't that a similar reaction? The so-called optimism is to believe that although the road is difficult and dangerous, I am still the one who will cross the road safely. As long as I am careful, I don't have to be afraid to cross the road. Question 4 Do you believe that success is so mindless that everyone can start a business casually? Answer: over optimism is a folly. However, it is observed that after listening to the racking brains of successful people (for example, read more and practice more), someone always asks another question: isn't that difficult? We all want to learn English well in three minutes and solve all problems in five minutes. Is success so easy? Of course, change is difficult. Success can only stand out because it is not afraid of difficulties. Once, sitting in a taxi, I heard the taxi driver see that there are high-end cars in front of and behind him, and exclaimed: "Alas, why do others have so much money, and my money is so hard to earn?" On a whim, I asked him, "what kind of money do you think is easy to make in the world?" He smiled and couldn't answer. After a long time, he said, "it seems that other people's money is easier to earn." In deep research, no one has not worked hard. We really shouldn't complain about the difficulties. Question five Do you think people who have never played basketball can be good basketball coaches? Answer: of course not. It is impossible for a layman to lead an expert. However, there are many people who don't know a certain industry at all. They just hear that industry is good at making money and start business immediately. I've seen people who don't have any taste for clothes or don't care about clothes at all, but their dream is to open a clothing store; People who never know how to turn on the computer want to make money in electronic stocks. As a result, they lose a lot by hearsay, but they don't reflect on whether they lack professional ability, and only complain that time doesn't suit me. Question 6 Similar but different question: do you think a basketball coach can lead a perfect victory without going to the basketball court with his eyes closed? Answer: of course not. However, there are many friends who have no time at all, but also strive to invest in opening cafes, restaurants and companies they don't understand. They are eager to spend their spare money and become partners. Losing is always more than earning, but I also feel that I'm just unlucky, not wrong. Question 7 Would you rather regret it than try whether you can turn the crisis around? Answer: I'm afraid no one will say, "yes, I'm such a coward". However, we often try our best to retreat when we shouldn't, and dare not try to succeed for fear of failure. Take the wonderful performance of Chinese figure skating expert Guan Yingshan when she won the world figure skating champion in 2000 as an example: she was bent on winning the first place. However, before the last game, her total score only ranked third. In the final optional song project, she chose to break through rather than make fewer mistakes. In the 4-minute long song, combined with the most difficult three week jump, and boldly jumped twice in a row. She may have failed badly, but she succeeded. Her famous saying is: "because I don't want to wait for failure to regret my potential." Because of this resilience, in 2001, she broke the prediction of reporters that she would not win in odd years and won the Champions League again. Question 8 You have unlimited time and immortality, so what you want to do most should be postponed indefinitely? Answer: No, no, no, who would say yes? However, we often say that when I get old, I will travel around the world; When I retire, I have to do what I want to do; When the children grow up, I can relax. We all mistakenly believe that we have unlimited time and physical strength. In fact, we can approach the dream step by step. We don't have to approach it when we are free. If we can get closer to our dreams and ideals step by step now, we won't live half our life and become the kind of person we don't want to become in our ideals. A bunch of stupid problems, aren't they? But some stupid questions do have their meaning. In life, everything has the ability to turn, depending on how we think and turn. We won't succeed in three minutes, but maybe it will only take one minute, and life will be different from then on
There was a lovelorn girl crying in the park because she was unwilling. A philosopher said with a smile, "you just lost someone who doesn't love you, and he lost someone who loves him. His loss is greater than you. What do you hate him for? He should be the one who is unwilling." Let's play a simple game of turning to thinking -- turn around and think that the joys, sorrows and joys of life can also be different from different angles. Question one If there is a restaurant near your house, the food is expensive and unpleasant, and there are cockroaches crawling on the table, will you come again and again because it is very convenient? Answer: you must say, what's the rotten problem? Who is so stupid to spend money to buy guilt? But in the same situation, on another occasion, I may do similar stupid things. Many men and women have complained about their lover or other half's bad character, half hearted and irresponsible. Knowing that there is no good ending together, hate has been more than love, but "I don't know why" I still have to mix with him. To put it bluntly, just to be unwilling and get used to it, isn't it the same as visiting a bad restaurant? Question two If you accidentally lose 100 yuan, you only know that it seems to have been lost somewhere you passed by. Will you spend 200 yuan to get the 100 yuan back? Answer: This is another super stupid question. However, similar things continue to happen in life. When I did something wrong, I knew I had a problem, but I refused to admit it. Instead, I spent twice as much time looking for excuses to greatly reduce others' impression of myself. I was scolded for a word, but I spent countless time sad. The reason is the same. It's just as boring to get angry for one thing, not at the expense of others but not for yourself, not at the expense of money, not at the expense of time, just for revenge? Lose a person's feelings, knowing that everything is irreparable, but still so sad, and a sad is for several years, but also borrow wine to drown your worries and sell your money to the bone. In fact, it's no use at all, just lose more. Question three Do you dare not go out because you open the newspaper and find that there are car accidents every day? Answer: of course not. It's called giving up food for choking. However, many people have said: look at the current divorce rate, I dare not fall in love. It's quite natural. There are also many women who are worried about their partner when they see many reports about an affair. Isn't that a similar reaction? The so-called optimism is to believe that although the road is difficult and dangerous, I am still the one who will cross the road safely. As long as I am careful, I don't have to be afraid to cross the road. Question 4 Do you believe that success is so mindless that everyone can start a business casually? Answer: over optimism is a folly. However, it is observed that after listening to the racking brains of successful people (for example, read more and practice more), someone always asks another question: isn't that difficult? We all want to learn English well in three minutes and solve all problems in five minutes. Is success so easy? Of course, change is difficult. Success can only stand out because it is not afraid of difficulties. Once, sitting in a taxi, I heard the taxi driver see that there are high-end cars in front of and behind him, and exclaimed: "Alas, why do others have so much money, and my money is so hard to earn?" On a whim, I asked him, "what kind of money do you think is easy to make in the world?" He smiled and couldn't answer. After a long time, he said, "it seems that other people's money is easier to earn." In deep research, no one has not worked hard. We really shouldn't complain about the difficulties. Question five Do you think people who have never played basketball can be good basketball coaches? Answer: of course not. It is impossible for a layman to lead an expert. However, there are many people who don't know a certain industry at all. They just hear that industry is good at making money and start business immediately. I've seen people who don't have any taste for clothes or don't care about clothes at all, but their dream is to open a clothing store; People who never know how to turn on the computer want to make money in electronic stocks. As a result, they lose a lot by hearsay, but they don't reflect on whether they lack professional ability, and only complain that time doesn't suit me. Question 6 Similar but different question: do you think a basketball coach can lead a perfect victory without going to the basketball court with his eyes closed? Answer: of course not. However, there are many friends who have no time at all, but also strive to invest in opening cafes, restaurants and companies they don't understand. They are eager to spend their spare money and become partners. Losing is always more than earning, but I also feel that I'm just unlucky, not wrong. Question 7 Would you rather regret it than try whether you can turn the crisis around? Answer: I'm afraid no one will say, "yes, I'm such a coward". However, we often try our best to retreat when we shouldn't, and dare not try to succeed for fear of failure. Take the wonderful performance of Chinese figure skating expert Guan Yingshan when she won the world figure skating champion in 2000 as an example: she was bent on winning the first place. However, before the last game, her total score only ranked third. In the final optional song project, she chose to break through rather than make fewer mistakes. In the 4-minute long song, combined with the most difficult three week jump, and boldly jumped twice in a row. She may have failed badly, but she succeeded. Her famous saying is: "because I don't want to wait for failure to regret my potential." Because of this resilience, in 2001, she broke the prediction of reporters that she would not win in odd years and won the Champions League again. Question 8 You have unlimited time and immortality, so what you want to do most should be postponed indefinitely? Answer: No, no, no, who would say yes? However, we often say that when I get old, I will travel around the world; When I retire, I have to do what I want to do; When the children grow up, I can relax. We all mistakenly believe that we have unlimited time and physical strength. In fact, we can approach the dream step by step. We don't have to approach it when we are free. If we can get closer to our dreams and ideals step by step now, we won't live half our life and become the kind of person we don't want to become in our ideals. A bunch of stupid problems, aren't they? But some stupid questions do have their meaning. In life, everything has the ability to turn, depending on how we think and turn. We won't succeed in three minutes, but maybe it will only take one minute, and life will be different from then on
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