Many people like the feeling of a new look after cleaning the house. Similarly, the feeling of haircut is also very beautiful, because the excess is removed. Children are happy because they don't have too many worries and unnecessary worries. Unlike adults, our lives have too much backlog, too much imagined complexity and some expanded grief. People who use computers know that the recycle bin needs to be emptied frequently, otherwise it will occupy too much space and affect the running speed of the computer. So is the human mind. You can't throw everything away, and you can't keep everything. A wise man is a man who is good at making choices and is a man who makes timely choices. People who have too many worries can't walk fast, and people who have no worries at all are mostly irrational. The difficulty of life is also here. You should constantly clean up and give up some things, because "the less stuff in life, the more you can give full play to your potential". "Don't go back, do a play," said the protagonist He meant to let him leave here, hoping not to let the past drag him down. Cleaning the mind is a process of struggle and struggle. Life is a journey of waving hands constantly. Teenagers should bid farewell to their hometown, sad people to sad places, eagles to comfort, happiness to sadness. Without farewell, there is no growth. To be strong, we must have the courage to turn around. Parting is to get together better. Giving up is also a kind of tolerance A person is like a country. Without tolerance, there will be no growth. Among all success factors, mind is the first, or tolerance is the first. Sometimes, giving up offensive words, giving up the impulse of anger and the desire of revenge is itself a kind of tolerance. Smart people often give up explanation. In the eyes of many people, explanation is disguise. Li Ao said well: sometimes explanation is unnecessary - the enemy doesn't believe your explanation, and friends don't need your explanation. Many things don't need to be explained at all. Sometimes it's just because it hasn't rained through. It's good to have rained through. Successful people should not be afraid of being scolded, because as long as you do something, you will make mistakes, touch some people, and cause some people's dissatisfaction. In fact, it's good to have 50% of people agree with you. There are very few 100% things in the world. The more beautiful things are, the easier they are to break. We should exercise our ability to correctly deal with objections and take the initiative to seek objections. Don't complain about the opponent. He can have his opinion. This is his freedom and has nothing to do with you. Don't bother to argue with him. It's important to hurry. Time produces beauty Almost everyone has their own sad place, so we are not surprised that some seemingly important places, such as hometown, alma mater, original unit and first love scene, do not necessarily have many people go back enthusiastically. That is because there are too many stories in it and too much weight in place. Out of sight, out of mind. When everything can be seen, there is often nothing to lose. Time dilutes the past, leaving only beautiful memories, memories of youth, growth, hard work, bright smiles passing by and warm candles in the lonely night. I have participated in and interviewed many school celebrations. The kind white hair and tears of reunion that came into my eyes most. Years can soften the hardest heart. Social psychologists tell us that jealousy comes from similar industries and regions, and conflicts often come from the entanglement of interests. "All creatures are exposed to fierce struggle", because all creatures tend to increase at a high rate. In the case of limited resources, the struggle for survival is inevitable. The most violent struggle almost always occurs between the same kind of individuals, because they live in the same region, need the same food and suffer the same threat. Some tensions need time and distance to ease. If they are far away, they feel insignificant and can be let go. From a distance, many things are beautiful. Therefore, I often warn myself that there is no need to be depressed about the unsolvable problems. The unsolvable problems will disappear in the torrent of time. Hostility, misunderstanding, contempt and contradiction will fade with the passage of time. Time can turn the sea into a mulberry field. Aesthetics of retirement I've done many columns, but I rarely do columns for more than a year, because I think a year is long enough for any text performance. No matter how good your eyes are, you will be tired after watching a thing for a long time. People's physical, emotional and intellectual cycle determines that a person can't stay at the climax forever. In a life cycle, people will inevitably go to the low tide. One year is a life cycle. "A timely and beautiful retreat is as important as a beautiful attack. If you help someone for a long time, even the goddess of luck will be tired.". The important thing is not to win the applause of others when you are present, but to miss you when you leave. The aesthetics of retirement is a good beginning and a good end. Its key is the timing and way of "ending". It is more difficult to get out smoothly than to enter smoothly, because the top of the mountain is beautiful, because people are generally tired when going down the mountain. "Moss does not grow on Rolling Stones". You can't go up that mountain without going down this mountain. People will climb countless mountains in their life. Every mountain is so unique, but no mountain is really worth staying forever. One factor affecting retirement is greed, the other is excessive persistence. For the interests of life, no one can be too persistent. The so-called not too persistent is not paranoid about a certain aspect, a certain desire, a certain attempt, a certain purpose and a certain process. Any paranoia may make people lose their pertinent judgment, thus missing the beauty and delaying life. You can't lose anything You can't lose anything by giving a smile, because it will always come back. Things come back as they go out. No one doesn't like smiling. But the problem is that the things that make people smile are often not around, while the things that make you upset and uneasy are often lingering. Being unable to be with the people and things you like is the root cause of many people's unhappiness, because you have no source of happiness. When I first left the army, my mood was not very good. Although this was also my choice, I came to another place to work for my boss because of my nostalgia for the military camp, my attachment to my comrades in arms and my unwilling heart. I chose a strange working environment and completely different ideas. Sometimes I even doubted my choice. At this time, I remembered what someone once said to me: "you can't lose anything. Let go of some things.". I decided to change. I no longer hesitate and hesitate. Although I am alone, I live a regular life. I start cycling and swimming every day. I often get together with my comrades in arms and classmates. I listen to songs, read books, post posts and enjoy loneliness and solitude alone. As a result, I found that my life was still so colorful and comfortable. There must be some reasons why a person or thing can make you uncomfortable. Some reasons will take a long time for you to know, while some reasons you will never know, but these are not important. The important thing is that it makes you uncomfortable. It will affect your mood, your judgment and your time. What's wrong with giving others a chance to know you again and giving yourself a chance to know the wider world?

Many people like the feeling of a new look after cleaning the house. Similarly, the feeling of haircut is also very beautiful, because the excess is removed. Children are happy because they don't have too many worries and unnecessary worries. Unlike adults, our lives have too much backlog, too much imagined complexity and some expanded grief. People who use computers know that the recycle bin needs to be emptied frequently, otherwise it will occupy too much space and affect the running speed of the computer. So is the human mind. You can't throw everything away, and you can't keep everything. A wise man is a man who is good at making choices and is a man who makes timely choices. People who have too many worries can't walk fast, and people who have no worries at all are mostly irrational. The difficulty of life is also here. You should constantly clean up and give up some things, because "the less stuff in life, the more you can give full play to your potential". "Don't go back, do a play," said the protagonist He meant to let him leave here, hoping not to let the past drag him down. Cleaning the mind is a process of struggle and struggle. Life is a journey of waving hands constantly. Teenagers should bid farewell to their hometown, sad people to sad places, eagles to comfort, happiness to sadness. Without farewell, there is no growth. To be strong, we must have the courage to turn around. Parting is to get together better. Giving up is also a kind of tolerance A person is like a country. Without tolerance, there will be no growth. Among all success factors, mind is the first, or tolerance is the first. Sometimes, giving up offensive words, giving up the impulse of anger and the desire of revenge is itself a kind of tolerance. Smart people often give up explanation. In the eyes of many people, explanation is disguise. Li Ao said well: sometimes explanation is unnecessary - the enemy doesn't believe your explanation, and friends don't need your explanation. Many things don't need to be explained at all. Sometimes it's just because it hasn't rained through. It's good to have rained through. Successful people should not be afraid of being scolded, because as long as you do something, you will make mistakes, touch some people, and cause some people's dissatisfaction. In fact, it's good to have 50% of people agree with you. There are very few 100% things in the world. The more beautiful things are, the easier they are to break. We should exercise our ability to correctly deal with objections and take the initiative to seek objections. Don't complain about the opponent. He can have his opinion. This is his freedom and has nothing to do with you. Don't bother to argue with him. It's important to hurry. Time produces beauty Almost everyone has their own sad place, so we are not surprised that some seemingly important places, such as hometown, alma mater, original unit and first love scene, do not necessarily have many people go back enthusiastically. That is because there are too many stories in it and too much weight in place. Out of sight, out of mind. When everything can be seen, there is often nothing to lose. Time dilutes the past, leaving only beautiful memories, memories of youth, growth, hard work, bright smiles passing by and warm candles in the lonely night. I have participated in and interviewed many school celebrations. The kind white hair and tears of reunion that came into my eyes most. Years can soften the hardest heart. Social psychologists tell us that jealousy comes from similar industries and regions, and conflicts often come from the entanglement of interests. "All creatures are exposed to fierce struggle", because all creatures tend to increase at a high rate. In the case of limited resources, the struggle for survival is inevitable. The most violent struggle almost always occurs between the same kind of individuals, because they live in the same region, need the same food and suffer the same threat. Some tensions need time and distance to ease. If they are far away, they feel insignificant and can be let go. From a distance, many things are beautiful. Therefore, I often warn myself that there is no need to be depressed about the unsolvable problems. The unsolvable problems will disappear in the torrent of time. Hostility, misunderstanding, contempt and contradiction will fade with the passage of time. Time can turn the sea into a mulberry field. Aesthetics of retirement I've done many columns, but I rarely do columns for more than a year, because I think a year is long enough for any text performance. No matter how good your eyes are, you will be tired after watching a thing for a long time. People's physical, emotional and intellectual cycle determines that a person can't stay at the climax forever. In a life cycle, people will inevitably go to the low tide. One year is a life cycle. "A timely and beautiful retreat is as important as a beautiful attack. If you help someone for a long time, even the goddess of luck will be tired.". The important thing is not to win the applause of others when you are present, but to miss you when you leave. The aesthetics of retirement is a good beginning and a good end. Its key is the timing and way of "ending". It is more difficult to get out smoothly than to enter smoothly, because the top of the mountain is beautiful, because people are generally tired when going down the mountain. "Moss does not grow on Rolling Stones". You can't go up that mountain without going down this mountain. People will climb countless mountains in their life. Every mountain is so unique, but no mountain is really worth staying forever. One factor affecting retirement is greed, the other is excessive persistence. For the interests of life, no one can be too persistent. The so-called not too persistent is not paranoid about a certain aspect, a certain desire, a certain attempt, a certain purpose and a certain process. Any paranoia may make people lose their pertinent judgment, thus missing the beauty and delaying life. You can't lose anything You can't lose anything by giving a smile, because it will always come back. Things come back as they go out. No one doesn't like smiling. But the problem is that the things that make people smile are often not around, while the things that make you upset and uneasy are often lingering. Being unable to be with the people and things you like is the root cause of many people's unhappiness, because you have no source of happiness. When I first left the army, my mood was not very good. Although this was also my choice, I came to another place to work for my boss because of my nostalgia for the military camp, my attachment to my comrades in arms and my unwilling heart. I chose a strange working environment and completely different ideas. Sometimes I even doubted my choice. At this time, I remembered what someone once said to me: "you can't lose anything. Let go of some things.". I decided to change. I no longer hesitate and hesitate. Although I am alone, I live a regular life. I start cycling and swimming every day. I often get together with my comrades in arms and classmates. I listen to songs, read books, post posts and enjoy loneliness and solitude alone. As a result, I found that my life was still so colorful and comfortable. There must be some reasons why a person or thing can make you uncomfortable. Some reasons will take a long time for you to know, while some reasons you will never know, but these are not important. The important thing is that it makes you uncomfortable. It will affect your mood, your judgment and your time. What's wrong with giving others a chance to know you again and giving yourself a chance to know the wider world?