Last week, I went to have western food with two friends. Originally, I also made an appointment for dinner casually, so I tacitly accepted AA in my heart. When I came back from dinner, I turned to the meal money. Unexpectedly, the next day, my friend turned the money back and attached the "domineering" message: please, sister. I asked, are you so rich? Take it back quickly. The subsidy hasn't been paid this month. Friend reply: I proposed to go to dinner. You accompany me for half a day. Of course, it's my treat. Next time we go to eat, don't turn back, please! Listening to my friend's sincere tone, I had to give up. Think silently in my heart: Well, next time I invite you. But when I get next time, I'll forget it. Double 11, quickly buy a lipstick for "tuhao sister", she was happy. In the final analysis, everyone is a student and doesn't have much income. Even if the family is better off, they still spend their parents' money. This kind of free food and drink is always a little uneasy. What's more, many people think about the promise they will make next time, maybe there will be no next time. Therefore, to get along with others, we should be grateful, not procrastinate; Don't be vague about what you should avoid. Others treat me three points, and I respect others three points; He is good, so am I. "Not taking advantage" is a person's upbringing and emotional intelligence Remember, this little skill was learned from elder martial sister last time. Because the invoice reimbursement was complicated, the elder martial sister had no experience in handling it for the first time, so she asked another girl for help. Back and forth, I also talked with wechat several times by phone, ran to the office three times, and finally handled the invoice reimbursement completely. When returning to the dormitory in the evening, the elder martial sister bought a small cake and sent it to the girl. The girl's flattered eyes were full of emotion. It seems like a small action, but it is actually a heart. It is to let the other party know that it has bothered you. I sincerely want to thank you; It's also an attitude. I'm not the kind of person who takes advantage for nothing. You helped me and I know how to repay. Sometimes, I especially like and admire people who can do things beautifully. This is not sleek, but kind. He knows how to ask for directions and how to repay his kindness. Because it's your duty to know that it's your duty to help others, and it's your duty not to help you. Therefore, since others are willing to help you, they will not let the people who help suffer. Even a small cake, a cup of milk tea and a lipstick, at least let the other party feel that you haven't forgotten him. Instead of crossing the river, tearing down the bridge and walking away after the matter is solved. I always think that if you can solve something with money, don't use feelings. Money is the most direct way to express gratitude, especially in many small things. As for feelings, before the critical moment, friends should not bother if they don't bother. At the critical moment, friends can help more if they can. "Not taking advantage" is a person's upbringing and emotional intelligence In fact, communicating with others and acting style are a person's invisible label. Many of the small advantages taken at that time may become a stumbling block in the future. When I was in college, the competition for awards and excellence in my class was very fierce. At that time, a girl in the dormitory next door could have qualified to run, but she missed it for nothing because she didn't see the group news. Afterwards, she complained about why her roommate didn't tell her the selection notice. The roommate is silent. It's none of his business. When I graduated, I chatted about gossip and learned that the girl's roommate often helped her bring express delivery and rice back to the dormitory, but when her roommate was ill and asked her to buy medicine, she said she was not free. That's why there was the scene of deliberately not telling the girl the notice. Everyone is not a fool. I can treat you without asking for anything in return, but when I really need help, your indifference makes people feel superfluous. In fact, people who only want others to be generous to themselves and always have nothing to lose will eventually become lonely even if they keep some immediate benefits. It's easy to understand that others can take you to dinner once or twice. Why can't you fall behind and invite you to eat and drink for free for the third time; Others can let you take advantage of it. Why do you keep taking advantage of it? Whose time, energy and money are limited. Is the mobile phone not fun or is it too easy to make money? Why do you have to spend it on the white eyed wolf. As the old saying goes, birds of a feather flock together. People who come and go have more and more friends. Selfish people naturally die alone. "Not taking advantage" is a person's upbringing and emotional intelligence We have heard for a long time that it is not difficult to borrow, return and borrow again. The same is true of human relations and customers. They come and go. Everyone is good. With such a thoughtful person, even if he is not good at words, humorous and funny, he will be at ease and comfortable. Because by his side, you know he is reliable. He will not deliberately pit you or treat you badly. In fact, this is what we often say: high EQ, good popularity and good ability to handle affairs! Cao Xueqin once wrote in the dream of Red Mansions: all things are learned, and human experience is an article. The world is clear, which is far from ordinary people like me. However, we can choose that I treat others sincerely and others treat me really; If people treat me cruelly, I will give you freedom. After all, there is no free lunch in the world. It's better to be polite and reciprocate.

Last week, I went to have western food with two friends. Originally, I also made an appointment for dinner casually, so I tacitly accepted AA in my heart. When I came back from dinner, I turned to the meal money. Unexpectedly, the next day, my friend turned the money back and attached the "domineering" message: please, sister. I asked, are you so rich? Take it back quickly. The subsidy hasn't been paid this month. Friend reply: I proposed to go to dinner. You accompany me for half a day. Of course, it's my treat. Next time we go to eat, don't turn back, please! Listening to my friend's sincere tone, I had to give up. Think silently in my heart: Well, next time I invite you. But when I get next time, I'll forget it. Double 11, quickly buy a lipstick for "tuhao sister", she was happy. In the final analysis, everyone is a student and doesn't have much income. Even if the family is better off, they still spend their parents' money. This kind of free food and drink is always a little uneasy. What's more, many people think about the promise they will make next time, maybe there will be no next time. Therefore, to get along with others, we should be grateful, not procrastinate; Don't be vague about what you should avoid. Others treat me three points, and I respect others three points; He is good, so am I. "Not taking advantage" is a person's upbringing and emotional intelligence Remember, this little skill was learned from elder martial sister last time. Because the invoice reimbursement was complicated, the elder martial sister had no experience in handling it for the first time, so she asked another girl for help. Back and forth, I also talked with wechat several times by phone, ran to the office three times, and finally handled the invoice reimbursement completely. When returning to the dormitory in the evening, the elder martial sister bought a small cake and sent it to the girl. The girl's flattered eyes were full of emotion. It seems like a small action, but it is actually a heart. It is to let the other party know that it has bothered you. I sincerely want to thank you; It's also an attitude. I'm not the kind of person who takes advantage for nothing. You helped me and I know how to repay. Sometimes, I especially like and admire people who can do things beautifully. This is not sleek, but kind. He knows how to ask for directions and how to repay his kindness. Because it's your duty to know that it's your duty to help others, and it's your duty not to help you. Therefore, since others are willing to help you, they will not let the people who help suffer. Even a small cake, a cup of milk tea and a lipstick, at least let the other party feel that you haven't forgotten him. Instead of crossing the river, tearing down the bridge and walking away after the matter is solved. I always think that if you can solve something with money, don't use feelings. Money is the most direct way to express gratitude, especially in many small things. As for feelings, before the critical moment, friends should not bother if they don't bother. At the critical moment, friends can help more if they can. "Not taking advantage" is a person's upbringing and emotional intelligence In fact, communicating with others and acting style are a person's invisible label. Many of the small advantages taken at that time may become a stumbling block in the future. When I was in college, the competition for awards and excellence in my class was very fierce. At that time, a girl in the dormitory next door could have qualified to run, but she missed it for nothing because she didn't see the group news. Afterwards, she complained about why her roommate didn't tell her the selection notice. The roommate is silent. It's none of his business. When I graduated, I chatted about gossip and learned that the girl's roommate often helped her bring express delivery and rice back to the dormitory, but when her roommate was ill and asked her to buy medicine, she said she was not free. That's why there was the scene of deliberately not telling the girl the notice. Everyone is not a fool. I can treat you without asking for anything in return, but when I really need help, your indifference makes people feel superfluous. In fact, people who only want others to be generous to themselves and always have nothing to lose will eventually become lonely even if they keep some immediate benefits. It's easy to understand that others can take you to dinner once or twice. Why can't you fall behind and invite you to eat and drink for free for the third time; Others can let you take advantage of it. Why do you keep taking advantage of it? Whose time, energy and money are limited. Is the mobile phone not fun or is it too easy to make money? Why do you have to spend it on the white eyed wolf. As the old saying goes, birds of a feather flock together. People who come and go have more and more friends. Selfish people naturally die alone. "Not taking advantage" is a person's upbringing and emotional intelligence We have heard for a long time that it is not difficult to borrow, return and borrow again. The same is true of human relations and customers. They come and go. Everyone is good. With such a thoughtful person, even if he is not good at words, humorous and funny, he will be at ease and comfortable. Because by his side, you know he is reliable. He will not deliberately pit you or treat you badly. In fact, this is what we often say: high EQ, good popularity and good ability to handle affairs! Cao Xueqin once wrote in the dream of Red Mansions: all things are learned, and human experience is an article. The world is clear, which is far from ordinary people like me. However, we can choose that I treat others sincerely and others treat me really; If people treat me cruelly, I will give you freedom. After all, there is no free lunch in the world. It's better to be polite and reciprocate.