Have you ever had such an experience: "you enter a lot of wechat groups but don't say a word. A lot of groups are dense. You don't read a lot of information for a while, but you think these contacts are very important when you want to leave the group. You may use them one day." If so, then the facts show that you are still impetuous. A long time ago, I thought that a group is a circle. I thought that all of them can become my friends and my contacts if they develop well. I thought it was always good to master more contacts. Especially some writing groups and hobby groups think that we can communicate and help each other. However, after a while, I found myself very stupid, because almost all the people in these groups reported people who thought the same as me. Occasionally, there are cattle in the Fengmao water chestnut circle in the group, but how to become friends is a difficult gap to overcome. Fuck his circle of friends? Lean against the group to answer his words? Even if you reluctantly add friends, it is at most just the praise of the circle of friends, not even friends. Those who take it for granted to help each other are just taking it for granted. The contacts you think are just what you think. Yesterday, I attended a friend's birthday party. A girl sat beside me: "you are meow old wet. I read your article and can't see it. It's very handsome." The sudden enthusiasm is a little unprepared, although I'm used to it:) "By the way, how many friends do you have on wechat? There must be a lot." The girl then asked me. I opened wechat: "let me see, 1183 people." The girl was a little puzzled: "why? I shouldn't. I have more than 2800. My goal is to add 5000 people and broaden my contacts. Add wechat and I'll sweep you." In the next few minutes, the girl has been shuttling between the seats. As you can imagine, she has been adding wechat. We all think that contacts are important, and we will spend a lot of time and energy on expanding our contacts. But on the contrary, for 20% important contacts, it takes 80% of our energy. I have a friend who works as an editor. No matter how tired he is at ordinary times (you know the work of an editor dog), as long as there is a salon activity and an industry forum, he will definitely attend it. If he sees someone, he will add wechat. For this reason, he also spent a lot of money and lost a lot of time to accompany his true friend. The purpose is to save some resources and contacts and have more people to help him when he wants to change his career one day. It seems that he has forgotten one thing. When a person has the opportunity to enter a circle, if he can't make any achievements, he will only be a bystander and marginal person in the circle and won't benefit from it. Personally, there are many friends of millions of fans subscription number operators in wechat. In my opinion, these people are not contacts. Because I know that they want to reprint the article authorization with good data. If I want them to send something I want to send and don't want to embarrass them, they still have to pay. Real contacts are for mutual benefit. If you don't have the ability to help others, even if you hold others' contact information in your hand, it's worthless. Only when you are excellent, your contacts are your contacts. Otherwise, it can only be called the number of friends. I have a friend, little a, who is a college repeat student with poor grades. He is always alone and has poor popularity. As a result, his college classmates disliked him very much, and his classmates' wechat group didn't add him. They always ignored him at every classmate party. Just a few days ago, one of his projects got round a financing, and many media are reporting on him. The students suddenly fried the pot, and the students all took the initiative to contact him. His classmates and even his friends are forced to forward his reports in the circle When we try to flatter some so-called contacts, in the eyes of these people, maybe we are just a shielded little transparent. It's important to build relationships, but it's not to add to people. Social networking is a chase race. It is always the latter who catches up with the former, not the former who stops to wait for the latter. If you don't understand this truth, you can't stand on the same level with others. Even if you know more "contacts" and add more "friends", it's floating clouds and just looks beautiful.

Have you ever had such an experience: "you enter a lot of wechat groups but don't say a word. A lot of groups are dense. You don't read a lot of information for a while, but you think these contacts are very important when you want to leave the group. You may use them one day." If so, then the facts show that you are still impetuous. A long time ago, I thought that a group is a circle. I thought that all of them can become my friends and my contacts if they develop well. I thought it was always good to master more contacts. Especially some writing groups and hobby groups think that we can communicate and help each other. However, after a while, I found myself very stupid, because almost all the people in these groups reported people who thought the same as me. Occasionally, there are cattle in the Fengmao water chestnut circle in the group, but how to become friends is a difficult gap to overcome. Fuck his circle of friends? Lean against the group to answer his words? Even if you reluctantly add friends, it is at most just the praise of the circle of friends, not even friends. Those who take it for granted to help each other are just taking it for granted. The contacts you think are just what you think. Yesterday, I attended a friend's birthday party. A girl sat beside me: "you are meow old wet. I read your article and can't see it. It's very handsome." The sudden enthusiasm is a little unprepared, although I'm used to it:) "By the way, how many friends do you have on wechat? There must be a lot." The girl then asked me. I opened wechat: "let me see, 1183 people." The girl was a little puzzled: "why? I shouldn't. I have more than 2800. My goal is to add 5000 people and broaden my contacts. Add wechat and I'll sweep you." In the next few minutes, the girl has been shuttling between the seats. As you can imagine, she has been adding wechat. We all think that contacts are important, and we will spend a lot of time and energy on expanding our contacts. But on the contrary, for 20% important contacts, it takes 80% of our energy. I have a friend who works as an editor. No matter how tired he is at ordinary times (you know the work of an editor dog), as long as there is a salon activity and an industry forum, he will definitely attend it. If he sees someone, he will add wechat. For this reason, he also spent a lot of money and lost a lot of time to accompany his true friend. The purpose is to save some resources and contacts and have more people to help him when he wants to change his career one day. It seems that he has forgotten one thing. When a person has the opportunity to enter a circle, if he can't make any achievements, he will only be a bystander and marginal person in the circle and won't benefit from it. Personally, there are many friends of millions of fans subscription number operators in wechat. In my opinion, these people are not contacts. Because I know that they want to reprint the article authorization with good data. If I want them to send something I want to send and don't want to embarrass them, they still have to pay. Real contacts are for mutual benefit. If you don't have the ability to help others, even if you hold others' contact information in your hand, it's worthless. Only when you are excellent, your contacts are your contacts. Otherwise, it can only be called the number of friends. I have a friend, little a, who is a college repeat student with poor grades. He is always alone and has poor popularity. As a result, his college classmates disliked him very much, and his classmates' wechat group didn't add him. They always ignored him at every classmate party. Just a few days ago, one of his projects got round a financing, and many media are reporting on him. The students suddenly fried the pot, and the students all took the initiative to contact him. His classmates and even his friends are forced to forward his reports in the circle When we try to flatter some so-called contacts, in the eyes of these people, maybe we are just a shielded little transparent. It's important to build relationships, but it's not to add to people. Social networking is a chase race. It is always the latter who catches up with the former, not the former who stops to wait for the latter. If you don't understand this truth, you can't stand on the same level with others. Even if you know more "contacts" and add more "friends", it's floating clouds and just looks beautiful.