Why is it that no matter how difficult a boss is, he will not give up easily? And an employee wants to escape if he doesn't do well? Why is it that no matter how much a couple quarrels and conflicts, they will not divorce easily? And a couple often separate for some small things? In the final analysis, how much you put into a thing or a relationship determines how much pressure you can bear, how much success you can achieve, and how long you can stick to it. Fenglun said: greatness comes from boiling. Why boil? Because you have to bear the grievances that ordinary people can't bear. Ordinary people need others to understand, comfort and encourage, but you don't. ordinary people vent their emotions by resisting negative accusations, but you must see love and light and learn to transform and digest everything. Ordinary people need a shoulder to lean on when they are vulnerable, and you are the shoulder that others rely on. Xiaozhuang said to Kangxi, "grandson, the biggest crisis of the Qing Dynasty is not the thousands of troops outside. The biggest crisis is in your own heart." Insight: the most difficult thing is not the rejection and incomprehension of others, but whether you are willing to make changes for your dreams! Life is always realistic... The poor use the cliff to do everything, and the rich use the cliff to bungee jump. This is the difference between the rich and the poor. Disciple asked: Shifu, you sometimes beat and swear at others, sometimes you are polite and polite to others. Is there any mystery in this? Master said: treat the superior directly to the hearts of the people, you can beat or scold him, and treat him in his true face; The most common metaphor for treating middle-class people is that they should be measured. They can't stand beating and scolding; Treat the lower class with a smile and hands folded. He is very fragile and small-minded. He is only treated with secular etiquette. Sentiment: what kind of grievance you have suffered determines what kind of person you can become! A person who can't swim can't solve the problem by changing the swimming pool; A person who can't do things can't solve his own problems by changing jobs; A man who doesn't know how to manage love can't solve the problem by changing his boyfriend and girlfriend; A person who doesn't know how to run a family can't solve the problem by changing his lover; A person who does not understand workplace ethics will never continue to succeed; No matter how much medicine you take or how well the hospital equipment is, a person who does not know how to maintain good health cannot solve the problem. I am the root of everything. If you want to change everything, you must first change yourself! Learning is the foundation to change yourself. In fact, you love yourself; What you like is yourself. What you love, what you hate, is yourself. When you change, everything changes. Your world is created by you. You created everything about you.

Why is it that no matter how difficult a boss is, he will not give up easily? And an employee wants to escape if he doesn't do well? Why is it that no matter how much a couple quarrels and conflicts, they will not divorce easily? And a couple often separate for some small things? In the final analysis, how much you put into a thing or a relationship determines how much pressure you can bear, how much success you can achieve, and how long you can stick to it. Fenglun said: greatness comes from boiling. Why boil? Because you have to bear the grievances that ordinary people can't bear. Ordinary people need others to understand, comfort and encourage, but you don't. ordinary people vent their emotions by resisting negative accusations, but you must see love and light and learn to transform and digest everything. Ordinary people need a shoulder to lean on when they are vulnerable, and you are the shoulder that others rely on. Xiaozhuang said to Kangxi, "grandson, the biggest crisis of the Qing Dynasty is not the thousands of troops outside. The biggest crisis is in your own heart." Insight: the most difficult thing is not the rejection and incomprehension of others, but whether you are willing to make changes for your dreams! Life is always realistic... The poor use the cliff to do everything, and the rich use the cliff to bungee jump. This is the difference between the rich and the poor. Disciple asked: Shifu, you sometimes beat and swear at others, sometimes you are polite and polite to others. Is there any mystery in this? Master said: treat the superior directly to the hearts of the people, you can beat or scold him, and treat him in his true face; The most common metaphor for treating middle-class people is that they should be measured. They can't stand beating and scolding; Treat the lower class with a smile and hands folded. He is very fragile and small-minded. He is only treated with secular etiquette. Sentiment: what kind of grievance you have suffered determines what kind of person you can become! A person who can't swim can't solve the problem by changing the swimming pool; A person who can't do things can't solve his own problems by changing jobs; A man who doesn't know how to manage love can't solve the problem by changing his boyfriend and girlfriend; A person who doesn't know how to run a family can't solve the problem by changing his lover; A person who does not understand workplace ethics will never continue to succeed; No matter how much medicine you take or how well the hospital equipment is, a person who does not know how to maintain good health cannot solve the problem. I am the root of everything. If you want to change everything, you must first change yourself! Learning is the foundation to change yourself. In fact, you love yourself; What you like is yourself. What you love, what you hate, is yourself. When you change, everything changes. Your world is created by you. You created everything about you.