I've read a story about several students visiting their university teachers. The professor saw them and asked how they were living. In one sentence, many people complained, and everyone complained about the unhappiness of life: low job position, high work pressure, insufficient social recognition,... For a time, everyone felt that their career, position and income were not ideal, which became the trouble of life. The teacher smiled but didn't speak. He took out all kinds of cups he treasured from the room and put them on the tea table. There are porcelain, glass, plastic, some cups look noble and elegant, some cups look simple and cheap... The teacher said, "they are all my students, so I won't treat you as guests. If you are thirsty, pour water and drink by yourself." Everyone was already thirsty, so they chose their favorite cups to pour water. When everyone had a glass of water in their hands, the teacher spoke. He pointed to the remaining cups on the tea table and said, "have you found that the cups you selected are the most beautiful and unique cups, and there is no candidate for these plastic cups." We are not surprised that everyone wants to have a nice cup in his hand. "That's the source of your troubles," the professor said. "What you need is water, not cups, but you pay attention to choosing good cups.". I often tell this story to my friends who come to listen to the lecture "sunshine mentality, brilliant life". We should think about what is water and cup in life? Once there was a student who was in low mood, had poor academic performance and even wanted to drop out of school to work. The teacher asked him why he didn't plan to finish his studies? He said: Unfortunately, I didn't get the major I wanted to take. I don't think it's interesting to go to this school. Once there was a young man who worked as a supervisor in a small company. The leaders trusted him very much. His own work was like a duck to water and his performance was outstanding. (www.life sentiment. Com) but once in a while, at an old school reunion, he found that his fellow students with the same price almost worked in a large company. He felt that he had no face and decided to resign. When asked for other reasons, he said that people live a face. I'd rather work in a large company than be a supervisor in a small company. There was once a cadre who worked in her post for many years. Because the organ adjusted her post, she decided to enjoy the same treatment, but she no longer held her original post. She was very angry. She argued with her superiors several times. In the end, she got a serious illness and had to retire early. …… Such examples are numerous, which happen around us and in our own lives. You may be jealous and unhappy because others dress beautifully; You may be unhappy because of the adjustment of a seat in the office; You may suffer all your life because someone hurt yourself. Our water is "health" and "happiness". Position, money and face are cups. They are just tools we use to hold the water of life. The quality of the cup does not affect the quality of the water. Most of the undergraduate studies are just some basic theories. What's more, they broaden their horizons and build their own knowledge platform. If they drop out of school for the sake of unsatisfactory majors and affect their life-long development, are they obsessed with the "Cup"? If you have a big job and a small one, you need to be happy. But if you have a big one, you need to be happy. The beauty or happiness of others does not affect our happiness, but you ask that no one is better than you. The limelight is the cup. There is always something better than you, but you work hard and lose the relaxed water. Besides, other people's injuries are only temporary and have nothing to do with your life, but you have to bear revenge all your life. Don't you lose the water of happiness by holding the cup of revenge? So, it's all in your own mind to change your life. Are you obsessed with the cup or keep the water you want? Health and happiness are the most important. Tell yourself to pay attention to what should be paid attention to and keep what should be kept, so as to make every day the best in your life.

I've read a story about several students visiting their university teachers. The professor saw them and asked how they were living. In one sentence, many people complained, and everyone complained about the unhappiness of life: low job position, high work pressure, insufficient social recognition,... For a time, everyone felt that their career, position and income were not ideal, which became the trouble of life. The teacher smiled but didn't speak. He took out all kinds of cups he treasured from the room and put them on the tea table. There are porcelain, glass, plastic, some cups look noble and elegant, some cups look simple and cheap... The teacher said, "they are all my students, so I won't treat you as guests. If you are thirsty, pour water and drink by yourself." Everyone was already thirsty, so they chose their favorite cups to pour water. When everyone had a glass of water in their hands, the teacher spoke. He pointed to the remaining cups on the tea table and said, "have you found that the cups you selected are the most beautiful and unique cups, and there is no candidate for these plastic cups." We are not surprised that everyone wants to have a nice cup in his hand. "That's the source of your troubles," the professor said. "What you need is water, not cups, but you pay attention to choosing good cups.". I often tell this story to my friends who come to listen to the lecture "sunshine mentality, brilliant life". We should think about what is water and cup in life? Once there was a student who was in low mood, had poor academic performance and even wanted to drop out of school to work. The teacher asked him why he didn't plan to finish his studies? He said: Unfortunately, I didn't get the major I wanted to take. I don't think it's interesting to go to this school. Once there was a young man who worked as a supervisor in a small company. The leaders trusted him very much. His own work was like a duck to water and his performance was outstanding. (www.life sentiment. Com) but once in a while, at an old school reunion, he found that his fellow students with the same price almost worked in a large company. He felt that he had no face and decided to resign. When asked for other reasons, he said that people live a face. I'd rather work in a large company than be a supervisor in a small company. There was once a cadre who worked in her post for many years. Because the organ adjusted her post, she decided to enjoy the same treatment, but she no longer held her original post. She was very angry. She argued with her superiors several times. In the end, she got a serious illness and had to retire early. …… Such examples are numerous, which happen around us and in our own lives. You may be jealous and unhappy because others dress beautifully; You may be unhappy because of the adjustment of a seat in the office; You may suffer all your life because someone hurt yourself. Our water is "health" and "happiness". Position, money and face are cups. They are just tools we use to hold the water of life. The quality of the cup does not affect the quality of the water. Most of the undergraduate studies are just some basic theories. What's more, they broaden their horizons and build their own knowledge platform. If they drop out of school for the sake of unsatisfactory majors and affect their life-long development, are they obsessed with the "Cup"? If you have a big job and a small one, you need to be happy. But if you have a big one, you need to be happy. The beauty or happiness of others does not affect our happiness, but you ask that no one is better than you. The limelight is the cup. There is always something better than you, but you work hard and lose the relaxed water. Besides, other people's injuries are only temporary and have nothing to do with your life, but you have to bear revenge all your life. Don't you lose the water of happiness by holding the cup of revenge? So, it's all in your own mind to change your life. Are you obsessed with the cup or keep the water you want? Health and happiness are the most important. Tell yourself to pay attention to what should be paid attention to and keep what should be kept, so as to make every day the best in your life.