Even if life is a long-distance race, it is only a long-distance race without rivals. If there are rivals, it is only you. In this process, you only need to pay attention to your progress. How much you pay, how much you get. Try your best to do well in your hands. When you are tired and tired and want to be lazy, warn yourself: you think you are working hard, but you don't even see the edge of your efforts.

1. Even if life is a long-distance race, you only need to pay attention to your progress In the past, people used to say that life is a long-distance race, not winning or losing at any moment. A long time ago, I thought this view was quite objective. Yes, there are so many opponents. It is not necessarily who is ahead of you at any time. The one who wins at the end is the one who wins. Now I think this sentence also has a big problem. Although the process of life is full of competition, its purpose is definitely not competition. We study hard, work hard, and constantly enrich and improve ourselves. Our ultimate goal should not be to surpass others, but to meet our own requirements for self realization. If you like to do this job and are willing to do it, you should spend more time and energy. How much you spend is worth it, and how much you gain in the end. You have a balance in your heart; You don't like it so much. Consider its importance, invest the corresponding energy and time, and finally achieve many results, which is also due to cause and effect. There is no need to compare it with others. People have their own advantages and disadvantages. You don't have to feel complacent because you are half better than others in that matter, and you don't have to be ashamed because you are half worse than others in something. Just take care of yourself. People's energy is so limited and their talents are so different that it is difficult to give up the details and grasp the key points; If you can get rid of the competitive mentality, it is valuable to calmly use your talent and corresponding diligence to deal with it. Most of the time, people complain because they don't understand what they want or don't want. Even if life is a long-distance race, it is only a long-distance race without rivals. If there are rivals, it is only you. In this process, you only need to pay attention to your progress. 2、no pay, no gain In my not too long life experience at present, many ordinary people in Contemporary Chinese society pursue "shortcuts", which is really difficult for me to agree with. From those who evade tickets and jump in the queue, to those who are unwilling to get up early to register and find it difficult to get a hospital number, from those who are always cramming for the exam, to those who are looking forward to picking up leaks in the antique market, all these are simply small and broad, or even unearned. In any case I can imagine, the hard work cost we pay is closely related to the substantial benefits we get (note that I am talking about substantial benefits, not counting the kind of threatening our tutors to commit suicide and finally get a degree). There may be differences in the proportion of the two, but this is more because we are at different levels of the interest chain. When we are still at a very low level, we begin to fantasize about paying very little cost to obtain great benefits. This is really a very absurd thing. At the age of twelve, I hoped to find a job that would enable me to earn enough money to spend before I was thirty, then retire at thirty, and spend money every day after that. After a few years of high school, I realized how stupid this wish is. Up to now, I think it's a very happy thing to find a job I like and devote all my efforts to it until one of me and the other no longer need the other. The necessary money and reputation in exchange are just accessories. In most cases, these things can't be balanced with your interests and time. On the other hand, a child wants to find a job that is easy, profitable, respected and likes, and then relax for a lifetime. This is also very bullshit. It's very simple. How much you pay, how much you get. The irrefutable truth, at least in my case.

2. Group and self identification I would also like to say that my middle school is a middle school in Shaanxi Province. Every year, the number of students attending Tsinghua and Peking University is the largest, and a champion pops up from time to time. When I was in middle school, I often felt inflated because of this kind of data. I felt that I was a member of this school, so I was very good. Looking at other school students, I felt that I was superior. When I went to college, I immediately realized that my middle school state was like a clown. I must admit that there are advantages and disadvantages between a group and a group, but it is the individual that determines the advantages and disadvantages of a group. The reason why a university is outstanding is that there are masters or once were masters. If a famous university is no longer a master or a leader for one generation or even several generations, the so-called famous brand has become stronger than the outside and stronger than the inside. It is even used by future generations as a capital to show off and flaunt. We are always used to marking ourselves with the relatively excellent group we belong to, as if it is some kind of identity. From middle school to university to work, it seems that with the identity of this group, we become very safe and have quality assurance. It seems that as long as this group goes out, I must be highly qualified and proficient in business. In fact, cause and effect are reversed. You were able to join this group at first because you worked hard and improved. You can only jump into a relatively excellent group at the time of stage change. If you indulge after coming in, you will start to be decadent. Even if you are labeled as a defective product. I respect the people who have always worked hard. I think these people don't care what labels they are labeled, but only their own efforts. As long as we don't stop, we will continue to grow and strengthen ourselves. If one day, the current group can no longer accommodate themselves and can no longer provide a broad enough stage for themselves, it doesn't matter. They will enter a new and better group. These people do not value the identification of the group, but only need to identify with their own efforts.

3. No one is a loser, just be an elite At the very beginning, like many eight-year students of Peking Union Medical College, I didn't like the idea that we should be trained into elites in the school training plan. I felt that it was too inconsistent with the actual teaching situation. Moreover, in a place that advocates the golden mean, China, it was easy to cry out that elites would be hated and attacked by others, and the gun would shoot the first bird. For a long time, I thought so. But until the recent emergence of loser culture, more and more people began to argue that they are losers. I think it is necessary to mention the word "elite". A person, no matter how smart he is, as long as he is down-to-earth and hard enough to do his own work to the extreme, in my opinion, he is an elite. The Ramen master and the old man making steamed buns in China on the tip of the tongue are elites who love their work and do their best seriously. In this sense, no one should be a loser. Maybe you will say that this is a joke, and you still have to work hard. I hope so, too. What I am afraid of is that people influence each other. You say you are a loser, he says you are incompetent, and I say you are two. In the end, it is all about finding reasons for laziness and foolishness. It seems that it is reasonable to be depressed because of some inherent shortcomings. This is really bullshit. Dare to shout, is it difficult for me to do the best I can? Do you think it's fake? I won't. I just want to do my best to do what I do. If this is the performance of the elite, I will be the elite! Finally, I ended with a sentence that I have loved for a long time but do not know where it came from. Every time I feel tired and tired and want to be lazy, when I see this sentence, it will last another year and a half: once I thought I was working hard, but in fact I didn't even see the edge of my efforts.

Even if life is a long-distance race, it is only a long-distance race without rivals. If there are rivals, it is only you. In this process, you only need to pay attention to your progress. How much you pay, how much you get. Try your best to do well in your hands. When you are tired and tired and want to be lazy, warn yourself: you think you are working hard, but you don't even see the edge of your efforts.

1. Even if life is a long-distance race, you only need to pay attention to your progress In the past, people used to say that life is a long-distance race, not winning or losing at any moment. A long time ago, I thought this view was quite objective. Yes, there are so many opponents. It is not necessarily who is ahead of you at any time. The one who wins at the end is the one who wins. Now I think this sentence also has a big problem. Although the process of life is full of competition, its purpose is definitely not competition. We study hard, work hard, and constantly enrich and improve ourselves. Our ultimate goal should not be to surpass others, but to meet our own requirements for self realization. If you like to do this job and are willing to do it, you should spend more time and energy. How much you spend is worth it, and how much you gain in the end. You have a balance in your heart; You don't like it so much. Consider its importance, invest the corresponding energy and time, and finally achieve many results, which is also due to cause and effect. There is no need to compare it with others. People have their own advantages and disadvantages. You don't have to feel complacent because you are half better than others in that matter, and you don't have to be ashamed because you are half worse than others in something. Just take care of yourself. People's energy is so limited and their talents are so different that it is difficult to give up the details and grasp the key points; If you can get rid of the competitive mentality, it is valuable to calmly use your talent and corresponding diligence to deal with it. Most of the time, people complain because they don't understand what they want or don't want. Even if life is a long-distance race, it is only a long-distance race without rivals. If there are rivals, it is only you. In this process, you only need to pay attention to your progress. 2、no pay, no gain In my not too long life experience at present, many ordinary people in Contemporary Chinese society pursue "shortcuts", which is really difficult for me to agree with. From those who evade tickets and jump in the queue, to those who are unwilling to get up early to register and find it difficult to get a hospital number, from those who are always cramming for the exam, to those who are looking forward to picking up leaks in the antique market, all these are simply small and broad, or even unearned. In any case I can imagine, the hard work cost we pay is closely related to the substantial benefits we get (note that I am talking about substantial benefits, not counting the kind of threatening our tutors to commit suicide and finally get a degree). There may be differences in the proportion of the two, but this is more because we are at different levels of the interest chain. When we are still at a very low level, we begin to fantasize about paying very little cost to obtain great benefits. This is really a very absurd thing. At the age of twelve, I hoped to find a job that would enable me to earn enough money to spend before I was thirty, then retire at thirty, and spend money every day after that. After a few years of high school, I realized how stupid this wish is. Up to now, I think it's a very happy thing to find a job I like and devote all my efforts to it until one of me and the other no longer need the other. The necessary money and reputation in exchange are just accessories. In most cases, these things can't be balanced with your interests and time. On the other hand, a child wants to find a job that is easy, profitable, respected and likes, and then relax for a lifetime. This is also very bullshit. It's very simple. How much you pay, how much you get. The irrefutable truth, at least in my case.

2. Group and self identification I would also like to say that my middle school is a middle school in Shaanxi Province. Every year, the number of students attending Tsinghua and Peking University is the largest, and a champion pops up from time to time. When I was in middle school, I often felt inflated because of this kind of data. I felt that I was a member of this school, so I was very good. Looking at other school students, I felt that I was superior. When I went to college, I immediately realized that my middle school state was like a clown. I must admit that there are advantages and disadvantages between a group and a group, but it is the individual that determines the advantages and disadvantages of a group. The reason why a university is outstanding is that there are masters or once were masters. If a famous university is no longer a master or a leader for one generation or even several generations, the so-called famous brand has become stronger than the outside and stronger than the inside. It is even used by future generations as a capital to show off and flaunt. We are always used to marking ourselves with the relatively excellent group we belong to, as if it is some kind of identity. From middle school to university to work, it seems that with the identity of this group, we become very safe and have quality assurance. It seems that as long as this group goes out, I must be highly qualified and proficient in business. In fact, cause and effect are reversed. You were able to join this group at first because you worked hard and improved. You can only jump into a relatively excellent group at the time of stage change. If you indulge after coming in, you will start to be decadent. Even if you are labeled as a defective product. I respect the people who have always worked hard. I think these people don't care what labels they are labeled, but only their own efforts. As long as we don't stop, we will continue to grow and strengthen ourselves. If one day, the current group can no longer accommodate themselves and can no longer provide a broad enough stage for themselves, it doesn't matter. They will enter a new and better group. These people do not value the identification of the group, but only need to identify with their own efforts.

3. No one is a loser, just be an elite At the very beginning, like many eight-year students of Peking Union Medical College, I didn't like the idea that we should be trained into elites in the school training plan. I felt that it was too inconsistent with the actual teaching situation. Moreover, in a place that advocates the golden mean, China, it was easy to cry out that elites would be hated and attacked by others, and the gun would shoot the first bird. For a long time, I thought so. But until the recent emergence of loser culture, more and more people began to argue that they are losers. I think it is necessary to mention the word "elite". A person, no matter how smart he is, as long as he is down-to-earth and hard enough to do his own work to the extreme, in my opinion, he is an elite. The Ramen master and the old man making steamed buns in China on the tip of the tongue are elites who love their work and do their best seriously. In this sense, no one should be a loser. Maybe you will say that this is a joke, and you still have to work hard. I hope so, too. What I am afraid of is that people influence each other. You say you are a loser, he says you are incompetent, and I say you are two. In the end, it is all about finding reasons for laziness and foolishness. It seems that it is reasonable to be depressed because of some inherent shortcomings. This is really bullshit. Dare to shout, is it difficult for me to do the best I can? Do you think it's fake? I won't. I just want to do my best to do what I do. If this is the performance of the elite, I will be the elite! Finally, I ended with a sentence that I have loved for a long time but do not know where it came from. Every time I feel tired and tired and want to be lazy, when I see this sentence, it will last another year and a half: once I thought I was working hard, but in fact I didn't even see the edge of my efforts.