one Italian illustrator Marco melgrati once created a painting based on realistic themes - "you never know who you're playing with!" The cat in the picture regards the snake's tail as a mouse's tail and holds the snake's tail with its claws without fear. The meaning of this painting is: you never know who is playing with you. Respect everyone, and don't easily look down on and underestimate anyone. What you see may be a little, but others have already seen you, just considering whether to hurt you or not. Respecting others is actually honoring yourself. Knowing how to respect others is also the greatest embodiment of a person's upbringing. Real respect is actually a kind of equality, neither looking up nor overlooking, neither humble nor arrogant. The higher the level, the more people understand that respect means equality, value, personality and self-cultivation. The low-level people are often selfish, short-sighted and self righteous to blame others from the moral commanding height. two On zhihuhe Weibo, I saw some readers comment on some authors' articles. Their words are fierce, ironic and contemptuous. What's more, they greet your family. I remember an editorial sister said that someone added her wechat to scold her. This is specially added to others' wechat just to scold others. How free is it? Indeed, every citizen has the right to freedom of speech. You can question, criticize and pass. However, please also respect the personality of others and do not engage in personal attacks. The author wrote the article, only to express his personal views, and did not define who to label. If you don't like it, you can ignore it, comment, disagree, or even reprimand, but swearing and personal attacks can't prove you are right, but reveal your inferior quality. So respect is seeking common ground while reserving differences. I don't agree with you, but I'll applaud your efforts. three I think people respect me because they think I'm excellent. Slowly I understand that others respect me because they are excellent; Excellent people know how to respect others better. Respecting others is actually honoring themselves. Dostoevsky also said: those who do not respect others first do not respect themselves. I remember a story that a senior brother majoring in hotel management told me about his interview: That time, he applied for the assistant of the general manager of the hotel. After several rounds of re examination, he finally left two people to the final stage of meeting the general manager. The interviewer with my senior brother is a top student in D, a very excellent and beautiful girl. At that time, the senior brother thought that such a beautiful girl has good ability, and the general manager is a man. The chance of finally admitting that beautiful girl is greater than him. However, elder martial brother is not so easy to give up. He thinks he is also a top student of F University. We are close to each other. Who laughs until the end is not sure. That day, they were told to go to the general manager's office together. On the way, they met a cleaning aunt cleaning the glass. Her cleaning car was placed next to her. When she turned around, she accidentally hit the girl and splashed the water in the bucket on them. There are water stains on the girls' shoes and skirts, as well as on the elder martial brother's pants and shoes. The girl said angrily in an instant, "do you have eyes as a cleaner? You know someone coming from behind. Do you mean it? I'll have an interview later. Now you see how I can meet people like this. Can you afford to delay my interview? It's really bad luck." Then he turned to his elder martial brother and said, "wait for me. I'll clean up and go together later. Otherwise, it's not good to go alone, right?" Then he went to the bathroom without waiting for an answer. Hearing the girl talking like this, elder martial brother suddenly lost his favor with her. The elder martial brother said to the cleaning aunt, "aunt, it doesn't matter. Just splash a little water. Don't blame yourself too much. Just pay attention next time." Then help the cleaning aunt to clean the water on the ground. While waiting for the girl, while chatting with her aunt, help the cleaning wipe the glass high. Finally, the two of them went to the general manager's office. The general manager held out his hand to the senior brother and said: Congratulations, you have been admitted. It turned out that the so-called last interview was the test of aunt Baojie just now. The general manager said: we are a service industry. We have others in our hearts. It is most important to know how to respect others. Therefore, respect is an important embodiment of a person's upbringing; Taking into account other people's feelings and understanding transposition thinking will win other people's trust and support. four A person's level can often be seen in a small quality. Many years ago, when I went to school, I saw the picture of my aunt sweeping the floor in the post bar of the school. She sat on the stairs and cried. Some students also saw it with their own eyes. The classmate said she left late. When she came out of the classroom, she heard a faint cry and thought she was haunted. When I came to the stairs, I saw my aunt sweeping there crying very sad. When I asked her carefully, I knew that she came to clean up every time after class, but the garbage always seemed to be endless. "Every time I just cleaned up the classroom and corridor, there will always be a lot of garbage suddenly. I can't finish it so late," she said After wiping his tears, he picked up the broom again to clean up. If you don't know how to clean up the garbage, it's a kind of respect for the people who don't know how to clean up the garbage. I saw a video before. In the corridor of the office building, it is inevitable that the delivery of meals will be slightly delayed because of the rain in winter. When the female customer saw the meal sent by the delivery boy, she was angry and poured the meal on the ground face to face. She also made bad comments and complained that the delivery boy was late and the meal was cold. The female customer's anger at the delivery brother is not only because the delivery is late, but also because she subconsciously despises the catering industry. In another scene, if her boss is late for sending her a document, does the female customer dare to drop the document to the ground in front of her boss? The level of a person's cultivation is often not reflected in his attitude towards his boss, friends and colleagues, but whether he respects people who are "lower than him". No matter between people or between industries, there is no distinction between high and low, and they are all equal. To respect others is to respect yourself. five A person's level has nothing to do with his education, wealth and social class, but has something to do with his vision, cultivation and pattern. The higher the level, the more people tend to have high EQ and respect others. At the same time, a person who knows how to respect others is often an "excellent" person. They have long-term vision, experience and great pattern; Mature and full of inner, there is no need to show nobility by belittling others and showing off yourself; And more understand "Empathy" and empathy, and know how to respect the difficulties and efforts of others. Mencius said, "those who love others will always love them; those who respect others will always respect them". Therefore, learning to respect is a required course for you to win your life.

one Italian illustrator Marco melgrati once created a painting based on realistic themes - "you never know who you're playing with!" The cat in the picture regards the snake's tail as a mouse's tail and holds the snake's tail with its claws without fear. The meaning of this painting is: you never know who is playing with you. Respect everyone, and don't easily look down on and underestimate anyone. What you see may be a little, but others have already seen you, just considering whether to hurt you or not. Respecting others is actually honoring yourself. Knowing how to respect others is also the greatest embodiment of a person's upbringing. Real respect is actually a kind of equality, neither looking up nor overlooking, neither humble nor arrogant. The higher the level, the more people understand that respect means equality, value, personality and self-cultivation. The low-level people are often selfish, short-sighted and self righteous to blame others from the moral commanding height. two On zhihuhe Weibo, I saw some readers comment on some authors' articles. Their words are fierce, ironic and contemptuous. What's more, they greet your family. I remember an editorial sister said that someone added her wechat to scold her. This is specially added to others' wechat just to scold others. How free is it? Indeed, every citizen has the right to freedom of speech. You can question, criticize and pass. However, please also respect the personality of others and do not engage in personal attacks. The author wrote the article, only to express his personal views, and did not define who to label. If you don't like it, you can ignore it, comment, disagree, or even reprimand, but swearing and personal attacks can't prove you are right, but reveal your inferior quality. So respect is seeking common ground while reserving differences. I don't agree with you, but I'll applaud your efforts. three I think people respect me because they think I'm excellent. Slowly I understand that others respect me because they are excellent; Excellent people know how to respect others better. Respecting others is actually honoring themselves. Dostoevsky also said: those who do not respect others first do not respect themselves. I remember a story that a senior brother majoring in hotel management told me about his interview: That time, he applied for the assistant of the general manager of the hotel. After several rounds of re examination, he finally left two people to the final stage of meeting the general manager. The interviewer with my senior brother is a top student in D, a very excellent and beautiful girl. At that time, the senior brother thought that such a beautiful girl has good ability, and the general manager is a man. The chance of finally admitting that beautiful girl is greater than him. However, elder martial brother is not so easy to give up. He thinks he is also a top student of F University. We are close to each other. Who laughs until the end is not sure. That day, they were told to go to the general manager's office together. On the way, they met a cleaning aunt cleaning the glass. Her cleaning car was placed next to her. When she turned around, she accidentally hit the girl and splashed the water in the bucket on them. There are water stains on the girls' shoes and skirts, as well as on the elder martial brother's pants and shoes. The girl said angrily in an instant, "do you have eyes as a cleaner? You know someone coming from behind. Do you mean it? I'll have an interview later. Now you see how I can meet people like this. Can you afford to delay my interview? It's really bad luck." Then he turned to his elder martial brother and said, "wait for me. I'll clean up and go together later. Otherwise, it's not good to go alone, right?" Then he went to the bathroom without waiting for an answer. Hearing the girl talking like this, elder martial brother suddenly lost his favor with her. The elder martial brother said to the cleaning aunt, "aunt, it doesn't matter. Just splash a little water. Don't blame yourself too much. Just pay attention next time." Then help the cleaning aunt to clean the water on the ground. While waiting for the girl, while chatting with her aunt, help the cleaning wipe the glass high. Finally, the two of them went to the general manager's office. The general manager held out his hand to the senior brother and said: Congratulations, you have been admitted. It turned out that the so-called last interview was the test of aunt Baojie just now. The general manager said: we are a service industry. We have others in our hearts. It is most important to know how to respect others. Therefore, respect is an important embodiment of a person's upbringing; Taking into account other people's feelings and understanding transposition thinking will win other people's trust and support. four A person's level can often be seen in a small quality. Many years ago, when I went to school, I saw the picture of my aunt sweeping the floor in the post bar of the school. She sat on the stairs and cried. Some students also saw it with their own eyes. The classmate said she left late. When she came out of the classroom, she heard a faint cry and thought she was haunted. When I came to the stairs, I saw my aunt sweeping there crying very sad. When I asked her carefully, I knew that she came to clean up every time after class, but the garbage always seemed to be endless. "Every time I just cleaned up the classroom and corridor, there will always be a lot of garbage suddenly. I can't finish it so late," she said After wiping his tears, he picked up the broom again to clean up. If you don't know how to clean up the garbage, it's a kind of respect for the people who don't know how to clean up the garbage. I saw a video before. In the corridor of the office building, it is inevitable that the delivery of meals will be slightly delayed because of the rain in winter. When the female customer saw the meal sent by the delivery boy, she was angry and poured the meal on the ground face to face. She also made bad comments and complained that the delivery boy was late and the meal was cold. The female customer's anger at the delivery brother is not only because the delivery is late, but also because she subconsciously despises the catering industry. In another scene, if her boss is late for sending her a document, does the female customer dare to drop the document to the ground in front of her boss? The level of a person's cultivation is often not reflected in his attitude towards his boss, friends and colleagues, but whether he respects people who are "lower than him". No matter between people or between industries, there is no distinction between high and low, and they are all equal. To respect others is to respect yourself. five A person's level has nothing to do with his education, wealth and social class, but has something to do with his vision, cultivation and pattern. The higher the level, the more people tend to have high EQ and respect others. At the same time, a person who knows how to respect others is often an "excellent" person. They have long-term vision, experience and great pattern; Mature and full of inner, there is no need to show nobility by belittling others and showing off yourself; And more understand "Empathy" and empathy, and know how to respect the difficulties and efforts of others. Mencius said, "those who love others will always love them; those who respect others will always respect them". Therefore, learning to respect is a required course for you to win your life.