one My studio recruits editors. A girl's resume is very bright: graduated from the Chinese Department of a famous school, worked as a newspaper reporter, won a literature award, and the photos are also very good-looking. And the articles she attached are very to my taste. But what's missing is that she not only worked as a reporter, but also as a paralegal, cosmetics sales and private school teacher... After seven years of college graduation, she changed 13 jobs, and the industry span is very large. It seems that she can't stick to one thing steadily. I'm a little worried that she won't be here long. After much hesitation, I called her for an interview. She is really a beautiful girl. She speaks decently, frankly and comfortably. Only when I was faced with the question "why did I change so many jobs", I was not satisfied with her answer. She said she was interested in many industries and thought she could do well, so she wanted to try them all. "It's too boring to do only one thing in her life". I said, but there are always differences between what you want to do most and what you want to do most. What do you want to do most? She said it might be writing, but it's impossible to give up others for this. I decided to give her up right now. A man's heart is a man's heart. The injury is too hard, so you can only veto it. Just as no woman wants to marry a playboy, no employer will like employees who change jobs frequently. From the perspective of the candidate girl, I think this hard injury will affect her life. If people want to achieve some results, it is important to focus on doing what they are good at. In the early stage of society, you can try and make mistakes, but you can't change things endlessly and aimlessly. Otherwise, others will upgrade all the way in the professional field. You will always be a novice and start all the time. In the end, you are likely to achieve nothing. two At a gathering of Bill Gates and Buffett, Gates' father asked the two rich men to write down "the word that helps you the most". Gates and Buffett both wrote the word "focus" at the same time. ——It sounds like chicken soup, but it's true. Gates and Buffett have said it themselves. In fact, this is also the consensus of many successful people: focusing on things is easier to succeed. Buffett once said that if you don't know what you should do, list the 25 things you want to do most, then cross out 20 and devote yourself to the remaining 5. Remember, the other 6-25 things may be distractions in your life. Don't spend energy on them and forget them all until the five most important things are completed. Jobs did almost the same thing. He was forced to leave apple because of the power struggle. After returning to apple, he reduced the company's 40 ongoing projects to four at one stroke and told everyone: "our goal is to create these four products." Then came the apple smartphone that changed the world. Jobs said that deciding what not to do is as important as deciding what to do. So is the company and the product. In fact, life is even more so. Human success can be understood as "climbing to the top of the mountain". It's obviously easier to climb a mountain with concentration. If mountain a climbs halfway and looks at mountain B, it's good. Mountain B takes a few steps and is attracted by mountain C. in the end, most of them end up running all their lives, exhausted and accomplishing nothing. A friend of mine works in a bank. He is mainly responsible for dealing with bad debts and dealing with companies that "used to be very prosperous and then broke down". She said that the tragedies of many companies are the result of blind expansion - originally a mattress making enterprise, the boss was unstable at the beginning of a good sign, and then made a bed. The bed was not profitable, and the sofa was on the line again. The last big stall was spread out, and the strength was not enough, so it all died. ——If we had been making mattresses, the company could have been very strong. Like the girl I said at the beginning: the ability is not poor. If you focus a little and stick to it, you will have a good development. Unfortunately, if you don't focus enough, the prospect is hard to say. Psychologist Daniel Goleman said: concentration can affect a person's final achievement more than IQ. American psychologists have also done a long-term follow-up: Children with an intelligence level of 50 have strong concentration. When they grow up, most of them become excellent talents in various fields. Children with insufficient concentration are unhappy in life and work after many years. They can only comfort themselves by believing that fate is God's arrangement. Concentration is actually a psychological ability. In this era, this ability is more important than ever. Because mankind has never faced so much information and temptation as today. Every second, a large amount of information will flow to you, and all kinds of hands are pulling you. The temptation to "climb another mountain" is particularly large and the cost is particularly low. It is a great test of concentration to climb down a mountain. But the law of the world is constant, and the truth that "if you insist on doing one thing, it is easier to achieve" will not change. So if you have enough concentration, you may win the majority. three Of course, focus alone is not enough to lead to success. It's also important to focus on what you're best at. Back to Buffett. Buffett is particularly sensitive to numbers. Now in his eighties, he can accurately say that the population of Omaha in 1930 was 214006. He also likes to think that "thinking about business and investment" will make him very happy. Bill Gates said that Buffett's ability to evaluate people and enterprises is particularly magical. At best, he is only 1 / 5 of Buffett's. Therefore, investors are undoubtedly Buffett's best career. If he changed his profession, he would not have achieved what he is today. Buffett's wife said Buffett couldn't find the light switch in his home or the color of the bedroom wall. Once she caught a cold and was bedridden. She said to Buffett, "I want to vomit. Go to the kitchen and bring me anything." Buffett said OK, so she ran to the kitchen. After a tinkle, she brought a filter pan. The wife said, honey, this can't be missed. Buffett ran to the kitchen again and tinkled, then came back and put the filter pan on the baking pan. ——If Buffett is a criminal policeman or a nurse, he may not survive for a lifetime. Therefore, focusing on what you are good at is as important as focusing on yourself. Some things you are really not good at and are destined to be bad at. Don't put your main energy here. With the same efforts for 10 years, you can pull your disadvantages to the average. For example, a person who knows nothing about law can be an ordinary lawyer. You can also turn your advantage into a sharp one. For example, a gifted general doctor has become a top medical expert. Obviously, the latter thing brings you more benefits and greater significance. And greater honor, reward, return and sense of achievement will also give you more motivation to stick to it. When you know clearly that you are doing the right thing, you will be very firm. Even if there are new temptations, even if the long repetition hurts your enthusiasm, you can remain unmoved, continue to insist, make yourself better in experience, and finally stand out. This firmness will also save you a lot of tangles and anxiety. You know, we wasted too much energy in our dilemma. Of course, not everything you're good at is worth focusing on for a lifetime. If you are good at eating watermelon and painting oil, you must know which to choose. four Social competition is so fierce that only by focusing on building their own long board can they go further. People's energy is limited. Don't waste it on your weaknesses - use your greatest energy to make your strengths perfect, not to make your weaknesses barely pass. Ma Yun fans Faye Wong for many years, but how does he realize his dream of singing with Faye Wong? It's not to improve cosmetic surgery, practice singing and enter the entertainment industry. As long as he focuses on doing a good job in Alibaba's business, Faye Wong will come to sing with him. The biggest shortcut to success is to focus on doing what you are good at. A really smart person will know how to focus on one point and achieve the ultimate. Then use this point to support the whole life. A valuable thing, you can do well and persist for a long time, and you will win in the end. This is the best answer I can think of about how to succeed. About the author: Li Yueyue, a popular columnist, a new feminist and a solid craftsman. Interpret emotion, perspective human nature, and accompany thousands of women with reason and wisdom.

one My studio recruits editors. A girl's resume is very bright: graduated from the Chinese Department of a famous school, worked as a newspaper reporter, won a literature award, and the photos are also very good-looking. And the articles she attached are very to my taste. But what's missing is that she not only worked as a reporter, but also as a paralegal, cosmetics sales and private school teacher... After seven years of college graduation, she changed 13 jobs, and the industry span is very large. It seems that she can't stick to one thing steadily. I'm a little worried that she won't be here long. After much hesitation, I called her for an interview. She is really a beautiful girl. She speaks decently, frankly and comfortably. Only when I was faced with the question "why did I change so many jobs", I was not satisfied with her answer. She said she was interested in many industries and thought she could do well, so she wanted to try them all. "It's too boring to do only one thing in her life". I said, but there are always differences between what you want to do most and what you want to do most. What do you want to do most? She said it might be writing, but it's impossible to give up others for this. I decided to give her up right now. A man's heart is a man's heart. The injury is too hard, so you can only veto it. Just as no woman wants to marry a playboy, no employer will like employees who change jobs frequently. From the perspective of the candidate girl, I think this hard injury will affect her life. If people want to achieve some results, it is important to focus on doing what they are good at. In the early stage of society, you can try and make mistakes, but you can't change things endlessly and aimlessly. Otherwise, others will upgrade all the way in the professional field. You will always be a novice and start all the time. In the end, you are likely to achieve nothing. two At a gathering of Bill Gates and Buffett, Gates' father asked the two rich men to write down "the word that helps you the most". Gates and Buffett both wrote the word "focus" at the same time. ——It sounds like chicken soup, but it's true. Gates and Buffett have said it themselves. In fact, this is also the consensus of many successful people: focusing on things is easier to succeed. Buffett once said that if you don't know what you should do, list the 25 things you want to do most, then cross out 20 and devote yourself to the remaining 5. Remember, the other 6-25 things may be distractions in your life. Don't spend energy on them and forget them all until the five most important things are completed. Jobs did almost the same thing. He was forced to leave apple because of the power struggle. After returning to apple, he reduced the company's 40 ongoing projects to four at one stroke and told everyone: "our goal is to create these four products." Then came the apple smartphone that changed the world. Jobs said that deciding what not to do is as important as deciding what to do. So is the company and the product. In fact, life is even more so. Human success can be understood as "climbing to the top of the mountain". It's obviously easier to climb a mountain with concentration. If mountain a climbs halfway and looks at mountain B, it's good. Mountain B takes a few steps and is attracted by mountain C. in the end, most of them end up running all their lives, exhausted and accomplishing nothing. A friend of mine works in a bank. He is mainly responsible for dealing with bad debts and dealing with companies that "used to be very prosperous and then broke down". She said that the tragedies of many companies are the result of blind expansion - originally a mattress making enterprise, the boss was unstable at the beginning of a good sign, and then made a bed. The bed was not profitable, and the sofa was on the line again. The last big stall was spread out, and the strength was not enough, so it all died. ——If we had been making mattresses, the company could have been very strong. Like the girl I said at the beginning: the ability is not poor. If you focus a little and stick to it, you will have a good development. Unfortunately, if you don't focus enough, the prospect is hard to say. Psychologist Daniel Goleman said: concentration can affect a person's final achievement more than IQ. American psychologists have also done a long-term follow-up: Children with an intelligence level of 50 have strong concentration. When they grow up, most of them become excellent talents in various fields. Children with insufficient concentration are unhappy in life and work after many years. They can only comfort themselves by believing that fate is God's arrangement. Concentration is actually a psychological ability. In this era, this ability is more important than ever. Because mankind has never faced so much information and temptation as today. Every second, a large amount of information will flow to you, and all kinds of hands are pulling you. The temptation to "climb another mountain" is particularly large and the cost is particularly low. It is a great test of concentration to climb down a mountain. But the law of the world is constant, and the truth that "if you insist on doing one thing, it is easier to achieve" will not change. So if you have enough concentration, you may win the majority. three Of course, focus alone is not enough to lead to success. It's also important to focus on what you're best at. Back to Buffett. Buffett is particularly sensitive to numbers. Now in his eighties, he can accurately say that the population of Omaha in 1930 was 214006. He also likes to think that "thinking about business and investment" will make him very happy. Bill Gates said that Buffett's ability to evaluate people and enterprises is particularly magical. At best, he is only 1 / 5 of Buffett's. Therefore, investors are undoubtedly Buffett's best career. If he changed his profession, he would not have achieved what he is today. Buffett's wife said Buffett couldn't find the light switch in his home or the color of the bedroom wall. Once she caught a cold and was bedridden. She said to Buffett, "I want to vomit. Go to the kitchen and bring me anything." Buffett said OK, so she ran to the kitchen. After a tinkle, she brought a filter pan. The wife said, honey, this can't be missed. Buffett ran to the kitchen again and tinkled, then came back and put the filter pan on the baking pan. ——If Buffett is a criminal policeman or a nurse, he may not survive for a lifetime. Therefore, focusing on what you are good at is as important as focusing on yourself. Some things you are really not good at and are destined to be bad at. Don't put your main energy here. With the same efforts for 10 years, you can pull your disadvantages to the average. For example, a person who knows nothing about law can be an ordinary lawyer. You can also turn your advantage into a sharp one. For example, a gifted general doctor has become a top medical expert. Obviously, the latter thing brings you more benefits and greater significance. And greater honor, reward, return and sense of achievement will also give you more motivation to stick to it. When you know clearly that you are doing the right thing, you will be very firm. Even if there are new temptations, even if the long repetition hurts your enthusiasm, you can remain unmoved, continue to insist, make yourself better in experience, and finally stand out. This firmness will also save you a lot of tangles and anxiety. You know, we wasted too much energy in our dilemma. Of course, not everything you're good at is worth focusing on for a lifetime. If you are good at eating watermelon and painting oil, you must know which to choose. four Social competition is so fierce that only by focusing on building their own long board can they go further. People's energy is limited. Don't waste it on your weaknesses - use your greatest energy to make your strengths perfect, not to make your weaknesses barely pass. Ma Yun fans Faye Wong for many years, but how does he realize his dream of singing with Faye Wong? It's not to improve cosmetic surgery, practice singing and enter the entertainment industry. As long as he focuses on doing a good job in Alibaba's business, Faye Wong will come to sing with him. The biggest shortcut to success is to focus on doing what you are good at. A really smart person will know how to focus on one point and achieve the ultimate. Then use this point to support the whole life. A valuable thing, you can do well and persist for a long time, and you will win in the end. This is the best answer I can think of about how to succeed. About the author: Li Yueyue, a popular columnist, a new feminist and a solid craftsman. Interpret emotion, perspective human nature, and accompany thousands of women with reason and wisdom.