one There are always many messages in the backstage. A large part of these messages are asking me if I should stick to one thing when it is very difficult. A few days ago, my cousin, a senior 3 student, also asked me this question. He said, sister, the college entrance examination is coming this year, but my grades are still not so good, and my progress is not very great. Do you think it is necessary for me to persist? I think I might be like this. Otherwise, you can tell my mother that it is really difficult to walk down now. If there is no good result at that time, don't blame me. After listening to his words, I knew his real purpose in my heart. He felt that I was from the past and could understand his pain. He also knew that I had more say in his mother. The most important thing was that he felt that it was too difficult to see any hope for persistence. He simply asked me to be a lobbyist first, so that his mother would not expect too much from him, and at the same time, he could also give himself an excuse to be less persistent. Of course, I didn't help him in this matter as he said. Instead, I asked him a rhetorical question: what will happen if you insist again? My cousin is also a good speaker. He listed a lot of reasons to say how painful and hopeless persistence is. He worried that persistence would be in vain, and the result might still be so bad at that time; He felt that if the results were not likely to change, there was no need to persist. The most important thing was that he was too tired to persist, especially because he could not see much hope. There were continuous practical blows, which seemed to be persuading him to give up. It was really too tired. In my cousin's eyes, persistence doesn't seem to have much meaning. It's true that in the short term, persistence is really a very uncomfortable thing compared with unbridled play. But in the long run, if you don't continue to persist, how can you know you can't do it, and how can you enter the next level to meet better yourself and see stronger enemies. Finally, I said to my cousin, even if you feel that persistence is no longer meaningful at the moment, you'd better stick to it again and try to go on. After all, sometimes life still needs to do some useless things. For example, you know I won't be your lobbyist, and you're still willing to try, so try again, just in case. two When watching the wonderful flowers conference yesterday, the words of Jia Wei, the founder of Rococo, should make many people sigh. When he was 18 years old, he wanted to take an examination of Tsinghua Academy of fine arts. In the pre examination training class, the teacher asked him to draw six flashlights. As a man who had only seen that kind of iron flashlight since childhood, of course, he drew only one. Then the teacher asked him, where did you come from? He said Ningxia. The teacher said, you come here by camel, you go back. I've seen many people like you, and you can't pass the exam. I've seen people from the mountains, people from the village, and people riding camels for the first time. At that time, when the teacher finished his words, his tears flowed. After all, he was full of expectations, but he was so directly rejected by the teacher. However, we should believe that all good things come from persistence, and all persistence will eventually become gifts. Of course, he did not believe that he really failed the exam. He was more or less unconvinced by the teacher. He did not give up, did not choose to compromise, and did not fall down. Later, he went to major shopping malls in Beijing to watch flashlights and painted them for 15 days. Then it was time for the college entrance examination. He picked up the paper and looked at it. He wanted to draw six flashlights. He picked up the paper and smiled knowingly at the teacher. The teacher thought he wanted to copy them. As a result, he brushed for five minutes and drew six flashlights. Then he raised his hand to ask the teacher for a piece of paper. He brushed another six flashlights and could continue to draw six more, He drew thirty-six flashlights all the time. Later, the teachers in the next examination room came to see him and pointed at him and said: This is a genius. Later, he was admitted to the Academy of fine arts with a good score of the top 40 in the country, but the significance of persistence did not stop. At that time, when the teacher said he was crying because he could not draw a flashlight, a girl sitting under fell in love with her. Later, he took good care of him at school. Later, they both became college classmates. She became his girlfriend, and now the girl is also his wife. Persistence also has its meaning. It seems that it is a blessing in disguise. In fact, it is only because of persistence. If he had listened to the teacher's words and felt that he could not pass the exam, he would have abandoned himself and did not look at the flashlight. Even if the questions on the college entrance examination professional papers were still drawn with six flashlights, he would still not. If he did not give up and go to the same university as the girl, it would be different. three I am a person who believes that persistence is meaningful. Even if persistence does not necessarily make you taste what you want, it will always have a certain meaning in your future life. At the time of graduation internship, several girls in the dorm were working in several different companies. Perhaps because they had been living in the ivory tower, fresh students would find it difficult to adapt to the society, because the leaders scolded and wanted to cry, because they felt bored and uncomfortable doing work that didn't make much sense, because they would feel sad and resent themselves for learning nothing, and more importantly, because they were exposed to complex society at once, Various interpersonal relationships are also exhausting. Some girls quit after one month, and some quit after two months. Anyway, in the end, only Xiaolan still insisted. She works in a training institution, mainly to help contact students, parents and teachers. She needs to find customers and maintain the relationship between customers. When chatting in private, she said more than once that the work was difficult and the reality was cruel. As a newcomer, the relationship with colleagues in the company is very difficult to deal with, but he has been unable to blend in with his efforts, and sometimes he has a sense of loneliness of being abandoned; A colleague of the company is a relative of the supervisor, so the teachers he is responsible for are very stable and responsible. Unlike Xiao Lan, sometimes it is difficult to get students to communicate with their parents about the audition time. As a result, the teacher has a problem. This situation has happened more than once. Why should he promise the good teacher the day before yesterday to resign today or have something temporary; There are also times when you can't do well, you will be scolded by your supervisor. More often, you feel great pressure and worry about no performance. Life is not as good as we described. I have seen many times when she comes back from work at night, she still keeps in touch with her parents, and she has also thought about giving up. But in real life, there is no "give up" option as described by her cousin. For life and future development, many people have no way out, so they have to rush forward. This is the first formal battle between us and the society. It may be a bit overwhelming, but it's also a transitional period. At this stage, we must go through. With the resignation of our roommates, Xiaolan still insisted. In the eyes of other roommates, she would feel that she was particularly stupid, doing a very tired and thankless job. She worked overtime before the new year, and went to work at the beginning of the new year. But her persistence is meaningful. four The most simple and direct meaning is that she was finally able to support herself with her own hands. It was difficult to be independent, but she did. She became a real adult. Secondly, she had a job, which became more and more convenient. She used the money she earned from this job to exchange a mobile phone for her father. Finally, she used the money she earned to give a gift to her family. I may be sorry, this is not a complete inspirational story. The heroine has not achieved instant success and has reached the peak of her life. Maybe she is still experiencing hardships. She will still have a hard time in her work. She still has to tell herself over and over again that she will have to face more tests in the future than now, but this is life. There is no reason to achieve it overnight. You have to move forward or explore step by step along the way, Or crawling forward, but it is your every persistence at the moment that can achieve your future. To tell the truth, I'm also curious about my future life, but no one can tell me the answer, because the real answer is in my hands. I also hope that one day, like Jia Wei, I can count my past and have something to say. It's very boring to go too plain along the way. When I'm 70 or 80, I haven't talked with other old ladies in the sun, so I still have to go through a lot of hardships. In fact, suffering is not charming. Being told by the teacher that you are useless is not charming. It is not charming to concentrate on drawing a flashlight for 15 days. What really fascinates us is our own persistence and achievements after persistence. If you want to ask me what the meaning of persistence is, I'm sorry I don't know, because the world is wonderful. I don't know what quantitative changes will occur at which stage of your future life because of your persistence this time. But I am sure that if you choose to give up now, you may be like this all your life. The meaning of persistence is that it can make us the way we like.

one There are always many messages in the backstage. A large part of these messages are asking me if I should stick to one thing when it is very difficult. A few days ago, my cousin, a senior 3 student, also asked me this question. He said, sister, the college entrance examination is coming this year, but my grades are still not so good, and my progress is not very great. Do you think it is necessary for me to persist? I think I might be like this. Otherwise, you can tell my mother that it is really difficult to walk down now. If there is no good result at that time, don't blame me. After listening to his words, I knew his real purpose in my heart. He felt that I was from the past and could understand his pain. He also knew that I had more say in his mother. The most important thing was that he felt that it was too difficult to see any hope for persistence. He simply asked me to be a lobbyist first, so that his mother would not expect too much from him, and at the same time, he could also give himself an excuse to be less persistent. Of course, I didn't help him in this matter as he said. Instead, I asked him a rhetorical question: what will happen if you insist again? My cousin is also a good speaker. He listed a lot of reasons to say how painful and hopeless persistence is. He worried that persistence would be in vain, and the result might still be so bad at that time; He felt that if the results were not likely to change, there was no need to persist. The most important thing was that he was too tired to persist, especially because he could not see much hope. There were continuous practical blows, which seemed to be persuading him to give up. It was really too tired. In my cousin's eyes, persistence doesn't seem to have much meaning. It's true that in the short term, persistence is really a very uncomfortable thing compared with unbridled play. But in the long run, if you don't continue to persist, how can you know you can't do it, and how can you enter the next level to meet better yourself and see stronger enemies. Finally, I said to my cousin, even if you feel that persistence is no longer meaningful at the moment, you'd better stick to it again and try to go on. After all, sometimes life still needs to do some useless things. For example, you know I won't be your lobbyist, and you're still willing to try, so try again, just in case. two When watching the wonderful flowers conference yesterday, the words of Jia Wei, the founder of Rococo, should make many people sigh. When he was 18 years old, he wanted to take an examination of Tsinghua Academy of fine arts. In the pre examination training class, the teacher asked him to draw six flashlights. As a man who had only seen that kind of iron flashlight since childhood, of course, he drew only one. Then the teacher asked him, where did you come from? He said Ningxia. The teacher said, you come here by camel, you go back. I've seen many people like you, and you can't pass the exam. I've seen people from the mountains, people from the village, and people riding camels for the first time. At that time, when the teacher finished his words, his tears flowed. After all, he was full of expectations, but he was so directly rejected by the teacher. However, we should believe that all good things come from persistence, and all persistence will eventually become gifts. Of course, he did not believe that he really failed the exam. He was more or less unconvinced by the teacher. He did not give up, did not choose to compromise, and did not fall down. Later, he went to major shopping malls in Beijing to watch flashlights and painted them for 15 days. Then it was time for the college entrance examination. He picked up the paper and looked at it. He wanted to draw six flashlights. He picked up the paper and smiled knowingly at the teacher. The teacher thought he wanted to copy them. As a result, he brushed for five minutes and drew six flashlights. Then he raised his hand to ask the teacher for a piece of paper. He brushed another six flashlights and could continue to draw six more, He drew thirty-six flashlights all the time. Later, the teachers in the next examination room came to see him and pointed at him and said: This is a genius. Later, he was admitted to the Academy of fine arts with a good score of the top 40 in the country, but the significance of persistence did not stop. At that time, when the teacher said he was crying because he could not draw a flashlight, a girl sitting under fell in love with her. Later, he took good care of him at school. Later, they both became college classmates. She became his girlfriend, and now the girl is also his wife. Persistence also has its meaning. It seems that it is a blessing in disguise. In fact, it is only because of persistence. If he had listened to the teacher's words and felt that he could not pass the exam, he would have abandoned himself and did not look at the flashlight. Even if the questions on the college entrance examination professional papers were still drawn with six flashlights, he would still not. If he did not give up and go to the same university as the girl, it would be different. three I am a person who believes that persistence is meaningful. Even if persistence does not necessarily make you taste what you want, it will always have a certain meaning in your future life. At the time of graduation internship, several girls in the dorm were working in several different companies. Perhaps because they had been living in the ivory tower, fresh students would find it difficult to adapt to the society, because the leaders scolded and wanted to cry, because they felt bored and uncomfortable doing work that didn't make much sense, because they would feel sad and resent themselves for learning nothing, and more importantly, because they were exposed to complex society at once, Various interpersonal relationships are also exhausting. Some girls quit after one month, and some quit after two months. Anyway, in the end, only Xiaolan still insisted. She works in a training institution, mainly to help contact students, parents and teachers. She needs to find customers and maintain the relationship between customers. When chatting in private, she said more than once that the work was difficult and the reality was cruel. As a newcomer, the relationship with colleagues in the company is very difficult to deal with, but he has been unable to blend in with his efforts, and sometimes he has a sense of loneliness of being abandoned; A colleague of the company is a relative of the supervisor, so the teachers he is responsible for are very stable and responsible. Unlike Xiao Lan, sometimes it is difficult to get students to communicate with their parents about the audition time. As a result, the teacher has a problem. This situation has happened more than once. Why should he promise the good teacher the day before yesterday to resign today or have something temporary; There are also times when you can't do well, you will be scolded by your supervisor. More often, you feel great pressure and worry about no performance. Life is not as good as we described. I have seen many times when she comes back from work at night, she still keeps in touch with her parents, and she has also thought about giving up. But in real life, there is no "give up" option as described by her cousin. For life and future development, many people have no way out, so they have to rush forward. This is the first formal battle between us and the society. It may be a bit overwhelming, but it's also a transitional period. At this stage, we must go through. With the resignation of our roommates, Xiaolan still insisted. In the eyes of other roommates, she would feel that she was particularly stupid, doing a very tired and thankless job. She worked overtime before the new year, and went to work at the beginning of the new year. But her persistence is meaningful. four The most simple and direct meaning is that she was finally able to support herself with her own hands. It was difficult to be independent, but she did. She became a real adult. Secondly, she had a job, which became more and more convenient. She used the money she earned from this job to exchange a mobile phone for her father. Finally, she used the money she earned to give a gift to her family. I may be sorry, this is not a complete inspirational story. The heroine has not achieved instant success and has reached the peak of her life. Maybe she is still experiencing hardships. She will still have a hard time in her work. She still has to tell herself over and over again that she will have to face more tests in the future than now, but this is life. There is no reason to achieve it overnight. You have to move forward or explore step by step along the way, Or crawling forward, but it is your every persistence at the moment that can achieve your future. To tell the truth, I'm also curious about my future life, but no one can tell me the answer, because the real answer is in my hands. I also hope that one day, like Jia Wei, I can count my past and have something to say. It's very boring to go too plain along the way. When I'm 70 or 80, I haven't talked with other old ladies in the sun, so I still have to go through a lot of hardships. In fact, suffering is not charming. Being told by the teacher that you are useless is not charming. It is not charming to concentrate on drawing a flashlight for 15 days. What really fascinates us is our own persistence and achievements after persistence. If you want to ask me what the meaning of persistence is, I'm sorry I don't know, because the world is wonderful. I don't know what quantitative changes will occur at which stage of your future life because of your persistence this time. But I am sure that if you choose to give up now, you may be like this all your life. The meaning of persistence is that it can make us the way we like.