That day, in the office, my two colleagues quarreled over a small matter. They refused to give in to each other and kept blaming each other. Both inside and outside the words, they felt that they had been wronged and the other took advantage. In fact, standing in the position of a bystander, I think they all have something wrong with each other, but why don't they realize it? After listening to the quarrel of my colleagues, I couldn't help thinking of a story about a young man who ran into walls everywhere in his life. He felt tired of the world. So one day, he came to a temple and asked an eminent monk to guide him. The young man said: "Master, today's world is too dangerous. It's full of indifference and traps. It's either intrigue or intrigue, or fight each other to kill each other. Human affection is as thin as a piece of paper, which is pierced accidentally. I don't know why, I always see people's hypocritical faces and feel people's selfishness. What should I do, master? Is to find a lonely mountain to live in seclusion Is it against the turbid society? " Looking at the depressed young man on his face, the master knew that no matter how much truth he told him, he did not necessarily listen to it. The key is to give him an insight in the depths of his heart. The so-called "people who untie the bell still need to tie the bell". If you want to get out of the haze, you have to rely on the young man himself. Just then, a bird chirped in the tree. Then, a pool of bird droppings fell on the young man. The young man was furious and shouted, "you damn bird, don't you see anyone below? I'll find a slingshot to kill you later!" After hearing this, the master folded his hands and said with a smile, "goodness! Goodness! Benefactor, it's not the fault of the birds, because the forest is where they live. It's normal for bird droppings to fall. It's only because we stand in the wrong place and shouldn't disturb the tranquility of the birds." The young man looked confused and still didn't understand. Seeing this, the master continued: "benefactor, please look at your outstretched hand. When you accuse the bird, your index finger points to the bird, while your middle finger, ring finger and little finger point to yourself. That is to say, when you accuse others, you have to bear three times the responsibility of others. Therefore, to be kind to others, be lenient to others, be timely and tolerant, and be tolerant to others, so that you can be respected by others." After listening to the master's story, the young man suddenly realized that it was not the evil heart and the desolate world, but his lack of a heart of understanding and tolerance. Since then, young people no longer complain about others, but look for reasons in themselves. For many years, he has become a famous man with high moral integrity, and people praise his virtue one after another. In fact, many times, when we blame others, it is precisely because we stand in the wrong place. In the face of one thing, we often only see our own interests and ignore the interests of others, so we always think that we are right and others are wrong. If you can change your perspective and think in the position of others, the result will be quite different. You will be surprised to find that the world has become beautiful, people's hearts have become kind, and life has become happy.

That day, in the office, my two colleagues quarreled over a small matter. They refused to give in to each other and kept blaming each other. Both inside and outside the words, they felt that they had been wronged and the other took advantage. In fact, standing in the position of a bystander, I think they all have something wrong with each other, but why don't they realize it? After listening to the quarrel of my colleagues, I couldn't help thinking of a story about a young man who ran into walls everywhere in his life. He felt tired of the world. So one day, he came to a temple and asked an eminent monk to guide him. The young man said: "Master, today's world is too dangerous. It's full of indifference and traps. It's either intrigue or intrigue, or fight each other to kill each other. Human affection is as thin as a piece of paper, which is pierced accidentally. I don't know why, I always see people's hypocritical faces and feel people's selfishness. What should I do, master? Is to find a lonely mountain to live in seclusion Is it against the turbid society? " Looking at the depressed young man on his face, the master knew that no matter how much truth he told him, he did not necessarily listen to it. The key is to give him an insight in the depths of his heart. The so-called "people who untie the bell still need to tie the bell". If you want to get out of the haze, you have to rely on the young man himself. Just then, a bird chirped in the tree. Then, a pool of bird droppings fell on the young man. The young man was furious and shouted, "you damn bird, don't you see anyone below? I'll find a slingshot to kill you later!" After hearing this, the master folded his hands and said with a smile, "goodness! Goodness! Benefactor, it's not the fault of the birds, because the forest is where they live. It's normal for bird droppings to fall. It's only because we stand in the wrong place and shouldn't disturb the tranquility of the birds." The young man looked confused and still didn't understand. Seeing this, the master continued: "benefactor, please look at your outstretched hand. When you accuse the bird, your index finger points to the bird, while your middle finger, ring finger and little finger point to yourself. That is to say, when you accuse others, you have to bear three times the responsibility of others. Therefore, to be kind to others, be lenient to others, be timely and tolerant, and be tolerant to others, so that you can be respected by others." After listening to the master's story, the young man suddenly realized that it was not the evil heart and the desolate world, but his lack of a heart of understanding and tolerance. Since then, young people no longer complain about others, but look for reasons in themselves. For many years, he has become a famous man with high moral integrity, and people praise his virtue one after another. In fact, many times, when we blame others, it is precisely because we stand in the wrong place. In the face of one thing, we often only see our own interests and ignore the interests of others, so we always think that we are right and others are wrong. If you can change your perspective and think in the position of others, the result will be quite different. You will be surprised to find that the world has become beautiful, people's hearts have become kind, and life has become happy.