What is more terrible than poverty is the thinking of the poor. Most of the time, what binds us is not the real poverty, but the deep-rooted thinking of the poor. Keen on petty gains Xiao Xin is my roommate in college. She has graduated for three years. She has a good job. Among her classmates, the salary is relatively high. Before the company's annual meeting last year, she called me and asked me if I had a dress suitable for attending the company's annual meeting. I was shocked: "don't you often buy clothes? Last time I went to your house, I saw several cabinets full of clothes. Why should I borrow clothes?" Xiao Xin said helplessly, "most of my clothes are bought at the time of seasonal discounts. They are all cheap goods. After searching through them, none of them can hold up." I can only sigh that although Xiaoxin's economic level is good now, she hasn't changed the habit of loving small things and cheap things that she developed in college. Every time she saw the big sale, she lost her mind. As a result, she bought a pile of clothes with poor quality, old style and not suitable for her. It's a pity to lose them, but the only meaning of staying is to occupy the wardrobe. Such consumption habits make Xiaoxin lose many opportunities to show her best. For example, wearing a suit with no texture and inappropriate tailoring to meet an important customer will greatly reduce the chance of successful negotiation. Always wearing a discounted Taobao hot money will give the leader a feeling that he can not be trusted and has no independent opinion. Xiaoxin is greedy for small bargains and always buys bargains, but she has lost many opportunities. Too weak sense of time In life, there are always some people who value money too much, so they don't hesitate to spend a lot of time in order to save money, but they don't know that time is the most precious. These wasted time could have been used to learn new knowledge, master a new technology, and enjoy the time with your family, so it was wasted. Most people will have this experience. In order to find a free electronic book or a movie they are looking forward to, they spend a lot of time searching on major websites and are exhausted. Finally, even if it is found, it is likely that the sound quality or image quality has greatly affected the experience effect. The poor exchange time for money, and the rich use money to buy time, so the poor attach great importance to money, while the rich attach great importance to time. Desire for comfort, unwilling to change the status quo A comfortable life is like boiling a frog in warm water. It kills one's will, limits oneself to a comfortable area, and is unwilling to touch new things and accept the development of society. One's life has passed in such a muddle headed and mediocre way. Many people begin to live a monotonous life day after day and year after year in their twenties. It is true to call it plain and light. In fact, their lives are slowly being swallowed up but they don't know it. While others are working hard, studying hard and rushing to the front line, you are guarding your own tepid days. In the next ten years, when others discuss industry terminology, promotion and salary increase, you will only be proficient in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and parents' management. If one works hard enough, he can become an expert in a field in five years and a master in a field in ten years. So don't underestimate your potential, go out of your comfort zone boldly, be as ambitious as the rich, and you will become the person you once admired. You just need to change some thoughts and habits, and the God of wealth will care for you.

What is more terrible than poverty is the thinking of the poor. Most of the time, what binds us is not the real poverty, but the deep-rooted thinking of the poor. Keen on petty gains Xiao Xin is my roommate in college. She has graduated for three years. She has a good job. Among her classmates, the salary is relatively high. Before the company's annual meeting last year, she called me and asked me if I had a dress suitable for attending the company's annual meeting. I was shocked: "don't you often buy clothes? Last time I went to your house, I saw several cabinets full of clothes. Why should I borrow clothes?" Xiao Xin said helplessly, "most of my clothes are bought at the time of seasonal discounts. They are all cheap goods. After searching through them, none of them can hold up." I can only sigh that although Xiaoxin's economic level is good now, she hasn't changed the habit of loving small things and cheap things that she developed in college. Every time she saw the big sale, she lost her mind. As a result, she bought a pile of clothes with poor quality, old style and not suitable for her. It's a pity to lose them, but the only meaning of staying is to occupy the wardrobe. Such consumption habits make Xiaoxin lose many opportunities to show her best. For example, wearing a suit with no texture and inappropriate tailoring to meet an important customer will greatly reduce the chance of successful negotiation. Always wearing a discounted Taobao hot money will give the leader a feeling that he can not be trusted and has no independent opinion. Xiaoxin is greedy for small bargains and always buys bargains, but she has lost many opportunities. Too weak sense of time In life, there are always some people who value money too much, so they don't hesitate to spend a lot of time in order to save money, but they don't know that time is the most precious. These wasted time could have been used to learn new knowledge, master a new technology, and enjoy the time with your family, so it was wasted. Most people will have this experience. In order to find a free electronic book or a movie they are looking forward to, they spend a lot of time searching on major websites and are exhausted. Finally, even if it is found, it is likely that the sound quality or image quality has greatly affected the experience effect. The poor exchange time for money, and the rich use money to buy time, so the poor attach great importance to money, while the rich attach great importance to time. Desire for comfort, unwilling to change the status quo A comfortable life is like boiling a frog in warm water. It kills one's will, limits oneself to a comfortable area, and is unwilling to touch new things and accept the development of society. One's life has passed in such a muddle headed and mediocre way. Many people begin to live a monotonous life day after day and year after year in their twenties. It is true to call it plain and light. In fact, their lives are slowly being swallowed up but they don't know it. While others are working hard, studying hard and rushing to the front line, you are guarding your own tepid days. In the next ten years, when others discuss industry terminology, promotion and salary increase, you will only be proficient in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and parents' management. If one works hard enough, he can become an expert in a field in five years and a master in a field in ten years. So don't underestimate your potential, go out of your comfort zone boldly, be as ambitious as the rich, and you will become the person you once admired. You just need to change some thoughts and habits, and the God of wealth will care for you.