Jealousy is like a poisonous snake. It usually hides in people's heart. If it meets a certain environment, it will grind its teeth and suck blood from others and kill people. The reason why I compare jealousy to a poisonous snake is not new. I remember when I was a child, I heard the story of the fight between man and snake. It was said that there was a kind of snake called cock snake, which had a red crown as beautiful as a cock. This snake is naturally jealous. Whenever it meets someone taller than itself, it likes to compete with others. So it straightens its body, holds its head high, raises its crown, and does its ferocity. At this time, if you want to get away, there is only one way to deal with this guy, that is to take off your shoes and throw them into the sky. You can slip away while the snake is competing with the shoes. Childhood stories do not need to be verified. But thinking about this story tells us a way to deal with the world, that is, if you meet a guy with jealousy, you can avoid being hurt as long as you take out your "bottom" things. But in life, there are many times when you can't be afraid of jealous people. What's more, you don't know when the snake dormant in people's heart will wake up and attack. Just like Huang Yang, a graduate student at Fudan University, who never expected to be poisoned by his classmates and roommates because of jealousy, his young life will always be fixed at the age of 27. Some people speculate that they are jealous, but the school denies that the reason is that they are not in the same major and there is no competition. In fact, this statement lacks psychological basis. Jealousy is a negative psychological state. Even if a person is inferior to others in one aspect, such as career, love, talent or Scholarship... It may make people jealous. Although others are not necessarily better than themselves on the whole, jealousy is a sleepy snake. It will not be rational. It peeps into the world with its own gray eyes, Naturally, the color of others has become the biggest obstacle in its heart, so it is nervous and ready to move, so it sets up clips and trips under the smiling face; After a warm handshake, kick the stomach and stab the knife. Envy, jealousy and hatred are the gradual evolution of human psychology. If you pass by in a hurry and admire the achievements or brilliance of others, you will be in peace; If you are in contact with your appearance and don't adjust yourself, envy becomes jealousy; If jealousy cannot be dispelled in the heart, and the distance cannot be opened, get along day and night, and the heart is fried, it is not far from hate. Therefore, most of the jealous people are people around them, and sometimes they are their closest friends. There are many such cases. A woman was hurt by her best friend. The motive was that her best friend's family had better economic conditions than herself. Seeing her financial autonomy, she was secretly angry. Although she often received support from each other, she was jealous that the snake bit her heart restlessly, so she did something unimaginable. I remember Bai Yang wrote in the book ugly Chinese that a jealous person sees a lady who looks like an immortal and her teeth itch. But one day it was said that she was ruined by a car accident. The jealous snake in her heart was like a dry rope. People with strong vanity are most likely to be jealous, and scholars are most likely to be jealous. Like emperor attian, who loved art very much, he envied poets, painters and artists because they surpassed him in these aspects. The most common is that among colleagues, the talent and promotion of one side will stab them, and the more they know each other, the stronger their jealousy. As Bacon said, "one can allow strangers to prosper, but can't tolerate the rise of people around him." "Jealousy doesn't know how to rest." It is like a snake, entrenched in people's hearts, but you should always be alert to its wanton behavior, control it with compassion and reason, and can't let it secretly destroy all the beauty of the world.

Jealousy is like a poisonous snake. It usually hides in people's heart. If it meets a certain environment, it will grind its teeth and suck blood from others and kill people. The reason why I compare jealousy to a poisonous snake is not new. I remember when I was a child, I heard the story of the fight between man and snake. It was said that there was a kind of snake called cock snake, which had a red crown as beautiful as a cock. This snake is naturally jealous. Whenever it meets someone taller than itself, it likes to compete with others. So it straightens its body, holds its head high, raises its crown, and does its ferocity. At this time, if you want to get away, there is only one way to deal with this guy, that is to take off your shoes and throw them into the sky. You can slip away while the snake is competing with the shoes. Childhood stories do not need to be verified. But thinking about this story tells us a way to deal with the world, that is, if you meet a guy with jealousy, you can avoid being hurt as long as you take out your "bottom" things. But in life, there are many times when you can't be afraid of jealous people. What's more, you don't know when the snake dormant in people's heart will wake up and attack. Just like Huang Yang, a graduate student at Fudan University, who never expected to be poisoned by his classmates and roommates because of jealousy, his young life will always be fixed at the age of 27. Some people speculate that they are jealous, but the school denies that the reason is that they are not in the same major and there is no competition. In fact, this statement lacks psychological basis. Jealousy is a negative psychological state. Even if a person is inferior to others in one aspect, such as career, love, talent or Scholarship... It may make people jealous. Although others are not necessarily better than themselves on the whole, jealousy is a sleepy snake. It will not be rational. It peeps into the world with its own gray eyes, Naturally, the color of others has become the biggest obstacle in its heart, so it is nervous and ready to move, so it sets up clips and trips under the smiling face; After a warm handshake, kick the stomach and stab the knife. Envy, jealousy and hatred are the gradual evolution of human psychology. If you pass by in a hurry and admire the achievements or brilliance of others, you will be in peace; If you are in contact with your appearance and don't adjust yourself, envy becomes jealousy; If jealousy cannot be dispelled in the heart, and the distance cannot be opened, get along day and night, and the heart is fried, it is not far from hate. Therefore, most of the jealous people are people around them, and sometimes they are their closest friends. There are many such cases. A woman was hurt by her best friend. The motive was that her best friend's family had better economic conditions than herself. Seeing her financial autonomy, she was secretly angry. Although she often received support from each other, she was jealous that the snake bit her heart restlessly, so she did something unimaginable. I remember Bai Yang wrote in the book ugly Chinese that a jealous person sees a lady who looks like an immortal and her teeth itch. But one day it was said that she was ruined by a car accident. The jealous snake in her heart was like a dry rope. People with strong vanity are most likely to be jealous, and scholars are most likely to be jealous. Like emperor attian, who loved art very much, he envied poets, painters and artists because they surpassed him in these aspects. The most common is that among colleagues, the talent and promotion of one side will stab them, and the more they know each other, the stronger their jealousy. As Bacon said, "one can allow strangers to prosper, but can't tolerate the rise of people around him." "Jealousy doesn't know how to rest." It is like a snake, entrenched in people's hearts, but you should always be alert to its wanton behavior, control it with compassion and reason, and can't let it secretly destroy all the beauty of the world.