I have read a report about language violence. The mother of a child often uses verbal violence against her child, which eventually leads to her child's depression and suicide. The mother's mantra is: why don't you die. When the child makes a mistake, the mother will say, "you can't even answer such a simple question. Why don't you die?" The child accidentally broke a bowl. His mother opened her mouth and scolded, "you only know to eat all day and can't do anything. Why do you say you're still alive?" Slowly, she found that the child's words were less and less, and the whole person was more and more lonely. He couldn't help complaining: "he's so eccentric and doesn't know who he is." The child became more and more silent. Finally one night, he chose to jump off the roof. Afterwards, the police investigated and found a diary. Basically, every diary has his mother's complaints about him. He wrote on the last page: I'm really dead. Mom, you'll be happier in the future. The speaker is careless and the listener is intentional. You never know the weight of a sentence. two I have a friend whose last name is Zhou. When Miss Zhou first got married, she got along very badly with her mother-in-law and had a quarrel in the middle. The family didn't stop until they learned to control their emotions and communicate well. Miss Zhou has a violent temper and her mother-in-law is also acute, so they are easy to get excited when they encounter problems. Once, my mother-in-law gave her daughter who had just reached six months to drink sugar water. When Miss Zhou saw this picture, she was in a hurry and said, "how can you feed the child? The child can't drink this. I don't know! Don't eat for the child in the future." As soon as my mother-in-law heard this, her whole face pulled down. "I give this to my children. What's the matter? Who says I can't eat it." The two argued endlessly about the child. There are countless small things like this. In the long run, Miss Zhou is tired, her mother-in-law is tired, and her husband in the middle is even more tired. In fact, both of them are for the good of their children. If they communicate well, how can they quarrel all the time? Some people are at a loss as soon as they encounter problems, often because they can't communicate well, which leads to the aggravation of the problems until they can't be retained. There is a sentence in the key dialogue: "most of the things that affect life, if you study them carefully, you will find that they are caused by poor communication." Being able to communicate effectively is a powerful ability. Think about it. It's true. Sometimes, when we get along with friends, it is the words of concern, but the export has become a complaint. Unknowingly, the relationship between the two is getting farther and farther. To get along with children, I wanted to teach children to do their homework. When I was accidentally childish, I opened my mouth as "how stupid". A loving thing has become a "shadow" in children's hearts because of poor communication. three There are many people who open their mouths and hurt others. They always say that they have low EQ and can't speak. It is a kind of quality and accomplishment to make people listen. If you open your mouth and hurt others, you will only expose your low quality. Once, when I was waiting for the bus at the bus stop, I met a mother and daughter who were losing their temper. The daughter is about eight or nine years old, carrying a bag in her hand and crying constantly. Mother scolded and scolded on one side. When it came to urgency, she even wanted to hit her. From my mother's words, I heard the reason for my temper. The reason is that when her daughter eats, she only cares about herself. When walking in the back, I didn't wait for my mother to stay in the back. At this time, we should really educate our daughter. But what mother said with her mouth open was very hot. The mother has been complaining about her daughter's lack of filial piety. She only knows to play games all day and doesn't think of herself when she eats. She is heartless and heartless. She even said that her daughter was a vampire. Like her husband, both came to collect debts. One day, she was so tired that they would be happy. These words are harsh to the ears of an outsider, and the scolded little girl must be even more sad in her heart. Education is a technical job. Sometimes when words are too heavy, they are not teaching, but hurting people. The impact of such verbal harm on children is immeasurable. There will always be all kinds of contradictions in life. Some small contradictions should have become the seasoning of life, but you turn them into knives that poke into other people's hearts. There is hostility in your heart, and your words will be thorny. I have already experienced the pain. Why infect others with the "pain" and hurt others and myself? It's better to talk well and embrace life with the best kindness.

I have read a report about language violence. The mother of a child often uses verbal violence against her child, which eventually leads to her child's depression and suicide. The mother's mantra is: why don't you die. When the child makes a mistake, the mother will say, "you can't even answer such a simple question. Why don't you die?" The child accidentally broke a bowl. His mother opened her mouth and scolded, "you only know to eat all day and can't do anything. Why do you say you're still alive?" Slowly, she found that the child's words were less and less, and the whole person was more and more lonely. He couldn't help complaining: "he's so eccentric and doesn't know who he is." The child became more and more silent. Finally one night, he chose to jump off the roof. Afterwards, the police investigated and found a diary. Basically, every diary has his mother's complaints about him. He wrote on the last page: I'm really dead. Mom, you'll be happier in the future. The speaker is careless and the listener is intentional. You never know the weight of a sentence. two I have a friend whose last name is Zhou. When Miss Zhou first got married, she got along very badly with her mother-in-law and had a quarrel in the middle. The family didn't stop until they learned to control their emotions and communicate well. Miss Zhou has a violent temper and her mother-in-law is also acute, so they are easy to get excited when they encounter problems. Once, my mother-in-law gave her daughter who had just reached six months to drink sugar water. When Miss Zhou saw this picture, she was in a hurry and said, "how can you feed the child? The child can't drink this. I don't know! Don't eat for the child in the future." As soon as my mother-in-law heard this, her whole face pulled down. "I give this to my children. What's the matter? Who says I can't eat it." The two argued endlessly about the child. There are countless small things like this. In the long run, Miss Zhou is tired, her mother-in-law is tired, and her husband in the middle is even more tired. In fact, both of them are for the good of their children. If they communicate well, how can they quarrel all the time? Some people are at a loss as soon as they encounter problems, often because they can't communicate well, which leads to the aggravation of the problems until they can't be retained. There is a sentence in the key dialogue: "most of the things that affect life, if you study them carefully, you will find that they are caused by poor communication." Being able to communicate effectively is a powerful ability. Think about it. It's true. Sometimes, when we get along with friends, it is the words of concern, but the export has become a complaint. Unknowingly, the relationship between the two is getting farther and farther. To get along with children, I wanted to teach children to do their homework. When I was accidentally childish, I opened my mouth as "how stupid". A loving thing has become a "shadow" in children's hearts because of poor communication. three There are many people who open their mouths and hurt others. They always say that they have low EQ and can't speak. It is a kind of quality and accomplishment to make people listen. If you open your mouth and hurt others, you will only expose your low quality. Once, when I was waiting for the bus at the bus stop, I met a mother and daughter who were losing their temper. The daughter is about eight or nine years old, carrying a bag in her hand and crying constantly. Mother scolded and scolded on one side. When it came to urgency, she even wanted to hit her. From my mother's words, I heard the reason for my temper. The reason is that when her daughter eats, she only cares about herself. When walking in the back, I didn't wait for my mother to stay in the back. At this time, we should really educate our daughter. But what mother said with her mouth open was very hot. The mother has been complaining about her daughter's lack of filial piety. She only knows to play games all day and doesn't think of herself when she eats. She is heartless and heartless. She even said that her daughter was a vampire. Like her husband, both came to collect debts. One day, she was so tired that they would be happy. These words are harsh to the ears of an outsider, and the scolded little girl must be even more sad in her heart. Education is a technical job. Sometimes when words are too heavy, they are not teaching, but hurting people. The impact of such verbal harm on children is immeasurable. There will always be all kinds of contradictions in life. Some small contradictions should have become the seasoning of life, but you turn them into knives that poke into other people's hearts. There is hostility in your heart, and your words will be thorny. I have already experienced the pain. Why infect others with the "pain" and hurt others and myself? It's better to talk well and embrace life with the best kindness.