A few days ago, I was doing my hair in the barber shop downstairs. The boss's surname was Luo. He was just in his early thirties. He was usually a very enthusiastic person. Somehow, he looked listless that day. Even an old customer like me didn't bother to say hello. I smiled and reminded him, "I'm going to the party later. Are you so absent-minded to break my hair?" Xiao Luo smiled bitterly, shook his spirits and said, "it's all the trouble caused by the party!" It turned out that when he first studied barber, he met another boy who was also an apprentice. They talked very well and agreed to go out together in the future, at least to start a business in the provincial capital. Two years later, they really came to the provincial capital together and opened a barber shop together. It was not so easy to start a business in a different place. In the first half of the year, almost no customers came to the door and couldn't make money. However, they couldn't spend less on rent and other expenses. When they were poorest, they only ate instant noodles for a week in a row. Later, Ronaldinho had the idea of backing out. He said that with his own skills, if he returned to his hometown to start a business, where would he need to suffer like this? When he was ill, no one took care of him. When he was sad, he had to bear it. There was no familiar face walking on the street. It's better to go back. There are at least family members and familiar circles of friends there. Maybe they can't make a lot of money, but they will never be reduced to the point where they can only eat conveniently. So, Xiao Luo came back. With the support of his family, with the current barber shop, the business is not so hot, but it is enough to solve the problem of clothing and food for a family of three. He is also happy. Just yesterday, the friends who worked together in those years came back and asked Xiao Luo out to meet. After a meal, Xiao Luo's self satisfaction was shattered: That year, after Xiao Luo left, his friends continued to stick to it and ate instant noodles intermittently for more than half a year. The business was still depressed. He simply closed the shop and studied with famous teachers again. At first, he had to pay tuition fees. Later, he could get 35 yuan for a haircut. Later, his salary was second only to the master. Finally, he came out and opened a shop again. He spent five years. Today, my friend has two branches in the provincial capital and has already bought a house and a car. After telling his friend's story, Xiao Luo sighed and said, "if I didn't come back in those years, I must be better than him now!" I laughed and joked: "people have chewed instant noodles for more than half a year. You've only chewed it for a week and become a deserter. Who's to blame?" In those years, my best friend twig liked a person. They work in the same company. The boy is not tall, but he has thick eyebrows and big eyes. He has strong working ability and is very decent in dealing with people, which is deeply appreciated by the supervisor. At that time, twig liked the boy, and the boy also expressed a good impression on her. They often take a walk around the lake in the park after work, and they always have endless topics. Just as their relationship gradually warmed up, Xiaozhi's mother strongly opposed it, because the boy's hometown was in the countryside and there was no house in the city. "This guy is nice. If he has a house, I won't stop you from falling in love." Mother said to twig. "What's wrong with not having a house? In the future, I can fight with him and there will be one sooner or later." Twig said stubbornly. "It's really easy to say. Look at what life Xiaoli is living now!" The mother's reminder made the twig silent. Xiaoli is a girl from her neighbor's family. She married a young man without a house despite the opposition of her family. Now her children are five years old, and the three of her family still live in her mother's house. Xiaoli, who used to like to dress up, now goes to the night market every day to sell small food. She looks much older than her peers, and she is reluctant to buy a slightly better dress, Because I have to save money to buy a house Twig finally chose to give up this relationship and left the company. She married a man with a house, but the man was not so happy for her. Twig meets his first love again because he wants to work in a high-end residential area. He happens to meet him coming down from upstairs, followed by his lover, children and a puppy. Obviously, he wants to take a walk. That night, twig called me with a little jealousy: "his wife looks very ordinary. If I didn't give up on my own initiative, what would happen to her..." unfortunately, the fate between men and women is a lifetime. If you want too much, it's doomed to no result. In the circle of friends that day, I saw a friend send two photos: The first picture was taken 20 years ago when she graduated from middle school. Eight sisters living in the same dormitory stood on the campus grass arm in arm. They all looked radiant and invincible in youth, The second picture was taken 20 years later. The eight sisters met and returned to the campus that year. It was still the grass, or the position and order when they took pictures that year. When they appeared together again, everyone had more or less vicissitudes on their faces, but to varying degrees. In these two photos, the host highlighted a person's face and said with emotion: why, she looks the youngest and slimmest! Looking at that face carefully, she is not only young, but also full of vitality. It seems that years have left no trace on her! I can't help commenting under the photo: must she live a very comfortable life? The friend replied: no! It turned out that they were excellent sisters and insisted on running together for half an hour every day. After leaving the campus, others gradually gave up such persistence. Only she ran for 20 years, rain or shine. On the day of the party, she got up half an hour early and went to catch the bus after running. She really lived and ran. Her life was not smooth sailing. At first, her husband and wife were laid off. Later, she suffered from gastric cancer. At the worst of her life, she still insisted on running. She said that running can make people forget their troubles and regain the courage to face difficulties. Now, her life has finally come out of the trough. After the story of her tenacious struggle with the disease and persisting in running for more than 20 years was reported by the local TV station, she has become a local celebrity, and many people chase after her. Therefore, there is a special scenery in the morning of the small town, that is, a morning running team composed of more than 200 people, and the leader is her! Let's take another look at my friend. Because she likes playing mahjong and sitting still for a long time, her weight has increased by more than 30 kg. However, the person who is just 40 years old is panting after climbing a building. She can't help sighing: "if I insist on running like her, I won't make my body so bad..." when she was young, she agreed to run together for another day, If you run one day less, you won't see any change. After a long time, the gap between each other from appearance to mental state is becoming larger and larger, which is the difference between giving up and persistence. In daily life, around us, we can always hear a lot of people sigh like this: if I persisted in those years, my career must be developed today; If I had married that man, the quality of marriage would not be so bad; If I had listened to the teacher earlier, I might have been admitted to a famous University There is no turning back in life. You have so many ifs, but you are reluctant to take action. Why do you want results? Now, if you have many life plans, but continue to "if", you will miss more opportunities. When you are really old and weak, you can only rely on countless "ifs" to support your memories, which is the worst result.

A few days ago, I was doing my hair in the barber shop downstairs. The boss's surname was Luo. He was just in his early thirties. He was usually a very enthusiastic person. Somehow, he looked listless that day. Even an old customer like me didn't bother to say hello. I smiled and reminded him, "I'm going to the party later. Are you so absent-minded to break my hair?" Xiao Luo smiled bitterly, shook his spirits and said, "it's all the trouble caused by the party!" It turned out that when he first studied barber, he met another boy who was also an apprentice. They talked very well and agreed to go out together in the future, at least to start a business in the provincial capital. Two years later, they really came to the provincial capital together and opened a barber shop together. It was not so easy to start a business in a different place. In the first half of the year, almost no customers came to the door and couldn't make money. However, they couldn't spend less on rent and other expenses. When they were poorest, they only ate instant noodles for a week in a row. Later, Ronaldinho had the idea of backing out. He said that with his own skills, if he returned to his hometown to start a business, where would he need to suffer like this? When he was ill, no one took care of him. When he was sad, he had to bear it. There was no familiar face walking on the street. It's better to go back. There are at least family members and familiar circles of friends there. Maybe they can't make a lot of money, but they will never be reduced to the point where they can only eat conveniently. So, Xiao Luo came back. With the support of his family, with the current barber shop, the business is not so hot, but it is enough to solve the problem of clothing and food for a family of three. He is also happy. Just yesterday, the friends who worked together in those years came back and asked Xiao Luo out to meet. After a meal, Xiao Luo's self satisfaction was shattered: That year, after Xiao Luo left, his friends continued to stick to it and ate instant noodles intermittently for more than half a year. The business was still depressed. He simply closed the shop and studied with famous teachers again. At first, he had to pay tuition fees. Later, he could get 35 yuan for a haircut. Later, his salary was second only to the master. Finally, he came out and opened a shop again. He spent five years. Today, my friend has two branches in the provincial capital and has already bought a house and a car. After telling his friend's story, Xiao Luo sighed and said, "if I didn't come back in those years, I must be better than him now!" I laughed and joked: "people have chewed instant noodles for more than half a year. You've only chewed it for a week and become a deserter. Who's to blame?" In those years, my best friend twig liked a person. They work in the same company. The boy is not tall, but he has thick eyebrows and big eyes. He has strong working ability and is very decent in dealing with people, which is deeply appreciated by the supervisor. At that time, twig liked the boy, and the boy also expressed a good impression on her. They often take a walk around the lake in the park after work, and they always have endless topics. Just as their relationship gradually warmed up, Xiaozhi's mother strongly opposed it, because the boy's hometown was in the countryside and there was no house in the city. "This guy is nice. If he has a house, I won't stop you from falling in love." Mother said to twig. "What's wrong with not having a house? In the future, I can fight with him and there will be one sooner or later." Twig said stubbornly. "It's really easy to say. Look at what life Xiaoli is living now!" The mother's reminder made the twig silent. Xiaoli is a girl from her neighbor's family. She married a young man without a house despite the opposition of her family. Now her children are five years old, and the three of her family still live in her mother's house. Xiaoli, who used to like to dress up, now goes to the night market every day to sell small food. She looks much older than her peers, and she is reluctant to buy a slightly better dress, Because I have to save money to buy a house Twig finally chose to give up this relationship and left the company. She married a man with a house, but the man was not so happy for her. Twig meets his first love again because he wants to work in a high-end residential area. He happens to meet him coming down from upstairs, followed by his lover, children and a puppy. Obviously, he wants to take a walk. That night, twig called me with a little jealousy: "his wife looks very ordinary. If I didn't give up on my own initiative, what would happen to her..." unfortunately, the fate between men and women is a lifetime. If you want too much, it's doomed to no result. In the circle of friends that day, I saw a friend send two photos: The first picture was taken 20 years ago when she graduated from middle school. Eight sisters living in the same dormitory stood on the campus grass arm in arm. They all looked radiant and invincible in youth, The second picture was taken 20 years later. The eight sisters met and returned to the campus that year. It was still the grass, or the position and order when they took pictures that year. When they appeared together again, everyone had more or less vicissitudes on their faces, but to varying degrees. In these two photos, the host highlighted a person's face and said with emotion: why, she looks the youngest and slimmest! Looking at that face carefully, she is not only young, but also full of vitality. It seems that years have left no trace on her! I can't help commenting under the photo: must she live a very comfortable life? The friend replied: no! It turned out that they were excellent sisters and insisted on running together for half an hour every day. After leaving the campus, others gradually gave up such persistence. Only she ran for 20 years, rain or shine. On the day of the party, she got up half an hour early and went to catch the bus after running. She really lived and ran. Her life was not smooth sailing. At first, her husband and wife were laid off. Later, she suffered from gastric cancer. At the worst of her life, she still insisted on running. She said that running can make people forget their troubles and regain the courage to face difficulties. Now, her life has finally come out of the trough. After the story of her tenacious struggle with the disease and persisting in running for more than 20 years was reported by the local TV station, she has become a local celebrity, and many people chase after her. Therefore, there is a special scenery in the morning of the small town, that is, a morning running team composed of more than 200 people, and the leader is her! Let's take another look at my friend. Because she likes playing mahjong and sitting still for a long time, her weight has increased by more than 30 kg. However, the person who is just 40 years old is panting after climbing a building. She can't help sighing: "if I insist on running like her, I won't make my body so bad..." when she was young, she agreed to run together for another day, If you run one day less, you won't see any change. After a long time, the gap between each other from appearance to mental state is becoming larger and larger, which is the difference between giving up and persistence. In daily life, around us, we can always hear a lot of people sigh like this: if I persisted in those years, my career must be developed today; If I had married that man, the quality of marriage would not be so bad; If I had listened to the teacher earlier, I might have been admitted to a famous University There is no turning back in life. You have so many ifs, but you are reluctant to take action. Why do you want results? Now, if you have many life plans, but continue to "if", you will miss more opportunities. When you are really old and weak, you can only rely on countless "ifs" to support your memories, which is the worst result.