01 People's level is not determined by social class and wealth, nor by region and birth background. What determines a person's level is their experience, experience, vision, values, pattern, way of controlling time and interest in life. Because there are different levels, there are different circles. People in each circle have unique group characteristics in that circle. The superposition of groups makes each circle bring its own energy field, the high-level circle brings its own positive energy field, and the low-level circle brings its own dark negative energy field. If you want your life to be full of sunshine, please stay away from the negative energy field around you and those low-level circles around you! In the first few years of his marriage, due to taking care of his parents, Amu moved to the suburbs to live with the elderly. It was the suburb of a second tier city. The village was fairly rich. The young people in the village lived in Western-style buildings, cars and iPhones. The economic life is no different from that of the city. The people in the village are also hospitable, but amu has always been unable to integrate into the circle of the village. Ah Mu said, I never label people with wealth and class, but in some circles, even if you try to adapt, you still can't integrate. Forcibly integrating will only make each other very embarrassed. Many people in the village like to take their children to other people's homes at night. They often stay for two hours. There is nothing specific. They just comment on the gossip of each family and consume time. A mu needs to accompany her children wholeheartedly at night, or think about work, or read and write articles. For her, the time in the evening is very valuable, which is used to add value or have a full rest. If her time is occupied by worthless things for a long time, she will feel very angry. Moreover, she thinks it is also very impolite to occupy other people's time for a long time. Therefore, she never took her children to visit her host and west house. For a long time, few people will visit her house. Naturally, she is happy and quiet. She sometimes chatted with the young people in the village, but later she found that once she chatted, her scalp became numb and her five outlooks were subversive. She didn't understand that she was young and should struggle, but every day she focused all her energy on who added a new dress, what bad things her father-in-law and mother-in-law did, how much money her husband earned... These other people's lives. She doesn't understand why there are so many complaints at the best age. She always complains that her family is unhappy, that her work is too hard, that her man is a counselor and that she has no good life. Ah Mu doesn't like to talk about other people's lives behind their backs, nor does he like the way of life of complaining about others. In addition, he really doesn't agree with their values. Therefore, he doesn't have any common topics. The atmosphere of communication often falls to the freezing point and is extremely embarrassed. So she stayed at home most of the time, reading and writing. Therefore, for a long time, she has lived such a life that she can wear high-grade suits, draw exquisite makeup, attend formal occasions and introduce herself generously and appropriately in fluent English; It can also hide in a pile of people dressed in expensive but inappropriate clothes and coated with inferior cosmetics, as if it were as low as dust. In the eyes of the villagers, she is an alternative. In her eyes, that circle is also a group that cannot be integrated. Compared with the short-term family, it is not necessarily full of fireworks and happiness, and paying attention to international trends is not necessarily full of groundless worries. It doesn't matter whether the circle is high or low, but it's just different in cognition and lifestyle. When you have been to a higher place and seen the world farther away, you will pay more attention to your own growth than those trivial things. 02 Many times, the lower the level, the easier it is to give up. They don't grow, work hard, change. Complaining and teasing are the way they judge the world. Whose daughter-in-law is exquisitely dressed, they will say that if she dresses like this, she must steal a man outside. Whose men can make money, they will say, oh, I don't know if there are small ones outside? Whose mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a harmonious relationship. They will say that closing the door is not necessarily noisy. What kind of clothes to install. Who has a good life, they will say, Feng Shui turns, who hasn't had a two-year smooth wind and water, see how many years he can live. In their eyes, their own life is unhappy, but they are more willing to know that the life of others is worse than their own. Therefore, they will never let go of all kinds of commonplace and trivial things in other people's homes. They have high enthusiasm for this, talk with relish, add fuel and vinegar, and spread falsehood. There's a big one: look, all families in the world are so happy and deserve it. It's also normal self comfort for our family to live like this. They are paralyzing their own lives by imagining the chicken feathers of other people's family life. They are always eager for discord between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sister-in-law war, unfilial children and cheating men in all their homes. In this way, they can compare their "happiness" that is not too bad, waste increasingly greasy years and claim that they could have a better future. 03 Dali is a rich second generation I know. Years ago, I joined a high-end golf club with the original intention of "exchanging skills and meeting friends with the ball". As it is a high-end club, all the participants are naturally rich and powerful people. After one month, vigorously and resolutely quit. Angrily told me: "originally thought it was a high-end communication, but unexpectedly it was a gathering of a bunch of low-level people." After several parties and three rounds of drinking, the original dignified gentleman began to show his ugly appearance. Some people began to talk about their erotic love history, some showed off how they had exploited the loopholes in the market, some began to criticize how nonsense the current society is, and some even summoned their well-known "Call Girl" for everyone to observe. What is chilling is that after these crazy antics, many people cater to and applaud! In them, they can't see the self-discipline, foresight, interest in life and social responsibility that should have been an elite group. A person's level has nothing to do with money, social status and class. Some people, even though they are in rough tea and cloth clothes and have a tight life, still have good cultivation, self-discipline life, upward attitude and open-minded life. They warm the people around them like the sun. Some people, even though they are rich and rich in gold and jade, can hardly have courage and magnanimity, have a dark heart, are used to tricks and haggle over every detail. They attack the people around them like a malignant tumor. Low level people have their own dark power, which may be the negative energy of complaining about others, the contempt for social rules, morality and human relations, and the thorough despair of the world. Once this power is combined into a group, it will be even more destructive, destroying your mind, smoothing your fighting spirit, and making you feel that your life is as chaotic and painful as the darkness transmitted by this group. Once you enter such a negative energy field, your heart will be shrouded in negative energy. You will give up your growth, your pursuit and the three views you originally built. Your heart will become dark, and the external sunshine will not shine into your heart at all. 04 Leave the low-level circles around you and the groups that transmit negative energy to you. 1、 Always complaining attitude The attitude of always complaining is a common feature of low-level people. They are always complaining: When the work is not satisfactory, complain that the boss is an asshole; When life is not going well, complain that your husband is a soft egg and your father-in-law is a evil spirit; When you can't earn money, complain about the chaos and darkness of the external environment; When you see other people's business going smoothly, complain about the injustice of the world. Why not give yourself good resources. For low-level people, they are always waiting for resources. They believe that as long as resources come, their life will be better. Complaint is the vortex of negative energy field. Once involved, it will be assimilated. You will lose your mind, lose your reason, full of complaints and can't see the sunshine in life. 2、 It is difficult to have a broad pattern People with a broad pattern are like a beacon on the sea. They can give you a strategically advantageous position, point out the maze, always tell you the direction you can move forward and encourage you to become a better yourself. People with a broad pattern see their future goals, so they will not be trapped in the trivialities of current life, nor will they haggle over the current petty profits. Low level people, because they don't have a broad pattern, have only daily necessities, only family members, only current interests, and can't see the future. Their current life is all they have. It's rare to be open-minded and haggle over every detail. When you haven't read enough books, walked enough roads and experienced enough stories, when you haven't seen more different scenery and stood higher, you will never see further scenery. You will never understand so many reasonable levels of life that already exist. 3、 Abandoned self growth Low level people attach too much of their happiness to others, look forward to and wait for others to give alms to themselves, and beg for mercy on life. They give up self growth and the opportunity to make themselves better. They don't understand that all the resources are won by themselves; They are also unwilling to accept that all beauty will appear only after they change themselves for the better. They repeat themselves day after day in complaining and wasting time. Once attracted by their negative energy field, you will refuse to grow, fear change, and numb yourself in self abandonment. 4、 Ambiguous three views Low level people are often confused. On the one hand, they complain about social injustice and toxic system, on the other hand, they ignore social morality and trample on human relations; On the one hand, they are penetrating into social phenomena, critical of world affairs, full of benevolence, righteousness and morality, and on the other hand, they are shouting that please give me unlimited money, supreme rights and incomparably beautiful women. On the one hand, they are full of hatred towards the society, on the other hand, they are happy to enjoy the security provided by the society. They don't know how to be grateful. On the one hand, they enjoy social welfare, and on the other hand, they criticize it. With such a group, their negative energy field will destroy your three views, and your original cognition will be subverted. Like them, you feel that society is dark, human nature is dangerous, and the world is so turbid. You can either give up your efforts and listen to fate; Or hate everything, cruel and low self-esteem. Please stay away from the negative energy field around you and those low-level circles around you! Strive to be yourself, strive to pursue a higher level of life, build your own positive energy field, and always maintain a warm and upward attitude!

01 People's level is not determined by social class and wealth, nor by region and birth background. What determines a person's level is their experience, experience, vision, values, pattern, way of controlling time and interest in life. Because there are different levels, there are different circles. People in each circle have unique group characteristics in that circle. The superposition of groups makes each circle bring its own energy field, the high-level circle brings its own positive energy field, and the low-level circle brings its own dark negative energy field. If you want your life to be full of sunshine, please stay away from the negative energy field around you and those low-level circles around you! In the first few years of his marriage, due to taking care of his parents, Amu moved to the suburbs to live with the elderly. It was the suburb of a second tier city. The village was fairly rich. The young people in the village lived in Western-style buildings, cars and iPhones. The economic life is no different from that of the city. The people in the village are also hospitable, but amu has always been unable to integrate into the circle of the village. Ah Mu said, I never label people with wealth and class, but in some circles, even if you try to adapt, you still can't integrate. Forcibly integrating will only make each other very embarrassed. Many people in the village like to take their children to other people's homes at night. They often stay for two hours. There is nothing specific. They just comment on the gossip of each family and consume time. A mu needs to accompany her children wholeheartedly at night, or think about work, or read and write articles. For her, the time in the evening is very valuable, which is used to add value or have a full rest. If her time is occupied by worthless things for a long time, she will feel very angry. Moreover, she thinks it is also very impolite to occupy other people's time for a long time. Therefore, she never took her children to visit her host and west house. For a long time, few people will visit her house. Naturally, she is happy and quiet. She sometimes chatted with the young people in the village, but later she found that once she chatted, her scalp became numb and her five outlooks were subversive. She didn't understand that she was young and should struggle, but every day she focused all her energy on who added a new dress, what bad things her father-in-law and mother-in-law did, how much money her husband earned... These other people's lives. She doesn't understand why there are so many complaints at the best age. She always complains that her family is unhappy, that her work is too hard, that her man is a counselor and that she has no good life. Ah Mu doesn't like to talk about other people's lives behind their backs, nor does he like the way of life of complaining about others. In addition, he really doesn't agree with their values. Therefore, he doesn't have any common topics. The atmosphere of communication often falls to the freezing point and is extremely embarrassed. So she stayed at home most of the time, reading and writing. Therefore, for a long time, she has lived such a life that she can wear high-grade suits, draw exquisite makeup, attend formal occasions and introduce herself generously and appropriately in fluent English; It can also hide in a pile of people dressed in expensive but inappropriate clothes and coated with inferior cosmetics, as if it were as low as dust. In the eyes of the villagers, she is an alternative. In her eyes, that circle is also a group that cannot be integrated. Compared with the short-term family, it is not necessarily full of fireworks and happiness, and paying attention to international trends is not necessarily full of groundless worries. It doesn't matter whether the circle is high or low, but it's just different in cognition and lifestyle. When you have been to a higher place and seen the world farther away, you will pay more attention to your own growth than those trivial things. 02 Many times, the lower the level, the easier it is to give up. They don't grow, work hard, change. Complaining and teasing are the way they judge the world. Whose daughter-in-law is exquisitely dressed, they will say that if she dresses like this, she must steal a man outside. Whose men can make money, they will say, oh, I don't know if there are small ones outside? Whose mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a harmonious relationship. They will say that closing the door is not necessarily noisy. What kind of clothes to install. Who has a good life, they will say, Feng Shui turns, who hasn't had a two-year smooth wind and water, see how many years he can live. In their eyes, their own life is unhappy, but they are more willing to know that the life of others is worse than their own. Therefore, they will never let go of all kinds of commonplace and trivial things in other people's homes. They have high enthusiasm for this, talk with relish, add fuel and vinegar, and spread falsehood. There's a big one: look, all families in the world are so happy and deserve it. It's also normal self comfort for our family to live like this. They are paralyzing their own lives by imagining the chicken feathers of other people's family life. They are always eager for discord between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sister-in-law war, unfilial children and cheating men in all their homes. In this way, they can compare their "happiness" that is not too bad, waste increasingly greasy years and claim that they could have a better future. 03 Dali is a rich second generation I know. Years ago, I joined a high-end golf club with the original intention of "exchanging skills and meeting friends with the ball". As it is a high-end club, all the participants are naturally rich and powerful people. After one month, vigorously and resolutely quit. Angrily told me: "originally thought it was a high-end communication, but unexpectedly it was a gathering of a bunch of low-level people." After several parties and three rounds of drinking, the original dignified gentleman began to show his ugly appearance. Some people began to talk about their erotic love history, some showed off how they had exploited the loopholes in the market, some began to criticize how nonsense the current society is, and some even summoned their well-known "Call Girl" for everyone to observe. What is chilling is that after these crazy antics, many people cater to and applaud! In them, they can't see the self-discipline, foresight, interest in life and social responsibility that should have been an elite group. A person's level has nothing to do with money, social status and class. Some people, even though they are in rough tea and cloth clothes and have a tight life, still have good cultivation, self-discipline life, upward attitude and open-minded life. They warm the people around them like the sun. Some people, even though they are rich and rich in gold and jade, can hardly have courage and magnanimity, have a dark heart, are used to tricks and haggle over every detail. They attack the people around them like a malignant tumor. Low level people have their own dark power, which may be the negative energy of complaining about others, the contempt for social rules, morality and human relations, and the thorough despair of the world. Once this power is combined into a group, it will be even more destructive, destroying your mind, smoothing your fighting spirit, and making you feel that your life is as chaotic and painful as the darkness transmitted by this group. Once you enter such a negative energy field, your heart will be shrouded in negative energy. You will give up your growth, your pursuit and the three views you originally built. Your heart will become dark, and the external sunshine will not shine into your heart at all. 04 Leave the low-level circles around you and the groups that transmit negative energy to you. 1、 Always complaining attitude The attitude of always complaining is a common feature of low-level people. They are always complaining: When the work is not satisfactory, complain that the boss is an asshole; When life is not going well, complain that your husband is a soft egg and your father-in-law is a evil spirit; When you can't earn money, complain about the chaos and darkness of the external environment; When you see other people's business going smoothly, complain about the injustice of the world. Why not give yourself good resources. For low-level people, they are always waiting for resources. They believe that as long as resources come, their life will be better. Complaint is the vortex of negative energy field. Once involved, it will be assimilated. You will lose your mind, lose your reason, full of complaints and can't see the sunshine in life. 2、 It is difficult to have a broad pattern People with a broad pattern are like a beacon on the sea. They can give you a strategically advantageous position, point out the maze, always tell you the direction you can move forward and encourage you to become a better yourself. People with a broad pattern see their future goals, so they will not be trapped in the trivialities of current life, nor will they haggle over the current petty profits. Low level people, because they don't have a broad pattern, have only daily necessities, only family members, only current interests, and can't see the future. Their current life is all they have. It's rare to be open-minded and haggle over every detail. When you haven't read enough books, walked enough roads and experienced enough stories, when you haven't seen more different scenery and stood higher, you will never see further scenery. You will never understand so many reasonable levels of life that already exist. 3、 Abandoned self growth Low level people attach too much of their happiness to others, look forward to and wait for others to give alms to themselves, and beg for mercy on life. They give up self growth and the opportunity to make themselves better. They don't understand that all the resources are won by themselves; They are also unwilling to accept that all beauty will appear only after they change themselves for the better. They repeat themselves day after day in complaining and wasting time. Once attracted by their negative energy field, you will refuse to grow, fear change, and numb yourself in self abandonment. 4、 Ambiguous three views Low level people are often confused. On the one hand, they complain about social injustice and toxic system, on the other hand, they ignore social morality and trample on human relations; On the one hand, they are penetrating into social phenomena, critical of world affairs, full of benevolence, righteousness and morality, and on the other hand, they are shouting that please give me unlimited money, supreme rights and incomparably beautiful women. On the one hand, they are full of hatred towards the society, on the other hand, they are happy to enjoy the security provided by the society. They don't know how to be grateful. On the one hand, they enjoy social welfare, and on the other hand, they criticize it. With such a group, their negative energy field will destroy your three views, and your original cognition will be subverted. Like them, you feel that society is dark, human nature is dangerous, and the world is so turbid. You can either give up your efforts and listen to fate; Or hate everything, cruel and low self-esteem. Please stay away from the negative energy field around you and those low-level circles around you! Strive to be yourself, strive to pursue a higher level of life, build your own positive energy field, and always maintain a warm and upward attitude!