Although we have repeatedly stressed that we should not pay too much attention to a person's appearance and ignore his internal quality, we should also realize that a person's name is a brand; A person's image is a business card. Proper dress and dignified appearance are not only respect for others, but also an expression of self maturity. No one has an obligation to discover your inner excellence through a sloppy appearance that even you don't care about yourself. In the winter of 1995, if I couldn't find a job again, it was almost the only choice to go back home. But I was rejected again. I want to go crazy when I think of the interviewer's expression. She said my image didn't match my resume and refused to ask me any more questions. I looked down at my dress. It was obvious that I was despised by her because of my dress. I swear I can use my ability to make her take back her contempt for me. But I didn't get the chance to show my ability. Image is always ahead of ability My landlord, Mrs. salina, is a very demanding middle-aged woman. She stipulated that I must turn off the light and go to bed before 12 o'clock, that I must come out of the bathroom within 10 minutes, that I am not allowed to enter her living room if I am not dressed neatly, that I am not allowed to cook Chinese food in her beautiful kitchen, and that I must wear lipstick when she has guests visiting! I hate the so-called dignity of British women like sharina very much. But everyone said that sharina was the best boarding landlord. I can't see what's good about her. For example, when I fail in many interviews and come back, I won't have anything to eat in the kitchen. And if I go upstairs and make a sound, she will stand at the bedroom door and scold me loudly. I just washed my hair and sat on the bed, reading the recruitment information in the newspaper and eating the bread roll I brought back. This is a violation of sharina's principles. She rushed forward, grabbed my bread and newspaper and shouted in English: you Chinese girl with no quality! Get out of my house! So I spread my hair, wrapped my coat around my pajamas and rushed out of the door. Over the past 25 years, I have been invincible with very beautiful achievements and abilities. No one has ever said that I have no quality. Our family is not poor, but my mother has told me for 25 years that ability is the most important. I can't understand that judging people by their appearance has become a just word here. This is an insult to my 25 year outlook on life! I stormed into a cafe angrily. It was too cold and I was hungry. There are a lot of people in the cafe. The waiter led me to an empty seat with a strange look. It was the only empty seat in the cafe. Opposite me is an old English lady. She looks more exquisite than Sarina. She is as noble and exquisite as Queen Elizabeth. I subconsciously put away my sneakers under my loose pajamas. Then I saw her dress with silk stockings and beautiful high-heeled shoes under her legs. At her age, she still wore such shoes very charming. In many high-end restaurants in Europe, untidy clothes are refused entry. I think the reason why I can come in is probably because I'm wearing a valuable coat. I can't help but temporarily put away my anger and say: give me a cup of hot coffee, thank you. After the waiter walked away, the old lady opposite didn't look at me, but took a note from the side and wrote a line of words to me. It was a very beautiful handwritten English: the bathroom turned on your left rear. I looked up at her. She was drinking coffee in a very elegant posture without looking at me. My embarrassment is hard to explain. For the first time, I feel that I should not be respected. My hair was very messy by the wind, and there was even a little bread crumb next to my nose! Although my coat is of very good quality, my pajamas are lined with it. I looked down on myself for the first time. How disrespectful I am to myself in such a dress, so that others think I don't respect them either. I think of my daily casual clothes when I went to the interview in the afternoon. Should that also be disrespect for a senior manager position? When I returned to my seat, the old lady had left. As a woman, you must be exquisite. This is a woman's dignity. I ran out of the cafe. Sharina was sitting in the living room waiting for me. As soon as she saw me, she told me that I didn't come back until 12:10, so I had to help her clean the lawn tomorrow. I promised her and apologized to her. I found that sharina taught me many equally useful things: going to bed before 12 o'clock can make me energetic the next day, dressing neatly and beautifully can make others respect me first, wearing high heels and using lipstick made me get more help from gentlemen, I began to feel that my self-confidence was not always sufficient and confident, and I no longer want others to judge my ability by looking at my resume. My last interview was the marketing of a major cosmetics company. My decent dress added points to my performance. The exquisite and capable female boss said to me: you are very excellent. Welcome to join us. I didn't expect that my boss was the Old English lady I met in the cafe. She is very famous. She is the sales queen of this cosmetics brand! You must be delicate. It's a woman's dignity. I said to her: Thank you very much. I really thank her very much for her sentence "you must be exquisite as a woman", although she didn't recognize me. Yes, no one has an obligation to discover your inner excellence through a sloppy appearance that even you don't care about yourself. You must be delicate. It's a woman's dignity. I always remember later!

Although we have repeatedly stressed that we should not pay too much attention to a person's appearance and ignore his internal quality, we should also realize that a person's name is a brand; A person's image is a business card. Proper dress and dignified appearance are not only respect for others, but also an expression of self maturity. No one has an obligation to discover your inner excellence through a sloppy appearance that even you don't care about yourself. In the winter of 1995, if I couldn't find a job again, it was almost the only choice to go back home. But I was rejected again. I want to go crazy when I think of the interviewer's expression. She said my image didn't match my resume and refused to ask me any more questions. I looked down at my dress. It was obvious that I was despised by her because of my dress. I swear I can use my ability to make her take back her contempt for me. But I didn't get the chance to show my ability. Image is always ahead of ability My landlord, Mrs. salina, is a very demanding middle-aged woman. She stipulated that I must turn off the light and go to bed before 12 o'clock, that I must come out of the bathroom within 10 minutes, that I am not allowed to enter her living room if I am not dressed neatly, that I am not allowed to cook Chinese food in her beautiful kitchen, and that I must wear lipstick when she has guests visiting! I hate the so-called dignity of British women like sharina very much. But everyone said that sharina was the best boarding landlord. I can't see what's good about her. For example, when I fail in many interviews and come back, I won't have anything to eat in the kitchen. And if I go upstairs and make a sound, she will stand at the bedroom door and scold me loudly. I just washed my hair and sat on the bed, reading the recruitment information in the newspaper and eating the bread roll I brought back. This is a violation of sharina's principles. She rushed forward, grabbed my bread and newspaper and shouted in English: you Chinese girl with no quality! Get out of my house! So I spread my hair, wrapped my coat around my pajamas and rushed out of the door. Over the past 25 years, I have been invincible with very beautiful achievements and abilities. No one has ever said that I have no quality. Our family is not poor, but my mother has told me for 25 years that ability is the most important. I can't understand that judging people by their appearance has become a just word here. This is an insult to my 25 year outlook on life! I stormed into a cafe angrily. It was too cold and I was hungry. There are a lot of people in the cafe. The waiter led me to an empty seat with a strange look. It was the only empty seat in the cafe. Opposite me is an old English lady. She looks more exquisite than Sarina. She is as noble and exquisite as Queen Elizabeth. I subconsciously put away my sneakers under my loose pajamas. Then I saw her dress with silk stockings and beautiful high-heeled shoes under her legs. At her age, she still wore such shoes very charming. In many high-end restaurants in Europe, untidy clothes are refused entry. I think the reason why I can come in is probably because I'm wearing a valuable coat. I can't help but temporarily put away my anger and say: give me a cup of hot coffee, thank you. After the waiter walked away, the old lady opposite didn't look at me, but took a note from the side and wrote a line of words to me. It was a very beautiful handwritten English: the bathroom turned on your left rear. I looked up at her. She was drinking coffee in a very elegant posture without looking at me. My embarrassment is hard to explain. For the first time, I feel that I should not be respected. My hair was very messy by the wind, and there was even a little bread crumb next to my nose! Although my coat is of very good quality, my pajamas are lined with it. I looked down on myself for the first time. How disrespectful I am to myself in such a dress, so that others think I don't respect them either. I think of my daily casual clothes when I went to the interview in the afternoon. Should that also be disrespect for a senior manager position? When I returned to my seat, the old lady had left. As a woman, you must be exquisite. This is a woman's dignity. I ran out of the cafe. Sharina was sitting in the living room waiting for me. As soon as she saw me, she told me that I didn't come back until 12:10, so I had to help her clean the lawn tomorrow. I promised her and apologized to her. I found that sharina taught me many equally useful things: going to bed before 12 o'clock can make me energetic the next day, dressing neatly and beautifully can make others respect me first, wearing high heels and using lipstick made me get more help from gentlemen, I began to feel that my self-confidence was not always sufficient and confident, and I no longer want others to judge my ability by looking at my resume. My last interview was the marketing of a major cosmetics company. My decent dress added points to my performance. The exquisite and capable female boss said to me: you are very excellent. Welcome to join us. I didn't expect that my boss was the Old English lady I met in the cafe. She is very famous. She is the sales queen of this cosmetics brand! You must be delicate. It's a woman's dignity. I said to her: Thank you very much. I really thank her very much for her sentence "you must be exquisite as a woman", although she didn't recognize me. Yes, no one has an obligation to discover your inner excellence through a sloppy appearance that even you don't care about yourself. You must be delicate. It's a woman's dignity. I always remember later!