Wisdom is better hidden than exposed Be a foolish and wise man, hide one's strength and bide one's time, and be wise as a fool; Be a muddle headed smart man, show weakness and sympathy, skillfully hide your strength, don't forget your form when you are proud, and don't be angry or happy; It's rare to be confused about small things, pretend to be confused and ask about the future. Grasp the yardstick of life Leave room for everything and at all times. Don't be too arrogant and forgive people when you are reasonable; To be a man, you should leave yourself a way back. If you don't bet on one person, you should accept it when you see it; Don't offend villains, don't stab people in the back, don't "hit a drowning dog with a stick", and keep your hand in everything. Be careful to sail for ten thousand years To be a man, you should keep a "heart" and make friends for the first time every time; Don't let the villain be the gun maker. Don't give up all your heart and guard against those who take the initiative to help you; Beware of "villains" dressed in friends' coats; Be careful when pouring out your thoughts to others; Not confused by surface phenomena; Don't be greedy for women; The word "caution" is engraved in my heart. A tree has a skin, and a man has a face To give face to others is to give face to yourself; See through, don't point out, it's better to face, take care of face and pave steps for people; Save face for leaders at critical times; Add some sugar to the criticism; "Bow behind your back" is more effective; Be kind to others' embarrassment; Appropriately satisfy the vanity of others, give credit to the leaders, and save face for the sworn enemy; Saving self-esteem is saving face; You can't make mistakes. Misfortune comes from the mouth, and happiness comes from the mouth Be able to speak and talk, and be careful to talk about topics taboo by others; Speak with reservations and avoid unnecessary arguments; Let the advice not go against the ear; Pay attention to discretion when joking, and pay attention to the occasion when speaking; Replace "no" with "yes"; Seize the opportunity to sell yourself; Make up for mistakes in time; Elegant conversation is the best etiquette. A man can only be round if he can be Learn to hide emotions; "Subsection" should not be underestimated; Let go when it's time to let go; Look at problems from the perspective of others; In case of strength, it will be circuitous and take retreat as advance; Losses should be eaten in the light; Timely silence is a wise act; Don't miss one in ten thousand opportunities; Keep your boss's space; Don't express your heart at will; Concentrate on one thing at a time; Cherish every second of your life. It's not strange to be polite Modesty and "courtesy" are good for success; Talk less about your pride, applaud others and give others a sense of superiority; Three people must have my teacher. Don't show your edge too much. Listen to the old man more; Do not enjoy glory alone, humility can resolve contradictions, do not care too much about praise; Make a good first impression; Be polite to others; The role of politeness cannot be ignored; Face everyone with a smile; Engrave the word "de" in your heart. To be "ZHUGE Liang in advance" Being a man requires a sense of advance; Usually burn incense more, and someone will help you when you are in a hurry; Associate with people who are temporarily out of power; Loss is a blessing; Think from another angle; More calculations and more victories, see micro knowledge; Think what your boss thinks, listen to the implication, and learn to cover up your own light; Do not do business with acquaintances; Develop the habit of saving money; Health is more important than money. Octahedral Linglong Lutong Contacts are the lifeblood of success. Make friends with people who are better than yourself; Do enough human kindness and remember other people's names; "Climbing relatives and pulling friends" to win popularity; Set up your friends' files and focus on key people; Helping others sincerely and being honest can be entrusted with great things. Be able to bend and stretch, and the word "forbearance" comes first A man must learn to bow his head and take a step back; Sometimes we should be thicker skinned and regard losing face as a kind of exercise; Don't be serious about small things, embrace your "enemy" in public and vent your anger on small things; "Bow your head" to admit your mistake is not low. A hero should eat "immediate loss"; Don't be swayed by gossip, use criticism as a mirror and be patient. Water does not rot, people "live" do not lose If you have a plan, don't be too honest, speak first and refuse skillfully; The key is to hide the real intention and learn to "circle"; Stand up for your rights and do not fall victim to the opinions of others; Skillfully refuse some things entrusted by the boss, the situation is not good, and it is the best plan; Why not introduce yourself. Be the master of emotions Being good at adjusting mentality is the biggest plan in life; Good horses also eat the grass, completely eliminate the negative mentality, lose the unstable mood, change the "film" in their mind, and never give up; Don't drill "ox horn tip", happiness is self seeking, hit the south wall to turn back; Holding the mood remote control, the state of mind determines the view of things. A little "Ah Q spirit" has a heart of tolerance.