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Recently, a friend asked why he could not find what official account was. The article has, but not the title, and there is no detail. So put this text out again today, and friends who have seen it can turn it off. Forgive me. I suddenly feel that this year's time has passed too fast. Unconsciously, there are more than four months left to enter 2017. Looking back, it seems that I haven't done anything yet. In the workplace, I look forward to the weekend every day, and often calculate how long labor day, national day and Spring Festival will last. Now it has changed into a role of entrepreneurship. I feel that time flies every day. But I like this feeling. When I think about it carefully, I actually feel that life is interesting because I am in control of this directionless direction. I even think I should have had such an experience a few years ago, rather than procrastinating and running for three years before I dare to live for myself. Since I can remember, I seem to be going to preschool. After preschool, I want to go to primary school. After primary school, I want to go to junior high school. After the middle school entrance examination, I will prepare for the college entrance examination for three years. Then after a painful review, I can't choose to drop out of college, and then I will promote it to the society as a batch of educational products, find a job, work, listen to the leaders and listen to my parents, After going to Tibet and Yunnan, take an outbound tour to see other people's lives. When you come back, you have to squeeze the subway day after day, and then be urged to get married and have children in a few years. When I recall, I always feel that there have been two invisible hands in my life, oppressing you and controlling you until I get old. I believe these big hands will play a smaller and smaller role in young people in the future, because the concept of young people is gradually changing in the future. More and more people will want to be a freelancer, do what they like and pursue the people they like, rather than paying off car loans and housing loans. I often talk about it. When I earn enough money, I will do what I like. Everyone has something he likes, but not everyone can do what he likes. In the workplace, with a dead salary, a team and partners, I can simply do some things in this powerful swaddle. If I don't jump out of the workplace, I think I will continue to do some things in a simple way. Still can't understand the society and some things in the society. Even if one day, tired and want to return to the workplace, the feeling must be different. I met a designer four years older than me before. He has long been known as China's cutting-edge designer. He is very famous and worshipped by many designers as old as me. A few years after he entered the workplace, he chose to open a Korean Japanese restaurant. Unfortunately, the store closed two years later. Fortunately, he said, in the past two years, he has learned a lot that he can't learn or feel in the workplace. Later, after closing the store, he returned to the workplace and continued to be a designer. I didn't expect that the wise changes in those two years had maximized his working ideas, logical methods and design control. Because he had been a company, he had some experience in both Party A's consideration and Party B's consideration, and always looked at problems ahead of others. I believe that people who have started a business will be more willing to be a conscientious person, take their future work seriously, take the company's project products seriously, take their partners seriously, and take their own every day seriously. On the contrary, in this impetuous era, most employees must be thinking about their job hopping in the future, because he will never stand on the position of the boss and think about some problems, nor seriously analyze problems in himself. In short, I have seen a lot of people and directors in recent months. The following contents are some feelings after personal experience.
There are not as many people who care about you as you think. In the past six months, some people asked you how much money you earned and others asked you how much you got. Many people only care whether you fly high or far. But few people ask you whether you are tired in recent days. Few people ask you how many grievances you have suffered recently, how sad you have been recently, how many hardships you have experienced recently, and how many unknown hardships you have paid recently. Sometimes I'm really tired. Because this tiredness is the accumulation of their own experience, and this tiredness is the responsibility they should have. You can lose, but never give up, because this is what you decide, what you pursue and what you like. The more contacts you have, the less you will envy other people's income, because they have hardships day and night that we don't know. He doesn't envy the freedom of others to go, because he paid a price for this freedom.
Rely on yourself to be practical. When I was a child, I depended on my parents. That's parenting. When you grow up and depend on your parents, it's called gnawing old. The pace of life is so fast, the responsibility pressure is so great, who is not tired and bitter, who is not saving food and drink, no one will always help you and give you everything. Life is like rock climbing. Relying on others will only fall together, release your hand and climb alone. I believe the steps will be lighter and lighter, and the victory will be closer and closer. Make more efforts, stick to it, and win your life by yourself.
Love your parents well. Learn to be good to your parents while you are young, just as your parents were good to you when you were a child. What your parents said to you and did for you must be for your sake. Parents are the only people who won't hurt you. If they hurt you, they won't bring you up, hold an umbrella for you, shade you from the sun, and send you away in tears. Just like my parents, I was worried that I would be nearly 30 years old and go to a new city for development alone. My mother insisted on letting my father come and said that she could accompany me and cook some food for me. When I was a child, my parents were not with me. Later, I lived in school when I was ten years old. From then on, I ate less and less meals they cooked. My mother often thought of these and felt sorry for me. Life is divided, divided, gathered and separated. How many people think of you when they need you, how many people's contacts actually involve interests, how many people once called brothers and finally became strangers, and how many people still remember things that only ancient people could do. One day, you really wander on the street and beg for food. If you think carefully about what you have experienced, you may find that if something really happens, only your parents will accompany you and will not abandon you. If you don't believe it, you can try. Of course, there will be true feelings, but try not to have a promise. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.
Recently, a friend asked why he could not find what official account was. The article has, but not the title, and there is no detail. So put this text out again today, and friends who have seen it can turn it off. Forgive me. I suddenly feel that this year's time has passed too fast. Unconsciously, there are more than four months left to enter 2017. Looking back, it seems that I haven't done anything yet. In the workplace, I look forward to the weekend every day, and often calculate how long labor day, national day and Spring Festival will last. Now it has changed into a role of entrepreneurship. I feel that time flies every day. But I like this feeling. When I think about it carefully, I actually feel that life is interesting because I am in control of this directionless direction. I even think I should have had such an experience a few years ago, rather than procrastinating and running for three years before I dare to live for myself. Since I can remember, I seem to be going to preschool. After preschool, I want to go to primary school. After primary school, I want to go to junior high school. After the middle school entrance examination, I will prepare for the college entrance examination for three years. Then after a painful review, I can't choose to drop out of college, and then I will promote it to the society as a batch of educational products, find a job, work, listen to the leaders and listen to my parents, After going to Tibet and Yunnan, take an outbound tour to see other people's lives. When you come back, you have to squeeze the subway day after day, and then be urged to get married and have children in a few years. When I recall, I always feel that there have been two invisible hands in my life, oppressing you and controlling you until I get old. I believe these big hands will play a smaller and smaller role in young people in the future, because the concept of young people is gradually changing in the future. More and more people will want to be a freelancer, do what they like and pursue the people they like, rather than paying off car loans and housing loans. I often talk about it. When I earn enough money, I will do what I like. Everyone has something he likes, but not everyone can do what he likes. In the workplace, with a dead salary, a team and partners, I can simply do some things in this powerful swaddle. If I don't jump out of the workplace, I think I will continue to do some things in a simple way. Still can't understand the society and some things in the society. Even if one day, tired and want to return to the workplace, the feeling must be different. I met a designer four years older than me before. He has long been known as China's cutting-edge designer. He is very famous and worshipped by many designers as old as me. A few years after he entered the workplace, he chose to open a Korean Japanese restaurant. Unfortunately, the store closed two years later. Fortunately, he said, in the past two years, he has learned a lot that he can't learn or feel in the workplace. Later, after closing the store, he returned to the workplace and continued to be a designer. I didn't expect that the wise changes in those two years had maximized his working ideas, logical methods and design control. Because he had been a company, he had some experience in both Party A's consideration and Party B's consideration, and always looked at problems ahead of others. I believe that people who have started a business will be more willing to be a conscientious person, take their future work seriously, take the company's project products seriously, take their partners seriously, and take their own every day seriously. On the contrary, in this impetuous era, most employees must be thinking about their job hopping in the future, because he will never stand on the position of the boss and think about some problems, nor seriously analyze problems in himself. In short, I have seen a lot of people and directors in recent months. The following contents are some feelings after personal experience.
There are not as many people who care about you as you think. In the past six months, some people asked you how much money you earned and others asked you how much you got. Many people only care whether you fly high or far. But few people ask you whether you are tired in recent days. Few people ask you how many grievances you have suffered recently, how sad you have been recently, how many hardships you have experienced recently, and how many unknown hardships you have paid recently. Sometimes I'm really tired. Because this tiredness is the accumulation of their own experience, and this tiredness is the responsibility they should have. You can lose, but never give up, because this is what you decide, what you pursue and what you like. The more contacts you have, the less you will envy other people's income, because they have hardships day and night that we don't know. He doesn't envy the freedom of others to go, because he paid a price for this freedom.
Rely on yourself to be practical. When I was a child, I depended on my parents. That's parenting. When you grow up and depend on your parents, it's called gnawing old. The pace of life is so fast, the responsibility pressure is so great, who is not tired and bitter, who is not saving food and drink, no one will always help you and give you everything. Life is like rock climbing. Relying on others will only fall together, release your hand and climb alone. I believe the steps will be lighter and lighter, and the victory will be closer and closer. Make more efforts, stick to it, and win your life by yourself.
Love your parents well. Learn to be good to your parents while you are young, just as your parents were good to you when you were a child. What your parents said to you and did for you must be for your sake. Parents are the only people who won't hurt you. If they hurt you, they won't bring you up, hold an umbrella for you, shade you from the sun, and send you away in tears. Just like my parents, I was worried that I would be nearly 30 years old and go to a new city for development alone. My mother insisted on letting my father come and said that she could accompany me and cook some food for me. When I was a child, my parents were not with me. Later, I lived in school when I was ten years old. From then on, I ate less and less meals they cooked. My mother often thought of these and felt sorry for me. Life is divided, divided, gathered and separated. How many people think of you when they need you, how many people's contacts actually involve interests, how many people once called brothers and finally became strangers, and how many people still remember things that only ancient people could do. One day, you really wander on the street and beg for food. If you think carefully about what you have experienced, you may find that if something really happens, only your parents will accompany you and will not abandon you. If you don't believe it, you can try. Of course, there will be true feelings, but try not to have a promise. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.
Don't partner easily. Some people say that this is an era of partnership and entrepreneurship. If you haven't been in partnership, you're embarrassed to say you've started a business. In fact, not only in this era, the major events of each era are done in partnership. From founding a country to building a business, to building a house with stones, isn't it something that two people can accomplish even to start a family? However, for those who feel that a person has ideas but not enough energy, you can try to start a business together with your husband and wife, or with your parents. But don't try to find a partner easily. A partner is something you can't ask for. It's not something you can use for partnership after spending more than ten years together and talking to each other. In this era, it may be more difficult to find a partner than a partner. If you find a good partner, it will add fuel to the flames and make your common career grow rapidly without regret in your life. If you can't find a partner well, it will even become a stumbling block in your career and life. Money is a small matter. Without feelings, there will be no sense of trust in others, and there may be confusion and doubt about your own life.
Don't trust others easily. After experiencing some people and things, I began to understand slowly. Don't believe others' words and evaluate others' things easily. Some people like to run the train with their mouths full. They can't be trusted. On the wine table, I heard someone say when he was drunk. He said that sometimes he didn't believe what he said. Some people ask you to help design pages, help develop a website and introduce business resources to you. Some people say they want to help you do something, some people say they want to invest in you, and others say they want to pay you back. Listen to a lot of words. Don't be credulous. If you believe too much, you will be blocked. The world is not short of people who can speak, but of people who can do. Easier said than done. People who really want to help you don't necessarily talk about helping you. If they helped you, they would have taken action long ago. People who say they want to pay you back, or even want to invest your money, don't be credulous. The money in your hand can prove everything. It's normal not to help, it's normal to have a weak relationship, it's normal to pursue mutual interests and win-win results, and no one will say anything. But if you run the train with your mouth full and fail to live up to the trust of others, you are not authentic. You play your play, I go my way. We are just passers-by to each other. There are too many things we can't predict and resist, life and death, joys and sorrows, and what some people say.
It's your duty not to help others, but it's your duty to help others. People are good at first. When people see the weak, they will habitually stretch out their hands to help. Only then will you feel that your existence brings happiness to others. When you see others turn from distress to satisfaction, and then give you a grateful smile, you will be satisfied from the bottom of your heart. Friends, in fact, are playmates together. If you don't help, it's your duty. If you can help, it's your duty. If it's your duty, you should be grateful. If a friend is in trouble, I will help whatever I can. But don't have the desire to ask for it, otherwise the feelings may deteriorate. Even if I ask for it from a friend, it is also based on the above principle: it's my duty not to help; Help, it's love. When a friend can't give you, you should think it's normal.
Fewer and fewer people know how to be grateful. Be grateful. When you are frustrated, when you are wandering, you should keep in mind the words of others or the actions of others to warm you. Don't treat yourself as an outsider. No matter how big things are, they belong to others, and no matter how small things are, they belong to yourself. No matter how good others are, they belong to others, and no matter how broken they are, they belong to themselves. But now, fewer and fewer people know how to be grateful. I've seen companies train employees and employees ask for resignation. They don't know anything. When they have little social experience, can't find a job and have no money to pay the rent, the company takes care of you. After learning, they leave the company like passers-by. I've seen companies train employees. Employees are not only not grateful, but also take some people from the company team and rob the company's business. I have a friend who once did interior design training and brought out two students with great care. As a result, the two students rented houses nearby and started interior design training. The tuition is still very low, and the teachers and apprentices have become competitors. There are always some people who feel that your efforts for them seem to be taken for granted. This kind of people can't go far or wide.
Goodbye, maybe it'll never be seen again. Cherish those people you are still together now. A casual goodbye may never be seen again. People who used to be together often thought that you were separated from each other and might be able to contact each other. In fact, it's wrong. When you do it, you will find that what you think is what you think after all. Why is long-distance love the most terrible thing between men and women? It's because you can't see it. When is the next goodbye? No one knows. Look at the mobile phone address book, QQ address book, wechat address book... How many friends who used to talk and gossip together are often contacted.
Don't find an entrepreneur as a boyfriend or get married. Entrepreneurs work in the company, on the way home, at home and in bed. Entrepreneurs may complain a lot at first, even quarrel every day, and feel that their life has been drained by entrepreneurship. If your boyfriend is an entrepreneur, it is likely to have a bad impact on your relationship. He may not go shopping with you again. He may not have time to have dinner together from Monday to Friday. He may not have time to spend more time with you and your children. He may not be able to meet your idea of traveling. He may eat irregularly and even forget to bring a cup of hot water during your holiday. How can they find a husband who is busy and doesn't even want to start a business, but how can they choose to find a boyfriend who is busy and doesn't even want to do it.
Those who muddle along always feel that there is more time, and those who do business always feel that there is not enough time. A few days ago, I saw the article "sleep only 3 hours a day, I insist on 7 years" in the "forest dimension". After reading it, I was shocked. I agree with many views except too little sleep. For those who muddle along, their daily life will not be full. Going to work every day is looking forward to getting off work, holidays, playing games and watching the live broadcast. They feel that time passes slowly. But people who have dreams or have their own career must feel that there is not enough time every day, even if they don't sleep for 24 hours. With the rapid development of this era, if you don't work hard, there will be a lot of colleagues working hard. If you don't work hard, the boss has no reason to reward you. If you don't work hard, what will you say at the summary meeting. If you don't work hard, your competitors' companies are working hard. If you don't work hard, you won't know how to compete in the future until you cut the staff one day? People who are better than you have to work harder than you. Should you give up easily? Most of us are ordinary and ordinary. In other words, we may feel that we have some ability. In fact, it is all given to us by the company's platform. The platform has made us. Without this platform, we may be nothing. Don't think you are jobs, Remus, etc. you can bring great value to a company wherever you go. Some abilities come from your own desire. If you change your job and start a career, you will understand how low you are. To gain experience from work, don't be afraid of career adventure. The more you try early in life, the more likely your final choice is to be beneficial. When you feel that you know less as you grow older, you are growing up and have an unlimited future. 11. Health is very important. It has an incubation period.
Health is the most important thing. Without health, everything is in vain. This is somewhat contradictory to the above, but I believe everyone knows it.
If you want to be healthy, don't stay up late as much as possible and make your life regular as much as possible.
In the past two years, I stayed up late, my life was seriously irregular, and I didn't feel how my body was. This year, I found that there were changes unknowingly, and I often felt all kinds of discomfort and fatigue.
I know that for those who still have dreams about life, time is not enough.
But this can not be a reason to stay up late and work hard. Your body is not only your own, but also your parents, wife and children.
What you need is adjustment and efficiency. In fact, people who really have dreams and can use their time will not live in such a mess. Health has an incubation period. When it comes to middle-aged and old people, it will burst out. There are many such examples around us. They have left at a young age. There are reasons and results.
12. Internet entrepreneurship has been a golden decade.
The best commercial outlet in modern times should be reform and opening up. Those who stood at this outlet became rich. Later, there was the outlet of the Internet industry. Those who stood at this outlet also flew up, flying high and looking far.
It has been two decades since China's commercial Internet began in 1995 to 2015. At present, the golden growth decade of the Internet has ended. The golden decade has passed. This year and next year, the entrepreneurial market will be more and more difficult to go, and a large number of entrepreneurial companies will die in recent years.
Then we will enter the silver decade. Entrepreneurs who are unable or can't keep up with the times in this decade should be eliminated.
Bat is no longer a company.
Bat platform built its own castle and completed its own moat in the previous decade.
It is suggested that other entrepreneurs do not build platforms, especially e-commerce platforms. Because the road of platform is dead, the era that you can start a business by developing a platform or making an app by yourself is gradually disappearing. Your own platform and app will only be a tool for your own enterprise in the future.
I read an article to the effect that there are too many products on the market and there are not enough users. It took less than 10 years for Internet users from 100 million to 800 million, but when they pushed forward from 800 million, they encountered a user red line. In addition, there are many people who do not understand Chinese, do not know words, have poor eyesight, or are physically inconvenient. The growth of users will be more and more difficult.
In short, the demographic dividend of the Internet is over.
From the perspective of PV, the three bat companies account for more than 10 billion PV per day, while the PV of the whole country is more than 20 billion a day (800 million users, 30 PV per capita). In terms of access time, bat also takes up a lot of time for users to watch videos, order takeout, circle of friends, search and shopping... This is not counting the companies and affiliated companies invested by bat.
The reason why foreign Internet giants cannot enter the Chinese market is that bat is so powerful that it has to acquire dozens of Companies in the next 58 years.
So all users are at bat, and there are so few new users. In the days of relying on giants, doing your best is nothing more than being invested by me or blocking you.
13. To do what you like, failure is also a kind of happiness.
There is a detour in everyone's youth. No one can finish it for you, but the future is always there. That's their own road.
Living is a process, experience and experience, not two points and one line. A person's dream may not be valuable, but a person's efforts are very valuable.
You must find your own rhythm of life. This rhythm is not realized by thinking. You can arrive only by starting. You can't go anywhere without starting. The terrible thing is not that your life is coming to an end, but that your life has never really started.
Many people are afraid to face their dreams because they are afraid of not realizing their dreams. But if the dream can be realized so easily, what is the significance of realizing it? The reason why a dream is a dream is that it is difficult to realize.
Never avoid your past, let alone use the past to involve your future. It doesn't matter whether there is hope or not. What matters is that you are willing to work hard for it and see hope. No one cares about your life, and don't let others control your life. The world doesn't care so much about you, and don't let the world change your rhythm.
If people can find what they really like to do, it is a kind of happiness in itself.
Choose a favorite thing to do, do it as an important thing for you, and do your best in it, instead of trying what others think is good. Or that sentence, only give up, can focus, only give up, can pursue.
14. You can do business, but don't start a business.
Now the entrepreneurial market has become impetuous, and the comprehensive ability of entrepreneurs now is not as good as those entrepreneurs before. As the saying goes, employees deceive the boss, the boss deceives the investors, and the investors deceive the investors. More and more young people choose to start a business, just thinking about ways to get investors' money, and then burn it for a few years and then close it down.
In recent years, you will find that a large number of companies of post-80s and post-90s entrepreneurs have closed down unknowingly. In this way, the state is still strengthening and encouraging college students without any social experience to start businesses. Isn't it waiting to be cheated? It's ok if you have a good attitude. If you have a bad attitude, the pit is serious. You can't do anything.
Entrepreneurship is really not what ordinary people do, especially when the environment is weak. For low-level entrepreneurial players, it is asking for trouble.
It has always been believed that entrepreneurship is more difficult than doing business, and doing business is more difficult than being a good professional manager. It's strange that many people don't even have the qualification to be an excellent wage earner, but they have started the operation of difficult projects.
Some people work like starting a business, while others start a business like working.
Chen Caigen once analyzed that business people are more reliable than entrepreneurs. The needs of both buyers and sellers are very clear. If you are sick, I have medicine. Give me money and give you treatment.
The rudeness and directness of the business is a kind of respect for both ends of the business. It not only saves time and cost, but also reflects sincerity. As for whether it can be sold for a long time, it depends on whether its own goods have a comparative advantage.
I used to think about starting a business, but now I don't think so. I don't think I'm starting a business or doing business. Now I just want to say that I do what I like or deserve with a calm state of mind.
15. Contact with new things more. English is very important.
As an art student, I didn't know the importance of English before. Later, when I really worked, I felt that English was very important. If you know English, you can talk about cooperation with foreigners, chat with foreigners in Beijing, travel abroad without worrying about poor communication, and browse various excellent foreign design websites and program websites, so as to better contact new things.
For example, if Ma Yun didn't know English and didn't go abroad, there would be no Alibaba today. Similarly, QQ imitates ICQ, baidu imitates Google, Taobao imitates eBay, microblog imitates twitter, and even today's popular wechat and didi taxi are imitated.
In addition, there are all kinds of TV variety shows and game production, many of which are brought in from abroad. In terms of vision and insight, we have fallen behind. Imagine what kind of life it would be if we were the first to contact these things. So let's learn more and increase our knowledge. At least we can tell it to children in the future.
16. The thinking of college students is limited and the polarization is obvious.
Now there are more work contacts with college students. It is found that many students are not as good as each other. It may also be the reason why the living environment has become comfortable. There is a serious lack of sense of crisis and struggle compared with college students in the past. In the past, college students really pursued something and really studied with their heart.
Now it has changed, especially some colleges and universities in small cities.
With the rapid development of the Internet, college students in first tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are more exposed to new things and have not been left behind by the times. However, after investigation, college students in some small cities found that many students do not understand many things, seriously lag behind in thinking and pursue less, There are also many undergraduates who started wechat quotient instead of accumulating themselves in school. They also feel confused. If this goes on, they are bound to open the gap with students in big cities in the future. The road of struggle may be slower and narrower.
17. Reading is very important, so is traveling.
Reading can be wise. Mr. Gorky said: "books are the ladder of human progress."
The simplest reason is that reading more books can make you feel a lot of writing inspiration. It can make you use the writing method better. For example, when writing, we can often use some good words and sentences in books and life philosophy. Make others think you are more literary and aesthetic.
Reading more books can also make people feel that you know the book and answer the gift, rich connotation and demeanor. You can add more extra-curricular knowledge. Mr. Bacon said, "knowledge is power." It can cultivate your sentiment, make your mood not too impetuous, and promote your physical and mental health and happiness.
There are too many benefits of reading. If you search, you will find that many excellent people and successful entrepreneurs have the habit of reading, regardless of their educational background.
Remember not to read dead books. You should learn to think, and learn to look at it from the author's point of view and your own point of view. The best way is to take reading notes and stick to it. Your thinking ability, evaluation criteria and logical way will be very fruitful.
As for travel, ichiko Tanaka, the founder of Muji in Japan, once warned the team to try to travel alone. Because if you don't go out and walk, it's difficult to maximize the absorption of nutrients that help design and your own ability. The more you act alone, the more opportunities you have to get in touch with people and things. The more you observe, the more you will arouse new interest and get the ability to compare. Only with correct observation can we obtain the ability of reflection. Only those who try to observe carefully can get inspiration continuously.
I have passed the Sichuan Tibet line and Yunnan Tibet line, and also crossed the border. My real feeling and imagination are completely different. When jobs was young, he also went to India. Later, he said in his speech at Stanford University that "life is connected". It is said that Liu qiangdong also has a hobby. He often takes instant noodles, ham and tents into the desert for two months.
18. Let yourself master a skill.
No matter what you do or study, try your best to have a skill other than your major. It may be that you do well in PPT, play well in Photoshop, or be interested in photography, writing, baking, many
Thanks to the Internet, there are many platforms now, and we can easily find a large number of excellent sharing. Whether you focus on any industry, photography, design or program, you can find enough skills to meet your self-study.
These skills will become your bonus items in both career development and life, and enrich your life.
19. Beijing is very good. Love will be the best reason for you to stay.
When you left Beijing and went to a small city, you found the benefits of Beijing. It has a lot of charm to attract you, advanced ideas, profound cultural heritage and like-minded partners.
Liu Tong once said this about why you stay in Beijing. Beijing is a city where you say your dream and no one will scold you for being stupid. You dare to dream, speak, pay for your dream, find your own kind for the same dream. You dare to lose, even if you can only achieve one or two, It's much better than the former one
In a metropolis like Beijing, ordinary people can't stay, and the best reason for you to stay should be that there is someone worth staying here.
20. Marriage is meeting the right person at the right time.
Once a friend pursued a girl. The girl said to my friend that she had no feelings. The girl also said that if it was the person she felt, she would not have any material requirements and was willing to follow that person to the ends of the earth.
A friend didn't become a girl's person with feelings, but the girl's so-called person with feelings still didn't come five years later.
I once read an article in which an old woman told her granddaughter that in ancient times, marriage was not called marriage, but marriage, which means that two people will become relatives in the future.
When you are young, you can live your life vividly, but when you are old, you will understand how important the person around you is. Your grandparents will live in their own way.
Some people say that life is the process of finding love. Everyone has to find four people in his life. The first is himself, the second is the one you love most, the third is the one who loves you most, and the fourth is the one who spends his life together.
Some things cannot be forced, especially the most magical feelings given to mankind by God.
I wish all my friends, don't forget to be nice to themselves and live as they like.
Those who muddle along always feel that there is more time, and those who do business always feel that there is not enough time. A few days ago, I saw the article "sleep only 3 hours a day, I insist on 7 years" in the "forest dimension". After reading it, I was shocked. I agree with many views except too little sleep. For those who muddle along, their daily life will not be full. Going to work every day is looking forward to getting off work, holidays, playing games and watching the live broadcast. They feel that time passes slowly. But people who have dreams or have their own career must feel that there is not enough time every day, even if they don't sleep for 24 hours. With the rapid development of this era, if you don't work hard, there will be a lot of colleagues working hard. If you don't work hard, the boss has no reason to reward you. If you don't work hard, what will you say at the summary meeting. If you don't work hard, your competitors' companies are working hard. If you don't work hard, you won't know how to compete in the future until you cut the staff one day? People who are better than you have to work harder than you. Should you give up easily? Most of us are ordinary and ordinary. In other words, we may feel that we have some ability. In fact, it is all given to us by the company's platform. The platform has made us. Without this platform, we may be nothing. Don't think you are jobs, Remus, etc. you can bring great value to a company wherever you go. Some abilities come from your own desire. If you change your job and start a career, you will understand how low you are. To gain experience from work, don't be afraid of career adventure. The more you try early in life, the more likely your final choice is to be beneficial. When you feel that you know less as you grow older, you are growing up and have an unlimited future. 11. Health is very important. It has an incubation period.
Health is the most important thing. Without health, everything is in vain. This is somewhat contradictory to the above, but I believe everyone knows it.
If you want to be healthy, don't stay up late as much as possible and make your life regular as much as possible.
In the past two years, I stayed up late, my life was seriously irregular, and I didn't feel how my body was. This year, I found that there were changes unknowingly, and I often felt all kinds of discomfort and fatigue.
I know that for those who still have dreams about life, time is not enough.
But this can not be a reason to stay up late and work hard. Your body is not only your own, but also your parents, wife and children.
What you need is adjustment and efficiency. In fact, people who really have dreams and can use their time will not live in such a mess. Health has an incubation period. When it comes to middle-aged and old people, it will burst out. There are many such examples around us. They have left at a young age. There are reasons and results.
12. Internet entrepreneurship has been a golden decade.
The best commercial outlet in modern times should be reform and opening up. Those who stood at this outlet became rich. Later, there was the outlet of the Internet industry. Those who stood at this outlet also flew up, flying high and looking far.
It has been two decades since China's commercial Internet began in 1995 to 2015. At present, the golden growth decade of the Internet has ended. The golden decade has passed. This year and next year, the entrepreneurial market will be more and more difficult to go, and a large number of entrepreneurial companies will die in recent years.
Then we will enter the silver decade. Entrepreneurs who are unable or can't keep up with the times in this decade should be eliminated.
Bat is no longer a company.
Bat platform built its own castle and completed its own moat in the previous decade.
It is suggested that other entrepreneurs do not build platforms, especially e-commerce platforms. Because the road of platform is dead, the era that you can start a business by developing a platform or making an app by yourself is gradually disappearing. Your own platform and app will only be a tool for your own enterprise in the future.
I read an article to the effect that there are too many products on the market and there are not enough users. It took less than 10 years for Internet users from 100 million to 800 million, but when they pushed forward from 800 million, they encountered a user red line. In addition, there are many people who do not understand Chinese, do not know words, have poor eyesight, or are physically inconvenient. The growth of users will be more and more difficult.
In short, the demographic dividend of the Internet is over.
From the perspective of PV, the three bat companies account for more than 10 billion PV per day, while the PV of the whole country is more than 20 billion a day (800 million users, 30 PV per capita). In terms of access time, bat also takes up a lot of time for users to watch videos, order takeout, circle of friends, search and shopping... This is not counting the companies and affiliated companies invested by bat.
The reason why foreign Internet giants cannot enter the Chinese market is that bat is so powerful that it has to acquire dozens of Companies in the next 58 years.
So all users are at bat, and there are so few new users. In the days of relying on giants, doing your best is nothing more than being invested by me or blocking you.
13. To do what you like, failure is also a kind of happiness.
There is a detour in everyone's youth. No one can finish it for you, but the future is always there. That's their own road.
Living is a process, experience and experience, not two points and one line. A person's dream may not be valuable, but a person's efforts are very valuable.
You must find your own rhythm of life. This rhythm is not realized by thinking. You can arrive only by starting. You can't go anywhere without starting. The terrible thing is not that your life is coming to an end, but that your life has never really started.
Many people are afraid to face their dreams because they are afraid of not realizing their dreams. But if the dream can be realized so easily, what is the significance of realizing it? The reason why a dream is a dream is that it is difficult to realize.
Never avoid your past, let alone use the past to involve your future. It doesn't matter whether there is hope or not. What matters is that you are willing to work hard for it and see hope. No one cares about your life, and don't let others control your life. The world doesn't care so much about you, and don't let the world change your rhythm.
If people can find what they really like to do, it is a kind of happiness in itself.
Choose a favorite thing to do, do it as an important thing for you, and do your best in it, instead of trying what others think is good. Or that sentence, only give up, can focus, only give up, can pursue.
14. You can do business, but don't start a business.
Now the entrepreneurial market has become impetuous, and the comprehensive ability of entrepreneurs now is not as good as those entrepreneurs before. As the saying goes, employees deceive the boss, the boss deceives the investors, and the investors deceive the investors. More and more young people choose to start a business, just thinking about ways to get investors' money, and then burn it for a few years and then close it down.
In recent years, you will find that a large number of companies of post-80s and post-90s entrepreneurs have closed down unknowingly. In this way, the state is still strengthening and encouraging college students without any social experience to start businesses. Isn't it waiting to be cheated? It's ok if you have a good attitude. If you have a bad attitude, the pit is serious. You can't do anything.
Entrepreneurship is really not what ordinary people do, especially when the environment is weak. For low-level entrepreneurial players, it is asking for trouble.
It has always been believed that entrepreneurship is more difficult than doing business, and doing business is more difficult than being a good professional manager. It's strange that many people don't even have the qualification to be an excellent wage earner, but they have started the operation of difficult projects.
Some people work like starting a business, while others start a business like working.
Chen Caigen once analyzed that business people are more reliable than entrepreneurs. The needs of both buyers and sellers are very clear. If you are sick, I have medicine. Give me money and give you treatment.
The rudeness and directness of the business is a kind of respect for both ends of the business. It not only saves time and cost, but also reflects sincerity. As for whether it can be sold for a long time, it depends on whether its own goods have a comparative advantage.
I used to think about starting a business, but now I don't think so. I don't think I'm starting a business or doing business. Now I just want to say that I do what I like or deserve with a calm state of mind.
15. Contact with new things more. English is very important.
As an art student, I didn't know the importance of English before. Later, when I really worked, I felt that English was very important. If you know English, you can talk about cooperation with foreigners, chat with foreigners in Beijing, travel abroad without worrying about poor communication, and browse various excellent foreign design websites and program websites, so as to better contact new things.
For example, if Ma Yun didn't know English and didn't go abroad, there would be no Alibaba today. Similarly, QQ imitates ICQ, baidu imitates Google, Taobao imitates eBay, microblog imitates twitter, and even today's popular wechat and didi taxi are imitated.
In addition, there are all kinds of TV variety shows and game production, many of which are brought in from abroad. In terms of vision and insight, we have fallen behind. Imagine what kind of life it would be if we were the first to contact these things. So let's learn more and increase our knowledge. At least we can tell it to children in the future.
16. The thinking of college students is limited and the polarization is obvious.
Now there are more work contacts with college students. It is found that many students are not as good as each other. It may also be the reason why the living environment has become comfortable. There is a serious lack of sense of crisis and struggle compared with college students in the past. In the past, college students really pursued something and really studied with their heart.
Now it has changed, especially some colleges and universities in small cities.
With the rapid development of the Internet, college students in first tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are more exposed to new things and have not been left behind by the times. However, after investigation, college students in some small cities found that many students do not understand many things, seriously lag behind in thinking and pursue less, There are also many undergraduates who started wechat quotient instead of accumulating themselves in school. They also feel confused. If this goes on, they are bound to open the gap with students in big cities in the future. The road of struggle may be slower and narrower.
17. Reading is very important, so is traveling.
Reading can be wise. Mr. Gorky said: "books are the ladder of human progress."
The simplest reason is that reading more books can make you feel a lot of writing inspiration. It can make you use the writing method better. For example, when writing, we can often use some good words and sentences in books and life philosophy. Make others think you are more literary and aesthetic.
Reading more books can also make people feel that you know the book and answer the gift, rich connotation and demeanor. You can add more extra-curricular knowledge. Mr. Bacon said, "knowledge is power." It can cultivate your sentiment, make your mood not too impetuous, and promote your physical and mental health and happiness.
There are too many benefits of reading. If you search, you will find that many excellent people and successful entrepreneurs have the habit of reading, regardless of their educational background.
Remember not to read dead books. You should learn to think, and learn to look at it from the author's point of view and your own point of view. The best way is to take reading notes and stick to it. Your thinking ability, evaluation criteria and logical way will be very fruitful.
As for travel, ichiko Tanaka, the founder of Muji in Japan, once warned the team to try to travel alone. Because if you don't go out and walk, it's difficult to maximize the absorption of nutrients that help design and your own ability. The more you act alone, the more opportunities you have to get in touch with people and things. The more you observe, the more you will arouse new interest and get the ability to compare. Only with correct observation can we obtain the ability of reflection. Only those who try to observe carefully can get inspiration continuously.
I have passed the Sichuan Tibet line and Yunnan Tibet line, and also crossed the border. My real feeling and imagination are completely different. When jobs was young, he also went to India. Later, he said in his speech at Stanford University that "life is connected". It is said that Liu qiangdong also has a hobby. He often takes instant noodles, ham and tents into the desert for two months.
18. Let yourself master a skill.
No matter what you do or study, try your best to have a skill other than your major. It may be that you do well in PPT, play well in Photoshop, or be interested in photography, writing, baking, many
Thanks to the Internet, there are many platforms now, and we can easily find a large number of excellent sharing. Whether you focus on any industry, photography, design or program, you can find enough skills to meet your self-study.
These skills will become your bonus items in both career development and life, and enrich your life.
19. Beijing is very good. Love will be the best reason for you to stay.
When you left Beijing and went to a small city, you found the benefits of Beijing. It has a lot of charm to attract you, advanced ideas, profound cultural heritage and like-minded partners.
Liu Tong once said this about why you stay in Beijing. Beijing is a city where you say your dream and no one will scold you for being stupid. You dare to dream, speak, pay for your dream, find your own kind for the same dream. You dare to lose, even if you can only achieve one or two, It's much better than the former one
In a metropolis like Beijing, ordinary people can't stay, and the best reason for you to stay should be that there is someone worth staying here.
20. Marriage is meeting the right person at the right time.
Once a friend pursued a girl. The girl said to my friend that she had no feelings. The girl also said that if it was the person she felt, she would not have any material requirements and was willing to follow that person to the ends of the earth.
A friend didn't become a girl's person with feelings, but the girl's so-called person with feelings still didn't come five years later.
I once read an article in which an old woman told her granddaughter that in ancient times, marriage was not called marriage, but marriage, which means that two people will become relatives in the future.
When you are young, you can live your life vividly, but when you are old, you will understand how important the person around you is. Your grandparents will live in their own way.
Some people say that life is the process of finding love. Everyone has to find four people in his life. The first is himself, the second is the one you love most, the third is the one who loves you most, and the fourth is the one who spends his life together.
Some things cannot be forced, especially the most magical feelings given to mankind by God.
I wish all my friends, don't forget to be nice to themselves and live as they like.
Don't partner easily. Some people say that this is an era of partnership and entrepreneurship. If you haven't been in partnership, you're embarrassed to say you've started a business. In fact, not only in this era, the major events of each era are done in partnership. From founding a country to building a business, to building a house with stones, isn't it something that two people can accomplish even to start a family? However, for those who feel that a person has ideas but not enough energy, you can try to start a business together with your husband and wife, or with your parents. But don't try to find a partner easily. A partner is something you can't ask for. It's not something you can use for partnership after spending more than ten years together and talking to each other. In this era, it may be more difficult to find a partner than a partner. If you find a good partner, it will add fuel to the flames and make your common career grow rapidly without regret in your life. If you can't find a partner well, it will even become a stumbling block in your career and life. Money is a small matter. Without feelings, there will be no sense of trust in others, and there may be confusion and doubt about your own life.
Don't trust others easily. After experiencing some people and things, I began to understand slowly. Don't believe others' words and evaluate others' things easily. Some people like to run the train with their mouths full. They can't be trusted. On the wine table, I heard someone say when he was drunk. He said that sometimes he didn't believe what he said. Some people ask you to help design pages, help develop a website and introduce business resources to you. Some people say they want to help you do something, some people say they want to invest in you, and others say they want to pay you back. Listen to a lot of words. Don't be credulous. If you believe too much, you will be blocked. The world is not short of people who can speak, but of people who can do. Easier said than done. People who really want to help you don't necessarily talk about helping you. If they helped you, they would have taken action long ago. People who say they want to pay you back, or even want to invest your money, don't be credulous. The money in your hand can prove everything. It's normal not to help, it's normal to have a weak relationship, it's normal to pursue mutual interests and win-win results, and no one will say anything. But if you run the train with your mouth full and fail to live up to the trust of others, you are not authentic. You play your play, I go my way. We are just passers-by to each other. There are too many things we can't predict and resist, life and death, joys and sorrows, and what some people say.
It's your duty not to help others, but it's your duty to help others. People are good at first. When people see the weak, they will habitually stretch out their hands to help. Only then will you feel that your existence brings happiness to others. When you see others turn from distress to satisfaction, and then give you a grateful smile, you will be satisfied from the bottom of your heart. Friends, in fact, are playmates together. If you don't help, it's your duty. If you can help, it's your duty. If it's your duty, you should be grateful. If a friend is in trouble, I will help whatever I can. But don't have the desire to ask for it, otherwise the feelings may deteriorate. Even if I ask for it from a friend, it is also based on the above principle: it's my duty not to help; Help, it's love. When a friend can't give you, you should think it's normal.
Fewer and fewer people know how to be grateful. Be grateful. When you are frustrated, when you are wandering, you should keep in mind the words of others or the actions of others to warm you. Don't treat yourself as an outsider. No matter how big things are, they belong to others, and no matter how small things are, they belong to yourself. No matter how good others are, they belong to others, and no matter how broken they are, they belong to themselves. But now, fewer and fewer people know how to be grateful. I've seen companies train employees and employees ask for resignation. They don't know anything. When they have little social experience, can't find a job and have no money to pay the rent, the company takes care of you. After learning, they leave the company like passers-by. I've seen companies train employees. Employees are not only not grateful, but also take some people from the company team and rob the company's business. I have a friend who once did interior design training and brought out two students with great care. As a result, the two students rented houses nearby and started interior design training. The tuition is still very low, and the teachers and apprentices have become competitors. There are always some people who feel that your efforts for them seem to be taken for granted. This kind of people can't go far or wide.
Goodbye, maybe it'll never be seen again. Cherish those people you are still together now. A casual goodbye may never be seen again. People who used to be together often thought that you were separated from each other and might be able to contact each other. In fact, it's wrong. When you do it, you will find that what you think is what you think after all. Why is long-distance love the most terrible thing between men and women? It's because you can't see it. When is the next goodbye? No one knows. Look at the mobile phone address book, QQ address book, wechat address book... How many friends who used to talk and gossip together are often contacted.
Don't find an entrepreneur as a boyfriend or get married. Entrepreneurs work in the company, on the way home, at home and in bed. Entrepreneurs may complain a lot at first, even quarrel every day, and feel that their life has been drained by entrepreneurship. If your boyfriend is an entrepreneur, it is likely to have a bad impact on your relationship. He may not go shopping with you again. He may not have time to have dinner together from Monday to Friday. He may not have time to spend more time with you and your children. He may not be able to meet your idea of traveling. He may eat irregularly and even forget to bring a cup of hot water during your holiday. How can they find a husband who is busy and doesn't even want to start a business, but how can they choose to find a boyfriend who is busy and doesn't even want to do it.
Those who muddle along always feel that there is more time, and those who do business always feel that there is not enough time. A few days ago, I saw the article "sleep only 3 hours a day, I insist on 7 years" in the "forest dimension". After reading it, I was shocked. I agree with many views except too little sleep. For those who muddle along, their daily life will not be full. Going to work every day is looking forward to getting off work, holidays, playing games and watching the live broadcast. They feel that time passes slowly. But people who have dreams or have their own career must feel that there is not enough time every day, even if they don't sleep for 24 hours. With the rapid development of this era, if you don't work hard, there will be a lot of colleagues working hard. If you don't work hard, the boss has no reason to reward you. If you don't work hard, what will you say at the summary meeting. If you don't work hard, your competitors' companies are working hard. If you don't work hard, you won't know how to compete in the future until you cut the staff one day? People who are better than you have to work harder than you. Should you give up easily? Most of us are ordinary and ordinary. In other words, we may feel that we have some ability. In fact, it is all given to us by the company's platform. The platform has made us. Without this platform, we may be nothing. Don't think you are jobs, Remus, etc. you can bring great value to a company wherever you go. Some abilities come from your own desire. If you change your job and start a career, you will understand how low you are. To gain experience from work, don't be afraid of career adventure. The more you try early in life, the more likely your final choice is to be beneficial. When you feel that you know less as you grow older, you are growing up and have an unlimited future. 11. Health is very important. It has an incubation period.
Health is the most important thing. Without health, everything is in vain. This is somewhat contradictory to the above, but I believe everyone knows it.
If you want to be healthy, don't stay up late as much as possible and make your life regular as much as possible.
In the past two years, I stayed up late, my life was seriously irregular, and I didn't feel how my body was. This year, I found that there were changes unknowingly, and I often felt all kinds of discomfort and fatigue.
I know that for those who still have dreams about life, time is not enough.
But this can not be a reason to stay up late and work hard. Your body is not only your own, but also your parents, wife and children.
What you need is adjustment and efficiency. In fact, people who really have dreams and can use their time will not live in such a mess. Health has an incubation period. When it comes to middle-aged and old people, it will burst out. There are many such examples around us. They have left at a young age. There are reasons and results.
12. Internet entrepreneurship has been a golden decade.
The best commercial outlet in modern times should be reform and opening up. Those who stood at this outlet became rich. Later, there was the outlet of the Internet industry. Those who stood at this outlet also flew up, flying high and looking far.
It has been two decades since China's commercial Internet began in 1995 to 2015. At present, the golden growth decade of the Internet has ended. The golden decade has passed. This year and next year, the entrepreneurial market will be more and more difficult to go, and a large number of entrepreneurial companies will die in recent years.
Then we will enter the silver decade. Entrepreneurs who are unable or can't keep up with the times in this decade should be eliminated.
Bat is no longer a company.
Bat platform built its own castle and completed its own moat in the previous decade.
It is suggested that other entrepreneurs do not build platforms, especially e-commerce platforms. Because the road of platform is dead, the era that you can start a business by developing a platform or making an app by yourself is gradually disappearing. Your own platform and app will only be a tool for your own enterprise in the future.
I read an article to the effect that there are too many products on the market and there are not enough users. It took less than 10 years for Internet users from 100 million to 800 million, but when they pushed forward from 800 million, they encountered a user red line. In addition, there are many people who do not understand Chinese, do not know words, have poor eyesight, or are physically inconvenient. The growth of users will be more and more difficult.
In short, the demographic dividend of the Internet is over.
From the perspective of PV, the three bat companies account for more than 10 billion PV per day, while the PV of the whole country is more than 20 billion a day (800 million users, 30 PV per capita). In terms of access time, bat also takes up a lot of time for users to watch videos, order takeout, circle of friends, search and shopping... This is not counting the companies and affiliated companies invested by bat.
The reason why foreign Internet giants cannot enter the Chinese market is that bat is so powerful that it has to acquire dozens of Companies in the next 58 years.
So all users are at bat, and there are so few new users. In the days of relying on giants, doing your best is nothing more than being invested by me or blocking you.
13. To do what you like, failure is also a kind of happiness.
There is a detour in everyone's youth. No one can finish it for you, but the future is always there. That's their own road.
Living is a process, experience and experience, not two points and one line. A person's dream may not be valuable, but a person's efforts are very valuable.
You must find your own rhythm of life. This rhythm is not realized by thinking. You can arrive only by starting. You can't go anywhere without starting. The terrible thing is not that your life is coming to an end, but that your life has never really started.
Many people are afraid to face their dreams because they are afraid of not realizing their dreams. But if the dream can be realized so easily, what is the significance of realizing it? The reason why a dream is a dream is that it is difficult to realize.
Never avoid your past, let alone use the past to involve your future. It doesn't matter whether there is hope or not. What matters is that you are willing to work hard for it and see hope. No one cares about your life, and don't let others control your life. The world doesn't care so much about you, and don't let the world change your rhythm.
If people can find what they really like to do, it is a kind of happiness in itself.
Choose a favorite thing to do, do it as an important thing for you, and do your best in it, instead of trying what others think is good. Or that sentence, only give up, can focus, only give up, can pursue.
14. You can do business, but don't start a business.
Now the entrepreneurial market has become impetuous, and the comprehensive ability of entrepreneurs now is not as good as those entrepreneurs before. As the saying goes, employees deceive the boss, the boss deceives the investors, and the investors deceive the investors. More and more young people choose to start a business, just thinking about ways to get investors' money, and then burn it for a few years and then close it down.
In recent years, you will find that a large number of companies of post-80s and post-90s entrepreneurs have closed down unknowingly. In this way, the state is still strengthening and encouraging college students without any social experience to start businesses. Isn't it waiting to be cheated? It's ok if you have a good attitude. If you have a bad attitude, the pit is serious. You can't do anything.
Entrepreneurship is really not what ordinary people do, especially when the environment is weak. For low-level entrepreneurial players, it is asking for trouble.
It has always been believed that entrepreneurship is more difficult than doing business, and doing business is more difficult than being a good professional manager. It's strange that many people don't even have the qualification to be an excellent wage earner, but they have started the operation of difficult projects.
Some people work like starting a business, while others start a business like working.
Chen Caigen once analyzed that business people are more reliable than entrepreneurs. The needs of both buyers and sellers are very clear. If you are sick, I have medicine. Give me money and give you treatment.
The rudeness and directness of the business is a kind of respect for both ends of the business. It not only saves time and cost, but also reflects sincerity. As for whether it can be sold for a long time, it depends on whether its own goods have a comparative advantage.
I used to think about starting a business, but now I don't think so. I don't think I'm starting a business or doing business. Now I just want to say that I do what I like or deserve with a calm state of mind.
15. Contact with new things more. English is very important.
As an art student, I didn't know the importance of English before. Later, when I really worked, I felt that English was very important. If you know English, you can talk about cooperation with foreigners, chat with foreigners in Beijing, travel abroad without worrying about poor communication, and browse various excellent foreign design websites and program websites, so as to better contact new things.
For example, if Ma Yun didn't know English and didn't go abroad, there would be no Alibaba today. Similarly, QQ imitates ICQ, baidu imitates Google, Taobao imitates eBay, microblog imitates twitter, and even today's popular wechat and didi taxi are imitated.
In addition, there are all kinds of TV variety shows and game production, many of which are brought in from abroad. In terms of vision and insight, we have fallen behind. Imagine what kind of life it would be if we were the first to contact these things. So let's learn more and increase our knowledge. At least we can tell it to children in the future.
16. The thinking of college students is limited and the polarization is obvious.
Now there are more work contacts with college students. It is found that many students are not as good as each other. It may also be the reason why the living environment has become comfortable. There is a serious lack of sense of crisis and struggle compared with college students in the past. In the past, college students really pursued something and really studied with their heart.
Now it has changed, especially some colleges and universities in small cities.
With the rapid development of the Internet, college students in first tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are more exposed to new things and have not been left behind by the times. However, after investigation, college students in some small cities found that many students do not understand many things, seriously lag behind in thinking and pursue less, There are also many undergraduates who started wechat quotient instead of accumulating themselves in school. They also feel confused. If this goes on, they are bound to open the gap with students in big cities in the future. The road of struggle may be slower and narrower.
17. Reading is very important, so is traveling.
Reading can be wise. Mr. Gorky said: "books are the ladder of human progress."
The simplest reason is that reading more books can make you feel a lot of writing inspiration. It can make you use the writing method better. For example, when writing, we can often use some good words and sentences in books and life philosophy. Make others think you are more literary and aesthetic.
Reading more books can also make people feel that you know the book and answer the gift, rich connotation and demeanor. You can add more extra-curricular knowledge. Mr. Bacon said, "knowledge is power." It can cultivate your sentiment, make your mood not too impetuous, and promote your physical and mental health and happiness.
There are too many benefits of reading. If you search, you will find that many excellent people and successful entrepreneurs have the habit of reading, regardless of their educational background.
Remember not to read dead books. You should learn to think, and learn to look at it from the author's point of view and your own point of view. The best way is to take reading notes and stick to it. Your thinking ability, evaluation criteria and logical way will be very fruitful.
As for travel, ichiko Tanaka, the founder of Muji in Japan, once warned the team to try to travel alone. Because if you don't go out and walk, it's difficult to maximize the absorption of nutrients that help design and your own ability. The more you act alone, the more opportunities you have to get in touch with people and things. The more you observe, the more you will arouse new interest and get the ability to compare. Only with correct observation can we obtain the ability of reflection. Only those who try to observe carefully can get inspiration continuously.
I have passed the Sichuan Tibet line and Yunnan Tibet line, and also crossed the border. My real feeling and imagination are completely different. When jobs was young, he also went to India. Later, he said in his speech at Stanford University that "life is connected". It is said that Liu qiangdong also has a hobby. He often takes instant noodles, ham and tents into the desert for two months.
18. Let yourself master a skill.
No matter what you do or study, try your best to have a skill other than your major. It may be that you do well in PPT, play well in Photoshop, or be interested in photography, writing, baking, many
Thanks to the Internet, there are many platforms now, and we can easily find a large number of excellent sharing. Whether you focus on any industry, photography, design or program, you can find enough skills to meet your self-study.
These skills will become your bonus items in both career development and life, and enrich your life.
19. Beijing is very good. Love will be the best reason for you to stay.
When you left Beijing and went to a small city, you found the benefits of Beijing. It has a lot of charm to attract you, advanced ideas, profound cultural heritage and like-minded partners.
Liu Tong once said this about why you stay in Beijing. Beijing is a city where you say your dream and no one will scold you for being stupid. You dare to dream, speak, pay for your dream, find your own kind for the same dream. You dare to lose, even if you can only achieve one or two, It's much better than the former one
In a metropolis like Beijing, ordinary people can't stay, and the best reason for you to stay should be that there is someone worth staying here.
20. Marriage is meeting the right person at the right time.
Once a friend pursued a girl. The girl said to my friend that she had no feelings. The girl also said that if it was the person she felt, she would not have any material requirements and was willing to follow that person to the ends of the earth.
A friend didn't become a girl's person with feelings, but the girl's so-called person with feelings still didn't come five years later.
I once read an article in which an old woman told her granddaughter that in ancient times, marriage was not called marriage, but marriage, which means that two people will become relatives in the future.
When you are young, you can live your life vividly, but when you are old, you will understand how important the person around you is. Your grandparents will live in their own way.
Some people say that life is the process of finding love. Everyone has to find four people in his life. The first is himself, the second is the one you love most, the third is the one who loves you most, and the fourth is the one who spends his life together.
Some things cannot be forced, especially the most magical feelings given to mankind by God.
I wish all my friends, don't forget to be nice to themselves and live as they like.
Those who muddle along always feel that there is more time, and those who do business always feel that there is not enough time. A few days ago, I saw the article "sleep only 3 hours a day, I insist on 7 years" in the "forest dimension". After reading it, I was shocked. I agree with many views except too little sleep. For those who muddle along, their daily life will not be full. Going to work every day is looking forward to getting off work, holidays, playing games and watching the live broadcast. They feel that time passes slowly. But people who have dreams or have their own career must feel that there is not enough time every day, even if they don't sleep for 24 hours. With the rapid development of this era, if you don't work hard, there will be a lot of colleagues working hard. If you don't work hard, the boss has no reason to reward you. If you don't work hard, what will you say at the summary meeting. If you don't work hard, your competitors' companies are working hard. If you don't work hard, you won't know how to compete in the future until you cut the staff one day? People who are better than you have to work harder than you. Should you give up easily? Most of us are ordinary and ordinary. In other words, we may feel that we have some ability. In fact, it is all given to us by the company's platform. The platform has made us. Without this platform, we may be nothing. Don't think you are jobs, Remus, etc. you can bring great value to a company wherever you go. Some abilities come from your own desire. If you change your job and start a career, you will understand how low you are. To gain experience from work, don't be afraid of career adventure. The more you try early in life, the more likely your final choice is to be beneficial. When you feel that you know less as you grow older, you are growing up and have an unlimited future. 11. Health is very important. It has an incubation period.
Health is the most important thing. Without health, everything is in vain. This is somewhat contradictory to the above, but I believe everyone knows it.
If you want to be healthy, don't stay up late as much as possible and make your life regular as much as possible.
In the past two years, I stayed up late, my life was seriously irregular, and I didn't feel how my body was. This year, I found that there were changes unknowingly, and I often felt all kinds of discomfort and fatigue.
I know that for those who still have dreams about life, time is not enough.
But this can not be a reason to stay up late and work hard. Your body is not only your own, but also your parents, wife and children.
What you need is adjustment and efficiency. In fact, people who really have dreams and can use their time will not live in such a mess. Health has an incubation period. When it comes to middle-aged and old people, it will burst out. There are many such examples around us. They have left at a young age. There are reasons and results.
12. Internet entrepreneurship has been a golden decade.
The best commercial outlet in modern times should be reform and opening up. Those who stood at this outlet became rich. Later, there was the outlet of the Internet industry. Those who stood at this outlet also flew up, flying high and looking far.
It has been two decades since China's commercial Internet began in 1995 to 2015. At present, the golden growth decade of the Internet has ended. The golden decade has passed. This year and next year, the entrepreneurial market will be more and more difficult to go, and a large number of entrepreneurial companies will die in recent years.
Then we will enter the silver decade. Entrepreneurs who are unable or can't keep up with the times in this decade should be eliminated.
Bat is no longer a company.
Bat platform built its own castle and completed its own moat in the previous decade.
It is suggested that other entrepreneurs do not build platforms, especially e-commerce platforms. Because the road of platform is dead, the era that you can start a business by developing a platform or making an app by yourself is gradually disappearing. Your own platform and app will only be a tool for your own enterprise in the future.
I read an article to the effect that there are too many products on the market and there are not enough users. It took less than 10 years for Internet users from 100 million to 800 million, but when they pushed forward from 800 million, they encountered a user red line. In addition, there are many people who do not understand Chinese, do not know words, have poor eyesight, or are physically inconvenient. The growth of users will be more and more difficult.
In short, the demographic dividend of the Internet is over.
From the perspective of PV, the three bat companies account for more than 10 billion PV per day, while the PV of the whole country is more than 20 billion a day (800 million users, 30 PV per capita). In terms of access time, bat also takes up a lot of time for users to watch videos, order takeout, circle of friends, search and shopping... This is not counting the companies and affiliated companies invested by bat.
The reason why foreign Internet giants cannot enter the Chinese market is that bat is so powerful that it has to acquire dozens of Companies in the next 58 years.
So all users are at bat, and there are so few new users. In the days of relying on giants, doing your best is nothing more than being invested by me or blocking you.
13. To do what you like, failure is also a kind of happiness.
There is a detour in everyone's youth. No one can finish it for you, but the future is always there. That's their own road.
Living is a process, experience and experience, not two points and one line. A person's dream may not be valuable, but a person's efforts are very valuable.
You must find your own rhythm of life. This rhythm is not realized by thinking. You can arrive only by starting. You can't go anywhere without starting. The terrible thing is not that your life is coming to an end, but that your life has never really started.
Many people are afraid to face their dreams because they are afraid of not realizing their dreams. But if the dream can be realized so easily, what is the significance of realizing it? The reason why a dream is a dream is that it is difficult to realize.
Never avoid your past, let alone use the past to involve your future. It doesn't matter whether there is hope or not. What matters is that you are willing to work hard for it and see hope. No one cares about your life, and don't let others control your life. The world doesn't care so much about you, and don't let the world change your rhythm.
If people can find what they really like to do, it is a kind of happiness in itself.
Choose a favorite thing to do, do it as an important thing for you, and do your best in it, instead of trying what others think is good. Or that sentence, only give up, can focus, only give up, can pursue.
14. You can do business, but don't start a business.
Now the entrepreneurial market has become impetuous, and the comprehensive ability of entrepreneurs now is not as good as those entrepreneurs before. As the saying goes, employees deceive the boss, the boss deceives the investors, and the investors deceive the investors. More and more young people choose to start a business, just thinking about ways to get investors' money, and then burn it for a few years and then close it down.
In recent years, you will find that a large number of companies of post-80s and post-90s entrepreneurs have closed down unknowingly. In this way, the state is still strengthening and encouraging college students without any social experience to start businesses. Isn't it waiting to be cheated? It's ok if you have a good attitude. If you have a bad attitude, the pit is serious. You can't do anything.
Entrepreneurship is really not what ordinary people do, especially when the environment is weak. For low-level entrepreneurial players, it is asking for trouble.
It has always been believed that entrepreneurship is more difficult than doing business, and doing business is more difficult than being a good professional manager. It's strange that many people don't even have the qualification to be an excellent wage earner, but they have started the operation of difficult projects.
Some people work like starting a business, while others start a business like working.
Chen Caigen once analyzed that business people are more reliable than entrepreneurs. The needs of both buyers and sellers are very clear. If you are sick, I have medicine. Give me money and give you treatment.
The rudeness and directness of the business is a kind of respect for both ends of the business. It not only saves time and cost, but also reflects sincerity. As for whether it can be sold for a long time, it depends on whether its own goods have a comparative advantage.
I used to think about starting a business, but now I don't think so. I don't think I'm starting a business or doing business. Now I just want to say that I do what I like or deserve with a calm state of mind.
15. Contact with new things more. English is very important.
As an art student, I didn't know the importance of English before. Later, when I really worked, I felt that English was very important. If you know English, you can talk about cooperation with foreigners, chat with foreigners in Beijing, travel abroad without worrying about poor communication, and browse various excellent foreign design websites and program websites, so as to better contact new things.
For example, if Ma Yun didn't know English and didn't go abroad, there would be no Alibaba today. Similarly, QQ imitates ICQ, baidu imitates Google, Taobao imitates eBay, microblog imitates twitter, and even today's popular wechat and didi taxi are imitated.
In addition, there are all kinds of TV variety shows and game production, many of which are brought in from abroad. In terms of vision and insight, we have fallen behind. Imagine what kind of life it would be if we were the first to contact these things. So let's learn more and increase our knowledge. At least we can tell it to children in the future.
16. The thinking of college students is limited and the polarization is obvious.
Now there are more work contacts with college students. It is found that many students are not as good as each other. It may also be the reason why the living environment has become comfortable. There is a serious lack of sense of crisis and struggle compared with college students in the past. In the past, college students really pursued something and really studied with their heart.
Now it has changed, especially some colleges and universities in small cities.
With the rapid development of the Internet, college students in first tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are more exposed to new things and have not been left behind by the times. However, after investigation, college students in some small cities found that many students do not understand many things, seriously lag behind in thinking and pursue less, There are also many undergraduates who started wechat quotient instead of accumulating themselves in school. They also feel confused. If this goes on, they are bound to open the gap with students in big cities in the future. The road of struggle may be slower and narrower.
17. Reading is very important, so is traveling.
Reading can be wise. Mr. Gorky said: "books are the ladder of human progress."
The simplest reason is that reading more books can make you feel a lot of writing inspiration. It can make you use the writing method better. For example, when writing, we can often use some good words and sentences in books and life philosophy. Make others think you are more literary and aesthetic.
Reading more books can also make people feel that you know the book and answer the gift, rich connotation and demeanor. You can add more extra-curricular knowledge. Mr. Bacon said, "knowledge is power." It can cultivate your sentiment, make your mood not too impetuous, and promote your physical and mental health and happiness.
There are too many benefits of reading. If you search, you will find that many excellent people and successful entrepreneurs have the habit of reading, regardless of their educational background.
Remember not to read dead books. You should learn to think, and learn to look at it from the author's point of view and your own point of view. The best way is to take reading notes and stick to it. Your thinking ability, evaluation criteria and logical way will be very fruitful.
As for travel, ichiko Tanaka, the founder of Muji in Japan, once warned the team to try to travel alone. Because if you don't go out and walk, it's difficult to maximize the absorption of nutrients that help design and your own ability. The more you act alone, the more opportunities you have to get in touch with people and things. The more you observe, the more you will arouse new interest and get the ability to compare. Only with correct observation can we obtain the ability of reflection. Only those who try to observe carefully can get inspiration continuously.
I have passed the Sichuan Tibet line and Yunnan Tibet line, and also crossed the border. My real feeling and imagination are completely different. When jobs was young, he also went to India. Later, he said in his speech at Stanford University that "life is connected". It is said that Liu qiangdong also has a hobby. He often takes instant noodles, ham and tents into the desert for two months.
18. Let yourself master a skill.
No matter what you do or study, try your best to have a skill other than your major. It may be that you do well in PPT, play well in Photoshop, or be interested in photography, writing, baking, many
Thanks to the Internet, there are many platforms now, and we can easily find a large number of excellent sharing. Whether you focus on any industry, photography, design or program, you can find enough skills to meet your self-study.
These skills will become your bonus items in both career development and life, and enrich your life.
19. Beijing is very good. Love will be the best reason for you to stay.
When you left Beijing and went to a small city, you found the benefits of Beijing. It has a lot of charm to attract you, advanced ideas, profound cultural heritage and like-minded partners.
Liu Tong once said this about why you stay in Beijing. Beijing is a city where you say your dream and no one will scold you for being stupid. You dare to dream, speak, pay for your dream, find your own kind for the same dream. You dare to lose, even if you can only achieve one or two, It's much better than the former one
In a metropolis like Beijing, ordinary people can't stay, and the best reason for you to stay should be that there is someone worth staying here.
20. Marriage is meeting the right person at the right time.
Once a friend pursued a girl. The girl said to my friend that she had no feelings. The girl also said that if it was the person she felt, she would not have any material requirements and was willing to follow that person to the ends of the earth.
A friend didn't become a girl's person with feelings, but the girl's so-called person with feelings still didn't come five years later.
I once read an article in which an old woman told her granddaughter that in ancient times, marriage was not called marriage, but marriage, which means that two people will become relatives in the future.
When you are young, you can live your life vividly, but when you are old, you will understand how important the person around you is. Your grandparents will live in their own way.
Some people say that life is the process of finding love. Everyone has to find four people in his life. The first is himself, the second is the one you love most, the third is the one who loves you most, and the fourth is the one who spends his life together.
Some things cannot be forced, especially the most magical feelings given to mankind by God.
I wish all my friends, don't forget to be nice to themselves and live as they like.
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