There is only one difference between mediocre people and excellent people in essence, that is, whether they have the ability to do a good job. The standard to measure whether a person is outstanding or not is whether he is outstanding in a field and whether he reaches a level that ordinary people can't catch up with. How to achieve excellence? Many people will say that you should have a precise goal, make a reasonable plan, make efforts, do more exercise, persevere and so on. But these are useless. For a successful person, you can sum up his experience, analyze his course, and conclude that his success is due to his long-term vision / having a good wife / persisting in raising bears 32 times a day to change his fortune, etc., but it is all based on the [result] that he has been successful and outstanding, and find the conditions to support the result. The things that everyone will encounter in his life are so complicated. Even if you study Ma Yun's personal experience thoroughly and put you in Ma Yun's teenage environment, you may not be able to make Ma Yun's great career today. I am not saying that it is useless to sum up the experience of our predecessors, but that it depends on who has absorbed this experience. Just as there are many useful experiences on the Internet and excellent methods of living, studying and working, many people have praised them one after another and thought they were very good. Some people can benefit from chicken soup while others can't. the most fundamental reason is not the quality of chicken soup, but whether you have the ability to absorb nutrients from chicken soup. When you go whoring, you are met by a 46 year old aunt who can't be replaced. You are very depressed. You come in a hurry and leave with nausea. You think this kiln is really rotten. You will never come again. However, if a crazy salesperson goes, even though she is 46 years old, he will still play happily with her. He will open her heart and let her buy his Amway; Comfort her soul, and then let her buy his Amway; Tell her a bedtime story and ask her to buy his Amway Whether a person is outstanding or not, whether he has a future or whether he will be powerful in the future, fundamentally speaking, it all depends on who he is, rather than what he does on the surface. Some people tell you that if you want to be outstanding, you must make unremitting efforts, but you find that some people who don't work so hard succeed; Some people tell you that if you want to be outstanding, you need to have a great dream, but you find that many people who don't have dreams and do things at will have fucking succeeded again; Some people tell you that if you want to be outstanding, you must insist that you don't care about other people's opinions, but you find that many people who insist on their beliefs are poor in life. You can only see the surface of the truth that others have told you. You always want to find a law to follow for everything. You think you can avoid failure as long as you know a lot of experience. Silly boy, life is full of chance and uncertainty. There is never a truth and rule in the world that can guarantee your success and your excellence as long as you follow it. There is always binary opposition in the logical system of human beings. You will always find that many things can be explained directly or inversely. As the saying goes, rabbits don't eat grass near their nests. As the saying goes, a building near water gets the moon first. You have to learn to recognize your own true thoughts and face yourself honestly, instead of relying on other people's experience and the truth told you by others to live your own life. So I have said several times that not cheating yourself is the first step towards maturity. You have to learn to be honest with yourself before you can look at the problem rationally, you won't be confused by those words that seem reasonable, you can distinguish what is really useful to you, and you can learn to be responsible for yourself, face your own problems and find solutions by yourself. I wonder if you have noticed that we always like to add a reason and a rule to explain many things. For example, if you fail to start a business, you will think hard and sum up several experiences to tell yourself that the early preparation is insufficient, the personnel ability is not good, and there are problems in the operation ideas. But in fact, these experiences and summaries do have certain reference significance, but for some people, such summaries and experiences are to a large extent a kind of "psychological comfort" we give ourselves. Because we subconsciously fear the unknown, we subconsciously fear chance, because chance means uncontrollable, which means that we are actually powerless about reality. No one dares to admit that he doesn't know why he failed. He dares not to admit that many factors of his failure come from chance. He dares not to admit that many things in his life are beyond his control no matter how hard he tries or how hard he pays. So we like to hear the truth, we like to hear the summary of things, because those principles and summaries will make you feel that you "seem" to know everything, and you feel that you have traces to follow, so these principles and summaries will give you a sense of security. Please first realize and accept the existence of chance and uncontrollable elements in life, and then look at this problem. Now think about this sentence: "whether you are successful or not, whether you are outstanding or not, first of all, depends on who you are, not what you have done." See? Now let's analyze the essence of excellence. Excellence simply means that a person can do a thing very well, so good that most people can't surpass it. So fundamentally, excellence depends on whether you can do a good job. The standard to measure whether a thing is done well is not how much time you have invested in it, how much practice you have done, how much effort you have made, and what sacrifices you have made, but only the quality of your output. The measurement standard points to the quality of your output. If you want to be an excellent writer, you should speak with your works, if you want to be an excellent product manager, you should speak with your products, and if you want to be an excellent public transport coyote, you should speak with your obscene things. Before your outstanding works came out, everything you did before that was to serve to achieve this result. Whether you choose to work hard or choose to go off the beaten track, in essence, it's just that you choose to go to the end on a different road. So you should understand that you should not be confused by the differences of those means, be confused by the judgment standards of the society and your own emotions, and don't take your own money and move yourself. You want to be the first in your class in the next exam. Before that, you didn't go to bed until 1 a.m. every night. No matter what class, you took crazy notes, hung your head on a beam, pricked your head, ate three eggs for a meal to supplement protein and enhance your memory, but you only got the tenth in your class. At this time, please remember, don't be depressed because you feel humiliated in front of others, don't hate your lack of effort because of a temporary failure, and don't work harder to make others think you are a self-motivated person. In a word, don't deceive yourself first. Depression, sadness, regret and other emotions are not natural reactions after failure. I tell you that negative emotions are essentially an escape from reality. You immerse yourself in negative emotions to avoid facing your real problems. Some people will feel that this failure is just because their "efforts" are not enough, so they should work harder. This "statement" is right, but most people's understanding of the word "effort" only stays at "the behavior that seems to be working hard, the amount and length of effort". But the real effort is to find the root of the problem and take actions that are truly meaningful and effective. A problem many people are reluctant to admit is that the reason why they are so mediocre in their bones is that they are lazy and unwilling to face the real problems. They don't want to change themselves. They dare not think that the reason why they didn't do well in the exam this time is that they didn't really memorize the key points of the compulsory exam and didn't figure out the ideas of the exam questions. Although they learned by themselves every day until the early morning, the efficiency of self-study was not good. On the contrary, the quality of class listening was not high because they took up the rest time. Although they recited the text a hundred times, they didn't really remember it by heart every time. In fact, many people subconsciously realize that what they do will not solve the real problem. They also know that what they do will not solve the real problem. But it is because they comfort and fool themselves with the truth that "hard work will pay off" and "pay will always gain". They naive fantasize that the problem will be solved by themselves, I am naive to think that although I don't really do something that can produce value, I will do it well after a while. They are not willing to change themselves. They would rather know that their actions are wrong and that what they do will not produce results, or close their eyes and fool the past, as if God would help them solve everything. So many people's so-called efforts are just an escape from the real problem. There are many times in life, the more you want to force yourself to change, the more you want to "become" stable, "become" purposeful, "and" become "hard, the more you can't do it. You can really be steady and steady. When you have a goal and can stick to it, it is not because you read an article telling you to work hard. How do you determine your ideal? You will work hard, and you will have a goal. People often need opportunities to change. Although seeing a really thoughtful article may also be an opportunity, the probability is very small, because the most essential thing is the accumulation of your past knowledge, cognitive ability and thinking mode. This miracle, as a breakthrough point, connects some of your previous knowledge points, and then you suddenly realize that you really understand it, and then change naturally. So do not deliberately pursue, but pay more attention to "accumulation". Back to the problem, in reality, to do a good job requires time to study and practice. Theoretically, a person can achieve excellence as long as he invests enough energy and time in a field to study. However, in reality, a person is often unable to study in a field because of the conflict between his will and survival problems, and people will always deceive themselves, Dare not face the real problems and do not make real "effective" efforts, resulting in many people can only live a mediocre life. But for most people, even if they know the reasons for their mediocrity and how to achieve excellence after reading this article, they will still brush their microblogs tomorrow, do jobs they don't like, and immerse themselves in ineffective social networking. They won't pay practical actions, and they are lazy to do a good job. This is not just because they are lazy, because they are used to mediocrity, but because people's life is unpredictable, and human nature is difficult to change. Most people are stubbornly confined to their existing knowledge of the world, immersed in the cheap sense of security that can be obtained by deceiving themselves, and are unaware of the fact that they are lonely and only they can be responsible for themselves. No matter whether you want to become outstanding, become rich, or learn to pick up girls, any change that involves people themselves is nonsense. Take that step, go out of your psychological comfort zone, and try new things. Then the truth that you just "know" but don't "understand" can be truly accepted in your mind, and your behavior and your nature can be changed. Maybe you haven't come to the day of change, maybe you haven't encountered the opportunity that makes you realize, but from now on, you can at least try not to deceive yourself and comfort yourself with reason and experience. No matter what you want to do, don't hesitate, just do it.

There is only one difference between mediocre people and excellent people in essence, that is, whether they have the ability to do a good job. The standard to measure whether a person is outstanding or not is whether he is outstanding in a field and whether he reaches a level that ordinary people can't catch up with. How to achieve excellence? Many people will say that you should have a precise goal, make a reasonable plan, make efforts, do more exercise, persevere and so on. But these are useless. For a successful person, you can sum up his experience, analyze his course, and conclude that his success is due to his long-term vision / having a good wife / persisting in raising bears 32 times a day to change his fortune, etc., but it is all based on the [result] that he has been successful and outstanding, and find the conditions to support the result. The things that everyone will encounter in his life are so complicated. Even if you study Ma Yun's personal experience thoroughly and put you in Ma Yun's teenage environment, you may not be able to make Ma Yun's great career today. I am not saying that it is useless to sum up the experience of our predecessors, but that it depends on who has absorbed this experience. Just as there are many useful experiences on the Internet and excellent methods of living, studying and working, many people have praised them one after another and thought they were very good. Some people can benefit from chicken soup while others can't. the most fundamental reason is not the quality of chicken soup, but whether you have the ability to absorb nutrients from chicken soup. When you go whoring, you are met by a 46 year old aunt who can't be replaced. You are very depressed. You come in a hurry and leave with nausea. You think this kiln is really rotten. You will never come again. However, if a crazy salesperson goes, even though she is 46 years old, he will still play happily with her. He will open her heart and let her buy his Amway; Comfort her soul, and then let her buy his Amway; Tell her a bedtime story and ask her to buy his Amway Whether a person is outstanding or not, whether he has a future or whether he will be powerful in the future, fundamentally speaking, it all depends on who he is, rather than what he does on the surface. Some people tell you that if you want to be outstanding, you must make unremitting efforts, but you find that some people who don't work so hard succeed; Some people tell you that if you want to be outstanding, you need to have a great dream, but you find that many people who don't have dreams and do things at will have fucking succeeded again; Some people tell you that if you want to be outstanding, you must insist that you don't care about other people's opinions, but you find that many people who insist on their beliefs are poor in life. You can only see the surface of the truth that others have told you. You always want to find a law to follow for everything. You think you can avoid failure as long as you know a lot of experience. Silly boy, life is full of chance and uncertainty. There is never a truth and rule in the world that can guarantee your success and your excellence as long as you follow it. There is always binary opposition in the logical system of human beings. You will always find that many things can be explained directly or inversely. As the saying goes, rabbits don't eat grass near their nests. As the saying goes, a building near water gets the moon first. You have to learn to recognize your own true thoughts and face yourself honestly, instead of relying on other people's experience and the truth told you by others to live your own life. So I have said several times that not cheating yourself is the first step towards maturity. You have to learn to be honest with yourself before you can look at the problem rationally, you won't be confused by those words that seem reasonable, you can distinguish what is really useful to you, and you can learn to be responsible for yourself, face your own problems and find solutions by yourself. I wonder if you have noticed that we always like to add a reason and a rule to explain many things. For example, if you fail to start a business, you will think hard and sum up several experiences to tell yourself that the early preparation is insufficient, the personnel ability is not good, and there are problems in the operation ideas. But in fact, these experiences and summaries do have certain reference significance, but for some people, such summaries and experiences are to a large extent a kind of "psychological comfort" we give ourselves. Because we subconsciously fear the unknown, we subconsciously fear chance, because chance means uncontrollable, which means that we are actually powerless about reality. No one dares to admit that he doesn't know why he failed. He dares not to admit that many factors of his failure come from chance. He dares not to admit that many things in his life are beyond his control no matter how hard he tries or how hard he pays. So we like to hear the truth, we like to hear the summary of things, because those principles and summaries will make you feel that you "seem" to know everything, and you feel that you have traces to follow, so these principles and summaries will give you a sense of security. Please first realize and accept the existence of chance and uncontrollable elements in life, and then look at this problem. Now think about this sentence: "whether you are successful or not, whether you are outstanding or not, first of all, depends on who you are, not what you have done." See? Now let's analyze the essence of excellence. Excellence simply means that a person can do a thing very well, so good that most people can't surpass it. So fundamentally, excellence depends on whether you can do a good job. The standard to measure whether a thing is done well is not how much time you have invested in it, how much practice you have done, how much effort you have made, and what sacrifices you have made, but only the quality of your output. The measurement standard points to the quality of your output. If you want to be an excellent writer, you should speak with your works, if you want to be an excellent product manager, you should speak with your products, and if you want to be an excellent public transport coyote, you should speak with your obscene things. Before your outstanding works came out, everything you did before that was to serve to achieve this result. Whether you choose to work hard or choose to go off the beaten track, in essence, it's just that you choose to go to the end on a different road. So you should understand that you should not be confused by the differences of those means, be confused by the judgment standards of the society and your own emotions, and don't take your own money and move yourself. You want to be the first in your class in the next exam. Before that, you didn't go to bed until 1 a.m. every night. No matter what class, you took crazy notes, hung your head on a beam, pricked your head, ate three eggs for a meal to supplement protein and enhance your memory, but you only got the tenth in your class. At this time, please remember, don't be depressed because you feel humiliated in front of others, don't hate your lack of effort because of a temporary failure, and don't work harder to make others think you are a self-motivated person. In a word, don't deceive yourself first. Depression, sadness, regret and other emotions are not natural reactions after failure. I tell you that negative emotions are essentially an escape from reality. You immerse yourself in negative emotions to avoid facing your real problems. Some people will feel that this failure is just because their "efforts" are not enough, so they should work harder. This "statement" is right, but most people's understanding of the word "effort" only stays at "the behavior that seems to be working hard, the amount and length of effort". But the real effort is to find the root of the problem and take actions that are truly meaningful and effective. A problem many people are reluctant to admit is that the reason why they are so mediocre in their bones is that they are lazy and unwilling to face the real problems. They don't want to change themselves. They dare not think that the reason why they didn't do well in the exam this time is that they didn't really memorize the key points of the compulsory exam and didn't figure out the ideas of the exam questions. Although they learned by themselves every day until the early morning, the efficiency of self-study was not good. On the contrary, the quality of class listening was not high because they took up the rest time. Although they recited the text a hundred times, they didn't really remember it by heart every time. In fact, many people subconsciously realize that what they do will not solve the real problem. They also know that what they do will not solve the real problem. But it is because they comfort and fool themselves with the truth that "hard work will pay off" and "pay will always gain". They naive fantasize that the problem will be solved by themselves, I am naive to think that although I don't really do something that can produce value, I will do it well after a while. They are not willing to change themselves. They would rather know that their actions are wrong and that what they do will not produce results, or close their eyes and fool the past, as if God would help them solve everything. So many people's so-called efforts are just an escape from the real problem. There are many times in life, the more you want to force yourself to change, the more you want to "become" stable, "become" purposeful, "and" become "hard, the more you can't do it. You can really be steady and steady. When you have a goal and can stick to it, it is not because you read an article telling you to work hard. How do you determine your ideal? You will work hard, and you will have a goal. People often need opportunities to change. Although seeing a really thoughtful article may also be an opportunity, the probability is very small, because the most essential thing is the accumulation of your past knowledge, cognitive ability and thinking mode. This miracle, as a breakthrough point, connects some of your previous knowledge points, and then you suddenly realize that you really understand it, and then change naturally. So do not deliberately pursue, but pay more attention to "accumulation". Back to the problem, in reality, to do a good job requires time to study and practice. Theoretically, a person can achieve excellence as long as he invests enough energy and time in a field to study. However, in reality, a person is often unable to study in a field because of the conflict between his will and survival problems, and people will always deceive themselves, Dare not face the real problems and do not make real "effective" efforts, resulting in many people can only live a mediocre life. But for most people, even if they know the reasons for their mediocrity and how to achieve excellence after reading this article, they will still brush their microblogs tomorrow, do jobs they don't like, and immerse themselves in ineffective social networking. They won't pay practical actions, and they are lazy to do a good job. This is not just because they are lazy, because they are used to mediocrity, but because people's life is unpredictable, and human nature is difficult to change. Most people are stubbornly confined to their existing knowledge of the world, immersed in the cheap sense of security that can be obtained by deceiving themselves, and are unaware of the fact that they are lonely and only they can be responsible for themselves. No matter whether you want to become outstanding, become rich, or learn to pick up girls, any change that involves people themselves is nonsense. Take that step, go out of your psychological comfort zone, and try new things. Then the truth that you just "know" but don't "understand" can be truly accepted in your mind, and your behavior and your nature can be changed. Maybe you haven't come to the day of change, maybe you haven't encountered the opportunity that makes you realize, but from now on, you can at least try not to deceive yourself and comfort yourself with reason and experience. No matter what you want to do, don't hesitate, just do it.