one According to Jin Yong, the person who can't speak is Guo Jing, but Guo Jing has the best life. He not only became a big brother in the Jianghu with the help of celebrities of various sects, but also married the smart and beautiful rich second generation Huang Rong. Huang Rong treated him a hundred times better than an ordinary girl treated her foolish husband. Always praise positively and even belittle yourself: you are a good man and I am a bad girl. How can a person who can't speak have good luck When I read "shooting carving" when I was young, I thought the author was really a kind person. He portrayed Guo Jing as a six-year-old fool who could only speak, but he was lucky, which undoubtedly gave a boost to the clumsy people. At that time, I was a girl who couldn't speak. Until now, I don't belong to the person who can talk and laugh at the wine table. I have limited talent, slow speed, low voice, and my head moves faster than my mouth. It is suitable for small-scale, one-to-one communication. So I always envy those people to go crazy. The more people there are, the more they can shine, have a loud voice and witty words. No matter how simple things come out of their mouths, they are extremely interesting. For a while, I tried very hard to be that kind of person. I read many videos and articles about conversation skills. When I saw an article saying that you can't speak because you don't have enough knowledge, I made up for some common sense of wine table. As a result, at a classmate's party, everyone talked about red wine. I grabbed the head and talked endlessly, which I had just learned. As a result, not only was the party ignored by me, but also my classmates said behind my back that I was too pretending. two I was full of grievances until I met a former colleague. He gave everyone the impression that he was honest, dull and trustworthy. Now he has made a fortune in business and become confident. In addition, he is the host of the dinner party, so he said a lot of his own history of wealth and told a lot of great truth about life. There is only one purpose. People who used to look down on him can't climb up now. Someone can make any topic interesting, and he can just put any topic in the cold. In the past, he could be clumsy if he talked less. Now when he talks more, he looks particularly disgusting. I started from this meal and understood the problem of people like us. The real question is not whether you can speak, but whether you can accept yourself who can't speak. Uneven polymorphism is the source of happiness. Not being able to speak is not enough to be a social barrier. The destruction of personal image begins with the sense of strength to be a social star without speaking. To describe it harshly is to look ugly. The articulate Huang Rong met Guo Jing for the first time. Guo Jing was greatly impressed by her elegant and knowledgeable conversation. Perhaps it was his great admiration that captured her heart. If people want to rely on their ability to speak, they can be divided into three, six and nine grades. The first class is those who can speak, the middle class is those who can't speak and talk less, and the second class is those who can't speak but always have to speak. Being able to talk is a gift. If you learn from a person who can talk, he may tell you a lot of experience, but he still can't solve your problem. three I began to understand that people who can't speak should first be a good listener and enjoy the company of friends who speak at the meeting, rather than envy them. Life is a sitcom. Everyone's most comfortable state is to be content with his own role. Even if the green leaf dragon suit has been done for a long time and well, it has its own reputation without grabbing the camera and complaining. I once attended a salon for women entrepreneurs. Most entrepreneurs have developed a pair of iron teeth and copper teeth. The last person to stand up is the founder of a healthy salad enterprise. He has a very beautiful figure and wears an eye-catching white gauze skirt. "My characteristic is that I can't speak and only eat, so my industry is also related to eating. It's getting late. Let's get ready for dinner," she said Everyone was stunned, smiled and began to applaud. The atmosphere like a speech contest suddenly relaxed. That day, she left a deep impression on me. Later, I saw her several times. She was really not good at words. She always sat in the corner and listened to everyone quietly. When she had to speak, she was the shortest. However, you can see that she has carefully prepared the shortest speech. Wearing a green skirt, she said, "I'm dressed like a piece of lettuce today. Lettuce can't talk, but it's nutritious. It's a standing green leaf in our salad." When she met a big restaurant party, she said, "today, there are a lot of fresh seafood, and salad is the supporting role. I will continue to be a good supporting role. I'll see you in the gym." Her image is light but not few, her words are few but her taste is long, which coincides with her healthy salad brand. four Is it possible for a person who can't speak to become a speaker after years of study and training? Of course. However, I prefer to see myself and be myself like a female entrepreneur selling salad. No matter how small an individual is, it is also a brand. No matter what career you are engaged in, you should establish your own brand in your interpersonal communication. If you can't speak, you can choose to be a close listener, a quiet beautiful man or a beautiful woman, and a wise commentator - less self prestige is better than a thousand words. When too many people want to be the focus of conversation and laughter, the focus may fall on people who can't speak. Just like a film and television play, it is full of small fresh meat traffic. As a result of competing with each other, the golden green leaves with strong acting skills stand out. Without him, because the posture is calm and good-looking, which makes people calm and calm. As a person who can't speak, you have the right to choose silence and be a passer-by with applause. However, when you have to speak, please prepare carefully. Don't envy others that their two-hour speech doesn't make a draft. It belongs to your life. Even a one minute speech should be rehearsed repeatedly. Love such a life. It is precisely because you do not have the talent to speak out that you are now: restrained, calm, thinking is more developed than language, and every word you say represents your wisdom and experience.

one According to Jin Yong, the person who can't speak is Guo Jing, but Guo Jing has the best life. He not only became a big brother in the Jianghu with the help of celebrities of various sects, but also married the smart and beautiful rich second generation Huang Rong. Huang Rong treated him a hundred times better than an ordinary girl treated her foolish husband. Always praise positively and even belittle yourself: you are a good man and I am a bad girl. How can a person who can't speak have good luck When I read "shooting carving" when I was young, I thought the author was really a kind person. He portrayed Guo Jing as a six-year-old fool who could only speak, but he was lucky, which undoubtedly gave a boost to the clumsy people. At that time, I was a girl who couldn't speak. Until now, I don't belong to the person who can talk and laugh at the wine table. I have limited talent, slow speed, low voice, and my head moves faster than my mouth. It is suitable for small-scale, one-to-one communication. So I always envy those people to go crazy. The more people there are, the more they can shine, have a loud voice and witty words. No matter how simple things come out of their mouths, they are extremely interesting. For a while, I tried very hard to be that kind of person. I read many videos and articles about conversation skills. When I saw an article saying that you can't speak because you don't have enough knowledge, I made up for some common sense of wine table. As a result, at a classmate's party, everyone talked about red wine. I grabbed the head and talked endlessly, which I had just learned. As a result, not only was the party ignored by me, but also my classmates said behind my back that I was too pretending. two I was full of grievances until I met a former colleague. He gave everyone the impression that he was honest, dull and trustworthy. Now he has made a fortune in business and become confident. In addition, he is the host of the dinner party, so he said a lot of his own history of wealth and told a lot of great truth about life. There is only one purpose. People who used to look down on him can't climb up now. Someone can make any topic interesting, and he can just put any topic in the cold. In the past, he could be clumsy if he talked less. Now when he talks more, he looks particularly disgusting. I started from this meal and understood the problem of people like us. The real question is not whether you can speak, but whether you can accept yourself who can't speak. Uneven polymorphism is the source of happiness. Not being able to speak is not enough to be a social barrier. The destruction of personal image begins with the sense of strength to be a social star without speaking. To describe it harshly is to look ugly. The articulate Huang Rong met Guo Jing for the first time. Guo Jing was greatly impressed by her elegant and knowledgeable conversation. Perhaps it was his great admiration that captured her heart. If people want to rely on their ability to speak, they can be divided into three, six and nine grades. The first class is those who can speak, the middle class is those who can't speak and talk less, and the second class is those who can't speak but always have to speak. Being able to talk is a gift. If you learn from a person who can talk, he may tell you a lot of experience, but he still can't solve your problem. three I began to understand that people who can't speak should first be a good listener and enjoy the company of friends who speak at the meeting, rather than envy them. Life is a sitcom. Everyone's most comfortable state is to be content with his own role. Even if the green leaf dragon suit has been done for a long time and well, it has its own reputation without grabbing the camera and complaining. I once attended a salon for women entrepreneurs. Most entrepreneurs have developed a pair of iron teeth and copper teeth. The last person to stand up is the founder of a healthy salad enterprise. He has a very beautiful figure and wears an eye-catching white gauze skirt. "My characteristic is that I can't speak and only eat, so my industry is also related to eating. It's getting late. Let's get ready for dinner," she said Everyone was stunned, smiled and began to applaud. The atmosphere like a speech contest suddenly relaxed. That day, she left a deep impression on me. Later, I saw her several times. She was really not good at words. She always sat in the corner and listened to everyone quietly. When she had to speak, she was the shortest. However, you can see that she has carefully prepared the shortest speech. Wearing a green skirt, she said, "I'm dressed like a piece of lettuce today. Lettuce can't talk, but it's nutritious. It's a standing green leaf in our salad." When she met a big restaurant party, she said, "today, there are a lot of fresh seafood, and salad is the supporting role. I will continue to be a good supporting role. I'll see you in the gym." Her image is light but not few, her words are few but her taste is long, which coincides with her healthy salad brand. four Is it possible for a person who can't speak to become a speaker after years of study and training? Of course. However, I prefer to see myself and be myself like a female entrepreneur selling salad. No matter how small an individual is, it is also a brand. No matter what career you are engaged in, you should establish your own brand in your interpersonal communication. If you can't speak, you can choose to be a close listener, a quiet beautiful man or a beautiful woman, and a wise commentator - less self prestige is better than a thousand words. When too many people want to be the focus of conversation and laughter, the focus may fall on people who can't speak. Just like a film and television play, it is full of small fresh meat traffic. As a result of competing with each other, the golden green leaves with strong acting skills stand out. Without him, because the posture is calm and good-looking, which makes people calm and calm. As a person who can't speak, you have the right to choose silence and be a passer-by with applause. However, when you have to speak, please prepare carefully. Don't envy others that their two-hour speech doesn't make a draft. It belongs to your life. Even a one minute speech should be rehearsed repeatedly. Love such a life. It is precisely because you do not have the talent to speak out that you are now: restrained, calm, thinking is more developed than language, and every word you say represents your wisdom and experience.