01 a new broom sweeps clean The new general manager first set fire to the middle-level cadres of the company, requiring all middle-level cadres to compete for posts, the capable and the mediocre, fair competition and the survival of the fittest. Half a month later, the dust of other posts was settled without dispute, and only the post of office director was inconclusive. After several competitions, the candidates will eventually be selected between Chen Honghong and Gu Lanlan. The office director is a comprehensive post. The candidates are required to be able to speak and write, good at coordination, and have high quality and comprehensive ability. The previous office directors have entered the leadership of the company. Therefore, this is a hot job. Both candidates are excellent and have their own merits. Chen Honghong is young and promising, and Gu Lanlan is calm and atmospheric. Everyone has focused on this post. We will wait and see who will win. The general manager asked Chen Honghong and Gu Lanlan to give a ten minute competitive speech in front of all employees and be sure to express their advantages. Chen Honghong gave full play to the characteristics of eloquence. Without modesty, he pointed out that he was younger than Gu Lanlan, energetic and had a strong ability to accept new things. He also stressed that he graduated from a famous university and had an authentic professional background. The implication was that Gu Lanlan's self-study undergraduate degree and experience from the bottom were not worth mentioning. After the speech, there was warm applause. Chen Honghong returned to her seat with a determined expression. Gu Lanlan came on the stage with a smile on her face and a small voice, but her words were concise and powerful. She outlined her journey from the bottom of the company to today's management position. In particular, it fully affirmed the advantages of Chen Honghong: young age, high education, strong innovation ability, strong momentum to admit defeat, etc., and made it clear that this is far inferior to him. Finally, she said that the competition focused on participation. No matter who is employed by the company, we will do our best for the company. The speech won warm applause from everyone. According to the public opinion evaluation results, Chen Honghong and Gu Lanlan are equal, regardless of the top and bottom. The final decision is made by the company's leadership. Of course, Gu Lanlan won in the end. Her magic weapon to win is to know how to praise her opponent. As we all know, the office director is not competent only by outstanding performance, but also needs comprehensive ability in all aspects. The most important thing is to learn to coordinate the relationship with others. Gu Lanlan fully affirmed the advantages of her opponent in her speech and gave her many pertinent praise, which shows that she is not only a person who knows the general situation and takes care of the overall situation, but also a person who is modest and good at coordinating interpersonal relations. With such a mind and bearing, she is the best candidate for the office director. Chen Honghong blindly emphasizes her own advantages and deliberately belittles others. In contrast, her realm and pattern are higher and lower. 02 Bill Gates, the founder of Microsoft, is a well-known giant in the electronic information industry. He and Apple's creative genius Steve jobs were true competitors. In the last days of jobs' life, Bill Gates visited the legendary protagonist one afternoon. After the death of jobs, others speculated that Gates had lost his strongest opponent. They must be very happy. But in fact, Gates is not only very unhappy, but also very depressed "I'm sorry to push such a good opponent. His genius creativity has made me, which is beyond my reach." Gates also spoke highly of his former opponents, saying: "Jobs has made brilliant achievements. If you have to choose someone who has the greatest impact on the PC industry, especially at this stage, you will choose jobs." When your opponent is seriously ill, you should sincerely visit him. After his death, you will not fall into the well, but praise him. This is the wind of a real general. It is rare in the world that gates can actively discover the advantages of his opponents, give them high praise and evaluation, clearly recognize his own shortcomings, and sincerely thank his opponents for their driving force. Such magnanimity and mind, such a pattern and realm, will eventually achieve today's gates. 03 The same is true in marriage. A good husband and wife know how to praise each other. You say hello to me and I say hello. Both of them are happy and happy. That's it for a lifetime. In spite of the opposition of her parents, her cousin resolutely married her brother-in-law who had nothing. After years of hard work, we have a house, a car, tickets and a son. The most rare thing is that the two people are still as close as ever. In their home, the secret to maintaining the love between husband and wife is that both of them are good teachers of each other. My brother-in-law bought a fish. It was too big, but my cousin kept praising him. He said that he could really buy it. All the fish were broken. The fish head stewed tofu was delicious and calcium was supplemented. The fish body was braised in brown sauce just for dinner. One fish was eaten twice. Now there are cooking and soup! The cousin's husband was very happy. Next time his cousin asked him to buy vegetables, he promised happily and ran away. My cousin has a cold and doesn't have a good taste. The dishes cooked for lunch are salty and light. The son complained a little after eating, but the cousin said, my wife is very kind. She cooks and takes care of our father and son when she is ill. This dish is salty, light and fresh. Good son, let's not dislike it. It's your mother's love. The son listened and stopped complaining. When my cousin heard this, she smiled into a flower, and her cold seemed to be much better all at once. My cousin said that it was not easy for your brother-in-law, a big man, to run around and earn money to support his family. He came back to help share the housework. I boasted that he made him happy, so he would be willing to do it next time. My cousin said that your cousin was desperate to marry me and served our father and son to eat, drink and Lazar. It was hard to work all day. Always remember to praise her and let her serve our family happily, isn't it good? This wise couple, like this, either you praise me or I praise you all day, praise each other, and make the plain and trivial days lively and fragrant. The couple are getting older and older, but their feelings are getting better and better. Everyone is very envious of their love for each other. 04 The neighbor Lao Ding and his wife are very different. The couple struggled to be the bad appraiser of each other. They quarreled all their life, and their good days were a mess. Lao Ding got up early and went out for a walk. On the way, he bought fried dough sticks and soybean milk for breakfast. Aunt Ding got up and became angry when she saw the fried dough sticks: you dead old boss, there is alum in the fried dough sticks. It's Alzheimer's disease to eat too much. The oil used is gutter oil, which was just broadcast on TV. Why did you buy it back? You are so lazy that your wife got up early to make breakfast. If you don't do it, you don't think I bought it well. Just don't eat it! It's time to fry the pot. Just for a trivial matter, the two people have a war with each other. You say I'm not good, and I say you're more cowardly. The family couldn't persuade them. They all left home and went to work early with dark faces. They were in a bad mood all day. Aunt Tao next door is wearing a fancy new shirt. It's very beautiful. Aunt Ding looked as like as two peas, and bought the same. As soon as he put it on, Lao Ding began to talk. Aunt Tao was white and slim, and her clothes were so beautiful. Look at you, black and fat, with thick skin. It looks like your upper body is long and your lower body is short. It's really ugly! As soon as aunt Ding was angry, she immediately retorted, and the two began a new round of curse war. The neighbors were too lazy to persuade them to make a noise. In fact, Lao Ding and his wife both retired from the garden management office. Their retirement wages are not cheap, and their children also have a good income. According to the family economic conditions, the old couple can live a comfortable old-age life happily. Just because they are always picky about each other, competing to give each other bad comments, quarreling with each other when they disagree, they will not be happy no matter how rich they are. One's strength depends on one's opponent. The weaker the opponent, even if you win, you won't win at all. The stronger the opponent, the stronger your strength. So your victory will be more valuable. If you know how to praise your opponent and fully affirm his advantages and strengths, you will win in the realm and pattern, mind and bearing. Marriage is a person's card. A good marriage can give you the energy to work hard outside and the courage to make a comeback. You must have loved each other very much, otherwise the two would not have entered marriage. The lover also chose by himself at the beginning. Giving praise to the lover is to give praise to himself, to affirm his vision, and to affirm himself. If you know how to praise your lover, you will win the happiness of marriage and life. Therefore, only those who know how to give praise to others are the real winners. A real wise man always knows how to give praise to others. No pay no gain. What you give will eventually come back to you in other ways. From today on, from now on, learn to praise others.

01 a new broom sweeps clean The new general manager first set fire to the middle-level cadres of the company, requiring all middle-level cadres to compete for posts, the capable and the mediocre, fair competition and the survival of the fittest. Half a month later, the dust of other posts was settled without dispute, and only the post of office director was inconclusive. After several competitions, the candidates will eventually be selected between Chen Honghong and Gu Lanlan. The office director is a comprehensive post. The candidates are required to be able to speak and write, good at coordination, and have high quality and comprehensive ability. The previous office directors have entered the leadership of the company. Therefore, this is a hot job. Both candidates are excellent and have their own merits. Chen Honghong is young and promising, and Gu Lanlan is calm and atmospheric. Everyone has focused on this post. We will wait and see who will win. The general manager asked Chen Honghong and Gu Lanlan to give a ten minute competitive speech in front of all employees and be sure to express their advantages. Chen Honghong gave full play to the characteristics of eloquence. Without modesty, he pointed out that he was younger than Gu Lanlan, energetic and had a strong ability to accept new things. He also stressed that he graduated from a famous university and had an authentic professional background. The implication was that Gu Lanlan's self-study undergraduate degree and experience from the bottom were not worth mentioning. After the speech, there was warm applause. Chen Honghong returned to her seat with a determined expression. Gu Lanlan came on the stage with a smile on her face and a small voice, but her words were concise and powerful. She outlined her journey from the bottom of the company to today's management position. In particular, it fully affirmed the advantages of Chen Honghong: young age, high education, strong innovation ability, strong momentum to admit defeat, etc., and made it clear that this is far inferior to him. Finally, she said that the competition focused on participation. No matter who is employed by the company, we will do our best for the company. The speech won warm applause from everyone. According to the public opinion evaluation results, Chen Honghong and Gu Lanlan are equal, regardless of the top and bottom. The final decision is made by the company's leadership. Of course, Gu Lanlan won in the end. Her magic weapon to win is to know how to praise her opponent. As we all know, the office director is not competent only by outstanding performance, but also needs comprehensive ability in all aspects. The most important thing is to learn to coordinate the relationship with others. Gu Lanlan fully affirmed the advantages of her opponent in her speech and gave her many pertinent praise, which shows that she is not only a person who knows the general situation and takes care of the overall situation, but also a person who is modest and good at coordinating interpersonal relations. With such a mind and bearing, she is the best candidate for the office director. Chen Honghong blindly emphasizes her own advantages and deliberately belittles others. In contrast, her realm and pattern are higher and lower. 02 Bill Gates, the founder of Microsoft, is a well-known giant in the electronic information industry. He and Apple's creative genius Steve jobs were true competitors. In the last days of jobs' life, Bill Gates visited the legendary protagonist one afternoon. After the death of jobs, others speculated that Gates had lost his strongest opponent. They must be very happy. But in fact, Gates is not only very unhappy, but also very depressed "I'm sorry to push such a good opponent. His genius creativity has made me, which is beyond my reach." Gates also spoke highly of his former opponents, saying: "Jobs has made brilliant achievements. If you have to choose someone who has the greatest impact on the PC industry, especially at this stage, you will choose jobs." When your opponent is seriously ill, you should sincerely visit him. After his death, you will not fall into the well, but praise him. This is the wind of a real general. It is rare in the world that gates can actively discover the advantages of his opponents, give them high praise and evaluation, clearly recognize his own shortcomings, and sincerely thank his opponents for their driving force. Such magnanimity and mind, such a pattern and realm, will eventually achieve today's gates. 03 The same is true in marriage. A good husband and wife know how to praise each other. You say hello to me and I say hello. Both of them are happy and happy. That's it for a lifetime. In spite of the opposition of her parents, her cousin resolutely married her brother-in-law who had nothing. After years of hard work, we have a house, a car, tickets and a son. The most rare thing is that the two people are still as close as ever. In their home, the secret to maintaining the love between husband and wife is that both of them are good teachers of each other. My brother-in-law bought a fish. It was too big, but my cousin kept praising him. He said that he could really buy it. All the fish were broken. The fish head stewed tofu was delicious and calcium was supplemented. The fish body was braised in brown sauce just for dinner. One fish was eaten twice. Now there are cooking and soup! The cousin's husband was very happy. Next time his cousin asked him to buy vegetables, he promised happily and ran away. My cousin has a cold and doesn't have a good taste. The dishes cooked for lunch are salty and light. The son complained a little after eating, but the cousin said, my wife is very kind. She cooks and takes care of our father and son when she is ill. This dish is salty, light and fresh. Good son, let's not dislike it. It's your mother's love. The son listened and stopped complaining. When my cousin heard this, she smiled into a flower, and her cold seemed to be much better all at once. My cousin said that it was not easy for your brother-in-law, a big man, to run around and earn money to support his family. He came back to help share the housework. I boasted that he made him happy, so he would be willing to do it next time. My cousin said that your cousin was desperate to marry me and served our father and son to eat, drink and Lazar. It was hard to work all day. Always remember to praise her and let her serve our family happily, isn't it good? This wise couple, like this, either you praise me or I praise you all day, praise each other, and make the plain and trivial days lively and fragrant. The couple are getting older and older, but their feelings are getting better and better. Everyone is very envious of their love for each other. 04 The neighbor Lao Ding and his wife are very different. The couple struggled to be the bad appraiser of each other. They quarreled all their life, and their good days were a mess. Lao Ding got up early and went out for a walk. On the way, he bought fried dough sticks and soybean milk for breakfast. Aunt Ding got up and became angry when she saw the fried dough sticks: you dead old boss, there is alum in the fried dough sticks. It's Alzheimer's disease to eat too much. The oil used is gutter oil, which was just broadcast on TV. Why did you buy it back? You are so lazy that your wife got up early to make breakfast. If you don't do it, you don't think I bought it well. Just don't eat it! It's time to fry the pot. Just for a trivial matter, the two people have a war with each other. You say I'm not good, and I say you're more cowardly. The family couldn't persuade them. They all left home and went to work early with dark faces. They were in a bad mood all day. Aunt Tao next door is wearing a fancy new shirt. It's very beautiful. Aunt Ding looked as like as two peas, and bought the same. As soon as he put it on, Lao Ding began to talk. Aunt Tao was white and slim, and her clothes were so beautiful. Look at you, black and fat, with thick skin. It looks like your upper body is long and your lower body is short. It's really ugly! As soon as aunt Ding was angry, she immediately retorted, and the two began a new round of curse war. The neighbors were too lazy to persuade them to make a noise. In fact, Lao Ding and his wife both retired from the garden management office. Their retirement wages are not cheap, and their children also have a good income. According to the family economic conditions, the old couple can live a comfortable old-age life happily. Just because they are always picky about each other, competing to give each other bad comments, quarreling with each other when they disagree, they will not be happy no matter how rich they are. One's strength depends on one's opponent. The weaker the opponent, even if you win, you won't win at all. The stronger the opponent, the stronger your strength. So your victory will be more valuable. If you know how to praise your opponent and fully affirm his advantages and strengths, you will win in the realm and pattern, mind and bearing. Marriage is a person's card. A good marriage can give you the energy to work hard outside and the courage to make a comeback. You must have loved each other very much, otherwise the two would not have entered marriage. The lover also chose by himself at the beginning. Giving praise to the lover is to give praise to himself, to affirm his vision, and to affirm himself. If you know how to praise your lover, you will win the happiness of marriage and life. Therefore, only those who know how to give praise to others are the real winners. A real wise man always knows how to give praise to others. No pay no gain. What you give will eventually come back to you in other ways. From today on, from now on, learn to praise others.