Today, I saw a news report that it was the research result of a British scientist: in primitive society, men were responsible for hunting, while women were responsible for picking and looking after children, so over time, men formed the habit of being silent and enduring loneliness, because hunting often required long-term ambush, motionless and unable to speak; Women have developed the habit of being talkative and sociable, especially between women. According to research, men only need to say 1000 words a day to get psychological satisfaction, while women need to say 5000 words a day to get psychological satisfaction. Foreigners always like to study something inexplicable. This is one example. I'm a liberal arts student and I don't know anything about biology. But after reading this report, I think the idea of this is very interesting: it can not only explain the problem of talking more but also help us understand many things. For example, men and women's preferences for food. Men prefer to eat big fish and meat, greasy and spicy food, and drink alcohol, while women like to eat fruits and vegetables, which should be related to the differences in taste and digestive system between men and women formed over millions of years. In the past, I found that many girls like to eat fruits and vegetables rather than meat. I thought they were all trying to keep fit and pay attention to health, so they endured good things. Now I think, it should be that women feel different about meat from men. After all, it has only been tens of thousands of years since human beings entered the agricultural society, and it is still difficult to change the genetic characteristics caused by millions of years of primitive society. Men in charge of hunting naturally develop a taste and digestive system that is more sensitive to meat and meat, while women in charge of picking are more difficult to digest meat, and their taste system is more sensitive to the taste of fruit. This is a subtle physical barrier, which is very difficult to understand each other. Along this line, you can also think of something more interesting. Due to millions of years of hunting, men's taste and digestive system prefer meat, spicy food, alcohol and other stimulating things, like killing, and their sexual impulse is stronger than that of women. So when they are young, their spirit is more vulnerable to external stimulation. Adolescent boys will prefer to play video games, eat and drink together, watch pornographic pictures or movies, which are very "vulgar", and it is difficult to concentrate on their studies and think about some deep-seated things. On the contrary, girls are often not interested in eating and drinking. This is not caused by family education, but the physiological characteristics that they have developed over millions of years. Therefore, compared with boys, young girls are easier to resist the temptation from the outside world and have less desire for material things, so they are easier to focus on some spiritual things, such as studying more attentively, liking pure literature more, and being better at thinking about the happiness and value of life. This explains a phenomenon: why many young girls feel that boys of their own age are "immature and childish". Because psychologically, girls are easy to be precocious than boys, their spirit is not easy to be disturbed by physical desire, and their level of thinking is naturally deeper than boys of the same age. Therefore, many highly motivated and excellent girls may have a feeling of "disdain" for boys around their age from the age of fifteen or sixteen to their thirties: these guys fight and fight all day long, eat and drink, love to play video games, discuss football and sex... Do something unpromising, but why is the world still dominated by men? This is unfair. Women should be better than men. So he was not interested in boys, nor in love, and concentrated on his studies. As a result, he really compared boys with similar intelligence level to himself, and his grades were very excellent. Therefore, now there are more and more top girls in the college entrance examination in various provinces and cities, and the proportion of girls admitted to famous schools is also getting higher and higher, which many people think is abnormal. Think there is something wrong with our examination system? Better for girls than boys? From my perspective, this is normal, and it should be so. In adolescence, girls are more calm than boys to study, study harder and be more solid. This situation just shows that our college entrance examination system is very fair and reasonable. No matter how we reform the college entrance examination system, as long as we do not engage in physical confrontation, it will be an inevitable phenomenon that girls aged 18 or 19 perform better than boys of the same age as a whole. However, although men mature late, once they mature, they still have advantages over women in terms of the level of mental ability they can achieve. The maturity of boys is almost after the age of 30 or after marriage. Our society has always regarded marriage as a major sign of men's maturity, which is very reasonable. After marriage, with a wife in charge, the chances of eating and drinking will be much less, and the diet will become very regular, as well as sex, so you can focus more on your career and resist external material temptations more easily. At this time, the advantages of men will be highlighted. After millions of years of hunting training, they will integrate the quality of genes and perform well: calm, calm, focus on the goal and forget the interference of the surrounding environment. Just like a hunter who doesn't care about weeds, mud, mosquito bites and doesn't move, he stares at every move of his prey, waits for the opportunity to appear, and then solves the problem at one stroke. Therefore, it is no accident that those naughty, unpromising boys who were despised by girls of the same age when they were young, have made higher achievements in their careers and become the mainstay of this society after the age of 30, and should not be attributed to the inequality of social system or the discrimination of women by cultural traditions. Because, of course, our society needs people who are very talkative and communicative, but the most important person is someone who can solve practical problems at a critical moment. I have read many biographies of great people and found it difficult to extract common ground from them. Some people are arrogant and others are modest; Some people are very enthusiastic, some people are very indifferent; Some people are very tolerant, some people are very harsh; Some people are humorous, others are serious; Some people are generous, some people are selfish... Many of the qualities listed in "success studies" are of course very good, but it is easy to find counterexamples from great people. If I have to say what these great people have in common, I think there is only one thing: they can solve problems. For example, Newton, we all know that this guy has a small stomach, likes to retaliate, is also greedy for money, and integrates various shortcomings of human morality, but he can solve a series of major problems in physics, so he has become a giant in physics; Einstein is a good man and can play the violin, but he is also world-class in terms of slovenness and sloppiness. Another example is Michael Jordan. According to his teammates' memories, this is a guy with a hot temper. He is very unfriendly to his teammates and likes to swear. Whoever makes a mistake will be scolded by him, but he can throw the basketball at the critical moment, so he is a great basketball player. If I were a basketball player, I would rather win with such a bad tempered guy, Don't want to lose with a hospitable mediocre. Charles de Gaulle was extremely arrogant. He basically held his head high when talking to people. He despised everyone he met, but he was able to resist to the end in World War II, so he became a great man; Sun Yat Sen likes to brag, and he doesn't know current affairs. He likes to act recklessly when things happen, but he knows to do one thing: overthrow the Qing government at all costs, establish the Republic, and finally succeed. As we all know, Apple's iPhone4 is a masterpiece of industrial design. It is perfect from inside to outside. It is extremely destructive to girls who love beauty. But why isn't such a beautiful electronic product made by a woman who loves beauty, has good taste and impeccable dress? Instead, it was made by a slovenly man who wore a pair of unbelted, shabby looking jeans all day. Jobs' colleagues recalled that he was a workaholic, extremely concerned about product details and was not very tolerant of mistakes made by his subordinates. His sloppy dress is not because he thinks he is awesome and doesn't need to consider other people's feelings, but because he has focused all his attention on "how to solve problems", that is, how to create perfect electronic products, and has become slow and indifferent to anything else, including his own dress image. The success of these great figures is closely related to the qualities that men are better at: eliminating all kinds of interference, focusing on a problem for a long time, and then solving it. In this regard, women with early mental development have gradually lost their former advantages. I think there is a reason for this, and it is also related to the division of labor between men and women for millions of years. Women who are responsible for picking and taking care of children are naturally better at social interaction and like to talk. In addition to picking, women spend most of their time holding children in the cave (the cave is very dark), so women feel much more developed than men, and can feel many details in the environment, such as subtle odor changes, etc. Therefore, women's "sixth sense" is particularly developed, and it is easy to judge that the situation has changed from some environmental changes that men are not aware of. Therefore, I suspect that although men and women live in the same world, they have the same sunshine, air and green leaves. But what we feel is a completely different world. Just like the difference between the world seen by human eyes and the world seen by insect compound eyes. Just like dogs with sharp hearing and smell, the world must be full of a lot of noise and smell, which we humans don't know at all. With the same dish of braised pig feet, the taste of men is different from that of women; The smell of the same flower that men can smell is different from that of women, or the feeling of smelling the same smell is different. This physiological difference may have an important impact on the behavior of both parties. For example, girls pay special attention to feel and atmosphere, especially when they are in love, such as the dining environment. In contrast, men are relatively slow. For example, I don't understand the difference between eating in an elegant restaurant and eating in a school canteen, and only pay attention to whether the food itself is delicious; I don't know the difference between watching a movie in the cinema and watching it on the computer, but only focus on whether the plot of the movie itself is good-looking. Although I know that girls pay attention to feelings when they are in love, I still can't figure out what kind of feelings are sacred, and I should never really feel them. However, sensitivity to the environment and excellent communication skills may be the main reasons that ultimately hinder women from achieving great achievements. If you just want to achieve general success, this is not a problem, even an advantage. However, if we want to achieve extreme achievements in some aspects, we must finally solve the major problems faced by an era. And to solve such a problem, unless you eliminate all distractions and devote yourself to it, it is difficult to succeed. Careful arrangement of clothes, careful attention to the living environment, having a good talk with all kinds of friends, sensitive response to various environmental changes... All these will prevent a person from completely concentrating on pure rational and long-term thinking, making it difficult for women to succeed in solving the particularly important problems of a certain discipline and a certain era. Of course, such women are not absent, but compared with men, the number is much smaller. In life, we often use "man" as an adjective. When we say that someone is "very man", it may include many meanings: it can be brave and fearless, not afraid of pain; It can be that you are not afraid of your wife and come out to drink and eat meat with your brothers, including drinking at the dinner table; It can also refer to the charm of women, such as handsome appearance or strong body, and so on. However, if we take "man" as an adjective to represent the advantages that women can't have, then the farthest end on the road of "looking for a man's world" is complete concentration - so focused that the world around him has turned gray, keeping silent and dull about everything except the problem he wants to solve. All the strength, enthusiasm and wisdom are concentrated on one point. Until one day, the problem was solved, so the world became no longer the same as before.

Today, I saw a news report that it was the research result of a British scientist: in primitive society, men were responsible for hunting, while women were responsible for picking and looking after children, so over time, men formed the habit of being silent and enduring loneliness, because hunting often required long-term ambush, motionless and unable to speak; Women have developed the habit of being talkative and sociable, especially between women. According to research, men only need to say 1000 words a day to get psychological satisfaction, while women need to say 5000 words a day to get psychological satisfaction. Foreigners always like to study something inexplicable. This is one example. I'm a liberal arts student and I don't know anything about biology. But after reading this report, I think the idea of this is very interesting: it can not only explain the problem of talking more but also help us understand many things. For example, men and women's preferences for food. Men prefer to eat big fish and meat, greasy and spicy food, and drink alcohol, while women like to eat fruits and vegetables, which should be related to the differences in taste and digestive system between men and women formed over millions of years. In the past, I found that many girls like to eat fruits and vegetables rather than meat. I thought they were all trying to keep fit and pay attention to health, so they endured good things. Now I think, it should be that women feel different about meat from men. After all, it has only been tens of thousands of years since human beings entered the agricultural society, and it is still difficult to change the genetic characteristics caused by millions of years of primitive society. Men in charge of hunting naturally develop a taste and digestive system that is more sensitive to meat and meat, while women in charge of picking are more difficult to digest meat, and their taste system is more sensitive to the taste of fruit. This is a subtle physical barrier, which is very difficult to understand each other. Along this line, you can also think of something more interesting. Due to millions of years of hunting, men's taste and digestive system prefer meat, spicy food, alcohol and other stimulating things, like killing, and their sexual impulse is stronger than that of women. So when they are young, their spirit is more vulnerable to external stimulation. Adolescent boys will prefer to play video games, eat and drink together, watch pornographic pictures or movies, which are very "vulgar", and it is difficult to concentrate on their studies and think about some deep-seated things. On the contrary, girls are often not interested in eating and drinking. This is not caused by family education, but the physiological characteristics that they have developed over millions of years. Therefore, compared with boys, young girls are easier to resist the temptation from the outside world and have less desire for material things, so they are easier to focus on some spiritual things, such as studying more attentively, liking pure literature more, and being better at thinking about the happiness and value of life. This explains a phenomenon: why many young girls feel that boys of their own age are "immature and childish". Because psychologically, girls are easy to be precocious than boys, their spirit is not easy to be disturbed by physical desire, and their level of thinking is naturally deeper than boys of the same age. Therefore, many highly motivated and excellent girls may have a feeling of "disdain" for boys around their age from the age of fifteen or sixteen to their thirties: these guys fight and fight all day long, eat and drink, love to play video games, discuss football and sex... Do something unpromising, but why is the world still dominated by men? This is unfair. Women should be better than men. So he was not interested in boys, nor in love, and concentrated on his studies. As a result, he really compared boys with similar intelligence level to himself, and his grades were very excellent. Therefore, now there are more and more top girls in the college entrance examination in various provinces and cities, and the proportion of girls admitted to famous schools is also getting higher and higher, which many people think is abnormal. Think there is something wrong with our examination system? Better for girls than boys? From my perspective, this is normal, and it should be so. In adolescence, girls are more calm than boys to study, study harder and be more solid. This situation just shows that our college entrance examination system is very fair and reasonable. No matter how we reform the college entrance examination system, as long as we do not engage in physical confrontation, it will be an inevitable phenomenon that girls aged 18 or 19 perform better than boys of the same age as a whole. However, although men mature late, once they mature, they still have advantages over women in terms of the level of mental ability they can achieve. The maturity of boys is almost after the age of 30 or after marriage. Our society has always regarded marriage as a major sign of men's maturity, which is very reasonable. After marriage, with a wife in charge, the chances of eating and drinking will be much less, and the diet will become very regular, as well as sex, so you can focus more on your career and resist external material temptations more easily. At this time, the advantages of men will be highlighted. After millions of years of hunting training, they will integrate the quality of genes and perform well: calm, calm, focus on the goal and forget the interference of the surrounding environment. Just like a hunter who doesn't care about weeds, mud, mosquito bites and doesn't move, he stares at every move of his prey, waits for the opportunity to appear, and then solves the problem at one stroke. Therefore, it is no accident that those naughty, unpromising boys who were despised by girls of the same age when they were young, have made higher achievements in their careers and become the mainstay of this society after the age of 30, and should not be attributed to the inequality of social system or the discrimination of women by cultural traditions. Because, of course, our society needs people who are very talkative and communicative, but the most important person is someone who can solve practical problems at a critical moment. I have read many biographies of great people and found it difficult to extract common ground from them. Some people are arrogant and others are modest; Some people are very enthusiastic, some people are very indifferent; Some people are very tolerant, some people are very harsh; Some people are humorous, others are serious; Some people are generous, some people are selfish... Many of the qualities listed in "success studies" are of course very good, but it is easy to find counterexamples from great people. If I have to say what these great people have in common, I think there is only one thing: they can solve problems. For example, Newton, we all know that this guy has a small stomach, likes to retaliate, is also greedy for money, and integrates various shortcomings of human morality, but he can solve a series of major problems in physics, so he has become a giant in physics; Einstein is a good man and can play the violin, but he is also world-class in terms of slovenness and sloppiness. Another example is Michael Jordan. According to his teammates' memories, this is a guy with a hot temper. He is very unfriendly to his teammates and likes to swear. Whoever makes a mistake will be scolded by him, but he can throw the basketball at the critical moment, so he is a great basketball player. If I were a basketball player, I would rather win with such a bad tempered guy, Don't want to lose with a hospitable mediocre. Charles de Gaulle was extremely arrogant. He basically held his head high when talking to people. He despised everyone he met, but he was able to resist to the end in World War II, so he became a great man; Sun Yat Sen likes to brag, and he doesn't know current affairs. He likes to act recklessly when things happen, but he knows to do one thing: overthrow the Qing government at all costs, establish the Republic, and finally succeed. As we all know, Apple's iPhone4 is a masterpiece of industrial design. It is perfect from inside to outside. It is extremely destructive to girls who love beauty. But why isn't such a beautiful electronic product made by a woman who loves beauty, has good taste and impeccable dress? Instead, it was made by a slovenly man who wore a pair of unbelted, shabby looking jeans all day. Jobs' colleagues recalled that he was a workaholic, extremely concerned about product details and was not very tolerant of mistakes made by his subordinates. His sloppy dress is not because he thinks he is awesome and doesn't need to consider other people's feelings, but because he has focused all his attention on "how to solve problems", that is, how to create perfect electronic products, and has become slow and indifferent to anything else, including his own dress image. The success of these great figures is closely related to the qualities that men are better at: eliminating all kinds of interference, focusing on a problem for a long time, and then solving it. In this regard, women with early mental development have gradually lost their former advantages. I think there is a reason for this, and it is also related to the division of labor between men and women for millions of years. Women who are responsible for picking and taking care of children are naturally better at social interaction and like to talk. In addition to picking, women spend most of their time holding children in the cave (the cave is very dark), so women feel much more developed than men, and can feel many details in the environment, such as subtle odor changes, etc. Therefore, women's "sixth sense" is particularly developed, and it is easy to judge that the situation has changed from some environmental changes that men are not aware of. Therefore, I suspect that although men and women live in the same world, they have the same sunshine, air and green leaves. But what we feel is a completely different world. Just like the difference between the world seen by human eyes and the world seen by insect compound eyes. Just like dogs with sharp hearing and smell, the world must be full of a lot of noise and smell, which we humans don't know at all. With the same dish of braised pig feet, the taste of men is different from that of women; The smell of the same flower that men can smell is different from that of women, or the feeling of smelling the same smell is different. This physiological difference may have an important impact on the behavior of both parties. For example, girls pay special attention to feel and atmosphere, especially when they are in love, such as the dining environment. In contrast, men are relatively slow. For example, I don't understand the difference between eating in an elegant restaurant and eating in a school canteen, and only pay attention to whether the food itself is delicious; I don't know the difference between watching a movie in the cinema and watching it on the computer, but only focus on whether the plot of the movie itself is good-looking. Although I know that girls pay attention to feelings when they are in love, I still can't figure out what kind of feelings are sacred, and I should never really feel them. However, sensitivity to the environment and excellent communication skills may be the main reasons that ultimately hinder women from achieving great achievements. If you just want to achieve general success, this is not a problem, even an advantage. However, if we want to achieve extreme achievements in some aspects, we must finally solve the major problems faced by an era. And to solve such a problem, unless you eliminate all distractions and devote yourself to it, it is difficult to succeed. Careful arrangement of clothes, careful attention to the living environment, having a good talk with all kinds of friends, sensitive response to various environmental changes... All these will prevent a person from completely concentrating on pure rational and long-term thinking, making it difficult for women to succeed in solving the particularly important problems of a certain discipline and a certain era. Of course, such women are not absent, but compared with men, the number is much smaller. In life, we often use "man" as an adjective. When we say that someone is "very man", it may include many meanings: it can be brave and fearless, not afraid of pain; It can be that you are not afraid of your wife and come out to drink and eat meat with your brothers, including drinking at the dinner table; It can also refer to the charm of women, such as handsome appearance or strong body, and so on. However, if we take "man" as an adjective to represent the advantages that women can't have, then the farthest end on the road of "looking for a man's world" is complete concentration - so focused that the world around him has turned gray, keeping silent and dull about everything except the problem he wants to solve. All the strength, enthusiasm and wisdom are concentrated on one point. Until one day, the problem was solved, so the world became no longer the same as before.