I met my elder martial sister today. She was very depressed; Because her two marriages all ended in failure, and I just witnessed these two marriages that were not favored by her tutor. However, due to the rebellion of senior sister since childhood, she will persevere as long as her parents oppose it. Because of this, the elder martial sister who is now in her old age regrets too much; Say why you didn't listen to your parents, because the consequence of not listening to your parents is that you are unhappy all your life. I happen to have several cases of marriage failure due to disobedience to my parents, which makes me think about my life experience. We know that the first thing in our life is learning, and this learning is just the successful experience summarized by our predecessors; This is that we are on the road of life, but we can quickly develop natural science. However, social experience is just the opposite, which is not learned from any books; If we choose the major marital events before forming a family, it is completely determined by our own feelings; So some people's marriage leads to career success, while others lead to career failure. Because of this, the consequences of marriage are their own taste; Only one knows whether it is sweet or bitter, because outsiders cannot understand it. However, the special relationship between parents, they are the judges of marriage events; Because of this, some people say that parents interfere in their marriage and even quarrel with their parents, and it is common to insist on marriage. For example, my elder martial sister even threatened to break off the relationship between her parents and insisted on the marriage of her choice. However, the fact is that adherents always regret it, because parents do have more say than their children in marriage. What is more irritating is that some people do not make mistakes once, but always have no insight in this regard; For example, my elder martial sister, both marriages ended in complete failure. However, these two marriage events were all opposed by the tutor, which shows that the tutor's intervention was still correct. In this way, the marriage affairs dominated by parents in ancient and modern China can not simply interfere with marriage. In fact, the evaluation opinions obtained from different perspectives of parents are more reasonable. This is probably because Chinese people have been arranged by their parents since ancient times. Not all marriages are unhappy, but some marriages are still relatively happy. Since the fact that parents arranged marriage was completely abolished after the founding of the people's Republic of China, parents' interference in their children's marriage is considered to be arranged; As a result, many people never listen to their parents' opinions, but rely on their own subjective opinions. However, marriage is not the embodiment of romance on the road of life. The most common thing is the display of responsibility; As a result, romantic and irresponsible marriages can be found everywhere. As a result, differences in responsibilities can lead to autonomous marriages and counterproductive marriages can be found everywhere; This shows that one's own subjective will alone cannot represent the right choice. Because life is a long and tortuous process, there are too many unknowable factors; So listening to opinions is not a bad thing, because my elder martial sister regretted not listening to her parents. In fact, there are always opinions on the way of life. I'm really happy, because my biggest mistake is to have no opinions; Because of my loneliness and arrogance, few people dare to express their opinions on me; In addition, I don't have a relationship with leaders, so I don't have the possibility to hear opinions. However, it is the fact that there is no face-to-face opinion that makes me intoxicated, but I don't know that there are all vicious evaluations behind it. Because of this, I always have many friends when I am happy in my life; And when I am sad and angry, I have no friends. In addition, I went out independently since I was a child, so what I lack most in my life is advice. Now I understand why only leaders in our society dare to criticize people; Because this criticism is actually true feelings sandwiched in falsehood, it is because the leaders have the feeling that "iron is not steel". This is the life guidance with Chinese characteristics, and I didn't know until now that we Chinese still need such noble support in our life. I lost my Chinese characteristics because I was recommended by my teacher to foreign tutors; So that I fell all over the road of life. We know that only Chinese people have the most ups and downs in their life, because there are man-made obstacles in our life; And this obstacle really needs your support. This is that Westerners only study natural science, but we have the frustrations of internal friction; Because most of the bumps in my life are made by others, and I, who have no noble support, can't smooth the road in the end. I now understand why I don't worry about the villains behind the black report when working in American enterprises, because the culture there is cooperation to win-win; This is also the most fundamental difference between us and Americans. We stumble others from behind and can replace them, but others stumble others and we have no chance, because this is a value society with open competition. Because of this, what is needed in Chinese social life is opinion; In the United States, what social life needs is ability. Because of this, we grew up with the love of our parents; I always think the road of life in the future is very smooth. Who knows that in our Chinese life, the road is always uneven, but who will help you fill the floor. Because of this, no matter what setbacks we encounter, we should first calmly listen to whether we have opinions; First of all, we should learn to be strong when we have no opinions, and then we should learn to be strong when we have no opinions. Don't think that we can fill in the bumps one by one, because opinions on the road of life are the magic weapon to fill in the bumps. friend! There are many ups and downs on the road of life. I believe you can also have your own opinions to fill in the ups and downs on the road of life. But please don't be capricious, because opinions are the truth on your way of life. However, today's Chinese people have one thing in common, that is, in addition to being respectful to the opinions of their leaders; I'm disgusted with other opinions. In particular, the opinions of their subordinates are the same as the opinions of children towards their parents; Not only disgust, but also basically rejection; Even against him. It is this mentality that makes many people do inexplicably stupid things.

I met my elder martial sister today. She was very depressed; Because her two marriages all ended in failure, and I just witnessed these two marriages that were not favored by her tutor. However, due to the rebellion of senior sister since childhood, she will persevere as long as her parents oppose it. Because of this, the elder martial sister who is now in her old age regrets too much; Say why you didn't listen to your parents, because the consequence of not listening to your parents is that you are unhappy all your life. I happen to have several cases of marriage failure due to disobedience to my parents, which makes me think about my life experience. We know that the first thing in our life is learning, and this learning is just the successful experience summarized by our predecessors; This is that we are on the road of life, but we can quickly develop natural science. However, social experience is just the opposite, which is not learned from any books; If we choose the major marital events before forming a family, it is completely determined by our own feelings; So some people's marriage leads to career success, while others lead to career failure. Because of this, the consequences of marriage are their own taste; Only one knows whether it is sweet or bitter, because outsiders cannot understand it. However, the special relationship between parents, they are the judges of marriage events; Because of this, some people say that parents interfere in their marriage and even quarrel with their parents, and it is common to insist on marriage. For example, my elder martial sister even threatened to break off the relationship between her parents and insisted on the marriage of her choice. However, the fact is that adherents always regret it, because parents do have more say than their children in marriage. What is more irritating is that some people do not make mistakes once, but always have no insight in this regard; For example, my elder martial sister, both marriages ended in complete failure. However, these two marriage events were all opposed by the tutor, which shows that the tutor's intervention was still correct. In this way, the marriage affairs dominated by parents in ancient and modern China can not simply interfere with marriage. In fact, the evaluation opinions obtained from different perspectives of parents are more reasonable. This is probably because Chinese people have been arranged by their parents since ancient times. Not all marriages are unhappy, but some marriages are still relatively happy. Since the fact that parents arranged marriage was completely abolished after the founding of the people's Republic of China, parents' interference in their children's marriage is considered to be arranged; As a result, many people never listen to their parents' opinions, but rely on their own subjective opinions. However, marriage is not the embodiment of romance on the road of life. The most common thing is the display of responsibility; As a result, romantic and irresponsible marriages can be found everywhere. As a result, differences in responsibilities can lead to autonomous marriages and counterproductive marriages can be found everywhere; This shows that one's own subjective will alone cannot represent the right choice. Because life is a long and tortuous process, there are too many unknowable factors; So listening to opinions is not a bad thing, because my elder martial sister regretted not listening to her parents. In fact, there are always opinions on the way of life. I'm really happy, because my biggest mistake is to have no opinions; Because of my loneliness and arrogance, few people dare to express their opinions on me; In addition, I don't have a relationship with leaders, so I don't have the possibility to hear opinions. However, it is the fact that there is no face-to-face opinion that makes me intoxicated, but I don't know that there are all vicious evaluations behind it. Because of this, I always have many friends when I am happy in my life; And when I am sad and angry, I have no friends. In addition, I went out independently since I was a child, so what I lack most in my life is advice. Now I understand why only leaders in our society dare to criticize people; Because this criticism is actually true feelings sandwiched in falsehood, it is because the leaders have the feeling that "iron is not steel". This is the life guidance with Chinese characteristics, and I didn't know until now that we Chinese still need such noble support in our life. I lost my Chinese characteristics because I was recommended by my teacher to foreign tutors; So that I fell all over the road of life. We know that only Chinese people have the most ups and downs in their life, because there are man-made obstacles in our life; And this obstacle really needs your support. This is that Westerners only study natural science, but we have the frustrations of internal friction; Because most of the bumps in my life are made by others, and I, who have no noble support, can't smooth the road in the end. I now understand why I don't worry about the villains behind the black report when working in American enterprises, because the culture there is cooperation to win-win; This is also the most fundamental difference between us and Americans. We stumble others from behind and can replace them, but others stumble others and we have no chance, because this is a value society with open competition. Because of this, what is needed in Chinese social life is opinion; In the United States, what social life needs is ability. Because of this, we grew up with the love of our parents; I always think the road of life in the future is very smooth. Who knows that in our Chinese life, the road is always uneven, but who will help you fill the floor. Because of this, no matter what setbacks we encounter, we should first calmly listen to whether we have opinions; First of all, we should learn to be strong when we have no opinions, and then we should learn to be strong when we have no opinions. Don't think that we can fill in the bumps one by one, because opinions on the road of life are the magic weapon to fill in the bumps. friend! There are many ups and downs on the road of life. I believe you can also have your own opinions to fill in the ups and downs on the road of life. But please don't be capricious, because opinions are the truth on your way of life. However, today's Chinese people have one thing in common, that is, in addition to being respectful to the opinions of their leaders; I'm disgusted with other opinions. In particular, the opinions of their subordinates are the same as the opinions of children towards their parents; Not only disgust, but also basically rejection; Even against him. It is this mentality that makes many people do inexplicably stupid things.