I've heard a saying: the easiest way to get what you want in the world is to ask for trouble. A friend has been insomnia for half a month, not because of the heavy workload, but because of his "foresight". She just switched to a well-known enterprise. Within a month, the group leader who recruited her proposed to leave because of a conflict with the Department Director. The resignation of the team leader had a "Butterfly Effect" in her mind: I was recruited by the team leader - I will be considered by the director as the confidant of the team leader and will be kicked out together - the previous efforts made for the interview were in vain - "gold, silver and four" have passed, it is difficult to find a job - I can't find a matching post, I can't survive in Beijing, so I can only go back to my hometown However, instead of dismissing her, the director wanted to give her a very important project, but she asked for leave and was admitted to the hospital because she was very nervous for a long time. When the chain falls off at the critical moment, my position in the office is really in jeopardy. A psychologist once conducted an experiment, asking the experimenter to write down all the worried "troubles" in the next seven days, and then put them into the "trouble box". After a period of time, the experimenter opened the box and checked them one by one. It was found that 90% of the "troubles" did not really happen. There's nothing wrong with taking a long-term view, but don't let "think too much" affect the present. The future is not as bad as you think

I've heard a saying: the easiest way to get what you want in the world is to ask for trouble. A friend has been insomnia for half a month, not because of the heavy workload, but because of his "foresight". She just switched to a well-known enterprise. Within a month, the group leader who recruited her proposed to leave because of a conflict with the Department Director. The resignation of the team leader had a "Butterfly Effect" in her mind: I was recruited by the team leader - I will be considered by the director as the confidant of the team leader and will be kicked out together - the previous efforts made for the interview were in vain - "gold, silver and four" have passed, it is difficult to find a job - I can't find a matching post, I can't survive in Beijing, so I can only go back to my hometown However, instead of dismissing her, the director wanted to give her a very important project, but she asked for leave and was admitted to the hospital because she was very nervous for a long time. When the chain falls off at the critical moment, my position in the office is really in jeopardy. A psychologist once conducted an experiment, asking the experimenter to write down all the worried "troubles" in the next seven days, and then put them into the "trouble box". After a period of time, the experimenter opened the box and checked them one by one. It was found that 90% of the "troubles" did not really happen. There's nothing wrong with taking a long-term view, but don't let "think too much" affect the present. The future is not as bad as you think