01 A gentleman is not a man, Not to be eclipsed by others, Don't lose your tongue. Be careful in your words and deeds. Don't say what you shouldn't say or do what you shouldn't do. To avoid giving people a handle and provoking right and wrong. Second, it is also the personal cultivation of a gentleman. 02 Business is not private. If you have a mouth and don't speak in private, business should be discussed in public. If you talk in private, you will be suspected of treachery for personal gain. The success or failure of things often depends on whether the speaker can say the right words on the right occasion. 03 Words spoken in the morning are inferior to dogs and horses. Work with professionalism and self-discipline. 04 The court does not speak of women. We should seize the opportunity to speak and talk about the right thing at the right time. 05 from the strictly official point of view, At the mansion, In kuyanku, Speak in the dynasty. A person can't be smooth, but he should be harmonious. He should learn to adjust measures to time and local conditions, and lubricate interpersonal relations with words. When a cultured person talks with different people, the topics are related to each other's identity, and what he talks about is reasonable. 06 In mourning, Sacrifice is not cruel. Talking loudly, laughing and slapstick are disrespectful to the dead and their families. Only when you speak low and behave gently and steadily can you show sincerity and demeanor. 07 A gentleman is ashamed of being in his position and speechless; A gentleman is ashamed of his words but not his deeds. If you are in a certain position, you should have words and deeds in line with that position. People who are incompetent in a certain position can't. The words are very full, but there is always a lack of action and no result, which is also undesirable. It is better to speak plainly and modestly than boast. 08 Older people are less than, No words. When talking with elders, they should lead the topic. 09 Sit down with Mr. Yu, Mr. Yan asked, but he was right in the end. Don't interrupt your husband. Don't interrupt. Similarly, when communicating with others, it is best not to take the initiative to interrupt others out of respect for each other. ten It's impolite to serve a gentleman without looking at him. Words come from the heart. Wise men speak carefully. When they say it, they say it at the right time. When talking to the elderly, if it's not their turn to speak, it's impatient to speak first; It is called blindness to speak rashly without looking at the other person's face and trying to figure out his mind; It's called concealment to say nothing when it's time to speak.

01 A gentleman is not a man, Not to be eclipsed by others, Don't lose your tongue. Be careful in your words and deeds. Don't say what you shouldn't say or do what you shouldn't do. To avoid giving people a handle and provoking right and wrong. Second, it is also the personal cultivation of a gentleman. 02 Business is not private. If you have a mouth and don't speak in private, business should be discussed in public. If you talk in private, you will be suspected of treachery for personal gain. The success or failure of things often depends on whether the speaker can say the right words on the right occasion. 03 Words spoken in the morning are inferior to dogs and horses. Work with professionalism and self-discipline. 04 The court does not speak of women. We should seize the opportunity to speak and talk about the right thing at the right time. 05 from the strictly official point of view, At the mansion, In kuyanku, Speak in the dynasty. A person can't be smooth, but he should be harmonious. He should learn to adjust measures to time and local conditions, and lubricate interpersonal relations with words. When a cultured person talks with different people, the topics are related to each other's identity, and what he talks about is reasonable. 06 In mourning, Sacrifice is not cruel. Talking loudly, laughing and slapstick are disrespectful to the dead and their families. Only when you speak low and behave gently and steadily can you show sincerity and demeanor. 07 A gentleman is ashamed of being in his position and speechless; A gentleman is ashamed of his words but not his deeds. If you are in a certain position, you should have words and deeds in line with that position. People who are incompetent in a certain position can't. The words are very full, but there is always a lack of action and no result, which is also undesirable. It is better to speak plainly and modestly than boast. 08 Older people are less than, No words. When talking with elders, they should lead the topic. 09 Sit down with Mr. Yu, Mr. Yan asked, but he was right in the end. Don't interrupt your husband. Don't interrupt. Similarly, when communicating with others, it is best not to take the initiative to interrupt others out of respect for each other. ten It's impolite to serve a gentleman without looking at him. Words come from the heart. Wise men speak carefully. When they say it, they say it at the right time. When talking to the elderly, if it's not their turn to speak, it's impatient to speak first; It is called blindness to speak rashly without looking at the other person's face and trying to figure out his mind; It's called concealment to say nothing when it's time to speak.