Travel abroad and stay at a friend's house. I found that she had a careful but nagging mother-in-law, but she got on well with her. That day, we had supper at the stall. When I got home, my friend took out two boxes of fresh milk and handed me one. Just about to drink, her mother-in-law suddenly shouted, "eat something quickly and don't drink milk on an empty stomach!" I think she's really unreasonable. We just came back from eating outside! My friend seemed to see my mind, quietly made a gesture, took out a piece of bread, tore it for me, and tore it off myself. The old lady saw that we put half a mouthful of bread into our mouth and were happily busy with other things. "We've just eaten so much that we're not fasting at all. Why don't you tell her?" I'm dissatisfied. My friend patted me, smiled and said, "if she can get a sense of achievement in this small matter, why should we tell her the truth? The truth is not important to her, nor meaningful to us, but half a mouthful of bread." This is the first time I've heard "the truth doesn't matter". Over the years, I have been educated to adhere to the truth. If you think the other party is wrong, you must point it out and help him correct. Strictness is love and looseness is harm. Soon, I chatted with another friend and talked about a small thing on the company's assembly line. The two employees pack products in the same way. Every time the boss passes by, he will say, wow, it doesn't look strong enough. A always adds a rope without saying a word, while B will prove to the boss at length how scientific and strong his packaging is. B thinks a is a hypocritical flatterer. What really cares for the company is himself. But soon, a was promoted and B was still on the assembly line. Half a mouthful of bread and a rope are not important in themselves. Elders, leaders or friends are obsessed with unimportant half a mouthful of bread or a rope out of a desire for respect. They don't care whether your stomach is full and the packaging is strong. They care whether they can see the desired effect when their words fall to the ground. If you insist on the unimportant truth, it is a failure for him. For us, is it important to save half a mouthful of bread or a rope, or to make a person feel respected? Obviously the latter. To give up unimportant truth is not to let people be the grass on the wall, but to adhere to what should be adhered to and give up what should not be adhered to. Whether the truth is important or not lies not in your feelings, but in whether it will have an essential impact on the results, whether it will change a person or a thing, and whether it is related to morality and the bottom line.

Travel abroad and stay at a friend's house. I found that she had a careful but nagging mother-in-law, but she got on well with her. That day, we had supper at the stall. When I got home, my friend took out two boxes of fresh milk and handed me one. Just about to drink, her mother-in-law suddenly shouted, "eat something quickly and don't drink milk on an empty stomach!" I think she's really unreasonable. We just came back from eating outside! My friend seemed to see my mind, quietly made a gesture, took out a piece of bread, tore it for me, and tore it off myself. The old lady saw that we put half a mouthful of bread into our mouth and were happily busy with other things. "We've just eaten so much that we're not fasting at all. Why don't you tell her?" I'm dissatisfied. My friend patted me, smiled and said, "if she can get a sense of achievement in this small matter, why should we tell her the truth? The truth is not important to her, nor meaningful to us, but half a mouthful of bread." This is the first time I've heard "the truth doesn't matter". Over the years, I have been educated to adhere to the truth. If you think the other party is wrong, you must point it out and help him correct. Strictness is love and looseness is harm. Soon, I chatted with another friend and talked about a small thing on the company's assembly line. The two employees pack products in the same way. Every time the boss passes by, he will say, wow, it doesn't look strong enough. A always adds a rope without saying a word, while B will prove to the boss at length how scientific and strong his packaging is. B thinks a is a hypocritical flatterer. What really cares for the company is himself. But soon, a was promoted and B was still on the assembly line. Half a mouthful of bread and a rope are not important in themselves. Elders, leaders or friends are obsessed with unimportant half a mouthful of bread or a rope out of a desire for respect. They don't care whether your stomach is full and the packaging is strong. They care whether they can see the desired effect when their words fall to the ground. If you insist on the unimportant truth, it is a failure for him. For us, is it important to save half a mouthful of bread or a rope, or to make a person feel respected? Obviously the latter. To give up unimportant truth is not to let people be the grass on the wall, but to adhere to what should be adhered to and give up what should not be adhered to. Whether the truth is important or not lies not in your feelings, but in whether it will have an essential impact on the results, whether it will change a person or a thing, and whether it is related to morality and the bottom line.