I once had a dream that I could have the ability to predict the future. Later, I found that this really became a dream - a dream is an ideal that can never be realized. Later, I found that everyone was using hypothetical words such as "if" and "if" to describe an experience that they regretted - for example, if I had known this was the case, I would never have married him; If I knew this was the result, I would not choose this job... The wonderful and wonderful thing in life is that we don't know the next second, and we don't have the ability to turn back time. But we can have the perseverance to persevere in the end - as long as you like! It was only an accident that I first met this beautiful woman. The word "beautiful" is used only because I don't like to use words such as closing the moon to shame the flowers to describe the woman I like. Only because I hypocritically think that all the beauty will eventually disappear, and the woman who is beautiful enough to warm herself and others is the last queen. She likes to share her life with all kinds of people - from bit by bit pictures to telling stories, she always records her life in a hurry. I like this way of narration very much. It's like chatting with an old friend. I went through all her words, articles and pictures, all with a halo of happiness. I used to think for myself that she should be a person who has been cared for by life since childhood? That's why it's so sunny. Later, when I knew she was a single mother, I appreciated her open-minded, hardworking and optimistic. When she had nothing, she asked him at a loss, "do you still want me?" She got a positive answer; When he was unemployed, she rushed into the office of her leader. She didn't know where the courage came from. She asked the leader to give him a position. She said, "my boyfriend is unemployed. Can you give him a chance to come to our company?" At that time, she was just a rookie in the workplace; Later, they got married. Later, they had a lovely daughter. Then, they went to France to make up for their honeymoon. If it was a fairy tale, it might be a full stop - from then on, the prince and princess lived a happy life. Unfortunately, life is always full of numbers and unpredictable. After the honeymoon, her husband's lover came to her for a showdown - it turned out that the sweet love had ended as early as she was pregnant with her little life. Yes, she had to admit that she was cheated by her husband during her pregnancy. Proud as she is, she naturally can't tolerate such behavior. Fortunately, because of her hard work, she is already a backbone; Fortunately, because of her kindness, she still has countless friends in her life. When all this came unprepared, she had no extra time to hysterically look for reasons. She had to work hard to make herself a lone ranger. She plays the role of mother and father at the same time, regularly takes photos of her daughter, and writes four handmade travel notes about her daughter's growth; She went to a lawyer to go through the divorce formalities with her husband without any hesitation, but I think she must have had a particularly difficult time; At the beginning, she tried to save her unemployed husband and they became colleagues, but even now, her husband had an affair with another female colleague, she still sacrificed herself - resignation and entrepreneurship. She is a woman with a poet's feelings and a lover I like. She makes me have to seriously think about our future. When friends get together, they always talk about the marriage of their parents. There is no real love, but we can still live a good life. We have been pursuing true love, but we may not be able to stay together in the end. With emotion, we have to admit that in this materialistic society, there are too many temptations and we are not firm enough. Therefore, love and morality often fight, and many people lose to morality. We can't be above morality and criticize anyone. The only thing we can do, I think, is to keep trying. Do you remember your dream? When I was a child, I wanted to be a diplomat. When I grew up, I chose a different major. Later, my life was not under my control, but the only good thing was that I was not reduced to a housewife and only a husband; I will not be reduced to a slovenly mother, who is devoted to my children; I'm not going to be a slave to life, but only for money. Looking back on the girlfriends who have seen a lot of scenery together over the years, I can still remember your original ideal. I still vaguely remember your young and tender faces when we talked about the future. Although we were full of green and astringent at that time, we still had the courage to talk about the life we wanted. But now, I often bother myself. I only wish that you, who are now a housewife, can get the respect, understanding and support of your husband. Even if one day, you also have the wrinkles left by years and the sagging breasts left by time. He still remembers to be grateful, and he still knows how to appreciate these bad but precious changes. What can be seen everywhere in my life is hidden accidents. I am often afraid that if I change her to any woman who has given up after marriage, divorce may become a fatal blow. I only wish you could well imagine the happy life today as a change without anything - you will lose your love, your close relatives, your work... Do you really have the courage to face such a life? I think she is undoubtedly happy. She has never turned that man into her only possession because of love. She insists on her hobbies. She has her own friends. Her greatest wealth is the courage to continue to live. The longer the road I have traveled and the more people I have met, I begin to understand the unknown and unfair fate. We were not born equal, just as we were born unable to foresee our life. The only thing we can do is always remember to raise the corners of your smiling mouth. No matter how great changes life gives you, you still have the courage and strength to continue your life. The most afraid thing in life is to be discarded. The most unpredictable thing in life is the opportunities and luck brought to you by hard work and destiny.

I once had a dream that I could have the ability to predict the future. Later, I found that this really became a dream - a dream is an ideal that can never be realized. Later, I found that everyone was using hypothetical words such as "if" and "if" to describe an experience that they regretted - for example, if I had known this was the case, I would never have married him; If I knew this was the result, I would not choose this job... The wonderful and wonderful thing in life is that we don't know the next second, and we don't have the ability to turn back time. But we can have the perseverance to persevere in the end - as long as you like! It was only an accident that I first met this beautiful woman. The word "beautiful" is used only because I don't like to use words such as closing the moon to shame the flowers to describe the woman I like. Only because I hypocritically think that all the beauty will eventually disappear, and the woman who is beautiful enough to warm herself and others is the last queen. She likes to share her life with all kinds of people - from bit by bit pictures to telling stories, she always records her life in a hurry. I like this way of narration very much. It's like chatting with an old friend. I went through all her words, articles and pictures, all with a halo of happiness. I used to think for myself that she should be a person who has been cared for by life since childhood? That's why it's so sunny. Later, when I knew she was a single mother, I appreciated her open-minded, hardworking and optimistic. When she had nothing, she asked him at a loss, "do you still want me?" She got a positive answer; When he was unemployed, she rushed into the office of her leader. She didn't know where the courage came from. She asked the leader to give him a position. She said, "my boyfriend is unemployed. Can you give him a chance to come to our company?" At that time, she was just a rookie in the workplace; Later, they got married. Later, they had a lovely daughter. Then, they went to France to make up for their honeymoon. If it was a fairy tale, it might be a full stop - from then on, the prince and princess lived a happy life. Unfortunately, life is always full of numbers and unpredictable. After the honeymoon, her husband's lover came to her for a showdown - it turned out that the sweet love had ended as early as she was pregnant with her little life. Yes, she had to admit that she was cheated by her husband during her pregnancy. Proud as she is, she naturally can't tolerate such behavior. Fortunately, because of her hard work, she is already a backbone; Fortunately, because of her kindness, she still has countless friends in her life. When all this came unprepared, she had no extra time to hysterically look for reasons. She had to work hard to make herself a lone ranger. She plays the role of mother and father at the same time, regularly takes photos of her daughter, and writes four handmade travel notes about her daughter's growth; She went to a lawyer to go through the divorce formalities with her husband without any hesitation, but I think she must have had a particularly difficult time; At the beginning, she tried to save her unemployed husband and they became colleagues, but even now, her husband had an affair with another female colleague, she still sacrificed herself - resignation and entrepreneurship. She is a woman with a poet's feelings and a lover I like. She makes me have to seriously think about our future. When friends get together, they always talk about the marriage of their parents. There is no real love, but we can still live a good life. We have been pursuing true love, but we may not be able to stay together in the end. With emotion, we have to admit that in this materialistic society, there are too many temptations and we are not firm enough. Therefore, love and morality often fight, and many people lose to morality. We can't be above morality and criticize anyone. The only thing we can do, I think, is to keep trying. Do you remember your dream? When I was a child, I wanted to be a diplomat. When I grew up, I chose a different major. Later, my life was not under my control, but the only good thing was that I was not reduced to a housewife and only a husband; I will not be reduced to a slovenly mother, who is devoted to my children; I'm not going to be a slave to life, but only for money. Looking back on the girlfriends who have seen a lot of scenery together over the years, I can still remember your original ideal. I still vaguely remember your young and tender faces when we talked about the future. Although we were full of green and astringent at that time, we still had the courage to talk about the life we wanted. But now, I often bother myself. I only wish that you, who are now a housewife, can get the respect, understanding and support of your husband. Even if one day, you also have the wrinkles left by years and the sagging breasts left by time. He still remembers to be grateful, and he still knows how to appreciate these bad but precious changes. What can be seen everywhere in my life is hidden accidents. I am often afraid that if I change her to any woman who has given up after marriage, divorce may become a fatal blow. I only wish you could well imagine the happy life today as a change without anything - you will lose your love, your close relatives, your work... Do you really have the courage to face such a life? I think she is undoubtedly happy. She has never turned that man into her only possession because of love. She insists on her hobbies. She has her own friends. Her greatest wealth is the courage to continue to live. The longer the road I have traveled and the more people I have met, I begin to understand the unknown and unfair fate. We were not born equal, just as we were born unable to foresee our life. The only thing we can do is always remember to raise the corners of your smiling mouth. No matter how great changes life gives you, you still have the courage and strength to continue your life. The most afraid thing in life is to be discarded. The most unpredictable thing in life is the opportunities and luck brought to you by hard work and destiny.