Short is life, long is suffering. "Zhang Ailing said that it's not easy to live. To live, you have to eat, wear and live; to live, you have to sweat, shed tears and bleed... It's very tired to live. Living, in form, can be divided into two kinds: one is to show others; One is to show yourself. If you live to show others, you will be more tired. At present, most people live to show others. For example, if a friend is lovelorn, he said, I must work hard, stand out, find someone more beautiful than her and prove it to her! Another friend was lovelorn. She said that I must marry a millionaire, find someone who is more handsome and loves me more than him, and let him regret his decision. To live to show others is to die to save face and live to suffer. Comparing houses and tickets with others, I always feel that I am not as good as others, my car is not as good as others, my wife is not as beautiful as others, and my son's grades are not as good as others... In short, people are better than others, which makes me angry. A ruler is short and an inch is long. The more you compare, the more annoying you become. While others are counting money, we admire the moon. How nice! Living for others is too easy to be infected by the external atmosphere and influenced by the emotions of others. Walking in the crowd, you always feel countless eyes passing through your heart and lungs, and there are many short-term and long-term cold words. Finally, you confuse your mind and gradually become bound to the mess you weave. In fact, we live for ourselves, not for others! Live to others, someone scolded you, you are angry! You are angry when someone insults you! If someone hurts you, fight back! Wrong, as long as you respond, all insults, injuries and blows will have an effect. The most effective way to face harm and blow is tolerance and silence. When the insult loses the meaning of attack, the person who launched the attack must be abused and hurt by himself! It's not you who are laughed at, ridiculed and discussed, but the villain with ulterior motives. For one breath, as for living so hard! So, you have to live for yourself! You should ignore and listen. No one will laugh at your cowardice. In front of the smile, all the insults have become roadside dogs barking! Don't give too much evaluation to others as long as you are worthy of everything. Those superficial compliments are dust in the sun, confusing your vision; Those criticisms and curses are also poisons that anesthetize you. They will eventually confuse your mind. No matter how dangerous and difficult the journey is, don't change yourself passively. Only in this way can you be different. Live for yourself. No matter how hard you try, try to adapt to others. Even if you ask yourself to be complete, can you be perfect? Obviously impractical! Live for yourself. If you always don't have your own opinion, can't stand the comments of others and feel great pressure, you will accomplish nothing. You will live in these whirlpools all day. Finally, you don't know what to do and lose your way forward. Live to see for yourself whether your life is meaningful and whether you live with taste. The standard to measure is not external prominence or the success of fame and wealth, but your unique understanding of life and adherence to morality. What you want to pursue on the right path is meaningful. It's understandable and indisputable to be itchy about other people's fame and wealth, but living a life shown to others is a burden. Only by living a life shown to yourself can you have a relaxed and fulfilling life. Live for yourself, laugh for yourself, act for yourself, sing for yourself, believe in your ability, give yourself sunshine, give yourself confidence, give yourself a bright tomorrow, and hold the key to happiness in your hands, heart and soul.

Short is life, long is suffering. "Zhang Ailing said that it's not easy to live. To live, you have to eat, wear and live; to live, you have to sweat, shed tears and bleed... It's very tired to live. Living, in form, can be divided into two kinds: one is to show others; One is to show yourself. If you live to show others, you will be more tired. At present, most people live to show others. For example, if a friend is lovelorn, he said, I must work hard, stand out, find someone more beautiful than her and prove it to her! Another friend was lovelorn. She said that I must marry a millionaire, find someone who is more handsome and loves me more than him, and let him regret his decision. To live to show others is to die to save face and live to suffer. Comparing houses and tickets with others, I always feel that I am not as good as others, my car is not as good as others, my wife is not as beautiful as others, and my son's grades are not as good as others... In short, people are better than others, which makes me angry. A ruler is short and an inch is long. The more you compare, the more annoying you become. While others are counting money, we admire the moon. How nice! Living for others is too easy to be infected by the external atmosphere and influenced by the emotions of others. Walking in the crowd, you always feel countless eyes passing through your heart and lungs, and there are many short-term and long-term cold words. Finally, you confuse your mind and gradually become bound to the mess you weave. In fact, we live for ourselves, not for others! Live to others, someone scolded you, you are angry! You are angry when someone insults you! If someone hurts you, fight back! Wrong, as long as you respond, all insults, injuries and blows will have an effect. The most effective way to face harm and blow is tolerance and silence. When the insult loses the meaning of attack, the person who launched the attack must be abused and hurt by himself! It's not you who are laughed at, ridiculed and discussed, but the villain with ulterior motives. For one breath, as for living so hard! So, you have to live for yourself! You should ignore and listen. No one will laugh at your cowardice. In front of the smile, all the insults have become roadside dogs barking! Don't give too much evaluation to others as long as you are worthy of everything. Those superficial compliments are dust in the sun, confusing your vision; Those criticisms and curses are also poisons that anesthetize you. They will eventually confuse your mind. No matter how dangerous and difficult the journey is, don't change yourself passively. Only in this way can you be different. Live for yourself. No matter how hard you try, try to adapt to others. Even if you ask yourself to be complete, can you be perfect? Obviously impractical! Live for yourself. If you always don't have your own opinion, can't stand the comments of others and feel great pressure, you will accomplish nothing. You will live in these whirlpools all day. Finally, you don't know what to do and lose your way forward. Live to see for yourself whether your life is meaningful and whether you live with taste. The standard to measure is not external prominence or the success of fame and wealth, but your unique understanding of life and adherence to morality. What you want to pursue on the right path is meaningful. It's understandable and indisputable to be itchy about other people's fame and wealth, but living a life shown to others is a burden. Only by living a life shown to yourself can you have a relaxed and fulfilling life. Live for yourself, laugh for yourself, act for yourself, sing for yourself, believe in your ability, give yourself sunshine, give yourself confidence, give yourself a bright tomorrow, and hold the key to happiness in your hands, heart and soul.