Today, a girl on Q complained to me: "shit, I just broke up and found a new girlfriend within a month. I haven't found a new boyfriend yet. Why should he find him first?" I listened to her without saying a word and didn't reply to her. Most people's outlook on human feelings is very sad. Under the nine-year compulsory education of socialism, they are instilled with the outlook on life and values of "fairness and justice" and "equality for all". They apply this value to their feelings without thinking; As everyone knows, the word "socialism" is a big joke in today's China, let alone talk about "fairness" and "equality" in feelings. You choose to indulge in the past, refuse to move forward and make your own decisions to plan the future for your predecessors. However, that person has long left your sight, shouted "sayonara" and ran away with others' hands. Equality is probably something that both idealists and realists recognize as impossible. Nine years of compulsory education is a big lie, which may also lay a foundation for the sad life of most people. Many people hate the Chinese new year, probably because they are not used to being compared. Three aunts and six women sit down and start to compare with each other without talking about family habits. They don't have much mind to listen to you say "equality". They can become chips for competition from career, family, income and even children. "Oh, my family is not as powerful as yours. Your family takes 10000 a month and my family takes 3000." the loser, mixed with sour and sour gas, reluctantly said a few words to make things right; When all the people were gone, they began to complain about the winner, "what's the big deal of taking 10000? It's not a contractor exposed to the sun and rain." It seems that as long as you say a few words to comfort yourself, the sad life will become less sad. Classmate gathering is also a great occasion for "comparison". When I came back to Chengdu to talk with my classmates, I said, "Hey, I can only talk with my classmates who were handsome in Sichuan a few years ago." If this situation had been put on me in the past, I would probably say a few words, "where is there? Each has its own advantages. I also want to eat the soup made by my mother when I go home every day." But after such things for a long time, I suddenly felt that it was not my fault. Why should I spit sour and vinegar on me? Therefore, if I am now faced with this kind of "ill intentioned or ill judged provocation", I may answer: "who do you think is to blame?" Yes, who do you think is to blame? Do you blame me for "working too hard" in your eyes or you who are "not very competitive" in my eyes? Don't think I'm unkind or belittling. Understand that one's own life is not the responsibility of others. I keep telling the editor who helped me out of my first book that I'm not the kind of author who goes all the way to death. Soul chicken soup may be a bowl of life-saving Chicken Soup for people who can reflect, but the reason why most people need soul chicken soup is that they don't reflect on themselves; (www.lz13. CN) therefore, the endless soul chicken soup is at best a short-term anesthetic. One dose every once in a while can stop the pain, but it can never cure the root cause of the disease. Some friends and neighbors often send some questions that I have answered several times for help. I have to turn out the link of the previous log to her; But it's estimated that it won't be much help for her to consciously give it. Even the answers in front of her choose to be the party. How can you learn the ability to solve problems independently? If you like meager and brush the "jokes" or "scandals" of some celebrities or successful people from time to time, you may get the disease we said at the beginning - people who always feel that people who live better than you shouldn't, and they must have something very bad. You can feel at ease after knowing this. In fact, honey, why should others care about your life? Can sarcasm and satire bring satisfaction when seeing others take 10000 and yourself take 3000? Whether it's self realization or love, no one will compromise because of your self-esteem, no one will feel that you deserve to suffer with you because you get a salary of 3000 yuan, and no one will fall in love with you because you pursue her too hard and have no self-respect. I'm afraid this is the cruel truth that life needs to be exposed. So remember, don't be a piece of broken glass. Don't say anything like "Oh, how can you be so rich and handsome? We losers can only stay in Chengdu for development in Beijing". If you like Beijing so much, go after it yourself, and the old man still wants to stay in Chengdu for dinner.

Today, a girl on Q complained to me: "shit, I just broke up and found a new girlfriend within a month. I haven't found a new boyfriend yet. Why should he find him first?" I listened to her without saying a word and didn't reply to her. Most people's outlook on human feelings is very sad. Under the nine-year compulsory education of socialism, they are instilled with the outlook on life and values of "fairness and justice" and "equality for all". They apply this value to their feelings without thinking; As everyone knows, the word "socialism" is a big joke in today's China, let alone talk about "fairness" and "equality" in feelings. You choose to indulge in the past, refuse to move forward and make your own decisions to plan the future for your predecessors. However, that person has long left your sight, shouted "sayonara" and ran away with others' hands. Equality is probably something that both idealists and realists recognize as impossible. Nine years of compulsory education is a big lie, which may also lay a foundation for the sad life of most people. Many people hate the Chinese new year, probably because they are not used to being compared. Three aunts and six women sit down and start to compare with each other without talking about family habits. They don't have much mind to listen to you say "equality". They can become chips for competition from career, family, income and even children. "Oh, my family is not as powerful as yours. Your family takes 10000 a month and my family takes 3000." the loser, mixed with sour and sour gas, reluctantly said a few words to make things right; When all the people were gone, they began to complain about the winner, "what's the big deal of taking 10000? It's not a contractor exposed to the sun and rain." It seems that as long as you say a few words to comfort yourself, the sad life will become less sad. Classmate gathering is also a great occasion for "comparison". When I came back to Chengdu to talk with my classmates, I said, "Hey, I can only talk with my classmates who were handsome in Sichuan a few years ago." If this situation had been put on me in the past, I would probably say a few words, "where is there? Each has its own advantages. I also want to eat the soup made by my mother when I go home every day." But after such things for a long time, I suddenly felt that it was not my fault. Why should I spit sour and vinegar on me? Therefore, if I am now faced with this kind of "ill intentioned or ill judged provocation", I may answer: "who do you think is to blame?" Yes, who do you think is to blame? Do you blame me for "working too hard" in your eyes or you who are "not very competitive" in my eyes? Don't think I'm unkind or belittling. Understand that one's own life is not the responsibility of others. I keep telling the editor who helped me out of my first book that I'm not the kind of author who goes all the way to death. Soul chicken soup may be a bowl of life-saving Chicken Soup for people who can reflect, but the reason why most people need soul chicken soup is that they don't reflect on themselves; (www.lz13. CN) therefore, the endless soul chicken soup is at best a short-term anesthetic. One dose every once in a while can stop the pain, but it can never cure the root cause of the disease. Some friends and neighbors often send some questions that I have answered several times for help. I have to turn out the link of the previous log to her; But it's estimated that it won't be much help for her to consciously give it. Even the answers in front of her choose to be the party. How can you learn the ability to solve problems independently? If you like meager and brush the "jokes" or "scandals" of some celebrities or successful people from time to time, you may get the disease we said at the beginning - people who always feel that people who live better than you shouldn't, and they must have something very bad. You can feel at ease after knowing this. In fact, honey, why should others care about your life? Can sarcasm and satire bring satisfaction when seeing others take 10000 and yourself take 3000? Whether it's self realization or love, no one will compromise because of your self-esteem, no one will feel that you deserve to suffer with you because you get a salary of 3000 yuan, and no one will fall in love with you because you pursue her too hard and have no self-respect. I'm afraid this is the cruel truth that life needs to be exposed. So remember, don't be a piece of broken glass. Don't say anything like "Oh, how can you be so rich and handsome? We losers can only stay in Chengdu for development in Beijing". If you like Beijing so much, go after it yourself, and the old man still wants to stay in Chengdu for dinner.