Once upon a time, there was a painter who wanted to draw a picture that everyone liked when he saw it. After months of hard work. He took the painting to the market, put a pen next to the painting, and attached a note: dear friend, if you think there is any poor pen in this painting, please give advice and mark it in the painting. In the evening, when the painter took back the painting, he found that the whole picture was covered with marks, and there was no one who could not be blamed for every stroke. The painter was very unhappy and deeply disappointed in this attempt. The painter decided to try another way, so he copied the same painting and put it on the market. But this time, he asked each viewer to mark his favorite pen. As a result, all the strokes that were once criticized are now marked with praise. Finally, the painter said with emotion: "now I finally understand that no matter what I do, it is enough for some people to be satisfied, because what seems ugly to some people is just beautiful in the eyes of others." In real life, we often encounter similar things. For example, when we do Taobao stores now, even if you give something for free, some people dislike that the thing you give is too small, or some other comments. People will never be satisfied. In real life, there are all kinds of people. Even if you are kind, even if you try your best, you can't satisfy everyone. You can't satisfy everyone because sometimes not everyone is human. What others say, let people say, what others do, let people do. The mouth grows on people's faces, and we can't control it. We will continue to treat our customers with our services. If we do it ourselves, how others say it is someone else's business. …… An elderly father and his little son drove their donkey to the market. They didn't go far. They met a group of people gathered by the well, talking and laughing. One of them said, "look, have you ever seen such a man who walks instead of riding a donkey." Hearing this, the father immediately told his son to ride on the donkey. After walking for a while, they met a group of old men who were arguing. One of the old men said, "look, this proves what I just said. There is no respect for the old man in this social fashion. Look at the lazy child riding on the donkey and his old father walking below. Come down, you little thing! Don't let your old father rest his tired legs!" So the father called his son down and rode on his donkey. They didn't go far when they met another group of women. One woman shouted, "you useless old man, how can you ride on a donkey and let the poor child run out of strength?" The father immediately called his son to sit behind him, and the two rode together on a donkey. After a while, when they came to a church, a priest stopped them: "Hey! Hey! Wait a minute, please. It's pathetic for two people to ride such a weak donkey. Where are you going?" "We are going to take this donkey to the market!" "Oh! This is even more problematic. I think the donkey is dead tired before you enter the market. I'm afraid it can't be sold!" "So, what should I do?" "Carry the donkey!" "OK! Just do as you say." The father and son immediately jumped off the donkey's back, tied the donkey's legs together, and carried the donkey on his shoulder with a wooden stick. When passing a bridge near the market, many people gathered around to see this interesting thing. Everyone made fun of their father and son. The noise and this strange manipulation made the donkey very unhappy. He broke the rope and stick and fell into the river. This story illustrates such a truth: different people will have different views from different positions. No matter what you do, you can't satisfy everyone. Therefore, we should have our own opinions in doing things. If we think it is correct, we should stick to it, not be influenced by other people's opinions, and not try to satisfy everyone. The father wanted to satisfy everyone, but no one was satisfied and lost the donkey. In the process of doing things, we often face a lot of criticism and criticism. It is impossible for everyone to praise you and affirm you. A person's value is not based on the praise or criticism of others, as long as he tries his best to do it; As for how others criticize and expect, you don't have to care too much. It is impossible for a person to make everyone satisfied with you. Even if he has done his best, there will still be places for others to complain. If everyone is satisfied with you, it means you may have a problem. Because if you do bad things, good people will scold you; If you do well, the bad guys will scold you. If you care too much about other people's praise, you will become proud; If you care too much about other people's criticism, you will feel annoyed and be bad for you or things. Therefore, the best way is to keep calm at all times and do things well.

Once upon a time, there was a painter who wanted to draw a picture that everyone liked when he saw it. After months of hard work. He took the painting to the market, put a pen next to the painting, and attached a note: dear friend, if you think there is any poor pen in this painting, please give advice and mark it in the painting. In the evening, when the painter took back the painting, he found that the whole picture was covered with marks, and there was no one who could not be blamed for every stroke. The painter was very unhappy and deeply disappointed in this attempt. The painter decided to try another way, so he copied the same painting and put it on the market. But this time, he asked each viewer to mark his favorite pen. As a result, all the strokes that were once criticized are now marked with praise. Finally, the painter said with emotion: "now I finally understand that no matter what I do, it is enough for some people to be satisfied, because what seems ugly to some people is just beautiful in the eyes of others." In real life, we often encounter similar things. For example, when we do Taobao stores now, even if you give something for free, some people dislike that the thing you give is too small, or some other comments. People will never be satisfied. In real life, there are all kinds of people. Even if you are kind, even if you try your best, you can't satisfy everyone. You can't satisfy everyone because sometimes not everyone is human. What others say, let people say, what others do, let people do. The mouth grows on people's faces, and we can't control it. We will continue to treat our customers with our services. If we do it ourselves, how others say it is someone else's business. …… An elderly father and his little son drove their donkey to the market. They didn't go far. They met a group of people gathered by the well, talking and laughing. One of them said, "look, have you ever seen such a man who walks instead of riding a donkey." Hearing this, the father immediately told his son to ride on the donkey. After walking for a while, they met a group of old men who were arguing. One of the old men said, "look, this proves what I just said. There is no respect for the old man in this social fashion. Look at the lazy child riding on the donkey and his old father walking below. Come down, you little thing! Don't let your old father rest his tired legs!" So the father called his son down and rode on his donkey. They didn't go far when they met another group of women. One woman shouted, "you useless old man, how can you ride on a donkey and let the poor child run out of strength?" The father immediately called his son to sit behind him, and the two rode together on a donkey. After a while, when they came to a church, a priest stopped them: "Hey! Hey! Wait a minute, please. It's pathetic for two people to ride such a weak donkey. Where are you going?" "We are going to take this donkey to the market!" "Oh! This is even more problematic. I think the donkey is dead tired before you enter the market. I'm afraid it can't be sold!" "So, what should I do?" "Carry the donkey!" "OK! Just do as you say." The father and son immediately jumped off the donkey's back, tied the donkey's legs together, and carried the donkey on his shoulder with a wooden stick. When passing a bridge near the market, many people gathered around to see this interesting thing. Everyone made fun of their father and son. The noise and this strange manipulation made the donkey very unhappy. He broke the rope and stick and fell into the river. This story illustrates such a truth: different people will have different views from different positions. No matter what you do, you can't satisfy everyone. Therefore, we should have our own opinions in doing things. If we think it is correct, we should stick to it, not be influenced by other people's opinions, and not try to satisfy everyone. The father wanted to satisfy everyone, but no one was satisfied and lost the donkey. In the process of doing things, we often face a lot of criticism and criticism. It is impossible for everyone to praise you and affirm you. A person's value is not based on the praise or criticism of others, as long as he tries his best to do it; As for how others criticize and expect, you don't have to care too much. It is impossible for a person to make everyone satisfied with you. Even if he has done his best, there will still be places for others to complain. If everyone is satisfied with you, it means you may have a problem. Because if you do bad things, good people will scold you; If you do well, the bad guys will scold you. If you care too much about other people's praise, you will become proud; If you care too much about other people's criticism, you will feel annoyed and be bad for you or things. Therefore, the best way is to keep calm at all times and do things well.