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What is ideal? My view is that when there are difficulties and no solutions, the ideal is a GPS, a navigation in life. When you don't know anything, you know where to go. About a few years ago, we drove from Xi'an to Urumqi. When we passed the Gobi desert, the car suddenly broke down. The mobile phone in that place had no signal. If we continued to drive, we might burn out the oil, and there was no reference frame around. We have no way to contact anyone and become more and more afraid and anxious. At this time, the driver got out of the car. He turned over there and kept looking at what he was looking at to see if there was a rut. Then he found a rut. So he drove the car to the latest rut, turned it sideways, and said, "the rest of the things can only wait, without any extravagant expectations." We waited like this. After waiting for nearly an hour, a particularly large truck came. Because we blocked the rut, the car stopped. Our driver wrote a phone and asked him to call each other for help after he went out. We discussed on the car and said, "is this reliable? Will people call you?" The driver said, "where there is no direction, when survival is the only choice, trust is the most valuable." As a result, we waited for more than an hour. Sure enough, our car came and was saved. After experiencing this, I have been thinking, when do people fear most? It's not when there is no money, water or car. The most frightening time is actually when there is no direction. When you have a direction, in fact, all the difficulties are not difficulties. Ideal is equivalent to suddenly finding a direction on the Gobi desert. In fact, the first important thing in life is to have a direction. But how is this direction determined? You should have a value in your heart. This value is the judgment of right and wrong, the value of honesty and morality. Driven by values, you will have a sense of direction. This sense of direction is different for everyone and for every era. 20 years ago, 30 years ago, the so-called ideal was not a personal ideal. At that time, we only had the feelings of family and country. But if you look closely at people now, they are all talking small words. For example, I want to marry a good wife and live a good life, which is also an ideal; For example, if I want to be tall, rich, handsome, white and beautiful, this is also an ideal. You can't say this is not an ideal. So today, social ideals and national ideals have become personal ideals. I advocate that we should determine our pursuit and put forward our own ideals according to reality and values in an era and environment. People will be happy when they have a sense of direction, and life will become simple. You will not become a "tangled brother" in reality, and you will become a "calm brother". There are three things people are not sure about. First, you are not sure how much money you will make in the future; Second, it is impossible to calculate how much happiness and pain there are; Third, it is uncertain when and how to leave the world. Therefore, when we encounter a lot of money problems, we are very tangled, but if you have values and ideals, accounting will become very simple, and people live a peaceful life. I do three things by myself. First, I see what others can't see, second, I calculate what others can't figure out, and third, I do what others don't do. Who is the happiest? People with faith are happy, and people with a sense of direction in their hearts are happy. Ideal is a sense of direction, just like the light in the dark tunnel. If you lose this light, you will fear and die. With this light, you will act and move forward. This is the meaning of ideal in life. Of course, the ideal can't be exaggerated to the point that everything can be solved. It's a health product, not a quick-acting heart-saving pill. So ideal is a sport that increases the probability. Compared with people without ideal, people with ideal have a higher probability of success, a higher degree of happiness, a stronger perseverance, a farther distance and a more down-to-earth heart, which is nothing more than this. But it doesn't mean that you have an ideal. Today, when you are 20, you will have a house, a car, a daughter-in-law and everything. Everything is called "pursuing your ideal and making money by the way". I know that when we talk about ideals, we inevitably talk about reality. Everyone always says that "the ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny". We are always talking about the ideal, and we can never embrace the ideal. I think so: ideals are always bred from reality. Because of dissatisfaction, there are dreams; Because there is no, so we need it; Because they are weak, they want to be strong. How can we talk with ideals? Ideal just tells you where to go and how to go. It's your own business. So simply put, reality is a question of "art", but what we are talking about is the question of "Tao", that is, the question of "where to go" and "why to go there", which is the ideal answer; How to go, when to go, and how to get there are daily problems to be solved in reality. We have ideals, but it doesn't mean we can make a deal with reality. It's impossible to say that if I have ideals today, tomorrow will become what I want. In addition, we must see that in the long-term development process, there are a few people who can really adhere to the ideal, after all, and most people are obliterated by reality in the ideal process, and then compromise. Therefore, we must also know that when we all talk about ideals together, it is like walking under the mountain before climbing. At this time, everyone vowed, "I want to go to the top of the mountain." Everyone looked carefully. After walking for a while, there were only half of them left. At the end, there were only fiveorsix people left. Everyone didn't know where to go. People in the middle of the waist are sarcastic, saying, "why go up, you have to come down." The person at the bottom said, "with this time, it's better to go to a movie, fall in love, or travel." Everyone was looking for reasons for themselves. Finally, there was only one person left, who went to the top of the mountain, and this person told you that I saw a lot of scenery. But there are still many people who don't think so. They say it's also in the photo, which is different from what you said. Otherwise, I didn't go up, and I don't believe it. Chinese Digest Today, when we talk about ideals, we are faced with the same dilemma. We have talked a lot about ideals. It is normal and appropriate for you to doubt them, because you are still at the starting point of climbing mountains. If you insist on walking halfway up the mountain, 20 years later, if you come back and do this program, you will speak more wonderful, moving and powerful than me!
What is ideal? My view is that when there are difficulties and no solutions, the ideal is a GPS, a navigation in life. When you don't know anything, you know where to go. About a few years ago, we drove from Xi'an to Urumqi. When we passed the Gobi desert, the car suddenly broke down. The mobile phone in that place had no signal. If we continued to drive, we might burn out the oil, and there was no reference frame around. We have no way to contact anyone and become more and more afraid and anxious. At this time, the driver got out of the car. He turned over there and kept looking at what he was looking at to see if there was a rut. Then he found a rut. So he drove the car to the latest rut, turned it sideways, and said, "the rest of the things can only wait, without any extravagant expectations." We waited like this. After waiting for nearly an hour, a particularly large truck came. Because we blocked the rut, the car stopped. Our driver wrote a phone and asked him to call each other for help after he went out. We discussed on the car and said, "is this reliable? Will people call you?" The driver said, "where there is no direction, when survival is the only choice, trust is the most valuable." As a result, we waited for more than an hour. Sure enough, our car came and was saved. After experiencing this, I have been thinking, when do people fear most? It's not when there is no money, water or car. The most frightening time is actually when there is no direction. When you have a direction, in fact, all the difficulties are not difficulties. Ideal is equivalent to suddenly finding a direction on the Gobi desert. In fact, the first important thing in life is to have a direction. But how is this direction determined? You should have a value in your heart. This value is the judgment of right and wrong, the value of honesty and morality. Driven by values, you will have a sense of direction. This sense of direction is different for everyone and for every era. 20 years ago, 30 years ago, the so-called ideal was not a personal ideal. At that time, we only had the feelings of family and country. But if you look closely at people now, they are all talking small words. For example, I want to marry a good wife and live a good life, which is also an ideal; For example, if I want to be tall, rich, handsome, white and beautiful, this is also an ideal. You can't say this is not an ideal. So today, social ideals and national ideals have become personal ideals. I advocate that we should determine our pursuit and put forward our own ideals according to reality and values in an era and environment. People will be happy when they have a sense of direction, and life will become simple. You will not become a "tangled brother" in reality, and you will become a "calm brother". There are three things people are not sure about. First, you are not sure how much money you will make in the future; Second, it is impossible to calculate how much happiness and pain there are; Third, it is uncertain when and how to leave the world. Therefore, when we encounter a lot of money problems, we are very tangled, but if you have values and ideals, accounting will become very simple, and people live a peaceful life. I do three things by myself. First, I see what others can't see, second, I calculate what others can't figure out, and third, I do what others don't do. Who is the happiest? People with faith are happy, and people with a sense of direction in their hearts are happy. Ideal is a sense of direction, just like the light in the dark tunnel. If you lose this light, you will fear and die. With this light, you will act and move forward. This is the meaning of ideal in life. Of course, the ideal can't be exaggerated to the point that everything can be solved. It's a health product, not a quick-acting heart-saving pill. So ideal is a sport that increases the probability. Compared with people without ideal, people with ideal have a higher probability of success, a higher degree of happiness, a stronger perseverance, a farther distance and a more down-to-earth heart, which is nothing more than this. But it doesn't mean that you have an ideal. Today, when you are 20, you will have a house, a car, a daughter-in-law and everything. Everything is called "pursuing your ideal and making money by the way". I know that when we talk about ideals, we inevitably talk about reality. Everyone always says that "the ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny". We are always talking about the ideal, and we can never embrace the ideal. I think so: ideals are always bred from reality. Because of dissatisfaction, there are dreams; Because there is no, so we need it; Because they are weak, they want to be strong. How can we talk with ideals? Ideal just tells you where to go and how to go. It's your own business. So simply put, reality is a question of "art", but what we are talking about is the question of "Tao", that is, the question of "where to go" and "why to go there", which is the ideal answer; How to go, when to go, and how to get there are daily problems to be solved in reality. We have ideals, but it doesn't mean we can make a deal with reality. It's impossible to say that if I have ideals today, tomorrow will become what I want. In addition, we must see that in the long-term development process, there are a few people who can really adhere to the ideal, after all, and most people are obliterated by reality in the ideal process, and then compromise. Therefore, we must also know that when we all talk about ideals together, it is like walking under the mountain before climbing. At this time, everyone vowed, "I want to go to the top of the mountain." Everyone looked carefully. After walking for a while, there were only half of them left. At the end, there were only fiveorsix people left. Everyone didn't know where to go. People in the middle of the waist are sarcastic, saying, "why go up, you have to come down." The person at the bottom said, "with this time, it's better to go to a movie, fall in love, or travel." Everyone was looking for reasons for themselves. Finally, there was only one person left, who went to the top of the mountain, and this person told you that I saw a lot of scenery. But there are still many people who don't think so. They say it's also in the photo, which is different from what you said. Otherwise, I didn't go up, and I don't believe it. Chinese Digest Today, when we talk about ideals, we are faced with the same dilemma. We have talked a lot about ideals. It is normal and appropriate for you to doubt them, because you are still at the starting point of climbing mountains. If you insist on walking halfway up the mountain, 20 years later, if you come back and do this program, you will speak more wonderful, moving and powerful than me!
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