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"If you lend money to a friend, you will lose your friendship as interest."—— Sheepskin roll Shakespeare has a famous saying: "don't lend money to others. Lending it will make you empty of both human and financial resources; don't borrow money from others. Borrowing it will make you forget your diligence and thrift." Although this sentence has some truth, it is the opposite of Jewish business. You can help your friend in other friendly ways, but don't lend him money. To lend money to others is to buy an enemy for yourself. Jewish friends rarely involve money. Their friends are friends and money is money. They share it very clearly. Generally, they don't mix friendship with money or lend money to others. Jewish friends are very nice to each other. They eat and drink together. Such a friendly relationship means that you are his favorite friend and he is willing to communicate with you often. But if you borrow money, they rarely agree. This is not because the Jews don't like their friends, nor because they don't trust each other, but because they are smart. Jews are very self-esteem. They generally refuse to ask for help. Even if they encounter difficulties, they still rely on their own strength to solve them, and rarely ask for help from others. Jews borrow money in life, which is different from their borrowing in business. If a person borrows money from his friends, it means that he is in a difficult time of life. When someone lends money to him, he always feels uneasy. He always thinks about how to return the money to his friends as soon as possible. When he meets his friends, he feels very embarrassed. Although his friends are still very close to him, even the person doesn't feel the embarrassment of the borrower. In order to avoid this feeling of guilt, the borrower will generally avoid his friends and hope to pay back the money as soon as possible, so that he will feel calm in front of his friends. With this psychology, such friends will become very uncomfortable and uncomfortable because of money. As for friends, if they also happen to need the money, but have lent the money to others, and in order to reassure others, they generally don't say the time to repay the money. In this way, when friends have money, they will return it. However, many things they urgently need funds to deal with, but the words have been exported, they are very embarrassed to ask for money, but they have to borrow money from others, In this way, everyone's heart is uncomfortable. Therefore, the Jews reached a tacit understanding that they would not lend money to their friends. There is a ballad posted in a Jewish restaurant: "I like you. You want to borrow money, but I can't borrow it. I'm afraid you'll borrow it and won't come back." That's what I mean. Jews like to lend money at usury and charge interest, which has been their tradition for hundreds of years. If they have spare funds, they will release the money to charge interest, and if someone needs money, they can borrow. Therefore, when Jews have no money, they like to borrow to enrich their funds or borrow funds temporarily to tide over difficulties. Borrowing money from others is a business behavior, which is different from borrowing money from friends. A story goes like this: Yakov lent Arthur $500, which is due tomorrow, but Arthur has no money to pay back. Yakov had warned Arthur three days ago that it was time to pay back the money in three days. "Yakov will come to ask for money tomorrow." Thinking of this, Arthur was restless and fidgeted around the house. "Why don't you sleep?" His wife asked him. "I borrowed money from Yakov and have to pay him back tomorrow morning!" "Are you rich now?" "I don't even have a penny!" "In that case, go to bed. It should be Yakov, not you, who is worried." Arthur's wife's words represent our general attitude towards dealing with debt. Since we don't have money, we can rest assured. It's no use worrying anyway. In fact, Yakov really had no way. His friends had no money. If he forced his friends to pay back the money, the long-term relationship with his friends would collapse. Lawsuit is a waste of their own money, and it is a fatal blow to the feelings of friends. Another story goes like this: Messick borrowed 1200 marks from Luoyang, but messick had no money to pay back. Whenever he met Luoyang, messick would slip away and disappear. But Luo Yang was helpless and could only sigh. At this time, another friend of his said to him, "you might as well write to mesic and ask him to repay the debt of 1800 mark as soon as possible and see his response." Luo Yang also needed the money very much, so he had to adopt this method and sent a letter to messick. Two days later, mesic wrote back and said, "Luo Yang, I remember very clearly that I only lent you 1200 marks. How do you say I owe you 1800 marks? I enclose 1200 marks. If you want to file a lawsuit, you will lose." If friends really come to this point, you can think of the relationship between them in the future. Therefore, the Jews who know human feelings say: borrowing money means paying for an enemy.
"If you lend money to a friend, you will lose your friendship as interest."—— Sheepskin roll Shakespeare has a famous saying: "don't lend money to others. Lending it will make you empty of both human and financial resources; don't borrow money from others. Borrowing it will make you forget your diligence and thrift." Although this sentence has some truth, it is the opposite of Jewish business. You can help your friend in other friendly ways, but don't lend him money. To lend money to others is to buy an enemy for yourself. Jewish friends rarely involve money. Their friends are friends and money is money. They share it very clearly. Generally, they don't mix friendship with money or lend money to others. Jewish friends are very nice to each other. They eat and drink together. Such a friendly relationship means that you are his favorite friend and he is willing to communicate with you often. But if you borrow money, they rarely agree. This is not because the Jews don't like their friends, nor because they don't trust each other, but because they are smart. Jews are very self-esteem. They generally refuse to ask for help. Even if they encounter difficulties, they still rely on their own strength to solve them, and rarely ask for help from others. Jews borrow money in life, which is different from their borrowing in business. If a person borrows money from his friends, it means that he is in a difficult time of life. When someone lends money to him, he always feels uneasy. He always thinks about how to return the money to his friends as soon as possible. When he meets his friends, he feels very embarrassed. Although his friends are still very close to him, even the person doesn't feel the embarrassment of the borrower. In order to avoid this feeling of guilt, the borrower will generally avoid his friends and hope to pay back the money as soon as possible, so that he will feel calm in front of his friends. With this psychology, such friends will become very uncomfortable and uncomfortable because of money. As for friends, if they also happen to need the money, but have lent the money to others, and in order to reassure others, they generally don't say the time to repay the money. In this way, when friends have money, they will return it. However, many things they urgently need funds to deal with, but the words have been exported, they are very embarrassed to ask for money, but they have to borrow money from others, In this way, everyone's heart is uncomfortable. Therefore, the Jews reached a tacit understanding that they would not lend money to their friends. There is a ballad posted in a Jewish restaurant: "I like you. You want to borrow money, but I can't borrow it. I'm afraid you'll borrow it and won't come back." That's what I mean. Jews like to lend money at usury and charge interest, which has been their tradition for hundreds of years. If they have spare funds, they will release the money to charge interest, and if someone needs money, they can borrow. Therefore, when Jews have no money, they like to borrow to enrich their funds or borrow funds temporarily to tide over difficulties. Borrowing money from others is a business behavior, which is different from borrowing money from friends. A story goes like this: Yakov lent Arthur $500, which is due tomorrow, but Arthur has no money to pay back. Yakov had warned Arthur three days ago that it was time to pay back the money in three days. "Yakov will come to ask for money tomorrow." Thinking of this, Arthur was restless and fidgeted around the house. "Why don't you sleep?" His wife asked him. "I borrowed money from Yakov and have to pay him back tomorrow morning!" "Are you rich now?" "I don't even have a penny!" "In that case, go to bed. It should be Yakov, not you, who is worried." Arthur's wife's words represent our general attitude towards dealing with debt. Since we don't have money, we can rest assured. It's no use worrying anyway. In fact, Yakov really had no way. His friends had no money. If he forced his friends to pay back the money, the long-term relationship with his friends would collapse. Lawsuit is a waste of their own money, and it is a fatal blow to the feelings of friends. Another story goes like this: Messick borrowed 1200 marks from Luoyang, but messick had no money to pay back. Whenever he met Luoyang, messick would slip away and disappear. But Luo Yang was helpless and could only sigh. At this time, another friend of his said to him, "you might as well write to mesic and ask him to repay the debt of 1800 mark as soon as possible and see his response." Luo Yang also needed the money very much, so he had to adopt this method and sent a letter to messick. Two days later, mesic wrote back and said, "Luo Yang, I remember very clearly that I only lent you 1200 marks. How do you say I owe you 1800 marks? I enclose 1200 marks. If you want to file a lawsuit, you will lose." If friends really come to this point, you can think of the relationship between them in the future. Therefore, the Jews who know human feelings say: borrowing money means paying for an enemy.
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