Do you also have the feeling that every time you miss success, your heart is lonely and desolate. When there are few friends, they complain about boredom and loneliness, and when there are many friends, they are always in a trance. The play of life, as if, is always a one-man one-man play. Mr. Wang Guowei, a master of Sinology, once wrote in the book "human CI Hua": those who have become great undertakings and universities in ancient and modern times must go through three levels: "Last night, the west wind withered the green trees. Go up tall buildings alone and look at the end of the world. "This is also the first place. "The clothes are getting wider and wider, but I don't regret it. I'm haggard for Iraq", which is also the second situation. "The crowd looked for him for thousands of times, and suddenly looking back, the man was in the dim light", which was also the third realm. In fact, these three realms refer to the three stages of people's determination, struggle and harvest. The great cause of life must be honed in these three stages in order to succeed. Life sometimes needs us to experience in solitude, and the three realms of life also need us to experience alone in solitude. one Loneliness is the most powerful position in your heart This is an era of blindly following the trend. From small to large, we often watch other people's children learn what their parents let us learn; What others do, we also follow what we do, for fear that we will fall behind. After growing up, the life track of working, buying a house, getting married and having children is gradually forcing us. Under the arrangement of your own fate, have you lived the way you like? The so-called "last night, the west wind withered the green trees, went up the tall buildings alone and looked at the end of the world." Your inner dream requires you to climb hard in solitude. You can't open your eyes only by climbing the top of the mountain. Those who stick to it silently in solitude often have a stronger heart. Listening to a song "white birch forest", I remembered the "out of place" park tree in my mind. Since middle school, park Shu has regarded music as his life. After graduating from junior high school, he plans to give up school and become a musician. This made his parents, who were professors of Peking University, very angry. In desperation, Pu Shu went on to study and was admitted to Capital Normal University. However, park Shu, who was on campus, was extremely depressed and finally dropped out of school. In the next two years, park Shu often ran to the river near his home and played his beloved guitar until late at night. Later, park Shu quickly became popular with a song "white birch forest", and his songs can be heard everywhere in the north and south of the river. Then came various awards, honors, Spring Festival Gala stage and high performance fees. Although the halo of success overlapped one circle after another, park Shu was not happy. He couldn't stand the lip synching of the Spring Festival Gala, the falsehood of the entertainment circle and the noise of the world. At that time, he fell into pain and anxiety again. In the face of the materialistic world, he still resisted silently with his lonely back. Suddenly, the popular park tree disappeared and he hid. Facing the concerns of relatives and friends, park Shu said: "when the snake molts, it will hide in a place where there is no light." The sinking of loneliness is just for the rebirth after transformation. Today's Park Shu has already passed his 40s, but listening to his songs, he still looks like a teenager. But park Shu said, "it's not that I'm still young, but that people in this country choose to grow old too early." Yes, years urge people to grow old, but what won't grow old is the pursuit and persistence of dreams. Life is stressful, but what cannot be overcome is the persistence and piety of faith. Some people say that dream is a luxury, which may be that you have never stuck to it silently in solitude. There is no "hidden dragon is not used", there is no "flying dragon in the sky". The wisdom of the book of changes also tells us that no matter what kind of life ambition you want to achieve, you must first hide your strength and bide your time in the lonely dive. two Struggle is your enjoyment in solitude As the saying goes, "those who have a will will will long, and those who have no will will will always". In life, many times, we only have three minutes to do things. Today we plan to go to fitness, but we give up on our own initiative without insisting for a month; I decided to start a business tomorrow. I backed out when I met a setback. As time goes by, I still give up halfway and accomplish nothing. Zeng Guofan once said, "all mediocre talents in the world, ancient and modern, have failed with the word" laziness ". People are inert. If they can't have long-term perseverance and persist in fighting, then their dreams can only become Utopian. The so-called "gradually widening the dress belt and never regretting, it makes people haggard for Iraq." Behind all success is the efforts of an ascetic monk. Fan Zhongyan, a famous Minister of the Northern Song Dynasty, studied in a temple when he was a teenager. He worked hard and studied hard. He often studied late at night. When he was sleepy, he washed his face with cold water and then read. Later, Fan Zhongyan went to Nandu school to study harder. He worked day and night, sometimes all night, so that he didn't take off his clothes and sleep for five years. Moreover, Fan Zhongyan's daily life is very simple, which is almost to the point of poverty. He only cooks a bowl of porridge every day. When it condenses, he divides it into four pieces, takes two pieces in the morning and two pieces in the evening, and eats it with pickles. Such difficult conditions not only did not bring Fan Zhongyan down, but tempered his amazing perseverance and hard-working character. However, Fan Zhongyan eventually became a generation of good ministers, benefiting the four sides and lasting for generations. The old adage says: "a sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum flowers comes from bitter cold". Many people know the truth, but there are not many things they can really do. In this materialistic world, we are faced with too many temptations, and if we want to put down comfort, challenge ourselves and realize our ideals, we can only persist in the exercise of loneliness. Life is a person's long-distance race. Although many people will go with you along the way, no one can reach the end for you. In this journey, we need to go together and walk alone. Life is very short. In order not to grow old in loneliness, please enjoy loneliness! three Success is an answer to loneliness I believe everyone has this experience. If you care too much about the result, you will usually make yourself very nervous, worry about gain and loss, and play an abnormal role. However, those who are calm, selfless and relaxed can succeed, which is particularly obvious for the students taking the driver's license test. To do anything, we need clear goals, detailed planning, hard work and perseverance. But when the final test of your critical moment, the best state is to "forget" all this. The ultimate devotion is "selflessness". Only selflessness can be the same with things. When talking about his successful experience, Kazuo Inamori, a famous Japanese entrepreneur, repeatedly mentioned the "Enlightenment from heaven". The so-called "Enlightenment from heaven" is actually the inspiration obtained by Mr. Inamori in his selfless work at the production and scientific research site. These inspirations are accidental and unimaginable. When Mr. Inamori started Kyocera, he once received an order from Panasonic electronic industry. In order to produce the required products, they need to develop and synthesize a material called "forsterite". This technology was very difficult at that time. Mr. Inamori and his team failed after many experiments, which made Mr. Inamori very troubled and thought about the solution day and night. Later, by chance, when Mr. Inamori passed the laboratory, he seemed to trip over something and nearly fell. He looked down and saw that it was the rosin dropped by the staff in the experiment. In an instant, like the emergence of Lingguang, Mr. Inamori thought of "that's it". He put rosin into the experiment as an adhesive and achieved great success. This accidental inspiration seems to be inspired by God to Mr. Inamori himself. The source of inspiration often emerges in the lonely exploration. On the road of struggling life, walking, success may come inadvertently. "Vajra Sutra" says: "the past heart can not be obtained, the present heart can not be obtained, and the future heart can not be obtained." The mistakes in the past are irreparable. Too much regret and guilt can only live in the shadow of the past and remain negative. Such a life will never see the sun. The future has not happened yet. Worrying too much will only bring trouble to yourself, make people constantly anxious and make a mess of their life. Time never stops for a moment, and the current mind is also in impermanent changes. The only thing we can grasp is the current thought, speech and behavior. All success in the world starts from focusing on the present, struggling in the present, and reaping in the present. In "Ci Hua in the world", the last level of the person who has achieved great things says, "people look for him thousands of times, and suddenly look back, but the man is in the dim light." This is just asking about cultivation, not harvest, and the results will be natural. Life is not to start with a lonely back, Polish alone for countless days and nights, and finally, suddenly meet the dream that can't be abandoned in my heart in an unknown moment. A man of great atmosphere must have a great realm; Those who are cautious about independence must have a big pattern. The three realms of life need to be cherished in your lifetime.

Do you also have the feeling that every time you miss success, your heart is lonely and desolate. When there are few friends, they complain about boredom and loneliness, and when there are many friends, they are always in a trance. The play of life, as if, is always a one-man one-man play. Mr. Wang Guowei, a master of Sinology, once wrote in the book "human CI Hua": those who have become great undertakings and universities in ancient and modern times must go through three levels: "Last night, the west wind withered the green trees. Go up tall buildings alone and look at the end of the world. "This is also the first place. "The clothes are getting wider and wider, but I don't regret it. I'm haggard for Iraq", which is also the second situation. "The crowd looked for him for thousands of times, and suddenly looking back, the man was in the dim light", which was also the third realm. In fact, these three realms refer to the three stages of people's determination, struggle and harvest. The great cause of life must be honed in these three stages in order to succeed. Life sometimes needs us to experience in solitude, and the three realms of life also need us to experience alone in solitude. one Loneliness is the most powerful position in your heart This is an era of blindly following the trend. From small to large, we often watch other people's children learn what their parents let us learn; What others do, we also follow what we do, for fear that we will fall behind. After growing up, the life track of working, buying a house, getting married and having children is gradually forcing us. Under the arrangement of your own fate, have you lived the way you like? The so-called "last night, the west wind withered the green trees, went up the tall buildings alone and looked at the end of the world." Your inner dream requires you to climb hard in solitude. You can't open your eyes only by climbing the top of the mountain. Those who stick to it silently in solitude often have a stronger heart. Listening to a song "white birch forest", I remembered the "out of place" park tree in my mind. Since middle school, park Shu has regarded music as his life. After graduating from junior high school, he plans to give up school and become a musician. This made his parents, who were professors of Peking University, very angry. In desperation, Pu Shu went on to study and was admitted to Capital Normal University. However, park Shu, who was on campus, was extremely depressed and finally dropped out of school. In the next two years, park Shu often ran to the river near his home and played his beloved guitar until late at night. Later, park Shu quickly became popular with a song "white birch forest", and his songs can be heard everywhere in the north and south of the river. Then came various awards, honors, Spring Festival Gala stage and high performance fees. Although the halo of success overlapped one circle after another, park Shu was not happy. He couldn't stand the lip synching of the Spring Festival Gala, the falsehood of the entertainment circle and the noise of the world. At that time, he fell into pain and anxiety again. In the face of the materialistic world, he still resisted silently with his lonely back. Suddenly, the popular park tree disappeared and he hid. Facing the concerns of relatives and friends, park Shu said: "when the snake molts, it will hide in a place where there is no light." The sinking of loneliness is just for the rebirth after transformation. Today's Park Shu has already passed his 40s, but listening to his songs, he still looks like a teenager. But park Shu said, "it's not that I'm still young, but that people in this country choose to grow old too early." Yes, years urge people to grow old, but what won't grow old is the pursuit and persistence of dreams. Life is stressful, but what cannot be overcome is the persistence and piety of faith. Some people say that dream is a luxury, which may be that you have never stuck to it silently in solitude. There is no "hidden dragon is not used", there is no "flying dragon in the sky". The wisdom of the book of changes also tells us that no matter what kind of life ambition you want to achieve, you must first hide your strength and bide your time in the lonely dive. two Struggle is your enjoyment in solitude As the saying goes, "those who have a will will will long, and those who have no will will will always". In life, many times, we only have three minutes to do things. Today we plan to go to fitness, but we give up on our own initiative without insisting for a month; I decided to start a business tomorrow. I backed out when I met a setback. As time goes by, I still give up halfway and accomplish nothing. Zeng Guofan once said, "all mediocre talents in the world, ancient and modern, have failed with the word" laziness ". People are inert. If they can't have long-term perseverance and persist in fighting, then their dreams can only become Utopian. The so-called "gradually widening the dress belt and never regretting, it makes people haggard for Iraq." Behind all success is the efforts of an ascetic monk. Fan Zhongyan, a famous Minister of the Northern Song Dynasty, studied in a temple when he was a teenager. He worked hard and studied hard. He often studied late at night. When he was sleepy, he washed his face with cold water and then read. Later, Fan Zhongyan went to Nandu school to study harder. He worked day and night, sometimes all night, so that he didn't take off his clothes and sleep for five years. Moreover, Fan Zhongyan's daily life is very simple, which is almost to the point of poverty. He only cooks a bowl of porridge every day. When it condenses, he divides it into four pieces, takes two pieces in the morning and two pieces in the evening, and eats it with pickles. Such difficult conditions not only did not bring Fan Zhongyan down, but tempered his amazing perseverance and hard-working character. However, Fan Zhongyan eventually became a generation of good ministers, benefiting the four sides and lasting for generations. The old adage says: "a sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum flowers comes from bitter cold". Many people know the truth, but there are not many things they can really do. In this materialistic world, we are faced with too many temptations, and if we want to put down comfort, challenge ourselves and realize our ideals, we can only persist in the exercise of loneliness. Life is a person's long-distance race. Although many people will go with you along the way, no one can reach the end for you. In this journey, we need to go together and walk alone. Life is very short. In order not to grow old in loneliness, please enjoy loneliness! three Success is an answer to loneliness I believe everyone has this experience. If you care too much about the result, you will usually make yourself very nervous, worry about gain and loss, and play an abnormal role. However, those who are calm, selfless and relaxed can succeed, which is particularly obvious for the students taking the driver's license test. To do anything, we need clear goals, detailed planning, hard work and perseverance. But when the final test of your critical moment, the best state is to "forget" all this. The ultimate devotion is "selflessness". Only selflessness can be the same with things. When talking about his successful experience, Kazuo Inamori, a famous Japanese entrepreneur, repeatedly mentioned the "Enlightenment from heaven". The so-called "Enlightenment from heaven" is actually the inspiration obtained by Mr. Inamori in his selfless work at the production and scientific research site. These inspirations are accidental and unimaginable. When Mr. Inamori started Kyocera, he once received an order from Panasonic electronic industry. In order to produce the required products, they need to develop and synthesize a material called "forsterite". This technology was very difficult at that time. Mr. Inamori and his team failed after many experiments, which made Mr. Inamori very troubled and thought about the solution day and night. Later, by chance, when Mr. Inamori passed the laboratory, he seemed to trip over something and nearly fell. He looked down and saw that it was the rosin dropped by the staff in the experiment. In an instant, like the emergence of Lingguang, Mr. Inamori thought of "that's it". He put rosin into the experiment as an adhesive and achieved great success. This accidental inspiration seems to be inspired by God to Mr. Inamori himself. The source of inspiration often emerges in the lonely exploration. On the road of struggling life, walking, success may come inadvertently. "Vajra Sutra" says: "the past heart can not be obtained, the present heart can not be obtained, and the future heart can not be obtained." The mistakes in the past are irreparable. Too much regret and guilt can only live in the shadow of the past and remain negative. Such a life will never see the sun. The future has not happened yet. Worrying too much will only bring trouble to yourself, make people constantly anxious and make a mess of their life. Time never stops for a moment, and the current mind is also in impermanent changes. The only thing we can grasp is the current thought, speech and behavior. All success in the world starts from focusing on the present, struggling in the present, and reaping in the present. In "Ci Hua in the world", the last level of the person who has achieved great things says, "people look for him thousands of times, and suddenly look back, but the man is in the dim light." This is just asking about cultivation, not harvest, and the results will be natural. Life is not to start with a lonely back, Polish alone for countless days and nights, and finally, suddenly meet the dream that can't be abandoned in my heart in an unknown moment. A man of great atmosphere must have a great realm; Those who are cautious about independence must have a big pattern. The three realms of life need to be cherished in your lifetime.