At a class party, the students "planted" Xiaobian could play the guitar. After teasing, Xiaobian was pushed onto the stage. How to explain that everyone didn't believe me. In such an awkward moment, I held the guitar and pushed it along with the trend, and the whole classroom was instantly quiet. Then I clapped my guitar and sang "two tigers" happily. Well, in fact, the happiest time is when you forget yourself. I was shy since I was a child. For five years in primary school, I had a Shijiazhuang accent and a special dialect. Among the children in the north, as soon as anyone speaks Mandarin, everyone will think you are very artificial. When I graduated from primary school and got into another middle school, I began to speak Mandarin on the first day. In primary school, I not only spoke Shijiazhuang dialect, but also stuttered. Sometimes my brother slapped me in the face. They said it could cure my stuttering. I belong to the kind of person who has difficulty in expressing feelings. The more such a person may be, the more open I am on the stage. Sometimes before I go on stage, I feel that I have no spectrum in my heart, so I will say to the people around me, "praise me." Lu Yu and other people shouted at me: "you are unparalleled, you are the best, the best." Hey, it's really useful, so I feel calm and excited. You pay attention to the American boxing match. There is a press conference before the match. The boxing champions will say to the reporters, "I'll run him over like a bug." Is he not cultured? Rude? No, it's a technique of psychological adjustment. It's to get excited. I once told the host when giving a lecture: "even if some of you are introverted and clumsy in speaking, you will certainly be in high spirits when chatting with others. Everyone is attracted by you. As long as one time can prove that you have eloquence, you don't need to cultivate such ability. What you need is how to mobilize your ability and give full play to it when you need it." When I was in junior high school, the teacher asked me to participate in the speech contest and write a speech. I also recited it backwards. I asked my family to say the first word of any natural paragraph. I brushed the following words and recited them. When I came to the stage, there was a dark place at the bottom. I recited a paragraph, just like the words at the beginning of the second paragraph. After reciting the second paragraph, my brain was blank. I was silent to the whole school teachers and students for a full minute. I was so scared that I peed my pants. The whole school teachers and students watched me run out of the school door. Later, when I went back to school, I felt that the laughter of the girls next to me was laughing at me. Our teacher said to me, "although you didn't finish your speech and didn't rank in the school, the two paragraphs you read are very good. Don't be nervous. If you can recite them, you will definitely win the first place. I recommend you to participate in the competition in the district." I promised this time more happily than last time. It seems that it doesn't matter. As a result, I really got a place by heart. Since then, I've changed a little. Anyway, I've lost face. What else does it matter? After taking off this burden, I feel I'm OK and can often show my face on such occasions. Chinese people are traditionally introverted. It is very rare for everyone to listen to you. We should cherish every opportunity to speak and perform in public, and let ourselves accumulate setbacks and experience of making a fool of ourselves, so as to put down ourselves. Make a fool of yourself this time. You laugh at me. I'll be shameless. If I make a fool of myself next time, I'll be shameless. When I'm all shameless, I'll enter the kingdom of freedom and be selfless. The so-called "self" is composed of face, self-esteem, vanity and so on. When all these things are destroyed, you suddenly find that you have everything. You made a little fool of yourself in front of 10 people today. Tomorrow, it will help you earn a lot of face in front of 100000 people. Look at my image. I have a hunchback and can't stand up straight, so I always look short when sitting with the hostess. The director took a telephone number book and padded it under my ass, but the hostess was unhappy. People were already tall. Why should I cushion one? When I went to the bathroom, I found that hey, she also padded one. Just cushion it. Later, the director thought that you were shorter than others. Give it another cushion. In the end, I found that I was almost standing, because I had padded several. The more I think about these things, the more I'm finished. The more I think about where to put your hand, the more you don't know where to put it. In fact, the happiest time is when you forget yourself.

At a class party, the students "planted" Xiaobian could play the guitar. After teasing, Xiaobian was pushed onto the stage. How to explain that everyone didn't believe me. In such an awkward moment, I held the guitar and pushed it along with the trend, and the whole classroom was instantly quiet. Then I clapped my guitar and sang "two tigers" happily. Well, in fact, the happiest time is when you forget yourself. I was shy since I was a child. For five years in primary school, I had a Shijiazhuang accent and a special dialect. Among the children in the north, as soon as anyone speaks Mandarin, everyone will think you are very artificial. When I graduated from primary school and got into another middle school, I began to speak Mandarin on the first day. In primary school, I not only spoke Shijiazhuang dialect, but also stuttered. Sometimes my brother slapped me in the face. They said it could cure my stuttering. I belong to the kind of person who has difficulty in expressing feelings. The more such a person may be, the more open I am on the stage. Sometimes before I go on stage, I feel that I have no spectrum in my heart, so I will say to the people around me, "praise me." Lu Yu and other people shouted at me: "you are unparalleled, you are the best, the best." Hey, it's really useful, so I feel calm and excited. You pay attention to the American boxing match. There is a press conference before the match. The boxing champions will say to the reporters, "I'll run him over like a bug." Is he not cultured? Rude? No, it's a technique of psychological adjustment. It's to get excited. I once told the host when giving a lecture: "even if some of you are introverted and clumsy in speaking, you will certainly be in high spirits when chatting with others. Everyone is attracted by you. As long as one time can prove that you have eloquence, you don't need to cultivate such ability. What you need is how to mobilize your ability and give full play to it when you need it." When I was in junior high school, the teacher asked me to participate in the speech contest and write a speech. I also recited it backwards. I asked my family to say the first word of any natural paragraph. I brushed the following words and recited them. When I came to the stage, there was a dark place at the bottom. I recited a paragraph, just like the words at the beginning of the second paragraph. After reciting the second paragraph, my brain was blank. I was silent to the whole school teachers and students for a full minute. I was so scared that I peed my pants. The whole school teachers and students watched me run out of the school door. Later, when I went back to school, I felt that the laughter of the girls next to me was laughing at me. Our teacher said to me, "although you didn't finish your speech and didn't rank in the school, the two paragraphs you read are very good. Don't be nervous. If you can recite them, you will definitely win the first place. I recommend you to participate in the competition in the district." I promised this time more happily than last time. It seems that it doesn't matter. As a result, I really got a place by heart. Since then, I've changed a little. Anyway, I've lost face. What else does it matter? After taking off this burden, I feel I'm OK and can often show my face on such occasions. Chinese people are traditionally introverted. It is very rare for everyone to listen to you. We should cherish every opportunity to speak and perform in public, and let ourselves accumulate setbacks and experience of making a fool of ourselves, so as to put down ourselves. Make a fool of yourself this time. You laugh at me. I'll be shameless. If I make a fool of myself next time, I'll be shameless. When I'm all shameless, I'll enter the kingdom of freedom and be selfless. The so-called "self" is composed of face, self-esteem, vanity and so on. When all these things are destroyed, you suddenly find that you have everything. You made a little fool of yourself in front of 10 people today. Tomorrow, it will help you earn a lot of face in front of 100000 people. Look at my image. I have a hunchback and can't stand up straight, so I always look short when sitting with the hostess. The director took a telephone number book and padded it under my ass, but the hostess was unhappy. People were already tall. Why should I cushion one? When I went to the bathroom, I found that hey, she also padded one. Just cushion it. Later, the director thought that you were shorter than others. Give it another cushion. In the end, I found that I was almost standing, because I had padded several. The more I think about these things, the more I'm finished. The more I think about where to put your hand, the more you don't know where to put it. In fact, the happiest time is when you forget yourself.