What is low-key? Low key means not making public or showing off. What is unbearable? Unbearable is that life is difficult and bumpy. No matter how successful you are, you should keep a low profile and smile no matter how unbearable you are. This is the real connotation of being a man. Because there is no flame mountain in the world, and there are also no unbeaten flowers in four seasons. Facing life correctly is the right way of life. one Chen Daoming is not only a famous actor, but also a very low-key celebrity. He is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. He is an actor with high artistic cultivation. As a student, Chen Daoming was an all-round sports player and a tango expert; He has read poetry and books, especially Chinese classical literature. Ji Xianlin praised Chen Daoming for being competent as a graduate tutor of Peking University. Qian Zhongshu and Chen Daoming are friends who forget their years; Chen Daoming is also good at writing. Practicing calligraphy every day is his favorite. Chen Daoming is definitely a very successful person, but he is also a low-key celebrity. Others say he is a man so lofty that he is only willing to bow his head in the play, but he says he is just a dramatist. Therefore, he has never had the "shelf" of big stars, and rarely contacts with people in the entertainment industry. He stays at home when he has nothing to do, reading and practicing calligraphy with his wife and daughter. Chen Daoming has always maintained a quiet lifestyle. He likes this peaceful and natural way of life. In order to avoid formality, he kept away from all prosperity. In the eyes of the world, the signs of success are fame and wealth. Chen Daoming has these things, but he doesn't value them. Some people say that Chen Daoming wears clothes, but it's OK for one person for a while and for decades. Is it possible? Chen Daoming's low-key is not pretended, but something in his bones. No matter how successful you are, you should keep a low profile. This is Chen Daoming's interpretation of a quality of life with action. two In China, few people do not know Ma Yun. When Alibaba was listed, he was the richest man in Asia. But Ma Yun, who is so awesome, admires a person who rarely appears in front of the public. Every time he mentions this person, Ma Yun praises him. This person is Wang Wei, chairman of SF express group. Before the listing of SF, few people knew whether the boss of SF was male or female, old or young. The company has been established for 20 years, and the number of public appearances of Wang Wei remains in single digits. Wang Wei is a workaholic and doer, although he goes to the grass-roots level regularly; But none of the staff knew him. Wang Wei is the only millionaire with such a low profile. Looking at the world, there are really not many such people. Wang Wei knows that wealth is inseparable from creation, but he is more afraid of squandering. Therefore, Wang Wei often reminds himself: don't forget your roots and don't be proud. You can keep a high profile, but you must keep a low profile. The world is very fair. The rain drenches the poor and the rich. The sunlight is distributed to everyone on average every day, neither three nor four, demonstrating fairness. Success is just a secular title, but for people who have experienced the vicissitudes of life, they know that good and bad, more and less, up and down, poverty and wealth can change at any time. Therefore, keep a sober and low-key, so as not to capsize the ship of life. In this world, one's success is certainly not easy. But after success, he did not publicize and show off, and always maintained a low-key attitude. It's really rare. three Once, long Yongtu went to Italy to attend an international conference. There were no luxurious furnishings in the venue, let alone leadership seats and guest seats. Everyone sat on the same ordinary benches. The participants were all powerful figures with heads and faces in the international economic community. They sat casually in the order of first come, first served. As soon as long Yongtu sat down on a bench, an old lady came in alone, nodded politely to him, and then sat next to him naturally. The old lady exchanged greetings with him for a long time before the meeting began. Long Yongtu forgot to ask the old lady's identity. After the meeting, he asked the organizer, "who is the amiable old lady sitting next to me just now?" The organizer was very surprised and asked long Yongtu, "don't you really know her?" Long Yongtu truthfully replied that he didn't know him. The other party sighed and said, "she is the queen of the Netherlands!" Long Yongtu was surprised. He repeatedly said, "I didn't expect it, I didn't expect it!" Long Yongtu felt deeply about this matter: how can she be like a queen? Our Aunt Jane is really our neighbor! Winners are often models who abide by a low-key style. What they do is entirely out of their own heart. They are not a show, and they have no other intention. For low-key people, they don't need those at all. Being a low-key man is not only a realm and a style, but also an idea and a philosophy. This is a life motto that all low-key people have been practicing. four Su Shi's good friend Wang Gong was demoted to Binzhou, Guangxi, a remote place in the south of the five ridges because of Su Shi's "Wutai poetry case". His concubine rounu, who was born as a singer, resolutely accompanied him. The two lived together in Binzhou for many years. Most people go through hardships at the cost of physical and mental haggardness. The so-called "sadness makes people old and sorrow makes people old". However, rounu has lived in such a harsh environment for five years and still keeps a bright "smile" after coming back, and this smile seems to have the smell of Lingnan plum blossom. Rou Nu, a girl of orchid heart and hybridity, is at ease in adversity. She is at ease with the situation and has no discomfort. The so-called "the fewer years you come back from thousands of miles, the smile," no matter how unbearable life is, it is rare not to forget to smile. According to the survey, the average German only laughs for 88 days in his life, and 70% - 80% of them happen before the age of 20. Even if life is unbearable, you can't live without a smile. Therefore, in serious Germany, people began to learn how to smile. Research shows that smiling can promote the function of respiratory system and blood circulation system, reduce joint pain, and prevent colds and even cancer. Smiling not only brings health to people, but also has economic significance. "When Germans begin to laugh, it is also the time for Germany's next economic take-off." Smiling really has unexpected magical effects. Smiling seems simple, but it is actually a healthy and upward attitude towards life and a positive and promising spirit. No matter how unbearable, you can't lose your confidence in life. If you give up yourself, what hope is there in life? The book of changes says: Heaven is healthy, and a gentleman keeps improving himself. With constant self-improvement, the heart will slowly be full of brilliant flowers, If you abandon yourself, you will encounter a solid iron wall at any time. Heaven seems silent, but it has its own Zang No. It always cares for those who can never bear to keep smiling. five In China, Chu Shijian was once a legend with ups and downs in his life. With his extraordinary courage and ability, he made a small factory become a large group with 10 billion yuan in 18 years. In 1994, Chu Shijian was elected as "the top ten reform figures in China". However, his great contribution to the enterprise was not reflected in his personal income. In the past 18 years, his total income was only one million. The huge gap in income made him seriously unbalanced. Due to the lack of effective supervision mechanism, Chu Shijian's brilliant life path deviated from the course. Chu Shijian was sentenced to life imprisonment in 1999 for embezzling US $1.74 million. At this time, Chu Shijian was 71 years old. His daughter committed suicide in prison and he was in prison again. For an old man in his seventies, I'm afraid no one can compare him with this fall. Many people both feel sorry for him and think his life is over. But beyond all expectations, Zhu Shijian did not collapse. He first got a commutation of sentence and changed to 17 years' imprisonment. He stayed in prison for a year. After two years of reform, Zhu Shijian was admitted to the hospital for serious diabetes in 2002. Most people believe that Chu Shijian can live a healthy life in his hometown, which is his best ending. However, Chu Shijian did not choose to go on like this, but contracted 2400 mu of barren mountains and planted orchards. At this time, Chu Shijian was 75 years old and in poor health. The barren mountain he wanted to contract had just experienced the baptism of debris flow and was in a mess. The local villagers said it was a place where "birds don't shit". Many difficulties did not stop Chu Shijian's "Crazy" behavior. He took his wife into the barren mountains, took off his suit and put on the clothes of farmers' work. The former entrepreneur completely became a genuine farmer. Chu Shijian turned the barren mountains into green orchards with his efforts and sweat. Strangely, in Kunming, the oranges on the street cost 10 yuan and 4kg, while you can't buy the rock sugar navel orange planted by Chu Shijian for 1kg and 8 yuan. Moreover, as soon as the products come out, they are sent to Shenzhen, Beijing, Shanghai and other cities, which can't be seen in Yunnan! It was in such an unbearable situation that Chu Shijian didn't fall down. He told the world with his actions that he should smile no matter how unbearable it was. No matter how tired you are, you must not give up your love for life. No matter how difficult it is, we will never be careless and give up on ourselves. No matter how humble, you must not let your soul live in hell. No matter how miserable life is, people who can always keep smiling can't do anything. Life is inseparable from tenacity. No matter how difficult it is, it will not lose a childlike heart. Always maintain a high fighting spirit, which is a noble life. six Wang Hong Fan Yusu, from Dahou village, Xiangzhou District, Xiangyang City, Hubei Province, is now a Beijing domestic worker. In April 2017, she published an autobiographical article on the Internet - "I'm fan Yusu". In this article, fan Yusu recorded the rough life experience of his family for three generations. At the age of 20, she went all the way north to work in Beijing thousands of miles away from her hometown. When working as a waiter in a restaurant, she described herself as "very stupid" and would fall and break the plate; After five or six years of marriage and suffering from men's drinking and domestic violence, she left her husband and worked on her own with her two daughters. Fan Yusu's life is unbearable. She describes her life as "a book that can't bear to read". But even under such unbearable circumstances, fan Yusu didn't forget to smile and didn't lose his confidence in life. No matter what unbearable circumstances you encounter, remember: no matter how unbearable, smile. As the writer Jimmy said, "the sadder the world is, the happier I want to be. When the heart is more dangerous, the kinder I want to be. When setbacks come, I want to face them. I want to be an optimistic and upward person who does not shrink back, does not give up, does not spare, does not complain about others, and bravely accepts all the challenges of life." At the same time, when you succeed, always remind yourself to keep a low profile. Because the standard of success is not only your career, but also your quality. It is often the latter that really convinces others. The low-key in success and the smile in adversity are the real connotation of being a man. About the author: Wang Hulin likes reading books and code words in his spare time. Published hundreds of thousands of words of works, scattered in various magazines and newspapers.

What is low-key? Low key means not making public or showing off. What is unbearable? Unbearable is that life is difficult and bumpy. No matter how successful you are, you should keep a low profile and smile no matter how unbearable you are. This is the real connotation of being a man. Because there is no flame mountain in the world, and there are also no unbeaten flowers in four seasons. Facing life correctly is the right way of life. one Chen Daoming is not only a famous actor, but also a very low-key celebrity. He is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. He is an actor with high artistic cultivation. As a student, Chen Daoming was an all-round sports player and a tango expert; He has read poetry and books, especially Chinese classical literature. Ji Xianlin praised Chen Daoming for being competent as a graduate tutor of Peking University. Qian Zhongshu and Chen Daoming are friends who forget their years; Chen Daoming is also good at writing. Practicing calligraphy every day is his favorite. Chen Daoming is definitely a very successful person, but he is also a low-key celebrity. Others say he is a man so lofty that he is only willing to bow his head in the play, but he says he is just a dramatist. Therefore, he has never had the "shelf" of big stars, and rarely contacts with people in the entertainment industry. He stays at home when he has nothing to do, reading and practicing calligraphy with his wife and daughter. Chen Daoming has always maintained a quiet lifestyle. He likes this peaceful and natural way of life. In order to avoid formality, he kept away from all prosperity. In the eyes of the world, the signs of success are fame and wealth. Chen Daoming has these things, but he doesn't value them. Some people say that Chen Daoming wears clothes, but it's OK for one person for a while and for decades. Is it possible? Chen Daoming's low-key is not pretended, but something in his bones. No matter how successful you are, you should keep a low profile. This is Chen Daoming's interpretation of a quality of life with action. two In China, few people do not know Ma Yun. When Alibaba was listed, he was the richest man in Asia. But Ma Yun, who is so awesome, admires a person who rarely appears in front of the public. Every time he mentions this person, Ma Yun praises him. This person is Wang Wei, chairman of SF express group. Before the listing of SF, few people knew whether the boss of SF was male or female, old or young. The company has been established for 20 years, and the number of public appearances of Wang Wei remains in single digits. Wang Wei is a workaholic and doer, although he goes to the grass-roots level regularly; But none of the staff knew him. Wang Wei is the only millionaire with such a low profile. Looking at the world, there are really not many such people. Wang Wei knows that wealth is inseparable from creation, but he is more afraid of squandering. Therefore, Wang Wei often reminds himself: don't forget your roots and don't be proud. You can keep a high profile, but you must keep a low profile. The world is very fair. The rain drenches the poor and the rich. The sunlight is distributed to everyone on average every day, neither three nor four, demonstrating fairness. Success is just a secular title, but for people who have experienced the vicissitudes of life, they know that good and bad, more and less, up and down, poverty and wealth can change at any time. Therefore, keep a sober and low-key, so as not to capsize the ship of life. In this world, one's success is certainly not easy. But after success, he did not publicize and show off, and always maintained a low-key attitude. It's really rare. three Once, long Yongtu went to Italy to attend an international conference. There were no luxurious furnishings in the venue, let alone leadership seats and guest seats. Everyone sat on the same ordinary benches. The participants were all powerful figures with heads and faces in the international economic community. They sat casually in the order of first come, first served. As soon as long Yongtu sat down on a bench, an old lady came in alone, nodded politely to him, and then sat next to him naturally. The old lady exchanged greetings with him for a long time before the meeting began. Long Yongtu forgot to ask the old lady's identity. After the meeting, he asked the organizer, "who is the amiable old lady sitting next to me just now?" The organizer was very surprised and asked long Yongtu, "don't you really know her?" Long Yongtu truthfully replied that he didn't know him. The other party sighed and said, "she is the queen of the Netherlands!" Long Yongtu was surprised. He repeatedly said, "I didn't expect it, I didn't expect it!" Long Yongtu felt deeply about this matter: how can she be like a queen? Our Aunt Jane is really our neighbor! Winners are often models who abide by a low-key style. What they do is entirely out of their own heart. They are not a show, and they have no other intention. For low-key people, they don't need those at all. Being a low-key man is not only a realm and a style, but also an idea and a philosophy. This is a life motto that all low-key people have been practicing. four Su Shi's good friend Wang Gong was demoted to Binzhou, Guangxi, a remote place in the south of the five ridges because of Su Shi's "Wutai poetry case". His concubine rounu, who was born as a singer, resolutely accompanied him. The two lived together in Binzhou for many years. Most people go through hardships at the cost of physical and mental haggardness. The so-called "sadness makes people old and sorrow makes people old". However, rounu has lived in such a harsh environment for five years and still keeps a bright "smile" after coming back, and this smile seems to have the smell of Lingnan plum blossom. Rou Nu, a girl of orchid heart and hybridity, is at ease in adversity. She is at ease with the situation and has no discomfort. The so-called "the fewer years you come back from thousands of miles, the smile," no matter how unbearable life is, it is rare not to forget to smile. According to the survey, the average German only laughs for 88 days in his life, and 70% - 80% of them happen before the age of 20. Even if life is unbearable, you can't live without a smile. Therefore, in serious Germany, people began to learn how to smile. Research shows that smiling can promote the function of respiratory system and blood circulation system, reduce joint pain, and prevent colds and even cancer. Smiling not only brings health to people, but also has economic significance. "When Germans begin to laugh, it is also the time for Germany's next economic take-off." Smiling really has unexpected magical effects. Smiling seems simple, but it is actually a healthy and upward attitude towards life and a positive and promising spirit. No matter how unbearable, you can't lose your confidence in life. If you give up yourself, what hope is there in life? The book of changes says: Heaven is healthy, and a gentleman keeps improving himself. With constant self-improvement, the heart will slowly be full of brilliant flowers, If you abandon yourself, you will encounter a solid iron wall at any time. Heaven seems silent, but it has its own Zang No. It always cares for those who can never bear to keep smiling. five In China, Chu Shijian was once a legend with ups and downs in his life. With his extraordinary courage and ability, he made a small factory become a large group with 10 billion yuan in 18 years. In 1994, Chu Shijian was elected as "the top ten reform figures in China". However, his great contribution to the enterprise was not reflected in his personal income. In the past 18 years, his total income was only one million. The huge gap in income made him seriously unbalanced. Due to the lack of effective supervision mechanism, Chu Shijian's brilliant life path deviated from the course. Chu Shijian was sentenced to life imprisonment in 1999 for embezzling US $1.74 million. At this time, Chu Shijian was 71 years old. His daughter committed suicide in prison and he was in prison again. For an old man in his seventies, I'm afraid no one can compare him with this fall. Many people both feel sorry for him and think his life is over. But beyond all expectations, Zhu Shijian did not collapse. He first got a commutation of sentence and changed to 17 years' imprisonment. He stayed in prison for a year. After two years of reform, Zhu Shijian was admitted to the hospital for serious diabetes in 2002. Most people believe that Chu Shijian can live a healthy life in his hometown, which is his best ending. However, Chu Shijian did not choose to go on like this, but contracted 2400 mu of barren mountains and planted orchards. At this time, Chu Shijian was 75 years old and in poor health. The barren mountain he wanted to contract had just experienced the baptism of debris flow and was in a mess. The local villagers said it was a place where "birds don't shit". Many difficulties did not stop Chu Shijian's "Crazy" behavior. He took his wife into the barren mountains, took off his suit and put on the clothes of farmers' work. The former entrepreneur completely became a genuine farmer. Chu Shijian turned the barren mountains into green orchards with his efforts and sweat. Strangely, in Kunming, the oranges on the street cost 10 yuan and 4kg, while you can't buy the rock sugar navel orange planted by Chu Shijian for 1kg and 8 yuan. Moreover, as soon as the products come out, they are sent to Shenzhen, Beijing, Shanghai and other cities, which can't be seen in Yunnan! It was in such an unbearable situation that Chu Shijian didn't fall down. He told the world with his actions that he should smile no matter how unbearable it was. No matter how tired you are, you must not give up your love for life. No matter how difficult it is, we will never be careless and give up on ourselves. No matter how humble, you must not let your soul live in hell. No matter how miserable life is, people who can always keep smiling can't do anything. Life is inseparable from tenacity. No matter how difficult it is, it will not lose a childlike heart. Always maintain a high fighting spirit, which is a noble life. six Wang Hong Fan Yusu, from Dahou village, Xiangzhou District, Xiangyang City, Hubei Province, is now a Beijing domestic worker. In April 2017, she published an autobiographical article on the Internet - "I'm fan Yusu". In this article, fan Yusu recorded the rough life experience of his family for three generations. At the age of 20, she went all the way north to work in Beijing thousands of miles away from her hometown. When working as a waiter in a restaurant, she described herself as "very stupid" and would fall and break the plate; After five or six years of marriage and suffering from men's drinking and domestic violence, she left her husband and worked on her own with her two daughters. Fan Yusu's life is unbearable. She describes her life as "a book that can't bear to read". But even under such unbearable circumstances, fan Yusu didn't forget to smile and didn't lose his confidence in life. No matter what unbearable circumstances you encounter, remember: no matter how unbearable, smile. As the writer Jimmy said, "the sadder the world is, the happier I want to be. When the heart is more dangerous, the kinder I want to be. When setbacks come, I want to face them. I want to be an optimistic and upward person who does not shrink back, does not give up, does not spare, does not complain about others, and bravely accepts all the challenges of life." At the same time, when you succeed, always remind yourself to keep a low profile. Because the standard of success is not only your career, but also your quality. It is often the latter that really convinces others. The low-key in success and the smile in adversity are the real connotation of being a man. About the author: Wang Hulin likes reading books and code words in his spare time. Published hundreds of thousands of words of works, scattered in various magazines and newspapers.