There is a very interesting phenomenon: for example, if you drive and knock down a pedestrian who runs a red light, the pedestrian is generally responsible for 70% of the responsibility, and you have to bear the rest of the responsibility, because the pedestrian is a vulnerable group, but if you drive and become a pedestrian, you will immediately become a so-called vulnerable group. The vulnerable groups we define are not the poor living below the poverty line, but a comparison for no reason. For example, when a man in gorgeous clothes is attacked by a man in shabby clothes, an unsuspecting witness will subconsciously think that it must be the magnificent man who is making trouble out of nothing. You probably never thought that this kind of thinking does not have much impact on the rich, but makes some vulnerable groups more honest and powerful. To tell a true story, there was a pair of twins in our class when we were studying. My sister always worked hard. She not only got excellent grades, but also was versatile and envious of others; Mei Mei is mediocre. Everything is just as it is. She doesn't fight or rob. Her personality is also pleasing. After graduating from college, my sister was lucky to find a decent job in the provincial capital, and my sister returned to small cities to work as a salesperson. A year or two after graduation, the relationship between the two sisters was as close as before. My sister often brought her a lot of beautiful clothes and some new things from the provincial capital. Later, the two sisters got married and had children one after another. The excellent sister naturally found a good marriage, but the younger sister was infatuated with the local bastard. The bastard would cajole people. The younger sister fell completely in his sweet words and boos. Of course, this love was not blessed by her parents. Despite the strong dissuasion of her parents and sister, the younger sister still married him unswervingly. A few years later, my sister and her husband both got promoted and raised wages with their own efforts. My sister had a very bad life. Her weak character could not keep a prodigal son's heart. The Hun son looked for a new lover and left her and a lovely daughter. The connection between them has been unknowingly estranged. Speaking of it, they are all high sounding reasons: they have their own lives, but in fact, everyone knows that they are no longer people in the same world. Although my sister tries her best to make up for this relationship, my sister is always ungrateful. On the first day of the lunar new year this year, when people in small cities were cheering to welcome the new year, the two sisters were red in ears. The reason is very simple: on the first day of the previous year, both sisters would make an appointment to pay New Year's greetings to their parents early in the morning. But this year, my sister went to pay New Year's greetings to the leaders of the same city. It was already noon when she returned to her mother's house. This is a trivial matter, but my sister is not willing to let go. She scolds her sister for becoming more and more powerful and likes to follow the trend. Of course, my sister is very wronged. My sister will never understand her hardships. Did she just work hard for her little family? She gets a meager salary in the annual subsidies. Even her sister, who needs her help to support her daughter, bears all the medical expenses if her parents are ill. There are too many hardships that her sister doesn't understand in terms of promotion and salary increase and the difficulty of living. Later, my sister took my sister to live in the provincial capital regardless of past grievances. With her accumulated contacts over the years, she found a job for my sister, and the salary was enough to support her and her children. A month later, my sister quit her job. She kept complaining to her sister that the job was too hard, but she didn't know that her sister often worked overtime all night at the beginning of her work. My sister reluctantly asked someone to find another job for her sister. The working time of this job was not long. Of course, the income would not be high. Sure enough, it wasn't long before my sister resigned again because of the low salary. After several times, my sister's husband naturally expressed his dissatisfaction, My brother-in-law taught my sister: "there has never been such a thing as getting something for nothing in the world. Now you have to support yourself and your children. You have had an unfortunate marriage. Do you want to ruin your life? You are only in your thirties. As long as you work hard enough, this society will never starve to death! But the most terrible thing is that you are poor. Of course, no one can help you..." Her brother-in-law painstakingly taught her that she would make progress, but she unexpectedly rebutted them and left them speechless, Mei Mei complained: "What about money? Is money like my sister's? You can't buy a few clothes a year, and you wear them all in old clothes. You look down on me, and I look down on you. You don't know how to enjoy life! You are rich, so why don't you support me and my daughter? The jobs you introduced to me are either hard or can't make money. Don't you just dislike my poverty? It's not so much that you want to help me that you're afraid of me losing face and that I'll become you They are impatient to sell me out! " With that, Mei Mei burst out of the door, leaving her stunned sister and brother-in-law behind. Mei Mei's words just completely show the ideas of some poor people living in this society. It is strange that they have been seeking equality. They have obtained equal job opportunities with others, and their children have successfully entered a good school. Of course, the equality they seek will always fall on the rights. If their responsibilities are investigated, they are not willing to pay for these rights. When asked why, they would answer: do I have to be inferior because I am poor? Do you know what is inferior? What is inferior is not the social status, money or honor you see. What you see is just the definition given by the outside world. There is no right or wrong, only right and wrong. And what is equality? Equality is spiritual independence, but this independence depends on material wealth. You don't have to confuse the concept of laziness that you want to escape responsibility as "inequality". Since childhood, you have the right to education. You don't want to study at night like others. Later, when you look at people who have a good job with their high education, you will pretend that they are the second generation of officials or the second generation of rich people. You never review that you are not practical, hardworking and progressive. You will only complain and fantasize. Like my sister, some people who are not rich are willing to criticize the rich for not enjoying life. Not to mention whether this sentence is self comforting, let's talk about the word "willing". As far as most elites in the society are concerned, their success is inseparable from hard work except opportunities. The accumulation of wealth is not as easy as you can imagine. Without the life experience of accumulating wealth from morning to night, climbing and rolling, they will not understand the "not willing" in the eyes of the middle class. What is sister's so-called willingness? Even if you don't have enough to eat, you have to buy new clothes to decorate your soulless body. And where is the "willing" of the middle class? It is used to improve the quality of life and cultivate a better next generation. So can you understand the difference between "willing" and "investment"? I have many middle-class friends around me. Once they succeed, they will take on the responsibility of supporting the whole family. Such responsibility can not be shirked. Once they refuse, they will be blamed as "ungrateful and ignorant. All their achievements are mostly the result of their own efforts, and have nothing to do with others. While the" receiving and eating "people are extremely magnanimous and calm, as if all these are natural and natural demands - because you are richer than me, you are also responsible for supporting me. My sister may have never thought about why she doesn't know how to be grateful and doesn't want to make progress. But in fact, it is precisely because of her sister's "kindness" that her sister has lost a certain ability to strive. If all the things come easily, no one will want to cherish them. Once you take away these things one day, he will feel naked "abandoned". I never agree with the saying that people are divided into three or six or nine grades, and I never like to use one kind of people to include a group of people. This statement is somewhat one-sided. Although there is not gold everywhere, as long as you spare no pains, you will not be so poor that you need help from others to survive. I advocate equality in any form, especially in the spiritual level. It doesn't matter whether you are a famous brand, but whether you have a noble soul. People who are trapped in poverty and get something for nothing. As long as you are willing to go out, you never need to bow down to anyone. All your gains are accumulated bit by bit, and you deserve respect no matter how much or how little; People who have struggled for so many years to live today, please don't abuse your compassion, and don't condescend to give alms to anyone. You must not give them a lifetime of peace, so please don't ruin their lives and give them a false impression that they can get it even if they don't work.? It is used to improve the quality of life and cultivate a better next generation. So can you understand the difference between "willing" and "investment"? I have many middle-class friends around me. Once they succeed, they will take on the responsibility of supporting the whole family. Such responsibility can not be shirked. Once they refuse, they will be blamed as "ungrateful and ignorant. All their achievements are mostly the result of their own efforts, and have nothing to do with others. While the" receiving and eating "people are extremely magnanimous and calm, as if all these are natural and natural demands - because you are richer than me, you are also responsible for supporting me. My sister may have never thought about why she doesn't know how to be grateful and doesn't want to make progress. But in fact, it is precisely because of her sister's "kindness" that her sister has lost a certain ability to strive. If all the things come easily, no one will want to cherish them. Once you take away these things one day, he will feel naked "abandoned". I never agree with the saying that people are divided into three or six or nine grades, and I never like to use one kind of people to include a group of people. This statement is somewhat one-sided. Although there is not gold everywhere, as long as you spare no pains, you will not be so poor that you need help from others to survive. I advocate equality in any form, especially in the spiritual level. It doesn't matter whether you are a famous brand, but whether you have a noble soul. People who are trapped in poverty and get something for nothing. As long as you are willing to go out, you never need to bow down to anyone. All your gains are accumulated bit by bit, and you deserve respect no matter how much or how little; People who have struggled for so many years to live today, please don't abuse your compassion, and don't condescend to give alms to anyone. You must not give them a lifetime of peace, so please don't ruin their lives and give them the illusion that they can get it even if they don't work.

There is a very interesting phenomenon: for example, if you drive and knock down a pedestrian who runs a red light, the pedestrian is generally responsible for 70% of the responsibility, and you have to bear the rest of the responsibility, because the pedestrian is a vulnerable group, but if you drive and become a pedestrian, you will immediately become a so-called vulnerable group. The vulnerable groups we define are not the poor living below the poverty line, but a comparison for no reason. For example, when a man in gorgeous clothes is attacked by a man in shabby clothes, an unsuspecting witness will subconsciously think that it must be the magnificent man who is making trouble out of nothing. You probably never thought that this kind of thinking does not have much impact on the rich, but makes some vulnerable groups more honest and powerful. To tell a true story, there was a pair of twins in our class when we were studying. My sister always worked hard. She not only got excellent grades, but also was versatile and envious of others; Mei Mei is mediocre. Everything is just as it is. She doesn't fight or rob. Her personality is also pleasing. After graduating from college, my sister was lucky to find a decent job in the provincial capital, and my sister returned to small cities to work as a salesperson. A year or two after graduation, the relationship between the two sisters was as close as before. My sister often brought her a lot of beautiful clothes and some new things from the provincial capital. Later, the two sisters got married and had children one after another. The excellent sister naturally found a good marriage, but the younger sister was infatuated with the local bastard. The bastard would cajole people. The younger sister fell completely in his sweet words and boos. Of course, this love was not blessed by her parents. Despite the strong dissuasion of her parents and sister, the younger sister still married him unswervingly. A few years later, my sister and her husband both got promoted and raised wages with their own efforts. My sister had a very bad life. Her weak character could not keep a prodigal son's heart. The Hun son looked for a new lover and left her and a lovely daughter. The connection between them has been unknowingly estranged. Speaking of it, they are all high sounding reasons: they have their own lives, but in fact, everyone knows that they are no longer people in the same world. Although my sister tries her best to make up for this relationship, my sister is always ungrateful. On the first day of the lunar new year this year, when people in small cities were cheering to welcome the new year, the two sisters were red in ears. The reason is very simple: on the first day of the previous year, both sisters would make an appointment to pay New Year's greetings to their parents early in the morning. But this year, my sister went to pay New Year's greetings to the leaders of the same city. It was already noon when she returned to her mother's house. This is a trivial matter, but my sister is not willing to let go. She scolds her sister for becoming more and more powerful and likes to follow the trend. Of course, my sister is very wronged. My sister will never understand her hardships. Did she just work hard for her little family? She gets a meager salary in the annual subsidies. Even her sister, who needs her help to support her daughter, bears all the medical expenses if her parents are ill. There are too many hardships that her sister doesn't understand in terms of promotion and salary increase and the difficulty of living. Later, my sister took my sister to live in the provincial capital regardless of past grievances. With her accumulated contacts over the years, she found a job for my sister, and the salary was enough to support her and her children. A month later, my sister quit her job. She kept complaining to her sister that the job was too hard, but she didn't know that her sister often worked overtime all night at the beginning of her work. My sister reluctantly asked someone to find another job for her sister. The working time of this job was not long. Of course, the income would not be high. Sure enough, it wasn't long before my sister resigned again because of the low salary. After several times, my sister's husband naturally expressed his dissatisfaction, My brother-in-law taught my sister: "there has never been such a thing as getting something for nothing in the world. Now you have to support yourself and your children. You have had an unfortunate marriage. Do you want to ruin your life? You are only in your thirties. As long as you work hard enough, this society will never starve to death! But the most terrible thing is that you are poor. Of course, no one can help you..." Her brother-in-law painstakingly taught her that she would make progress, but she unexpectedly rebutted them and left them speechless, Mei Mei complained: "What about money? Is money like my sister's? You can't buy a few clothes a year, and you wear them all in old clothes. You look down on me, and I look down on you. You don't know how to enjoy life! You are rich, so why don't you support me and my daughter? The jobs you introduced to me are either hard or can't make money. Don't you just dislike my poverty? It's not so much that you want to help me that you're afraid of me losing face and that I'll become you They are impatient to sell me out! " With that, Mei Mei burst out of the door, leaving her stunned sister and brother-in-law behind. Mei Mei's words just completely show the ideas of some poor people living in this society. It is strange that they have been seeking equality. They have obtained equal job opportunities with others, and their children have successfully entered a good school. Of course, the equality they seek will always fall on the rights. If their responsibilities are investigated, they are not willing to pay for these rights. When asked why, they would answer: do I have to be inferior because I am poor? Do you know what is inferior? What is inferior is not the social status, money or honor you see. What you see is just the definition given by the outside world. There is no right or wrong, only right and wrong. And what is equality? Equality is spiritual independence, but this independence depends on material wealth. You don't have to confuse the concept of laziness that you want to escape responsibility as "inequality". Since childhood, you have the right to education. You don't want to study at night like others. Later, when you look at people who have a good job with their high education, you will pretend that they are the second generation of officials or the second generation of rich people. You never review that you are not practical, hardworking and progressive. You will only complain and fantasize. Like my sister, some people who are not rich are willing to criticize the rich for not enjoying life. Not to mention whether this sentence is self comforting, let's talk about the word "willing". As far as most elites in the society are concerned, their success is inseparable from hard work except opportunities. The accumulation of wealth is not as easy as you can imagine. Without the life experience of accumulating wealth from morning to night, climbing and rolling, they will not understand the "not willing" in the eyes of the middle class. What is sister's so-called willingness? Even if you don't have enough to eat, you have to buy new clothes to decorate your soulless body. And where is the "willing" of the middle class? It is used to improve the quality of life and cultivate a better next generation. So can you understand the difference between "willing" and "investment"? I have many middle-class friends around me. Once they succeed, they will take on the responsibility of supporting the whole family. Such responsibility can not be shirked. Once they refuse, they will be blamed as "ungrateful and ignorant. All their achievements are mostly the result of their own efforts, and have nothing to do with others. While the" receiving and eating "people are extremely magnanimous and calm, as if all these are natural and natural demands - because you are richer than me, you are also responsible for supporting me. My sister may have never thought about why she doesn't know how to be grateful and doesn't want to make progress. But in fact, it is precisely because of her sister's "kindness" that her sister has lost a certain ability to strive. If all the things come easily, no one will want to cherish them. Once you take away these things one day, he will feel naked "abandoned". I never agree with the saying that people are divided into three or six or nine grades, and I never like to use one kind of people to include a group of people. This statement is somewhat one-sided. Although there is not gold everywhere, as long as you spare no pains, you will not be so poor that you need help from others to survive. I advocate equality in any form, especially in the spiritual level. It doesn't matter whether you are a famous brand, but whether you have a noble soul. People who are trapped in poverty and get something for nothing. As long as you are willing to go out, you never need to bow down to anyone. All your gains are accumulated bit by bit, and you deserve respect no matter how much or how little; People who have struggled for so many years to live today, please don't abuse your compassion, and don't condescend to give alms to anyone. You must not give them a lifetime of peace, so please don't ruin their lives and give them a false impression that they can get it even if they don't work.? It is used to improve the quality of life and cultivate a better next generation. So can you understand the difference between "willing" and "investment"? I have many middle-class friends around me. Once they succeed, they will take on the responsibility of supporting the whole family. Such responsibility can not be shirked. Once they refuse, they will be blamed as "ungrateful and ignorant. All their achievements are mostly the result of their own efforts, and have nothing to do with others. While the" receiving and eating "people are extremely magnanimous and calm, as if all these are natural and natural demands - because you are richer than me, you are also responsible for supporting me. My sister may have never thought about why she doesn't know how to be grateful and doesn't want to make progress. But in fact, it is precisely because of her sister's "kindness" that her sister has lost a certain ability to strive. If all the things come easily, no one will want to cherish them. Once you take away these things one day, he will feel naked "abandoned". I never agree with the saying that people are divided into three or six or nine grades, and I never like to use one kind of people to include a group of people. This statement is somewhat one-sided. Although there is not gold everywhere, as long as you spare no pains, you will not be so poor that you need help from others to survive. I advocate equality in any form, especially in the spiritual level. It doesn't matter whether you are a famous brand, but whether you have a noble soul. People who are trapped in poverty and get something for nothing. As long as you are willing to go out, you never need to bow down to anyone. All your gains are accumulated bit by bit, and you deserve respect no matter how much or how little; People who have struggled for so many years to live today, please don't abuse your compassion, and don't condescend to give alms to anyone. You must not give them a lifetime of peace, so please don't ruin their lives and give them the illusion that they can get it even if they don't work.