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In life, if you don't position yourself, you will be positioned by others. The value of self righteousness is not important. It is important that others think you are valuable. Fortunately, everyone still has six horses to choose from before the goal of success. The first horse is your company Most of the time, your company's industry determines the development space or opportunities. For newcomers, there must be more opportunities in new industries than in old ones. Remember, coming out of school, your opponents are not only your classmates, but also those who have been in the industry for many years. The opportunity to be at the starting line is better than the opportunity to rank according to seniority. Although the industry is very good, there are many companies that do this today and think about that tomorrow. Family businesses are easy to get rich. If the company makes a wrong decision, it is not the boss who will be laid off. The enterprise is a channel for making money or self realization. If you don't have your own future and interests, don't take them too seriously. Otherwise, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. The second horse is your boss Doing is being a man. There are many capable people. Many people can do things, but not many people can do things for a long time. If you see your own time as an investment, not a speculation. Keep an eye on your boss or boss. No matter how eloquent he is, he should cut his cards by himself: whether the goal is achieved each time, how to explain if it is not achieved, whether to assume responsibility, or find various excuses to excuse himself. The less money you get, the less respect you get. People who never honor their words are either incompetent or selfish. Even if such a person is too talented, he has nothing to do with himself. Don't waste your time changing horses when it's time. The third horse is your team No matter how capable a person is, it is impossible to finish all the things, and it is impossible to do all the things well. Because you can't learn all the skills you need. If you don't have a team or work in a team, you will always be a craftsman. Unless you are really a genius, you have little hope of success. At the beginning, it doesn't matter if there is no team. If things are small, you can make decisions and work by yourself. Each link is a point, and each point is a craftsman who needs superb craftsmanship. But the real wisdom lies in: with people who can do better than yourself, you only need to work hard at one link, and your interests will be reflected on the whole. Through the team, you can enlarge and obtain your own positioning and value. People who think they know everything should wake up: your boss or boss, they may not understand the profession at all, they just look for opportunities to find competent people like you, and they just hire you to achieve their career! It is a change of mind to believe that external forces are stronger than ourselves. Only by focusing on the needs of others, rather than self-identity, can you control your own world. The fourth horse is your faith Forget what education tells you about your life orientation: what teachers tell you and parents tell you may be a kind of orientation. But, most likely, it's not the life orientation you need. Is education important? In the first use or face, maybe. But in the future, put it aside. There is no place but opportunity in a tough life. Past achievements are insignificant and do not need certification. When you enter the door of society, you are a new self, which means that you can start over at any time! People who want to rely on the traditional order will be rushed to pieces by many people who do not play cards according to common sense. Complain, regret, blame, dissatisfaction, and loss Life is not defined by itself, it is defined by others. Being used by others is a kind of value. What you need to position yourself is confidence and courage. The fifth horse is your family Everything prospers at home. A man who makes a mess of his life has no future. In front of money, people are not only greedy, but also extremely heavy. Life is richer and more emotional than work. Give more feelings to your relatives. Only their love is non utilitarian, open and selfless love. For the family, what we need is a harbor where we can rest, and what we need is a responsibility and affection without return. We have no faith but the happiness of life. The sixth horse is yourself Are you a capable horse or an industrious horse? If you never have the patience to read a book completely, then give yourself a chance to insist: finish a thing completely?! And repeat many times. Many times, no one can really help you, except yourself. Your family condition is not good, you can not choose; If you don't go to a good university, you feel inferior; You are dissatisfied that you have not found a satisfactory job; You can't afford a house or a car. Standing on the busy street, you feel humble and helpless in life! But what does it matter? Aren't you still alive? Aren't you still young? Aren't you still energetic, healthy and full of energy? What you need is not complaining, not confessing!!! What we need is to give our life a new orientation! Think about your own strengths, think about what is useful in this society; What you like, what you can do, what you need to make up for, design a life goal for yourself, find or build your own stage, and then say to yourself: don't delay, let's start! In life, there is both joy and pain. Take some time to find six horses that will make you successful. In the journey of life, let us all ride horses and run fast.
In life, if you don't position yourself, you will be positioned by others. The value of self righteousness is not important. It is important that others think you are valuable. Fortunately, everyone still has six horses to choose from before the goal of success. The first horse is your company Most of the time, your company's industry determines the development space or opportunities. For newcomers, there must be more opportunities in new industries than in old ones. Remember, coming out of school, your opponents are not only your classmates, but also those who have been in the industry for many years. The opportunity to be at the starting line is better than the opportunity to rank according to seniority. Although the industry is very good, there are many companies that do this today and think about that tomorrow. Family businesses are easy to get rich. If the company makes a wrong decision, it is not the boss who will be laid off. The enterprise is a channel for making money or self realization. If you don't have your own future and interests, don't take them too seriously. Otherwise, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. The second horse is your boss Doing is being a man. There are many capable people. Many people can do things, but not many people can do things for a long time. If you see your own time as an investment, not a speculation. Keep an eye on your boss or boss. No matter how eloquent he is, he should cut his cards by himself: whether the goal is achieved each time, how to explain if it is not achieved, whether to assume responsibility, or find various excuses to excuse himself. The less money you get, the less respect you get. People who never honor their words are either incompetent or selfish. Even if such a person is too talented, he has nothing to do with himself. Don't waste your time changing horses when it's time. The third horse is your team No matter how capable a person is, it is impossible to finish all the things, and it is impossible to do all the things well. Because you can't learn all the skills you need. If you don't have a team or work in a team, you will always be a craftsman. Unless you are really a genius, you have little hope of success. At the beginning, it doesn't matter if there is no team. If things are small, you can make decisions and work by yourself. Each link is a point, and each point is a craftsman who needs superb craftsmanship. But the real wisdom lies in: with people who can do better than yourself, you only need to work hard at one link, and your interests will be reflected on the whole. Through the team, you can enlarge and obtain your own positioning and value. People who think they know everything should wake up: your boss or boss, they may not understand the profession at all, they just look for opportunities to find competent people like you, and they just hire you to achieve their career! It is a change of mind to believe that external forces are stronger than ourselves. Only by focusing on the needs of others, rather than self-identity, can you control your own world. The fourth horse is your faith Forget what education tells you about your life orientation: what teachers tell you and parents tell you may be a kind of orientation. But, most likely, it's not the life orientation you need. Is education important? In the first use or face, maybe. But in the future, put it aside. There is no place but opportunity in a tough life. Past achievements are insignificant and do not need certification. When you enter the door of society, you are a new self, which means that you can start over at any time! People who want to rely on the traditional order will be rushed to pieces by many people who do not play cards according to common sense. Complain, regret, blame, dissatisfaction, and loss Life is not defined by itself, it is defined by others. Being used by others is a kind of value. What you need to position yourself is confidence and courage. The fifth horse is your family Everything prospers at home. A man who makes a mess of his life has no future. In front of money, people are not only greedy, but also extremely heavy. Life is richer and more emotional than work. Give more feelings to your relatives. Only their love is non utilitarian, open and selfless love. For the family, what we need is a harbor where we can rest, and what we need is a responsibility and affection without return. We have no faith but the happiness of life. The sixth horse is yourself Are you a capable horse or an industrious horse? If you never have the patience to read a book completely, then give yourself a chance to insist: finish a thing completely?! And repeat many times. Many times, no one can really help you, except yourself. Your family condition is not good, you can not choose; If you don't go to a good university, you feel inferior; You are dissatisfied that you have not found a satisfactory job; You can't afford a house or a car. Standing on the busy street, you feel humble and helpless in life! But what does it matter? Aren't you still alive? Aren't you still young? Aren't you still energetic, healthy and full of energy? What you need is not complaining, not confessing!!! What we need is to give our life a new orientation! Think about your own strengths, think about what is useful in this society; What you like, what you can do, what you need to make up for, design a life goal for yourself, find or build your own stage, and then say to yourself: don't delay, let's start! In life, there is both joy and pain. Take some time to find six horses that will make you successful. In the journey of life, let us all ride horses and run fast.
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