This is the first note. I’m currently 30 years old, single, no kids. If you are my kid and reading this, you haven’t been born yet. This may be the first time a father has directly addressed a son before he’s even conceived. All you other people reading this: while I’m flattered at the attention. Please buzz off. I’m addressing this to my son because I have advice and aspirations based on my own experience. I hope the mother of my children will have similar advice for our daughters. My goal i...