one Many people will unconsciously force others to like in interpersonal communication. Therefore, they often focus on how to improve their EQ, like to guess each other's preferences, take care of others' emotions, and look in the mirror before going out every day: am I so decent, cute, and will others like me? This way of interpersonal communication costs a lot. Because "like" is a kind of feeling. 10000 people have 10000 kinds of feelings. You must adapt yourself to different people and different feelings, and spend different thoughts on everyone. And in the end, what they like may not be you, but the thoughts you spend on them. I have a partner with good character and strong executive ability. Recently, I learned that many people have come to dig her, and they have good personal friends with her. I wonder why she chose me because we don't look so close. "Because only you can clearly tell me what to do, how to do it, what the profit goal is, and what I can get if I exceed the goal. I trust your professionalism." Her so-called professionalism is reliable. two There was a girl I didn't like very much who went on a trip with me by accident. On the high-speed railway, I complained that there were too many children in the carriage. It was noisy and I couldn't sleep. She immediately said bluntly, "what's the point?" Quickly deliver me a small bag - containing a pair of heating goggles and two noise proof earplugs, which are necessary for her to go out. Since then, these two treasures have become necessary for my travel. Along the way, I turned black and pink to her. She is the most knowledgeable person I have ever met. Everything is arranged in order. If you travel with her once, you will find that all the trips in the past were made do with. Compared with the reliability and stability she brought me along the way, that little defect in her character is nothing at all. She doesn't pay much attention to whether others like her or not. All her energy is spent on studying how to spend a little money to live a high-quality life. She became an expert in this field and never lacked friends. To be a reliable person is the way of interpersonal communication with the lowest cost and the lowest risk. three Some people are very likable, but can't make deep friends, especially can't work together. Just met, you think "God, God, how can there be such a lovely person". After a few things, it became "God, God, how can there be such an unreliable person". Once heard the saying, "chat with smart people and work with reliable people." The person who can tolerate your unreliability because he likes you is a close friend who can be counted with both hands. But interpersonal communication is often very realistic. People pay attention not only to who you are, but also to what you can give me. You don't have to change yourself for others, but you can't have nothing. four Maintaining through love alone requires a high cost, but the stability is very poor. It's easy to give up all your efforts because a small thing is not comprehensive enough. We are always more picky about docile and good people. Just as it is easy to be disappointed with people who only have beauty but no talent. Therefore, the most important thing for people who are frustrated in interpersonal communication may not be to improve their EQ, but to improve their professional ability and irreplaceable in a certain field. This is an era when professionals are the king. People who are not interested in you may be willing to go with you because you cooked a delicious hot spring egg accurate to seconds. This is also a fair era. Picky people may choose to cooperate with you because you do every little thing reliably. Never late for a date; AA system never delays payment; Promise others, pay 100% effort and try your best to do it; Having professional skills can help others... All of the above can bring you many true friends and good cooperation. In addition to people who like you will be friends with you, people who respect you will also be friends with you.

one Many people will unconsciously force others to like in interpersonal communication. Therefore, they often focus on how to improve their EQ, like to guess each other's preferences, take care of others' emotions, and look in the mirror before going out every day: am I so decent, cute, and will others like me? This way of interpersonal communication costs a lot. Because "like" is a kind of feeling. 10000 people have 10000 kinds of feelings. You must adapt yourself to different people and different feelings, and spend different thoughts on everyone. And in the end, what they like may not be you, but the thoughts you spend on them. I have a partner with good character and strong executive ability. Recently, I learned that many people have come to dig her, and they have good personal friends with her. I wonder why she chose me because we don't look so close. "Because only you can clearly tell me what to do, how to do it, what the profit goal is, and what I can get if I exceed the goal. I trust your professionalism." Her so-called professionalism is reliable. two There was a girl I didn't like very much who went on a trip with me by accident. On the high-speed railway, I complained that there were too many children in the carriage. It was noisy and I couldn't sleep. She immediately said bluntly, "what's the point?" Quickly deliver me a small bag - containing a pair of heating goggles and two noise proof earplugs, which are necessary for her to go out. Since then, these two treasures have become necessary for my travel. Along the way, I turned black and pink to her. She is the most knowledgeable person I have ever met. Everything is arranged in order. If you travel with her once, you will find that all the trips in the past were made do with. Compared with the reliability and stability she brought me along the way, that little defect in her character is nothing at all. She doesn't pay much attention to whether others like her or not. All her energy is spent on studying how to spend a little money to live a high-quality life. She became an expert in this field and never lacked friends. To be a reliable person is the way of interpersonal communication with the lowest cost and the lowest risk. three Some people are very likable, but can't make deep friends, especially can't work together. Just met, you think "God, God, how can there be such a lovely person". After a few things, it became "God, God, how can there be such an unreliable person". Once heard the saying, "chat with smart people and work with reliable people." The person who can tolerate your unreliability because he likes you is a close friend who can be counted with both hands. But interpersonal communication is often very realistic. People pay attention not only to who you are, but also to what you can give me. You don't have to change yourself for others, but you can't have nothing. four Maintaining through love alone requires a high cost, but the stability is very poor. It's easy to give up all your efforts because a small thing is not comprehensive enough. We are always more picky about docile and good people. Just as it is easy to be disappointed with people who only have beauty but no talent. Therefore, the most important thing for people who are frustrated in interpersonal communication may not be to improve their EQ, but to improve their professional ability and irreplaceable in a certain field. This is an era when professionals are the king. People who are not interested in you may be willing to go with you because you cooked a delicious hot spring egg accurate to seconds. This is also a fair era. Picky people may choose to cooperate with you because you do every little thing reliably. Never late for a date; AA system never delays payment; Promise others, pay 100% effort and try your best to do it; Having professional skills can help others... All of the above can bring you many true friends and good cooperation. In addition to people who like you will be friends with you, people who respect you will also be friends with you.