Today, someone left a message to me: "I don't have any friends. I feel very sad. Although I have many acquaintances, when I feel lonely and helpless, I find that no one understands me. I need a friend who can save me, even one." I don't know what you're going through, but I don't have the kind of friend you said can save me. I guess everyone doesn't. one My best friend should be Xiao Pei. We met on the first day of junior high school. It has been 12 years since now, and we have been in touch during this period. In the winter of the first day of junior high school, I had a cold and fever in the middle of the night. I was thirsty and wanted to drink water. She was always timid. For me, she went to the teacher to pour boiling water alone. From our dormitory to the teachers' dormitory building, we have to pass through a big playground. In winter, a thin girl, braving the cold wind and feeling dark, just to pour me a glass of water. It was the first time I had a sense of dependence on someone other than my family. The warmth of that night was enough for me to identify her as my best friend. But the high school entrance examination made me almost lose this friend. Originally, with similar results, as long as we play normally, we can enter the same middle-ranking high school. Unfortunately, I didn't play well, and she not only played normally, but also had a powerful father who gave her full marks in sports. As a result, she entered the best high school in the city, and I reluctantly entered the secondary high school I had agreed to go with. I hate myself for not working hard and failing to achieve my due level. I envy my good friend for entering the best high school. At the same time, I hate that some people in the world do not abide by the rules and lose the fairness of the high school entrance examination. When I was young, I realized for the first time that there was nothing I could do. I was depressed all day. I stayed at home and didn't go out or eat well. She often came to my house, but I never let her in. At that time, the last person I wanted to see was her. My depressed state worried everyone. Even the worst students in my class came to my house and said to me with a smile, "you're not as miserable as me. I can't even go to the worst high school." But this kind of comfort doesn't work at all. I think how can I compare with him? His grades are already worse than me. How can he understand my mood. I think no one in the world understands me. I just can't think of it. I'm particularly unconvinced and helpless. Until one day, my mother finally couldn't stand me. She threw my job to the ground and said, "what's your hypocrisy? What a big deal. Coax you. You're still addicted. Do you like to eat or not!" I was scared by my mother. She didn't talk to me until night. I had to go to the kitchen to find food by myself. After eating and sleeping, I wanted to open up. Anyway, for me, it's not a bad thing to go to that school. It's just that she has a good thing. What's sad. She and I made up again. Although our intersection was much less than before, our innocent feelings supported us when we were young, and we have always regarded each other as our best friends. You see, when I feel lonely and helpless, my best friend not only can't help me, but also makes me resist. What cheer me up is not my best friend, not even my mother, but a full meal and a good sleep. two Among the people I know, Xiaojing has the best popularity and the most friends. We were all in college at that time, but we were not in the same class. No matter where I meet her, she will always be surrounded by a group of people, and she will always be the most shining and outstanding one in the crowd. Only once, on the way back to the dormitory from the library study room in the evening, in order to take a shortcut, I passed the Pavilion by the pond and heard a burst of intermittent crying, which startled me. If she didn't just look up and see me, I couldn't believe that the crying girl was Xiaojing. I went over to ask her what was going on. She quickly sorted out her mood. She just said that she was in a bad mood. Let me not worry. I didn't know how to comfort her, so I had to hold her hand and make her stronger. We all supported her, and she nodded. Since then, seeing her again is still a dazzling Xiaojing. Sometimes I doubt that meeting her crying alone that night is just a dream. As usual, she participated in various associations, organized various activities inside and outside the school, did not neglect her study, and did not get less scholarships. In her junior year, most people are still taking the grade examination. She has got all the certificates she should get and went to practice early. Later, when we returned to the school for graduation defense, the dinner of our two classes was in the same store. Because we both drank some wine and had a sad atmosphere of parting, we couldn't help talking more. It turned out that her mother went to the hospital that night and her father called. It's common for her father to beat people after drinking, but it's getting worse since she went to college. His father doesn't support her to go to college. He has no money at home and thinks it's useless for a girl to read so many books, but her mother has always insisted that she would rather be beaten at home than pay for her to go to college. She had to hide from her friends that night, but she didn't want to help her. She didn't want to help her cry, but she didn't want to help her. After crying, life has to go on. She asked her relatives to look after her mother. Summoned up the courage to call her father, told her father as an adult, and then she would call the police. It is precisely because she knows that her college life is hard won and too expensive, so she has to work harder and make her mother's pay worthwhile. Only in this way can she become strong and protect her mother. After graduation, she worked hard and made a lot of money. The family's economy has improved, and her father no longer drinks so much wine. The broken family began to become peaceful, and her own career is becoming more and more successful. There are still many friends around her, and she is still the dazzling Xiaojing. But behind her brilliance, only she knew how many tears she secretly swallowed. Even with so many friends around her, she still needs to lick her wounds alone, secretly dry her tears and rush to the battlefield without gunpowder smoke. What would have happened if she had expected her friends to save her? I can't guess, but at least I know that friends may help her alleviate her negative emotions, but she is the only one who can let her carry a gun to fight life. three In the final analysis, no matter how close the relationship is, I am always me, you are you, and some emotions can not be shared. There is no one who understands us and can save us when we are lonely and helpless. In any difficult situation, only ourselves can save us. If you are in a deep quagmire, your friends can give you a hand, but if you don't try to climb out, no matter how strong your friends are. Some roads are destined to be taken by one, and some pain is destined to be carried by one. As adults, we need to have the ability to heal alone. Who hasn't been hurt and who hasn't shed tears, but no one has been rescued by others. Friends can only help us, but we are the only one who can help us out. What you need is a friend, what you need is a stronger self.

Today, someone left a message to me: "I don't have any friends. I feel very sad. Although I have many acquaintances, when I feel lonely and helpless, I find that no one understands me. I need a friend who can save me, even one." I don't know what you're going through, but I don't have the kind of friend you said can save me. I guess everyone doesn't. one My best friend should be Xiao Pei. We met on the first day of junior high school. It has been 12 years since now, and we have been in touch during this period. In the winter of the first day of junior high school, I had a cold and fever in the middle of the night. I was thirsty and wanted to drink water. She was always timid. For me, she went to the teacher to pour boiling water alone. From our dormitory to the teachers' dormitory building, we have to pass through a big playground. In winter, a thin girl, braving the cold wind and feeling dark, just to pour me a glass of water. It was the first time I had a sense of dependence on someone other than my family. The warmth of that night was enough for me to identify her as my best friend. But the high school entrance examination made me almost lose this friend. Originally, with similar results, as long as we play normally, we can enter the same middle-ranking high school. Unfortunately, I didn't play well, and she not only played normally, but also had a powerful father who gave her full marks in sports. As a result, she entered the best high school in the city, and I reluctantly entered the secondary high school I had agreed to go with. I hate myself for not working hard and failing to achieve my due level. I envy my good friend for entering the best high school. At the same time, I hate that some people in the world do not abide by the rules and lose the fairness of the high school entrance examination. When I was young, I realized for the first time that there was nothing I could do. I was depressed all day. I stayed at home and didn't go out or eat well. She often came to my house, but I never let her in. At that time, the last person I wanted to see was her. My depressed state worried everyone. Even the worst students in my class came to my house and said to me with a smile, "you're not as miserable as me. I can't even go to the worst high school." But this kind of comfort doesn't work at all. I think how can I compare with him? His grades are already worse than me. How can he understand my mood. I think no one in the world understands me. I just can't think of it. I'm particularly unconvinced and helpless. Until one day, my mother finally couldn't stand me. She threw my job to the ground and said, "what's your hypocrisy? What a big deal. Coax you. You're still addicted. Do you like to eat or not!" I was scared by my mother. She didn't talk to me until night. I had to go to the kitchen to find food by myself. After eating and sleeping, I wanted to open up. Anyway, for me, it's not a bad thing to go to that school. It's just that she has a good thing. What's sad. She and I made up again. Although our intersection was much less than before, our innocent feelings supported us when we were young, and we have always regarded each other as our best friends. You see, when I feel lonely and helpless, my best friend not only can't help me, but also makes me resist. What cheer me up is not my best friend, not even my mother, but a full meal and a good sleep. two Among the people I know, Xiaojing has the best popularity and the most friends. We were all in college at that time, but we were not in the same class. No matter where I meet her, she will always be surrounded by a group of people, and she will always be the most shining and outstanding one in the crowd. Only once, on the way back to the dormitory from the library study room in the evening, in order to take a shortcut, I passed the Pavilion by the pond and heard a burst of intermittent crying, which startled me. If she didn't just look up and see me, I couldn't believe that the crying girl was Xiaojing. I went over to ask her what was going on. She quickly sorted out her mood. She just said that she was in a bad mood. Let me not worry. I didn't know how to comfort her, so I had to hold her hand and make her stronger. We all supported her, and she nodded. Since then, seeing her again is still a dazzling Xiaojing. Sometimes I doubt that meeting her crying alone that night is just a dream. As usual, she participated in various associations, organized various activities inside and outside the school, did not neglect her study, and did not get less scholarships. In her junior year, most people are still taking the grade examination. She has got all the certificates she should get and went to practice early. Later, when we returned to the school for graduation defense, the dinner of our two classes was in the same store. Because we both drank some wine and had a sad atmosphere of parting, we couldn't help talking more. It turned out that her mother went to the hospital that night and her father called. It's common for her father to beat people after drinking, but it's getting worse since she went to college. His father doesn't support her to go to college. He has no money at home and thinks it's useless for a girl to read so many books, but her mother has always insisted that she would rather be beaten at home than pay for her to go to college. She had to hide from her friends that night, but she didn't want to help her. She didn't want to help her cry, but she didn't want to help her. After crying, life has to go on. She asked her relatives to look after her mother. Summoned up the courage to call her father, told her father as an adult, and then she would call the police. It is precisely because she knows that her college life is hard won and too expensive, so she has to work harder and make her mother's pay worthwhile. Only in this way can she become strong and protect her mother. After graduation, she worked hard and made a lot of money. The family's economy has improved, and her father no longer drinks so much wine. The broken family began to become peaceful, and her own career is becoming more and more successful. There are still many friends around her, and she is still the dazzling Xiaojing. But behind her brilliance, only she knew how many tears she secretly swallowed. Even with so many friends around her, she still needs to lick her wounds alone, secretly dry her tears and rush to the battlefield without gunpowder smoke. What would have happened if she had expected her friends to save her? I can't guess, but at least I know that friends may help her alleviate her negative emotions, but she is the only one who can let her carry a gun to fight life. three In the final analysis, no matter how close the relationship is, I am always me, you are you, and some emotions can not be shared. There is no one who understands us and can save us when we are lonely and helpless. In any difficult situation, only ourselves can save us. If you are in a deep quagmire, your friends can give you a hand, but if you don't try to climb out, no matter how strong your friends are. Some roads are destined to be taken by one, and some pain is destined to be carried by one. As adults, we need to have the ability to heal alone. Who hasn't been hurt and who hasn't shed tears, but no one has been rescued by others. Friends can only help us, but we are the only one who can help us out. What you need is a friend, what you need is a stronger self.