At the beginning of this year, I met Chen Jun, who was studying in the island country. One day, he sent a pathetic expression to me, "I was scolded." I'm quite surprised. Chen Jun's greatest advantage is his good temper and natural good face. "What's the matter?" I asked him. Chen Jun was a little confused. He didn't know how to get it before. He lost the charger of his mobile phone and asked a Chinese girl in his class to borrow one. That day, he bought a new one and wanted to return the old one to others on the way, so he sent a text message to the other party: "are you at home? I'll return the charger to you on the way." As a result, I received a text message from the other party soon: "I'm her boyfriend. I warn you to stay away from my girlfriend! Don't harass her again!" Chen Jun was stunned for a moment and quickly recalled whether he had harassed the other party. However, he found that he didn't have any intimate meaning with the other party except borrowing a charger and occasionally asking a few words of homework. Later, I asked a circle of friends and found that all the boys who had contact with the girl, even a holiday greeting, received this "warning" A few days later, the girl met Chen Jun at school. She was embarrassed to explain to him that she was away from her boyfriend. A few days ago, her boyfriend came to see her from home and checked her mobile phone. His boyfriend was more worried about her empathy. I'm sorry I sent such a text message last time. Chen Jun said it was okay. "Is he so unsure of himself?" Chen Jun asked me. Not long after, I heard that the girl and the boy broke up because of "too much management". It was expected and reasonable. There was a piece before. Said that seeing your girlfriend chatting happily with other boys, what should you do? You can't look unhappy in front of her friends. Instead, you should whisper to her, "come out." When she came out, she hugged her, kissed her hard and said to her, "you're mine." Of course, I always think that the success of this operation depends on the boy's overall quality, otherwise he may be slapped "are you sick" However, the central meaning of this passage is very clear: don't let her lose face. People live for a lifetime and have to talk about reputation when they are old, otherwise no one will die of depression due to lack of protection in the evening. Too many people pay attention to face, and couples, in addition to giving each other love, also need to pay attention to leaving face for each other. There is a very detailed thing that I heard from two friends respectively, but coincidentally, both of them are about paying the bill. A once asked some friends to have dinner together. At that time, he just lost his wallet and his bank card was being reissued. With five hundred cash, his girlfriend saw it, took out five hundred from his wallet and gave it to him, saying, "today is for you to invite someone to dinner. Prepare a little more. If it's not enough, it will be very embarrassing." Then holding Jun a, they came to the door happily. A Jun told us about it later. He was moved by his girlfriend's behavior at that time. Maybe it was because of her intimacy that he saved face. On another occasion, Mr. B invited some of our friends to dinner on his birthday. When he paid the bill, he found that he didn't bring enough money and brought 100 less. Hotels can't swipe their cards. The nearest ATM has to cross several blocks. Mr. B said to his girlfriend that he would lend me a hundred. Mr. B's girlfriend frowned and took a hundred out of her wallet reluctantly. She patted it in front of Mr. B and said, "what man? Not even a hundred." The atmosphere on the court suddenly became very embarrassing. Mr. B's face turned a little red and wanted to attack, but he held back considering us. After that meal, B Jun and his girlfriend had a big quarrel over the 100 yuan. There are always some poisonous sentences that say: "a man should tolerate a woman's vexatious behavior, understand her capriciousness, and forgive her super possessiveness, because you know that she loves you." Others said, "a man is overbearing and tough to you. There are some male chauvinism. It's the way he loves you." It's not just the editor's IQ. From small to large, it's even so in front of outsiders. How can you really know understanding and care when you get along alone. It's a small thing, or it's a big thing, but it's not willing to give her face. It may be harmless to joke with each other, but I should have some standards in my heart and know what jokes can and can't be played. Behind "giving face" is respect, understanding, concern and consideration. In fact, if you love someone, you should give him or her a better world. Let him live with dignity, from the outside to the spirit. A pair of lovers, this is complementary, give people dignity, but also give yourself dignity.

At the beginning of this year, I met Chen Jun, who was studying in the island country. One day, he sent a pathetic expression to me, "I was scolded." I'm quite surprised. Chen Jun's greatest advantage is his good temper and natural good face. "What's the matter?" I asked him. Chen Jun was a little confused. He didn't know how to get it before. He lost the charger of his mobile phone and asked a Chinese girl in his class to borrow one. That day, he bought a new one and wanted to return the old one to others on the way, so he sent a text message to the other party: "are you at home? I'll return the charger to you on the way." As a result, I received a text message from the other party soon: "I'm her boyfriend. I warn you to stay away from my girlfriend! Don't harass her again!" Chen Jun was stunned for a moment and quickly recalled whether he had harassed the other party. However, he found that he didn't have any intimate meaning with the other party except borrowing a charger and occasionally asking a few words of homework. Later, I asked a circle of friends and found that all the boys who had contact with the girl, even a holiday greeting, received this "warning" A few days later, the girl met Chen Jun at school. She was embarrassed to explain to him that she was away from her boyfriend. A few days ago, her boyfriend came to see her from home and checked her mobile phone. His boyfriend was more worried about her empathy. I'm sorry I sent such a text message last time. Chen Jun said it was okay. "Is he so unsure of himself?" Chen Jun asked me. Not long after, I heard that the girl and the boy broke up because of "too much management". It was expected and reasonable. There was a piece before. Said that seeing your girlfriend chatting happily with other boys, what should you do? You can't look unhappy in front of her friends. Instead, you should whisper to her, "come out." When she came out, she hugged her, kissed her hard and said to her, "you're mine." Of course, I always think that the success of this operation depends on the boy's overall quality, otherwise he may be slapped "are you sick" However, the central meaning of this passage is very clear: don't let her lose face. People live for a lifetime and have to talk about reputation when they are old, otherwise no one will die of depression due to lack of protection in the evening. Too many people pay attention to face, and couples, in addition to giving each other love, also need to pay attention to leaving face for each other. There is a very detailed thing that I heard from two friends respectively, but coincidentally, both of them are about paying the bill. A once asked some friends to have dinner together. At that time, he just lost his wallet and his bank card was being reissued. With five hundred cash, his girlfriend saw it, took out five hundred from his wallet and gave it to him, saying, "today is for you to invite someone to dinner. Prepare a little more. If it's not enough, it will be very embarrassing." Then holding Jun a, they came to the door happily. A Jun told us about it later. He was moved by his girlfriend's behavior at that time. Maybe it was because of her intimacy that he saved face. On another occasion, Mr. B invited some of our friends to dinner on his birthday. When he paid the bill, he found that he didn't bring enough money and brought 100 less. Hotels can't swipe their cards. The nearest ATM has to cross several blocks. Mr. B said to his girlfriend that he would lend me a hundred. Mr. B's girlfriend frowned and took a hundred out of her wallet reluctantly. She patted it in front of Mr. B and said, "what man? Not even a hundred." The atmosphere on the court suddenly became very embarrassing. Mr. B's face turned a little red and wanted to attack, but he held back considering us. After that meal, B Jun and his girlfriend had a big quarrel over the 100 yuan. There are always some poisonous sentences that say: "a man should tolerate a woman's vexatious behavior, understand her capriciousness, and forgive her super possessiveness, because you know that she loves you." Others said, "a man is overbearing and tough to you. There are some male chauvinism. It's the way he loves you." It's not just the editor's IQ. From small to large, it's even so in front of outsiders. How can you really know understanding and care when you get along alone. It's a small thing, or it's a big thing, but it's not willing to give her face. It may be harmless to joke with each other, but I should have some standards in my heart and know what jokes can and can't be played. Behind "giving face" is respect, understanding, concern and consideration. In fact, if you love someone, you should give him or her a better world. Let him live with dignity, from the outside to the spirit. A pair of lovers, this is complementary, give people dignity, but also give yourself dignity.