When some people make such "feats", we should polish our eyes and ask ourselves whether they are loyal or treacherous? Before Guan Zhong died, Duke Huan of Qi went to ask for advice on the way to the future. Guan Zhong said that under your decentralization and my management, Qi has stood at the top of the world, but it needs to be maintained. So when I die, please stay away from those three things. Guan Zhong's so-called "three things" are the three most beloved people of Duke Huan of Qi: Yi Ya, Wei Kaifang and vertical Diao. The three of them are loyal to Duke Huan of Qi, almost as heavy as a mountain. Duke Huan of Qi once said to Yi Ya, your majesty, I've eaten everything, but I haven't eaten human flesh. At dinner, Yi Ya brought a plate of meat. Duke Huan praised it and asked what meat it was. Yi Ya replied, my son's meat. Duke Huan of Qi was deeply moved. Wei Kaifang was originally the son of the state of Wei. He came to Duke Huan of Qi and served him wholeheartedly. Duke Huan of Qi once asked him, don't you miss your parents, wife and children when you are far away from your hometown? Wei Kaifang replied that compared with you, all this is dirt. Duke Huan of Qi choked. The other one, named vertical Diao, volunteered to castrate himself and serve Duke Huan of Qi in the palace. Duke Huan of Qi always regarded these three people as the most precious wealth in life. Now Guan Zhong let him stay away, which is naturally inexplicable. Guan Zhong explained: "vertical Diao castrated himself and dared to be cruel to himself, not to mention others? Yi Ya can even kill his own son, not to mention others? Wei Kaifang is willing to abandon his wife and children, not to mention others?" Duke Huan of Qi said, "this shows that they are as kind to me as a mountain and have high integrity." Guan Zhong said, "nonsense, will you pass the position to your son or a stranger in the future?" Duke Huan of Qi said, of course, it was passed on to his son. Guan Zhong said that people love themselves more than others, which is nature and understandable. If someone loves others who have nothing to do with themselves better than himself, it is hypocrisy, which is against nature and inhumane. An inhumane person, stay away from him. However, Duke Huan of Qi greatly disapproved of Guan Zhong's remark. After Guan Zhong's death, he continued to favor the three people. As a result, when he was ill in bed and hopeless, the three "noble and honest" people found that their loyalty to him could not bring benefits, immediately locked the Palace door and starved him to death. We sometimes hear stories about someone who left his wife and children to feed others' wives and children, save others and cut his own flesh. At first glance, it's moving. When you think about it, it's either hidden or extremely scary. It's normal to raise my old and people's old, my young and people's young. Note that if you are with the following people and don't want to change, your life is basically half destroyed: The first kind of person: losing filial piety and feeling As the old saying goes, a person's parents give everything to him. If he is not filial to his parents, or even insults or beats his parents, he is really inferior to animals and beasts. The second kind of people: lose faith and be inferior to promise When you ask a friend to borrow money, you want to kneel down, pat your chest and breast, express your gratitude and promise to pay back the money on time; When it comes to paying back the money, he avoids it, evades it for various reasons, or even shuts down his machine to avoid it, and refuses to pay back his debts. The third kind of people: lose virtue and be inferior to etiquette People who are happy when you help him, turn around when you don't help him, and turn black immediately when it comes to a little interest. The fourth kind of people: lose justice and be inferior to courage People who don't respect others and are self-centered. Those who are used to speculation and profiteering, feel that everyone is inferior to themselves and base their happiness on the pain of others will harm everyone's interests for their own interests, and will continue to show off their achievements in front of the weak. The fifth kind of people: lose kindness and be inferior to kindness You have done 9 of the 10 things well for him. If one thing is not as good as his will, you will turn your face; When getting along with others, he never remembers the kindness of others to him, but only remembers the disappointments of him; He never felt grateful for the help his friends had given him. He thought that what he had picked up in vain was what he should have done. Finally, I give you 16 words. May we all make friends and be human like this! I choose kindness, not because I am clumsy. Because I understand that kindness can carry things and help others can be happy. I choose kindness, not weakness. Because I understand that goodness is nature. A man can't be evil, and evil will be punished. I choose to be patient, not to shrink back. Because I understand that if you can bear the calm, you can make the sky high and the sea wide. I choose tolerance, not my cowardice. Because I understand that tolerance is a virtue, and virtue is not wrong. I choose to be confused, not that I am really confused. In the face of misunderstanding, injustice and injustice, I just don't want to care about it, so I can deal with it generously. It's difficult to be confused and laugh at the state of the world. I choose to be sincere, and I'll say what I have to say. Because I understand that flattery against one's heart is a response, and honest advice against one's ears is a responsibility. I choose to forgive, not that I have no principles. Because I understand that when I have to forgive others, I should forgive others, and I can't do things completely. I value friendship, not that I am too persistent. Because I always think about the good time with my friends. I can't give up that rare fate and friendship. I shouldn't hide my inner feelings. I understand that cheating has no good end and betrayal has no good result.

When some people make such "feats", we should polish our eyes and ask ourselves whether they are loyal or treacherous? Before Guan Zhong died, Duke Huan of Qi went to ask for advice on the way to the future. Guan Zhong said that under your decentralization and my management, Qi has stood at the top of the world, but it needs to be maintained. So when I die, please stay away from those three things. Guan Zhong's so-called "three things" are the three most beloved people of Duke Huan of Qi: Yi Ya, Wei Kaifang and vertical Diao. The three of them are loyal to Duke Huan of Qi, almost as heavy as a mountain. Duke Huan of Qi once said to Yi Ya, your majesty, I've eaten everything, but I haven't eaten human flesh. At dinner, Yi Ya brought a plate of meat. Duke Huan praised it and asked what meat it was. Yi Ya replied, my son's meat. Duke Huan of Qi was deeply moved. Wei Kaifang was originally the son of the state of Wei. He came to Duke Huan of Qi and served him wholeheartedly. Duke Huan of Qi once asked him, don't you miss your parents, wife and children when you are far away from your hometown? Wei Kaifang replied that compared with you, all this is dirt. Duke Huan of Qi choked. The other one, named vertical Diao, volunteered to castrate himself and serve Duke Huan of Qi in the palace. Duke Huan of Qi always regarded these three people as the most precious wealth in life. Now Guan Zhong let him stay away, which is naturally inexplicable. Guan Zhong explained: "vertical Diao castrated himself and dared to be cruel to himself, not to mention others? Yi Ya can even kill his own son, not to mention others? Wei Kaifang is willing to abandon his wife and children, not to mention others?" Duke Huan of Qi said, "this shows that they are as kind to me as a mountain and have high integrity." Guan Zhong said, "nonsense, will you pass the position to your son or a stranger in the future?" Duke Huan of Qi said, of course, it was passed on to his son. Guan Zhong said that people love themselves more than others, which is nature and understandable. If someone loves others who have nothing to do with themselves better than himself, it is hypocrisy, which is against nature and inhumane. An inhumane person, stay away from him. However, Duke Huan of Qi greatly disapproved of Guan Zhong's remark. After Guan Zhong's death, he continued to favor the three people. As a result, when he was ill in bed and hopeless, the three "noble and honest" people found that their loyalty to him could not bring benefits, immediately locked the Palace door and starved him to death. We sometimes hear stories about someone who left his wife and children to feed others' wives and children, save others and cut his own flesh. At first glance, it's moving. When you think about it, it's either hidden or extremely scary. It's normal to raise my old and people's old, my young and people's young. Note that if you are with the following people and don't want to change, your life is basically half destroyed: The first kind of person: losing filial piety and feeling As the old saying goes, a person's parents give everything to him. If he is not filial to his parents, or even insults or beats his parents, he is really inferior to animals and beasts. The second kind of people: lose faith and be inferior to promise When you ask a friend to borrow money, you want to kneel down, pat your chest and breast, express your gratitude and promise to pay back the money on time; When it comes to paying back the money, he avoids it, evades it for various reasons, or even shuts down his machine to avoid it, and refuses to pay back his debts. The third kind of people: lose virtue and be inferior to etiquette People who are happy when you help him, turn around when you don't help him, and turn black immediately when it comes to a little interest. The fourth kind of people: lose justice and be inferior to courage People who don't respect others and are self-centered. Those who are used to speculation and profiteering, feel that everyone is inferior to themselves and base their happiness on the pain of others will harm everyone's interests for their own interests, and will continue to show off their achievements in front of the weak. The fifth kind of people: lose kindness and be inferior to kindness You have done 9 of the 10 things well for him. If one thing is not as good as his will, you will turn your face; When getting along with others, he never remembers the kindness of others to him, but only remembers the disappointments of him; He never felt grateful for the help his friends had given him. He thought that what he had picked up in vain was what he should have done. Finally, I give you 16 words. May we all make friends and be human like this! I choose kindness, not because I am clumsy. Because I understand that kindness can carry things and help others can be happy. I choose kindness, not weakness. Because I understand that goodness is nature. A man can't be evil, and evil will be punished. I choose to be patient, not to shrink back. Because I understand that if you can bear the calm, you can make the sky high and the sea wide. I choose tolerance, not my cowardice. Because I understand that tolerance is a virtue, and virtue is not wrong. I choose to be confused, not that I am really confused. In the face of misunderstanding, injustice and injustice, I just don't want to care about it, so I can deal with it generously. It's difficult to be confused and laugh at the state of the world. I choose to be sincere, and I'll say what I have to say. Because I understand that flattery against one's heart is a response, and honest advice against one's ears is a responsibility. I choose to forgive, not that I have no principles. Because I understand that when I have to forgive others, I should forgive others, and I can't do things completely. I value friendship, not that I am too persistent. Because I always think about the good time with my friends. I can't give up that rare fate and friendship. I shouldn't hide my inner feelings. I understand that cheating has no good end and betrayal has no good result.