"After I die, please don't bother other people... I won't be a child of a poor family in my next life." Some time ago, Chen Yi, a senior 2 student in Lu'an City, Anhui Province, left a "suicide note" in a drawer and ran away from home. She even had a tendency to end her life. Although the child was found later, this incident has aroused the attention of parents and educators to the growth and education of children from poor families. Poverty not only makes adults helpless, but also makes children feel inferior and hopeless. Ghost foot seven once wrote in the article "memory fragments: money can't buy a poor boy". Li said: "the children of poor families have strong self-esteem and low self-esteem. Their calm appearance is actually very fragile and can be broken at all." Ghost foot seven tells us how fragile the inner world of the children of poor families is by using the poor life he personally experienced when he was a child. We often say that "the children of the poor are early masters of the family." however, is this really the case? A few days ago, Netease made a theme for the event that Chen Yi ran away from home: "can the children of poor people really be in charge?" Of the 7327 users who participated in the survey, 89% supported "no, you can't do anything without money, let alone become successful at home". Yes, the children of poor families lost at the starting line when they were born. The children of poor families were taught from an early age that "you should be sensible earlier. Only by studying hard can you change your destiny, and you won't be a farmer exposed to the sun and the wind all your life." But what is the truth? The fact is that no matter how sensible and hardworking the children of poor families are, when the children of poor families try their best to enter college, go out of the house and get together with the children of rich families, they find that compared with the children of rich families, they can't understand their piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, can't understand their English, can't speak fluently, and have poor communication skills... The only thing they can do is to be the so-called "home early". When I graduate from University, I have to face all kinds of unfair competition. They do not have any resources and property that can be inherited from the previous generation, but they have to shoulder the expectations of the previous generation. I think of the post of Emperor Yongle II on Tianya forum in 2013, "it is difficult for a poor family to produce a noble son". This article, which was popular all over the Internet at that time, pointedly pointed out the cruel reality that it is difficult for a poor family to produce a noble son in the current society through the experience of several poor and rich children practicing in banks. This article has aroused strong repercussions and the cry of the general public for the unfair distribution of social resources. Of course, we can't deny the possibility of poor families having noble children, but it's not like what liuyuanyuan said in super orator that "in real life, there are countless examples of poor families' children counter attacking". For thousands of years, China has encouraged students to study hard with such simple principles as "there is a golden house in the book, and there is a beautiful face in the book". At that time, as long as the poor or the rich study hard and pass the national imperial examination, they can live a good life with money and old women. In modern times, this principle seems to be less feasible. Why? Because since the expansion of our university education, the university is no longer a symbol of elite education. In the past, the only chance for the poor to pass the imperial examination to become successful was blocked. I come from the countryside. I know very well that when they do everything they can to borrow money to send their children out of college, the state does not arrange jobs, and they may not be able to find a satisfactory job outside the society. They also have the opportunity to compete with the children of the rich with various social resources for the national unit. Of course, if three of the ten posts are open to fair competition, is it easy for you to compete with thousands of troops for the only few poor places? In fact, the British documentary "seven years of life" mentioned by liuyuanyuan in "super orator" should be exactly the reason why it is difficult for poor families to have expensive children. The film tracks the life experiences of 12 children from different classes, from 7 to 47 years old. They visit every seven years. Finally, when the children grow up, they find that the children of the rich are still rich and the children of the poor are still poor. Only a poor child named Nick has become a University professor through his own efforts. Of course, you can say optimistically like liuyuanyuan, "there are fish in the palm of fate", but don't we feel very sad? It is true that social strata are not completely insurmountable, but it is difficult to have a large span. The lower class can go up to the middle class, but it is difficult to reach the upper class; The middle class can go to the top, or for some reason, to the bottom; But the top is still the top. In addition to occupying all the educational resources, wealth and contacts, the children of the rich are more strict with their children in the upper class, and they also study harder and harder. They believe that they shoulder the responsibility of changing the society, so they are more serious and persistent. When they become successful, they are more likely to be in charge of their family as early as possible. Therefore, not all the rich second generation are waste materials. What you see in the news is only an enlarged case. In seven years of life, we can see how much parents and families have a lifelong impact on a child. Children who grow up in a harmonious family environment are more accompanied by their parents and more calm and confident in life. And these are exactly what poor children lack. The children of poor families grew up in a sheep herding educational environment. They send their children to study, but they always regard education as the task of the school. For whether they can become useful and enter the University, they mostly blame their children's personal destiny. "If you can get into the University, I will send you to study. But if you can't get into the University, then you should be so.". I grew up in such an environment, so when I was a child, I was under great pressure. I was afraid that in case I really failed the exam, I would have to farm like my parents all my life. I can be optimistic that my parents have never urged me to read and write, so that I have a relatively loose learning environment. But in essence, this kind of sheep herding management of parents is a last resort. Because of their education and knowledge ability, they can not give us more learning care. So when I see my cousins learning piano, zither and calligraphy, I envy them. People from poor families are not good at talking, have poor communication skills and lack of self-confidence. They have a strong sense of self-esteem and a deep sense of inferiority. If they are strong enough and optimistic enough, the poor experience in their youth will become a net wealth in their life. If they can't bear the pressure of society, they are more likely to fail in the end. Therefore, it is really difficult for the children of the poor to be in charge. However, we should not give up. Isn't everyone's life for struggle? As liuyuanyuan said: "When we encounter failure, we can't blame all the reasons on birth, let alone complain about why our parents are inferior to other people's parents, because a bad family doesn't cut off all the possibilities of a person's success,... What you can do now is to fight a way in this society alone.... you should believe that fate gives you a lower starting point than others, because it wants to tell you that Use your whole life to strive for a story of Jedi counterattack,... This story is that those who have a will will will, things will come true, and the hundred and twenty-two Qinguan pass will eventually belong to Chu. This story is that the painstaking people, the heaven does not bear the burden, lie on the brushwood and taste the gall, and three thousand Vietnamese armor can swallow Wu. " It is difficult for a poor child to run a family. However, no matter how hard it is, we must go, because you have no way out. We often compare life to a marathon. However, we know that no marathon runner can win the final championship if he wins at the starting line. Our life has not only a starting point, but also a very long process that allows you to go out and fight. There is not only one track on our marathon track. You can make your own way in life. Remember, it is not others but yourself that can decide your life. Whether you are the child of the poor or the child of the rich.

"After I die, please don't bother other people... I won't be a child of a poor family in my next life." Some time ago, Chen Yi, a senior 2 student in Lu'an City, Anhui Province, left a "suicide note" in a drawer and ran away from home. She even had a tendency to end her life. Although the child was found later, this incident has aroused the attention of parents and educators to the growth and education of children from poor families. Poverty not only makes adults helpless, but also makes children feel inferior and hopeless. Ghost foot seven once wrote in the article "memory fragments: money can't buy a poor boy". Li said: "the children of poor families have strong self-esteem and low self-esteem. Their calm appearance is actually very fragile and can be broken at all." Ghost foot seven tells us how fragile the inner world of the children of poor families is by using the poor life he personally experienced when he was a child. We often say that "the children of the poor are early masters of the family." however, is this really the case? A few days ago, Netease made a theme for the event that Chen Yi ran away from home: "can the children of poor people really be in charge?" Of the 7327 users who participated in the survey, 89% supported "no, you can't do anything without money, let alone become successful at home". Yes, the children of poor families lost at the starting line when they were born. The children of poor families were taught from an early age that "you should be sensible earlier. Only by studying hard can you change your destiny, and you won't be a farmer exposed to the sun and the wind all your life." But what is the truth? The fact is that no matter how sensible and hardworking the children of poor families are, when the children of poor families try their best to enter college, go out of the house and get together with the children of rich families, they find that compared with the children of rich families, they can't understand their piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, can't understand their English, can't speak fluently, and have poor communication skills... The only thing they can do is to be the so-called "home early". When I graduate from University, I have to face all kinds of unfair competition. They do not have any resources and property that can be inherited from the previous generation, but they have to shoulder the expectations of the previous generation. I think of the post of Emperor Yongle II on Tianya forum in 2013, "it is difficult for a poor family to produce a noble son". This article, which was popular all over the Internet at that time, pointedly pointed out the cruel reality that it is difficult for a poor family to produce a noble son in the current society through the experience of several poor and rich children practicing in banks. This article has aroused strong repercussions and the cry of the general public for the unfair distribution of social resources. Of course, we can't deny the possibility of poor families having noble children, but it's not like what liuyuanyuan said in super orator that "in real life, there are countless examples of poor families' children counter attacking". For thousands of years, China has encouraged students to study hard with such simple principles as "there is a golden house in the book, and there is a beautiful face in the book". At that time, as long as the poor or the rich study hard and pass the national imperial examination, they can live a good life with money and old women. In modern times, this principle seems to be less feasible. Why? Because since the expansion of our university education, the university is no longer a symbol of elite education. In the past, the only chance for the poor to pass the imperial examination to become successful was blocked. I come from the countryside. I know very well that when they do everything they can to borrow money to send their children out of college, the state does not arrange jobs, and they may not be able to find a satisfactory job outside the society. They also have the opportunity to compete with the children of the rich with various social resources for the national unit. Of course, if three of the ten posts are open to fair competition, is it easy for you to compete with thousands of troops for the only few poor places? In fact, the British documentary "seven years of life" mentioned by liuyuanyuan in "super orator" should be exactly the reason why it is difficult for poor families to have expensive children. The film tracks the life experiences of 12 children from different classes, from 7 to 47 years old. They visit every seven years. Finally, when the children grow up, they find that the children of the rich are still rich and the children of the poor are still poor. Only a poor child named Nick has become a University professor through his own efforts. Of course, you can say optimistically like liuyuanyuan, "there are fish in the palm of fate", but don't we feel very sad? It is true that social strata are not completely insurmountable, but it is difficult to have a large span. The lower class can go up to the middle class, but it is difficult to reach the upper class; The middle class can go to the top, or for some reason, to the bottom; But the top is still the top. In addition to occupying all the educational resources, wealth and contacts, the children of the rich are more strict with their children in the upper class, and they also study harder and harder. They believe that they shoulder the responsibility of changing the society, so they are more serious and persistent. When they become successful, they are more likely to be in charge of their family as early as possible. Therefore, not all the rich second generation are waste materials. What you see in the news is only an enlarged case. In seven years of life, we can see how much parents and families have a lifelong impact on a child. Children who grow up in a harmonious family environment are more accompanied by their parents and more calm and confident in life. And these are exactly what poor children lack. The children of poor families grew up in a sheep herding educational environment. They send their children to study, but they always regard education as the task of the school. For whether they can become useful and enter the University, they mostly blame their children's personal destiny. "If you can get into the University, I will send you to study. But if you can't get into the University, then you should be so.". I grew up in such an environment, so when I was a child, I was under great pressure. I was afraid that in case I really failed the exam, I would have to farm like my parents all my life. I can be optimistic that my parents have never urged me to read and write, so that I have a relatively loose learning environment. But in essence, this kind of sheep herding management of parents is a last resort. Because of their education and knowledge ability, they can not give us more learning care. So when I see my cousins learning piano, zither and calligraphy, I envy them. People from poor families are not good at talking, have poor communication skills and lack of self-confidence. They have a strong sense of self-esteem and a deep sense of inferiority. If they are strong enough and optimistic enough, the poor experience in their youth will become a net wealth in their life. If they can't bear the pressure of society, they are more likely to fail in the end. Therefore, it is really difficult for the children of the poor to be in charge. However, we should not give up. Isn't everyone's life for struggle? As liuyuanyuan said: "When we encounter failure, we can't blame all the reasons on birth, let alone complain about why our parents are inferior to other people's parents, because a bad family doesn't cut off all the possibilities of a person's success,... What you can do now is to fight a way in this society alone.... you should believe that fate gives you a lower starting point than others, because it wants to tell you that Use your whole life to strive for a story of Jedi counterattack,... This story is that those who have a will will will, things will come true, and the hundred and twenty-two Qinguan pass will eventually belong to Chu. This story is that the painstaking people, the heaven does not bear the burden, lie on the brushwood and taste the gall, and three thousand Vietnamese armor can swallow Wu. " It is difficult for a poor child to run a family. However, no matter how hard it is, we must go, because you have no way out. We often compare life to a marathon. However, we know that no marathon runner can win the final championship if he wins at the starting line. Our life has not only a starting point, but also a very long process that allows you to go out and fight. There is not only one track on our marathon track. You can make your own way in life. Remember, it is not others but yourself that can decide your life. Whether you are the child of the poor or the child of the rich.