I have a colleague who has a good relationship. As you all know, her name is Wang Ye. As we all know, the king's maverick style is intoxicating. But soon I found a problem. Wang Ye didn't have so many friends in the company, so I couldn't help asking her if she felt lonely? I came all the way from my hometown to Shanghai. I have no relatives or friends. My time is squeezed by work. I feel extravagant to fall in love. Can I really carry such a life? Later, the Lord asked me, "what is the definition of loneliness? Do you feel lonely when you put yourself in a group of people and laugh and scold with them? Is the so-called friend a tool to solve your loneliness?" When the Lord asked, I couldn't answer. "Only those who do nothing will feel lonely. Friends are casual encounters in fields with similar interests, not groups they meet at will to highlight their popularity," Wang said At that time, sunny just transferred from the sweater group and sat opposite the Lord. As a newcomer, I brought double snacks on the first day and handed them to the Lord during the break and distributed them to the people around me. At lunch, sunny asked the rest of the group where to eat. Everyone voted to eat udong noodles. She took out her mobile phone and said, "I'll buy it in group! How many people?" In the afternoon, everyone occasionally chatted lazily. When talking about the party last weekend, sunny couldn't help talking and said, "it's very good there. I often go there!" However, in this case, sunny often gets a hot face and a cold ass. Not only will everyone interrupt the topic, but even the participants don't know why they are involved in inexplicable guys. Sunny added the wechat of everyone in the group. As long as anyone's circle of friends sent a status, she was the first to like it, and then said a lot of happy words. But what others saw was that no matter how many replies there were under that state, no one replied to her. Similarly, under each status, there are basically no compliments and comments from anyone in the group. Every November, the company will organize a suburban tour. Because of public expenses, basically all the people of the company will participate. But soon there was a problem. In order to save money, the company usually arranged two employees to live in one room, so Chi Hui, who was divided with sunny, was soon unhappy. However, no one else in the group was willing to change rooms with Chi Hui, so Chi Hui privately told her sister who was close to the general affairs department to quietly change the list, saying that there was something wrong with the previous one and needed to be regrouped. This kind of thing can't be hidden from everyone in the office. Sunny soon heard about it from others. Finally, sunny went to the general affairs office and said that she had something to do that day and might not be able to attend. During lunch, I chatted with the Lord. When it came to sunny, I thought she was actually quite poor. The prince bowed his head to eat eel rice and ignored me. I then said, "really, I think the people in your group are actually a little too much." The Lord swallowed the rice in his mouth, Look at me and say: "Pitiful? She thinks social friendship is too cheap. How can she become friends with others by eating, drinking and chatting casually? Although emotional matters need to be responded by paying, if she doesn't even look at the object before paying, it's asking for trouble. Is it necessary to know those people who are completely different from their own values? When they talk about marriage and funeral every day, I think it's a waste of one more second with them Time. Some people can be classified as friends, but others can only stop at colleagues - we have nothing in common except working relationships. " The next afternoon, I noticed that as long as someone asked sunny to do something, sunny would be happy to help. However, after helping, except for a simple "thank you", others didn't give sunny a good face. Originally, under such circumstances, everyone will only do their own things and walk on their own tracks. No one will stop specially for someone, let alone hand over a paper towel to someone who is wronged and crying. After work, a large group had a dinner. Sunny was omitted from the list. She only smiled faintly and said, "it doesn't matter. I happened to have an appointment, so I won't go." Because I didn't finish my work, I told my leaders to go later. In the end, I was too busy unconsciously. When I punch in and go downstairs, I thought I'd better not go at all. I sent a message to the leader and planned to go to the convenience store to buy a loaf of bread, but I found sunny sitting on the chair of the convenience store eating a box of lunch. Originally, I wanted to say hello, but I was held by one hand. Looking back, it was the Lord. "She has been sitting for a while. She must be in a bad mood. If you go up and call her, it will only embarrass her." The Lord whispered to me. I was surprised why the Lord appeared suddenly. The Lord shrugged and said, "you know I don't like to attend those messy parties. I went to buy something nearby. I was a little thirsty. I came in to buy water and saw her." If I'm right, sunny's mindless eyes are a little red. She eats bread slowly and looks at her mobile phone in a daze from time to time. That day, I sat next to the apple flagship store on Nanjing Road with Wang Ye. Wang Ye told me a story. She said that everyone has a stupid time. There was a time when she was the same. When I was in college, I met new friends through my friends and always felt that I got along with them, but unexpectedly, others didn't include you in the circle privately. You won't be selected as a participant whether you have activities or concerns. A lot of seemingly affinity is just a show. Don't think that if you dig your heart and lungs, others will treat your friendship well. Sometimes, when a group of people talk about something, you are not interested at all, but you still want to chime in and think that others will notice you. In fact, in the end, you are playing a monologue. The LORD looked at me and said, you are always worried that I have no friends in the company, but I always think that friends attract each other because of the combination of aura, rather than deliberately. For example, it seems that you and I have never held any special ceremony to tell the world that "we are friends", but we are still very happy. Therefore, I will never make friendship cheap in order to solve the problem of "loneliness". Different circles do not need strong integration. It has always been my value. I said, then we should talk to sunny about these things. I think you should persuade her. On the one hand, you are a girl, on the other hand, you have experienced empathy. The king shook his head, threw the finished drink bottle into the dustbin and said, "never think that you are the Savior of someone else. We can't save others. Believe me, except for God's accidental arrangement, only her own complete soberness can make her live." The LORD said, Zhou, tell me something about yourself. Before, I had a friend who was very congenial with me. They have known each other for many years. Later, she began to mix in the entertainment industry. At first, she was not happy. She often called me and said that the small groups around her were basically difficult to squeeze in. Although everyone seemed to know each other, others never took her with them when talking and joking, because others made records and films. She also tries hard to keep up with those people. In fact, her condition is not bad, but she lacks opportunities. When the opportunity came, he released an album and sent a past to all his friends in the circle. He said he wanted everyone to give advice. In fact, he also wanted others to think of themselves at some time. However, when the record arrived, there was almost no reply. When asked a few months later, the other party suddenly realized that he did seem to have signed for something, but he put it in the corner and didn't pay attention at all. She just smiled kindly and said it's okay. It's okay. I'll listen to it when I have time. But everyone is busy. When you are not strong enough, no one will notice you at all. After a few years, Feng Shui took turns, and new people entered the circle, and she became an elder. Maybe the time is right, or maybe she is getting better and better. She jumped to the front line all at once, and many people began to notice her. At this time, those friends who didn't take her seriously in the past began to associate with her again, as if those who didn't care or pay attention had never happened before. In the final analysis, if you have a hard foundation, there will be no so-called "flattery" and "flattery". The prince smiled faintly and then said, but she was particularly calm when she talked about her days like a fish in water. Those circles that once looked particularly sacred found a mess when they really stepped in. Everyone is wearing a mask of hypocrisy and double dealing, slandering people who may have just smiled and chatted a second ago. Finally, get out and return to yourself, and then you realize that you don't belong to those circles at the beginning. Friends, in the final analysis, are not beggars. Although the Lord insisted that these things should not be reminded, I still wrote an email to sunny privately. The content was not much. I just told her that instead of wasting time on others, I'd better spend time on myself. When I got off work, I received Sunny's email with only two simple words: Thank you. Sunny began to manage her work very carefully and tried to get the appreciation of the leaders as much as possible, but there were too many people in the group, everyone had a strong desire to express, and sunny was still submerged in the crowd. There are not many people working overtime in the office. Sunny is one of them. Because she has no invitation from colleagues and no extra arrangements, she often works late in the cubicle. Everyone said that sunny ended up like this because she was dumped by her boyfriend and no one wanted to. The prince heard it in the tea room and couldn't help but reply: "a few days ago, I just saw her boyfriend buy roses and wait for her downstairs. I don't know if you all saw it, so I couldn't help being jealous to say such a thing." In the end, everyone had nothing to say. Half a month later, sunny applied for team transfer, but the HR told her that there was no personnel demand in other teams. Finally, sunny said she could accept assignment. At that time, there were not many overseas firms, so it was not difficult to apply, but many local employees didn't want to go to such remote places, because the salary was not much higher than that in China, and the environment was worse than that in China. But sunny insisted on applying. She turned back to my seat, handed me a bottle of yogurt and said, "thank you." Sunny smiled easily and began to pack up. After sunny went overseas, we could almost see her every time we held a videoconference. It is said that after she went overseas, she soon became the backbone. Because there are few people, the communication circle is simple. We don't have so many ideas. We just want to work happily, and the atmosphere is very good. Later, when sunny came back as a representative of an overseas firm, those former colleagues suddenly rushed up to ask questions, as if they were greeting returning friends. Sunny has been promoted three levels in a year. I talked to the Lord. The Lord smiled and said, at least she finally knows what she wants, which is more important than anything. Sunny came to say hello to me and the Lord. I said, you are getting better and better. I'm really happy for you. Sunny smiled generously and said, thank you for your letter. Turn around and say to the Lord, and your bread. I looked at the LORD with a little surprise. The Lord shrugged and said he didn't understand. Sunny said: "It's been a long time, but I still remember that day when I was sitting in the convenience store and was hungry, you handed me the bread. You said that although bread can't compare with delicious food, at least it can be eaten when you are hungry, and then motioned that you have one on your hand. You may not know the importance of that moment to me. When everyone goes to a party, you are willing to share a bread with me. Although we don't talk much at ordinary times, but Yes, I know. You treat me as a friend. At that time, I always admired your ability. Later, I learned that what attracted you was that you never flattered others and insisted on your own attitude. " Before returning overseas, sunny sent a message to the Lord. She asked, how can we really ignore it? The Lord replied: strong enough for others to care about you. Sunny replied with a smile. She said she understood. Before, I always worried that Wang Ye was a man without friends. He would be lonely and lonely. He would lose his sense of existence because there was no one to communicate with. But gradually, I realized that the sense of existence was never given by others. Only when I was too weak, I didn't have enough weight in the world. Wang Ye and I sat on the rooftop drinking coffee. We were just two people. We never flattered each other with vulgarity, nor forced to integrate into each other's circle. A true friend will accept you because you are beautiful, not because you are flattered and deliberately put you on the contact list. You don't need to please the whole world. You just need to wait for the people attracted by your quality to take the initiative and be willing to come with you.

I have a colleague who has a good relationship. As you all know, her name is Wang Ye. As we all know, the king's maverick style is intoxicating. But soon I found a problem. Wang Ye didn't have so many friends in the company, so I couldn't help asking her if she felt lonely? I came all the way from my hometown to Shanghai. I have no relatives or friends. My time is squeezed by work. I feel extravagant to fall in love. Can I really carry such a life? Later, the Lord asked me, "what is the definition of loneliness? Do you feel lonely when you put yourself in a group of people and laugh and scold with them? Is the so-called friend a tool to solve your loneliness?" When the Lord asked, I couldn't answer. "Only those who do nothing will feel lonely. Friends are casual encounters in fields with similar interests, not groups they meet at will to highlight their popularity," Wang said At that time, sunny just transferred from the sweater group and sat opposite the Lord. As a newcomer, I brought double snacks on the first day and handed them to the Lord during the break and distributed them to the people around me. At lunch, sunny asked the rest of the group where to eat. Everyone voted to eat udong noodles. She took out her mobile phone and said, "I'll buy it in group! How many people?" In the afternoon, everyone occasionally chatted lazily. When talking about the party last weekend, sunny couldn't help talking and said, "it's very good there. I often go there!" However, in this case, sunny often gets a hot face and a cold ass. Not only will everyone interrupt the topic, but even the participants don't know why they are involved in inexplicable guys. Sunny added the wechat of everyone in the group. As long as anyone's circle of friends sent a status, she was the first to like it, and then said a lot of happy words. But what others saw was that no matter how many replies there were under that state, no one replied to her. Similarly, under each status, there are basically no compliments and comments from anyone in the group. Every November, the company will organize a suburban tour. Because of public expenses, basically all the people of the company will participate. But soon there was a problem. In order to save money, the company usually arranged two employees to live in one room, so Chi Hui, who was divided with sunny, was soon unhappy. However, no one else in the group was willing to change rooms with Chi Hui, so Chi Hui privately told her sister who was close to the general affairs department to quietly change the list, saying that there was something wrong with the previous one and needed to be regrouped. This kind of thing can't be hidden from everyone in the office. Sunny soon heard about it from others. Finally, sunny went to the general affairs office and said that she had something to do that day and might not be able to attend. During lunch, I chatted with the Lord. When it came to sunny, I thought she was actually quite poor. The prince bowed his head to eat eel rice and ignored me. I then said, "really, I think the people in your group are actually a little too much." The Lord swallowed the rice in his mouth, Look at me and say: "Pitiful? She thinks social friendship is too cheap. How can she become friends with others by eating, drinking and chatting casually? Although emotional matters need to be responded by paying, if she doesn't even look at the object before paying, it's asking for trouble. Is it necessary to know those people who are completely different from their own values? When they talk about marriage and funeral every day, I think it's a waste of one more second with them Time. Some people can be classified as friends, but others can only stop at colleagues - we have nothing in common except working relationships. " The next afternoon, I noticed that as long as someone asked sunny to do something, sunny would be happy to help. However, after helping, except for a simple "thank you", others didn't give sunny a good face. Originally, under such circumstances, everyone will only do their own things and walk on their own tracks. No one will stop specially for someone, let alone hand over a paper towel to someone who is wronged and crying. After work, a large group had a dinner. Sunny was omitted from the list. She only smiled faintly and said, "it doesn't matter. I happened to have an appointment, so I won't go." Because I didn't finish my work, I told my leaders to go later. In the end, I was too busy unconsciously. When I punch in and go downstairs, I thought I'd better not go at all. I sent a message to the leader and planned to go to the convenience store to buy a loaf of bread, but I found sunny sitting on the chair of the convenience store eating a box of lunch. Originally, I wanted to say hello, but I was held by one hand. Looking back, it was the Lord. "She has been sitting for a while. She must be in a bad mood. If you go up and call her, it will only embarrass her." The Lord whispered to me. I was surprised why the Lord appeared suddenly. The Lord shrugged and said, "you know I don't like to attend those messy parties. I went to buy something nearby. I was a little thirsty. I came in to buy water and saw her." If I'm right, sunny's mindless eyes are a little red. She eats bread slowly and looks at her mobile phone in a daze from time to time. That day, I sat next to the apple flagship store on Nanjing Road with Wang Ye. Wang Ye told me a story. She said that everyone has a stupid time. There was a time when she was the same. When I was in college, I met new friends through my friends and always felt that I got along with them, but unexpectedly, others didn't include you in the circle privately. You won't be selected as a participant whether you have activities or concerns. A lot of seemingly affinity is just a show. Don't think that if you dig your heart and lungs, others will treat your friendship well. Sometimes, when a group of people talk about something, you are not interested at all, but you still want to chime in and think that others will notice you. In fact, in the end, you are playing a monologue. The LORD looked at me and said, you are always worried that I have no friends in the company, but I always think that friends attract each other because of the combination of aura, rather than deliberately. For example, it seems that you and I have never held any special ceremony to tell the world that "we are friends", but we are still very happy. Therefore, I will never make friendship cheap in order to solve the problem of "loneliness". Different circles do not need strong integration. It has always been my value. I said, then we should talk to sunny about these things. I think you should persuade her. On the one hand, you are a girl, on the other hand, you have experienced empathy. The king shook his head, threw the finished drink bottle into the dustbin and said, "never think that you are the Savior of someone else. We can't save others. Believe me, except for God's accidental arrangement, only her own complete soberness can make her live." The LORD said, Zhou, tell me something about yourself. Before, I had a friend who was very congenial with me. They have known each other for many years. Later, she began to mix in the entertainment industry. At first, she was not happy. She often called me and said that the small groups around her were basically difficult to squeeze in. Although everyone seemed to know each other, others never took her with them when talking and joking, because others made records and films. She also tries hard to keep up with those people. In fact, her condition is not bad, but she lacks opportunities. When the opportunity came, he released an album and sent a past to all his friends in the circle. He said he wanted everyone to give advice. In fact, he also wanted others to think of themselves at some time. However, when the record arrived, there was almost no reply. When asked a few months later, the other party suddenly realized that he did seem to have signed for something, but he put it in the corner and didn't pay attention at all. She just smiled kindly and said it's okay. It's okay. I'll listen to it when I have time. But everyone is busy. When you are not strong enough, no one will notice you at all. After a few years, Feng Shui took turns, and new people entered the circle, and she became an elder. Maybe the time is right, or maybe she is getting better and better. She jumped to the front line all at once, and many people began to notice her. At this time, those friends who didn't take her seriously in the past began to associate with her again, as if those who didn't care or pay attention had never happened before. In the final analysis, if you have a hard foundation, there will be no so-called "flattery" and "flattery". The prince smiled faintly and then said, but she was particularly calm when she talked about her days like a fish in water. Those circles that once looked particularly sacred found a mess when they really stepped in. Everyone is wearing a mask of hypocrisy and double dealing, slandering people who may have just smiled and chatted a second ago. Finally, get out and return to yourself, and then you realize that you don't belong to those circles at the beginning. Friends, in the final analysis, are not beggars. Although the Lord insisted that these things should not be reminded, I still wrote an email to sunny privately. The content was not much. I just told her that instead of wasting time on others, I'd better spend time on myself. When I got off work, I received Sunny's email with only two simple words: Thank you. Sunny began to manage her work very carefully and tried to get the appreciation of the leaders as much as possible, but there were too many people in the group, everyone had a strong desire to express, and sunny was still submerged in the crowd. There are not many people working overtime in the office. Sunny is one of them. Because she has no invitation from colleagues and no extra arrangements, she often works late in the cubicle. Everyone said that sunny ended up like this because she was dumped by her boyfriend and no one wanted to. The prince heard it in the tea room and couldn't help but reply: "a few days ago, I just saw her boyfriend buy roses and wait for her downstairs. I don't know if you all saw it, so I couldn't help being jealous to say such a thing." In the end, everyone had nothing to say. Half a month later, sunny applied for team transfer, but the HR told her that there was no personnel demand in other teams. Finally, sunny said she could accept assignment. At that time, there were not many overseas firms, so it was not difficult to apply, but many local employees didn't want to go to such remote places, because the salary was not much higher than that in China, and the environment was worse than that in China. But sunny insisted on applying. She turned back to my seat, handed me a bottle of yogurt and said, "thank you." Sunny smiled easily and began to pack up. After sunny went overseas, we could almost see her every time we held a videoconference. It is said that after she went overseas, she soon became the backbone. Because there are few people, the communication circle is simple. We don't have so many ideas. We just want to work happily, and the atmosphere is very good. Later, when sunny came back as a representative of an overseas firm, those former colleagues suddenly rushed up to ask questions, as if they were greeting returning friends. Sunny has been promoted three levels in a year. I talked to the Lord. The Lord smiled and said, at least she finally knows what she wants, which is more important than anything. Sunny came to say hello to me and the Lord. I said, you are getting better and better. I'm really happy for you. Sunny smiled generously and said, thank you for your letter. Turn around and say to the Lord, and your bread. I looked at the LORD with a little surprise. The Lord shrugged and said he didn't understand. Sunny said: "It's been a long time, but I still remember that day when I was sitting in the convenience store and was hungry, you handed me the bread. You said that although bread can't compare with delicious food, at least it can be eaten when you are hungry, and then motioned that you have one on your hand. You may not know the importance of that moment to me. When everyone goes to a party, you are willing to share a bread with me. Although we don't talk much at ordinary times, but Yes, I know. You treat me as a friend. At that time, I always admired your ability. Later, I learned that what attracted you was that you never flattered others and insisted on your own attitude. " Before returning overseas, sunny sent a message to the Lord. She asked, how can we really ignore it? The Lord replied: strong enough for others to care about you. Sunny replied with a smile. She said she understood. Before, I always worried that Wang Ye was a man without friends. He would be lonely and lonely. He would lose his sense of existence because there was no one to communicate with. But gradually, I realized that the sense of existence was never given by others. Only when I was too weak, I didn't have enough weight in the world. Wang Ye and I sat on the rooftop drinking coffee. We were just two people. We never flattered each other with vulgarity, nor forced to integrate into each other's circle. A true friend will accept you because you are beautiful, not because you are flattered and deliberately put you on the contact list. You don't need to please the whole world. You just need to wait for the people attracted by your quality to take the initiative and be willing to come with you.