Last night, my husband and I walked home after dinner in a restaurant near the community. As soon as we got to the door of the community, we saw a girl running towards us with tears on her face. When she approached, I saw that this was my primary school sister. The makeup on her face had been spent and her eyes were swollen like peaches, so I didn't recognize it for the moment. Before I could speak, my primary school sister rushed over: "sister!" And cry. I'm surprised that there's no such thing as being abandoned by a man before she falls in love. What can make her cry like this? I held her and comforted her: "what's the matter? What happened?" My husband motioned me to take someone home first. My primary school sister choked and said, "I've been waiting for you for more than half an hour, and the guard won't let me in." I deliberately teased her: "you're like this now. Of course, the guard won't let you in. What if the junior comes to seek revenge?" It was a joke intended to make her happy. As soon as she heard it, she cried again. Now I dare not speak casually. I took her home first. When I got home, I twisted a towel for her. After a while, my primary school sister calmed down and began to talk. My primary school sister is 25 years old. She is from the same place as me. She has just worked for one year. She is kind-hearted, cheerful and modest. Since I have no sisters since I was young, I have always regarded her as my little sister. When she graduated last year, she was not interested in administrative work. She liked challenges, so she had a special preference for sales work. She also found a favorite job in a large local company. The primary school sister was enthusiastic and hard-working. From the day she went in, she paid extra attention. She couldn't buy books by herself. If she couldn't understand, she asked her predecessors. The leaders of the Department liked her very much. And she was also very competitive. After only four months, she entered the top three in the sales department. Six months later, she sat on the throne of champion and never came down. Their income is the basic salary plus commission. As the champion, she earns a considerable commission every month. In order to facilitate business, she bought a car of about 200000 yuan. Her parents were happy to see her daughter's success and subsidized her. With her own savings, she bought a small house in the real estate near the company. She doesn't have to live in the dormitory provided by the company like other girls. She is a 25-year-old primary school sister, I lived a life with a house and a car very early. Primary school sister has her own plan. She hopes to learn a lot about sales management in the next two years and move towards the direction of sales management before the age of 30. She has always felt that she treats her colleagues sincerely in the company, never colludes with others, and just focuses on her own efforts. However, as her performance became better and better, rumors were everywhere. Unexpectedly, someone wrote an anonymous email to the leader, saying that her performance was obtained by drinking, sleeping and even being a mistress, and listed the evidence one by one: the car she drove was the evidence, she lived outside was the evidence, and she had all this when she was only 25, which was the evidence. Therefore, the leader talked to her. She was extremely shocked and cried on the spot. When the little girl met the customer in the hot sun, she was not wronged. She went to wait for the customer in the cold wind without complaining. She was still catching up with the plan late at night and didn't give up. But when she exchanged her efforts for small achievements, she had to face these slanders. She collapsed. She cried and said to the leader, "I bought the car myself, the house is funded by my parents, I'm not a mistress, and I'm not in love!" The primary school sister, who always believed that she could succeed as long as she worked hard, cried bitterly in such slander. When the leader saw her like this, he comforted her and told her to work at ease and don't think too much. She thought that as long as the leaders believed in themselves, they didn't do anything against their conscience anyway. However, gradually, she found that the leadership did not value herself as much as before, and she maintained a further distance from her than before. She no longer explained many things to herself. She was helpless, hesitant and uneasy. She didn't know what she had done wrong and whether the leader heard anything again? A kind-hearted elder sister reminded her: leaders also have their own difficulties. Now you are in the cusp of the storm. If the leaders support you clearly and you are a young girl, it is easy to involve the leaders themselves, so he can only cool you first. At this time, the rumors in the Department became more and more noisy, saying that the scheming bitch like her would not come to a good end. That month, her sales performance plummeted, which brought her a new round of attacks. She said that she was dumped and lost her background, so her performance recovered as it was. What's more, there are sour colleagues who point out and scold locust trees in front of her. The slander of colleagues, the alienation of leaders and the decline of performance finally collapsed the primary school sister. She opened her red and swollen eyes and said to me, "sister, I swear to you, I've never done these things. If I have, I'll die. Sister, what did I do wrong?" Looking at my primary school sister, I felt heartache for no reason, Wipe her tears: "Fool, you didn't do anything wrong. You're just too good to make them feel threatened, and they can't compete with you through proper channels, so they can only beat you and destroy you in this way! If you're really depressed, it's their wish. You know, all those who slander and slander you are not as good as you, and those who are better than you are working silently!" The primary school sister looked at me helplessly: "what should I do now? Let them slander like this, sister. I'm still a virgin. Do you want me to go to the hospital to open a certificate?" "Do you think the people who frame you need the truth? Do you think those who watch the play need the truth? Even if you really write this certificate, they will only say that you bought the doctor and wrote a false certificate." After listening to me, my primary school sister collapsed and cried: "what should I do? Can I only be framed or change the company? However, I really like this job! How can I prove my innocence!" "You don't have to prove anything. Just keep trying. It sounds like chicken soup, but it's the most useful way." The primary school sister still couldn't figure it out: "but how can I be a man in the future? They said I sleep with you and be a mistress. Who dares to marry me in the future?" "Those who deny you by hearsay are never the people you should marry. If slander is useful, will there be successful people in the world? They encounter thousands of times more dirty water than you. The more successful you are, the more such things will be, unless you are willing to spend your whole life!" I hope primary school girls can understand that anger and grievance are actually the most useless response. At her age, it's really not easy to face all this calmly, because we yearn for fair competition and fair treatment. However, it is not easy to achieve these two points in today's society? Last month, I listened to a share by Mr. Qin Shuo in Shanghai. He gave two examples. One is the case of Mercedes Benz and BMW. The two companies have competed for hundreds of years. However, Mercedes Benz said to BMW: "thanks to the 100 years of competition, the 30 years without BMW are really a little boring." Another example is two famous domestic companies, which habitually black each other. We grew up in this culture: either you die or I live. The dispute between gentlemen is never rare. This vicious competition has evolved to more extreme when it comes to women. When a woman succeeds, other women are often unwilling to admit her efforts, but crown her with all kinds of stigmas, because they know too well: relying on ability, first, competition is not enough, and second, it takes too long. Only by using extreme means to quickly pull the other party off the horse or even destroy it, can they be calm. There are two reasons: first, because of jealousy, I can't accept the excellence of others; Second, when others are excellent, they will feel threatened. This kind of thing happens to almost every successful person. I like what a successful elder said to me: in life, there is not always an opportunity to explain wrongs or clarify slanders. Life is too long. You can never care about one city and one pool. You just need to work hard. Naturally, you will be accompanied by like-minded friends. Small people, limited by the pattern, will not become a climate in this life, so many things, Don't care, just have a clear conscience! Yes, life is alive, but for a clear conscience! May we, on the road to success, be able to put aside miscellaneous thoughts and words, and never lose our original intention and never forget our original intention.

Last night, my husband and I walked home after dinner in a restaurant near the community. As soon as we got to the door of the community, we saw a girl running towards us with tears on her face. When she approached, I saw that this was my primary school sister. The makeup on her face had been spent and her eyes were swollen like peaches, so I didn't recognize it for the moment. Before I could speak, my primary school sister rushed over: "sister!" And cry. I'm surprised that there's no such thing as being abandoned by a man before she falls in love. What can make her cry like this? I held her and comforted her: "what's the matter? What happened?" My husband motioned me to take someone home first. My primary school sister choked and said, "I've been waiting for you for more than half an hour, and the guard won't let me in." I deliberately teased her: "you're like this now. Of course, the guard won't let you in. What if the junior comes to seek revenge?" It was a joke intended to make her happy. As soon as she heard it, she cried again. Now I dare not speak casually. I took her home first. When I got home, I twisted a towel for her. After a while, my primary school sister calmed down and began to talk. My primary school sister is 25 years old. She is from the same place as me. She has just worked for one year. She is kind-hearted, cheerful and modest. Since I have no sisters since I was young, I have always regarded her as my little sister. When she graduated last year, she was not interested in administrative work. She liked challenges, so she had a special preference for sales work. She also found a favorite job in a large local company. The primary school sister was enthusiastic and hard-working. From the day she went in, she paid extra attention. She couldn't buy books by herself. If she couldn't understand, she asked her predecessors. The leaders of the Department liked her very much. And she was also very competitive. After only four months, she entered the top three in the sales department. Six months later, she sat on the throne of champion and never came down. Their income is the basic salary plus commission. As the champion, she earns a considerable commission every month. In order to facilitate business, she bought a car of about 200000 yuan. Her parents were happy to see her daughter's success and subsidized her. With her own savings, she bought a small house in the real estate near the company. She doesn't have to live in the dormitory provided by the company like other girls. She is a 25-year-old primary school sister, I lived a life with a house and a car very early. Primary school sister has her own plan. She hopes to learn a lot about sales management in the next two years and move towards the direction of sales management before the age of 30. She has always felt that she treats her colleagues sincerely in the company, never colludes with others, and just focuses on her own efforts. However, as her performance became better and better, rumors were everywhere. Unexpectedly, someone wrote an anonymous email to the leader, saying that her performance was obtained by drinking, sleeping and even being a mistress, and listed the evidence one by one: the car she drove was the evidence, she lived outside was the evidence, and she had all this when she was only 25, which was the evidence. Therefore, the leader talked to her. She was extremely shocked and cried on the spot. When the little girl met the customer in the hot sun, she was not wronged. She went to wait for the customer in the cold wind without complaining. She was still catching up with the plan late at night and didn't give up. But when she exchanged her efforts for small achievements, she had to face these slanders. She collapsed. She cried and said to the leader, "I bought the car myself, the house is funded by my parents, I'm not a mistress, and I'm not in love!" The primary school sister, who always believed that she could succeed as long as she worked hard, cried bitterly in such slander. When the leader saw her like this, he comforted her and told her to work at ease and don't think too much. She thought that as long as the leaders believed in themselves, they didn't do anything against their conscience anyway. However, gradually, she found that the leadership did not value herself as much as before, and she maintained a further distance from her than before. She no longer explained many things to herself. She was helpless, hesitant and uneasy. She didn't know what she had done wrong and whether the leader heard anything again? A kind-hearted elder sister reminded her: leaders also have their own difficulties. Now you are in the cusp of the storm. If the leaders support you clearly and you are a young girl, it is easy to involve the leaders themselves, so he can only cool you first. At this time, the rumors in the Department became more and more noisy, saying that the scheming bitch like her would not come to a good end. That month, her sales performance plummeted, which brought her a new round of attacks. She said that she was dumped and lost her background, so her performance recovered as it was. What's more, there are sour colleagues who point out and scold locust trees in front of her. The slander of colleagues, the alienation of leaders and the decline of performance finally collapsed the primary school sister. She opened her red and swollen eyes and said to me, "sister, I swear to you, I've never done these things. If I have, I'll die. Sister, what did I do wrong?" Looking at my primary school sister, I felt heartache for no reason, Wipe her tears: "Fool, you didn't do anything wrong. You're just too good to make them feel threatened, and they can't compete with you through proper channels, so they can only beat you and destroy you in this way! If you're really depressed, it's their wish. You know, all those who slander and slander you are not as good as you, and those who are better than you are working silently!" The primary school sister looked at me helplessly: "what should I do now? Let them slander like this, sister. I'm still a virgin. Do you want me to go to the hospital to open a certificate?" "Do you think the people who frame you need the truth? Do you think those who watch the play need the truth? Even if you really write this certificate, they will only say that you bought the doctor and wrote a false certificate." After listening to me, my primary school sister collapsed and cried: "what should I do? Can I only be framed or change the company? However, I really like this job! How can I prove my innocence!" "You don't have to prove anything. Just keep trying. It sounds like chicken soup, but it's the most useful way." The primary school sister still couldn't figure it out: "but how can I be a man in the future? They said I sleep with you and be a mistress. Who dares to marry me in the future?" "Those who deny you by hearsay are never the people you should marry. If slander is useful, will there be successful people in the world? They encounter thousands of times more dirty water than you. The more successful you are, the more such things will be, unless you are willing to spend your whole life!" I hope primary school girls can understand that anger and grievance are actually the most useless response. At her age, it's really not easy to face all this calmly, because we yearn for fair competition and fair treatment. However, it is not easy to achieve these two points in today's society? Last month, I listened to a share by Mr. Qin Shuo in Shanghai. He gave two examples. One is the case of Mercedes Benz and BMW. The two companies have competed for hundreds of years. However, Mercedes Benz said to BMW: "thanks to the 100 years of competition, the 30 years without BMW are really a little boring." Another example is two famous domestic companies, which habitually black each other. We grew up in this culture: either you die or I live. The dispute between gentlemen is never rare. This vicious competition has evolved to more extreme when it comes to women. When a woman succeeds, other women are often unwilling to admit her efforts, but crown her with all kinds of stigmas, because they know too well: relying on ability, first, competition is not enough, and second, it takes too long. Only by using extreme means to quickly pull the other party off the horse or even destroy it, can they be calm. There are two reasons: first, because of jealousy, I can't accept the excellence of others; Second, when others are excellent, they will feel threatened. This kind of thing happens to almost every successful person. I like what a successful elder said to me: in life, there is not always an opportunity to explain wrongs or clarify slanders. Life is too long. You can never care about one city and one pool. You just need to work hard. Naturally, you will be accompanied by like-minded friends. Small people, limited by the pattern, will not become a climate in this life, so many things, Don't care, just have a clear conscience! Yes, life is alive, but for a clear conscience! May we, on the road to success, be able to put aside miscellaneous thoughts and words, and never lose our original intention and never forget our original intention.