In the office building in downtown New York, there was a man who opened a goods elevator. Unlike others, his left hand was cut off at the same time as his wrist. One day, someone asked him if he would feel sad without that hand. He said, "no, I wouldn't think of it at all. I only think of it when I have to wear a needle." There is an old 15th century church in Amsterdam. On its ruins, there is a line: if this is the case, there will be no other way. In the long years, you will encounter some unpleasant situations. Since they are like this, they can't be like that. Therefore, to be willing to accept what must happen and accept what happens is the first step to overcome any misfortune that comes with it. Only by learning to face failure and pain calmly can we have real happiness and turn the unavoidable difficulties, failures, obstacles, diseases and pain in life into the power to create success, miracles and perfection. Obviously, the environment itself does not make us happy or unhappy. Our response to the surrounding environment determines how we feel. When necessary, we can all endure disasters and tragedies and even overcome them. We may think we can't do it, but our internal strength is surprisingly strong. As long as we are willing to use it, we can help us overcome everything. But this is not to say that when encountering any setback, we should be patient and accept it, and then we will become fatalists. In either case, as long as there is still a chance to save, we must struggle. But common sense tells us that when things are inevitable - and there can be no turning point - in order to maintain our reason, please don't "look left and right, worry about nothing". No one can have enough emotion and energy to resist the inevitable facts and use them to create a new life. You can only choose between the two. You can face the inevitable storms in life and bend down, or you can resist and be destroyed beyond your power. Those who can maintain a quiet state of mind in all environments have noble character cultivation. We should strive to cultivate our psychological anti-interference ability and calmly deal with the ever-changing world. "Let the wind and waves rise and sit firmly on the Diaoyutai." This "platform" is a peaceful mind. The wise Tang Yao has been the leader of the tribe for decades. He is old and wants to find a successor. Therefore, Yu Shun, who was smart and capable, became the object of examination. Yu Shun has a younger brother born to his stepmother. He has instigated his father and stepmother to harm Yu Shun several times. Yu Shun does not bear revenge at all. He is still filial to his father and takes good care of his younger brother. Yu Shun was gentle and modest, and people were willing to live in harmony with him. The place where he lived changed from a remote village to a lively town. Tang Yao rewarded Yu Shun with a valuable piano and many clothing materials, and built a granary for Yu Shun. Seeing that the Shun family is rich, he is very jealous and wants to harm him many times. Yu Shun is still as friendly to his brother as before. After investigation, Tang Yao thought that Yu Shun was noble and talented, so he gave the position of tribal leader to Yu Shun. This is the famous abdication in history. Yu Shun can calmly face what is about to happen, face anyone's attitude towards himself, and maintain his sincerity and kindness. It is precisely because he has done this that he has won people's love and supreme power. In a church in northern Europe, there is a statue of Jesus crucified, which is about the size of ordinary people. There are so many people who come here to pray and worship because they respond to every request. It can almost be described as a crowded house. There was a doorman in the church. Seeing that Jesus on the cross had to deal with the demands of so many people every day, he felt unbearable. He hoped to share Jesus' hard work. One day when he prayed, he showed his heart to Jesus. Unexpectedly, he heard a voice saying, "well, I'll come down to guard the door for you, and you'll come up and crucify. But no matter what you see or hear, you can't say a word." The gentleman felt that the request was very simple. So Jesus came down, and the porter went up and stretched out his arms like Jesus was crucified. The gentleman also listened to the hearts of his believers in silence according to the previous agreement. There is an endless stream of people coming and going, and their prayers are reasonable and unreasonable. But in any case, he held back and didn't speak, because he had to keep his previous promise. One day, a rich businessman came. After praying, he forgot his bag and left. In his eyes, he really wanted to call the rich businessman back, but he couldn't say it; Then came a poor man who prayed that Jesus would help him through the difficulties of life. When he was about to leave, he found the bag left by the rich merchant and opened it full of money. The poor were overjoyed. Jesus was so kind that he answered every request and left with great gratitude. Jesus in disguise on the cross looked in his eyes and wanted to tell him that it was not yours. However, the agreement was made first, and he still couldn't say it. Then came a young man who was going to go on a long journey to sea. He came to pray for Jesus to bless him for peace. Just as he was about to leave, the rich businessman rushed in, grabbed the young man's skirt and asked the young man to pay back the money. The young man didn't know what was going on, and they quarreled. At this time, the false Jesus on the cross finally couldn't help but speak. Now that things were clear, the rich merchant went to the poor man who picked up his money, while the young man hurried away for fear that he would not be able to get on the boat. Jesus really appeared, pointed to the man on the cross and said, "come down! You are not qualified for that position." The doorman said, "isn't it wrong for me to tell the truth and be fair?" Jesus said, "what do you know? The rich merchant is not short of money. His bag of money is just for whoring, but for the poor, it is enough to solve the livelihood of a family. The most pitiful thing is the young man. If the rich merchant keeps pestering and delays his time to go to sea, he can still save his life, and now the ship he is on is sinking into the sea." This is a story that sounds like a joke, but it reveals: "in real life, we often think that our ideas are the best, but the past is contrary to our wishes. We must believe that what we have at present, whether good or bad, is the best arrangement for us. If we can do so, we can be grateful in good times and still be grateful in bad times." Nothing in life is perfect. Maslow once said, "if your heart changes, your attitude will change; if your attitude changes, your habits will change; if your habits change, your character will change; if your character changes, your life will change. Be grateful in prosperity, still be happy in adversity, and seriously live in the present." May all life dare to seek the most difficult environment. It is in the most difficult situation of life that we can find ourselves and know ourselves, so as to temper ourselves, highlight ourselves, and finally complete ourselves and sublimate ourselves.

In the office building in downtown New York, there was a man who opened a goods elevator. Unlike others, his left hand was cut off at the same time as his wrist. One day, someone asked him if he would feel sad without that hand. He said, "no, I wouldn't think of it at all. I only think of it when I have to wear a needle." There is an old 15th century church in Amsterdam. On its ruins, there is a line: if this is the case, there will be no other way. In the long years, you will encounter some unpleasant situations. Since they are like this, they can't be like that. Therefore, to be willing to accept what must happen and accept what happens is the first step to overcome any misfortune that comes with it. Only by learning to face failure and pain calmly can we have real happiness and turn the unavoidable difficulties, failures, obstacles, diseases and pain in life into the power to create success, miracles and perfection. Obviously, the environment itself does not make us happy or unhappy. Our response to the surrounding environment determines how we feel. When necessary, we can all endure disasters and tragedies and even overcome them. We may think we can't do it, but our internal strength is surprisingly strong. As long as we are willing to use it, we can help us overcome everything. But this is not to say that when encountering any setback, we should be patient and accept it, and then we will become fatalists. In either case, as long as there is still a chance to save, we must struggle. But common sense tells us that when things are inevitable - and there can be no turning point - in order to maintain our reason, please don't "look left and right, worry about nothing". No one can have enough emotion and energy to resist the inevitable facts and use them to create a new life. You can only choose between the two. You can face the inevitable storms in life and bend down, or you can resist and be destroyed beyond your power. Those who can maintain a quiet state of mind in all environments have noble character cultivation. We should strive to cultivate our psychological anti-interference ability and calmly deal with the ever-changing world. "Let the wind and waves rise and sit firmly on the Diaoyutai." This "platform" is a peaceful mind. The wise Tang Yao has been the leader of the tribe for decades. He is old and wants to find a successor. Therefore, Yu Shun, who was smart and capable, became the object of examination. Yu Shun has a younger brother born to his stepmother. He has instigated his father and stepmother to harm Yu Shun several times. Yu Shun does not bear revenge at all. He is still filial to his father and takes good care of his younger brother. Yu Shun was gentle and modest, and people were willing to live in harmony with him. The place where he lived changed from a remote village to a lively town. Tang Yao rewarded Yu Shun with a valuable piano and many clothing materials, and built a granary for Yu Shun. Seeing that the Shun family is rich, he is very jealous and wants to harm him many times. Yu Shun is still as friendly to his brother as before. After investigation, Tang Yao thought that Yu Shun was noble and talented, so he gave the position of tribal leader to Yu Shun. This is the famous abdication in history. Yu Shun can calmly face what is about to happen, face anyone's attitude towards himself, and maintain his sincerity and kindness. It is precisely because he has done this that he has won people's love and supreme power. In a church in northern Europe, there is a statue of Jesus crucified, which is about the size of ordinary people. There are so many people who come here to pray and worship because they respond to every request. It can almost be described as a crowded house. There was a doorman in the church. Seeing that Jesus on the cross had to deal with the demands of so many people every day, he felt unbearable. He hoped to share Jesus' hard work. One day when he prayed, he showed his heart to Jesus. Unexpectedly, he heard a voice saying, "well, I'll come down to guard the door for you, and you'll come up and crucify. But no matter what you see or hear, you can't say a word." The gentleman felt that the request was very simple. So Jesus came down, and the porter went up and stretched out his arms like Jesus was crucified. The gentleman also listened to the hearts of his believers in silence according to the previous agreement. There is an endless stream of people coming and going, and their prayers are reasonable and unreasonable. But in any case, he held back and didn't speak, because he had to keep his previous promise. One day, a rich businessman came. After praying, he forgot his bag and left. In his eyes, he really wanted to call the rich businessman back, but he couldn't say it; Then came a poor man who prayed that Jesus would help him through the difficulties of life. When he was about to leave, he found the bag left by the rich merchant and opened it full of money. The poor were overjoyed. Jesus was so kind that he answered every request and left with great gratitude. Jesus in disguise on the cross looked in his eyes and wanted to tell him that it was not yours. However, the agreement was made first, and he still couldn't say it. Then came a young man who was going to go on a long journey to sea. He came to pray for Jesus to bless him for peace. Just as he was about to leave, the rich businessman rushed in, grabbed the young man's skirt and asked the young man to pay back the money. The young man didn't know what was going on, and they quarreled. At this time, the false Jesus on the cross finally couldn't help but speak. Now that things were clear, the rich merchant went to the poor man who picked up his money, while the young man hurried away for fear that he would not be able to get on the boat. Jesus really appeared, pointed to the man on the cross and said, "come down! You are not qualified for that position." The doorman said, "isn't it wrong for me to tell the truth and be fair?" Jesus said, "what do you know? The rich merchant is not short of money. His bag of money is just for whoring, but for the poor, it is enough to solve the livelihood of a family. The most pitiful thing is the young man. If the rich merchant keeps pestering and delays his time to go to sea, he can still save his life, and now the ship he is on is sinking into the sea." This is a story that sounds like a joke, but it reveals: "in real life, we often think that our ideas are the best, but the past is contrary to our wishes. We must believe that what we have at present, whether good or bad, is the best arrangement for us. If we can do so, we can be grateful in good times and still be grateful in bad times." Nothing in life is perfect. Maslow once said, "if your heart changes, your attitude will change; if your attitude changes, your habits will change; if your habits change, your character will change; if your character changes, your life will change. Be grateful in prosperity, still be happy in adversity, and seriously live in the present." May all life dare to seek the most difficult environment. It is in the most difficult situation of life that we can find ourselves and know ourselves, so as to temper ourselves, highlight ourselves, and finally complete ourselves and sublimate ourselves.