We are in an era full of "wonders", and "label wonders" can also be seen everywhere. The advantage of the label is that it can help you find the same kind. When I first started microblogging, I was not very good at playing. I filled in a label casually, and found that they were published on my home page, such as "drama lovers", "coffee control", "gossip", etc. it is possible that with these simple descriptions, we will find similar people in the virtual cyberspace. This is obviously an era of labels. Turn on the computer, QQ prompts you to receive a friend's impression of "a house girl"; Log in Douban, and your friends have joined the groups of "funny points are strange", "environmentalism is a scourge" and "who makes quilts is a pig". With a faint smile, you open the homepage of "witches are noisy", and suddenly you are in a good mood - Libra has brought little red flowers this week. At the party, when you hear someone say that he is also a Libra, you will quickly talk with him, and you jointly believe that Libra is elegant, inspired and talented. Finally, when you exchange phones, you feel like you have another member in your circle of friends. This is not much different from recognizing fellow villagers - it's just that regional identity has become psychological identity. Just like Gan Lulu and Deng Jianguo want to come together, they probably feel that their labels are so similar and belong to the same kind. Tags are used to find the same kind. It stems from people's fear of loneliness. Few people label themselves as having no same kind - even if you want to label yourself "unique", you will find millions of results in Google. No matter how small, labels can bring you the same group of people to keep you warm. Even if Han Han and Wang Luodan shouted "I'm different from others", they would also add "I'm the same as you" Then, this sense of identity will give you a positive hint. Since no one will label himself "I want to be the worst person in the world" in his heart, the label always gives people a positive, at least neutral psychological guidance. Although the classic lines in "super villain" set such aspirations, they did not succeed - he finally became a hero. Even relatively neutral words such as otaku and geek will exert a positive impact on you and make you confidently accept this lifestyle, rather than drowning in the torrent of "mass". But the effect of labels is not always the same. The same label of "post-90s generation", when someone pastes it on you, he may think you are "so simple and sometimes naive", but if you put it on yourself, it may be Li Ning's slogan "along the old map, you can't find the new continent" Psychologist Claude did an experiment in 1973. He asked people to donate to charity, and then marked "charity" or "non charity" according to whether they donated Later, when they were asked to donate again, yes, you guessed right. Those labeled as "charitable" donate more than those labeled as "non charitable". In fact, this is also a reminder to use more positive labels. If you happen to have a friend called "someone else's child" when you were a child, she never played games, didn't chat about QQ, didn't like shopping, and learned to study every day. She was good-looking, obedient and gentle, and ranked first in the next grade. But you are "stupid" and "indecisive", you will understand this psychological phenomenon better. Positive labels will make your cultivation plan more smooth and confident. Therefore, add a label to yourself, and then, like the Sims, cultivate yourself into the kind of person "I want".

We are in an era full of "wonders", and "label wonders" can also be seen everywhere. The advantage of the label is that it can help you find the same kind. When I first started microblogging, I was not very good at playing. I filled in a label casually, and found that they were published on my home page, such as "drama lovers", "coffee control", "gossip", etc. it is possible that with these simple descriptions, we will find similar people in the virtual cyberspace. This is obviously an era of labels. Turn on the computer, QQ prompts you to receive a friend's impression of "a house girl"; Log in Douban, and your friends have joined the groups of "funny points are strange", "environmentalism is a scourge" and "who makes quilts is a pig". With a faint smile, you open the homepage of "witches are noisy", and suddenly you are in a good mood - Libra has brought little red flowers this week. At the party, when you hear someone say that he is also a Libra, you will quickly talk with him, and you jointly believe that Libra is elegant, inspired and talented. Finally, when you exchange phones, you feel like you have another member in your circle of friends. This is not much different from recognizing fellow villagers - it's just that regional identity has become psychological identity. Just like Gan Lulu and Deng Jianguo want to come together, they probably feel that their labels are so similar and belong to the same kind. Tags are used to find the same kind. It stems from people's fear of loneliness. Few people label themselves as having no same kind - even if you want to label yourself "unique", you will find millions of results in Google. No matter how small, labels can bring you the same group of people to keep you warm. Even if Han Han and Wang Luodan shouted "I'm different from others", they would also add "I'm the same as you" Then, this sense of identity will give you a positive hint. Since no one will label himself "I want to be the worst person in the world" in his heart, the label always gives people a positive, at least neutral psychological guidance. Although the classic lines in "super villain" set such aspirations, they did not succeed - he finally became a hero. Even relatively neutral words such as otaku and geek will exert a positive impact on you and make you confidently accept this lifestyle, rather than drowning in the torrent of "mass". But the effect of labels is not always the same. The same label of "post-90s generation", when someone pastes it on you, he may think you are "so simple and sometimes naive", but if you put it on yourself, it may be Li Ning's slogan "along the old map, you can't find the new continent" Psychologist Claude did an experiment in 1973. He asked people to donate to charity, and then marked "charity" or "non charity" according to whether they donated Later, when they were asked to donate again, yes, you guessed right. Those labeled as "charitable" donate more than those labeled as "non charitable". In fact, this is also a reminder to use more positive labels. If you happen to have a friend called "someone else's child" when you were a child, she never played games, didn't chat about QQ, didn't like shopping, and learned to study every day. She was good-looking, obedient and gentle, and ranked first in the next grade. But you are "stupid" and "indecisive", you will understand this psychological phenomenon better. Positive labels will make your cultivation plan more smooth and confident. Therefore, add a label to yourself, and then, like the Sims, cultivate yourself into the kind of person "I want".