I used to be a rally lecturer in an enterprise. I listened to the elites of salespeople. The lady next to me was the leading business backbone. Frankly speaking, from the appearance, she is a quite ordinary aunt, but she is a real "winner". She is not only conscientious, rigorous and serious in completing her own work, but also often takes care of her colleagues and subordinates and helps them enthusiastically. Therefore, the colleagues trust her and respect her very much. But she was not arrogant, and always maintained a modest and polite character. In a chat, I heard a very meaningful remark from her mouth. At that time, with a steady smile on her face, she was telling her thoughts on work and life. "My mother often said to us, 'if good things happen on three days in a year, it will be a great year!' when I was a child, my life was very hard. Every day I had poor food and clothes, but I didn't feel unfair because of my mother's influence. Just as my mother said, God wouldn't deliberately favor anyone or care for anyone. Life is easy without anyone. Everyone comes to this world, even if they don't If you encounter the same difficulties as me, you will certainly encounter other difficulties that I have not encountered; Even those rich people who seem to be doing well have troubles that others can't imagine. " "Therefore, as long as good things happen on three days in a year, I feel so lucky that I won't care about the rest of the 362 days, no matter how hard it is." "I feel very happy to be able to chat with you and enjoy delicious food like this. I even feel a little ashamed of my mother's teachings!" I was so moved that I was almost speechless. The outstanding woman and her mother have unique views on luck and misfortune. They seem simple and simple, but they are deeply moving. What is happiness? How can we get happiness? In recent decades, this has become a hot topic for psychologists, sociologists and economists. However, so far no one can give an accurate answer. The only certainty is that happiness does not come from the sky. It comes from our inner world, is the creation of our hearts, and is the product of "me". In other words, happiness is a subjective feeling, which is why under the same objective conditions, some people live happily and wantonly, while others complain about themselves all day long. In fact, no one's life is more difficult than who, and no one's growth is easier than who. Where there is sunshine, there must be shadow. Those who live in villas, drive luxury cars and spend money like dirt are so bright everywhere. However, in the dead of night, they may be accompanied by the little-known loneliness and bitterness. From this point of view, God is fair. Weak and ordinary, we may not be able to change our environment, but at least we can have a positive and optimistic heart. Only by taking temporary difficulties as a test of life, can we frankly accept the reality, feel the gift of heaven from the most ordinary things, and appreciate the kindness of others. When a person knows contentment and gratitude, happiness will knock on the door. That lady was lucky. She had a wise mother who sowed the seeds of contentment and gratitude in her young heart. In this world, there are many people with higher status, more money and greater achievements than her, but they may not be happier than her. Her wisdom lies in feeling satisfaction from inadequacies, not losing her way in the pursuit of happiness, and looking for joy in seemingly mundane things.